hey girl hey
― surm, Thursday, 31 December 2015 18:05 (eight years ago) link
oh i want to read 'the gay revolution' - 'gay LA' is on my bf's bookshelf and i wanna read that too. first tho, gonna get crackin' on those ferrante novels
relieved this year is over, not especially optimistic about next year. but tonight should be fun, anyway.
― donna rouge, Thursday, 31 December 2015 19:33 (eight years ago) link
it would be cool to go to some big gay thing in cali this year but i'll probably be saving for what will hopefully be my own apartment sans roommates instead.
i was the highest bidder on these for a few days. i'd go higher but i measured my feet and i'm closer to an 11.5 D. i've always wanted to get custom-fitted wesco boots but they're pretty fucking expensive, you have to pay $99 just to send them your measurements.
anyway, i'm home alone on nye after spending a miserable night and morning with my bf. i think i have to make it 'just friends' and move on soon. next week is his birthday though. after that then, sad but ok. imagining finally getting the fuck out of salt lake. i've always hated it here. back to los angeles maybe. hopefully before i'm 40, lol.
― flag post please (mattresslessness), Friday, 1 January 2016 03:05 (eight years ago) link
i know no one is like here or whatever but i think i'll do a rant anyway. he was 'discombobulated' because he rushed to my place because i asked him what time he was coming over (wednesday is our 'date night', ugh, sorry) and there wasn't immediately anything to do when he arrived? and because he hasn't made it to the grocery store in over a week (like always!) and because there are piles of stuff everywhere in his house that he has made 1/10th of progress on cleaning up in literally over a year's time and somehow those are ok reasons for coming over and giving me the silent treatment. i've been very patient but i'm really coming to understand that his and my approach to time management are irreconcilable. of course i said it was ok on the phone because i want to be nice but i'm at a limit and i've got to start breaking out of this.
― flag post please (mattresslessness), Friday, 1 January 2016 04:29 (eight years ago) link
feeding oneself and not keeping stuff in piles on the floor / chairs / tables, i want a bf who can do those things
― flag post please (mattresslessness), Friday, 1 January 2016 04:39 (eight years ago) link
or alternately none at all
― flag post please (mattresslessness), Friday, 1 January 2016 04:49 (eight years ago) link
happy new year, friends
― J0rdan S., Friday, 1 January 2016 06:52 (eight years ago) link
i know how exhausting it is to try keeping up a relationship where the other refuses to even meet you halfway, letting you do all the emotional work (and every other category of work tbh)
― clouds, Friday, 1 January 2016 16:21 (eight years ago) link
(not speaking of my current bf, ftr)
― clouds, Friday, 1 January 2016 16:23 (eight years ago) link
and he thinks I'm lazy too! Happy new year to everyone here. *mwah*
― flag post please (mattresslessness), Friday, 1 January 2016 16:30 (eight years ago) link
thx Alfred. we should have a drink, j0rdan. <3 donna. good luck matt.
oh hey a very sexy drunk guy flirted with me the second i walked in the bar last week. happens about once a decade. he was there with his husband (not my type). i think they're "open." i gave the hottie my business card. how gauche.
Watched the last 90 minutes of Creed with a damp face yesterday. I only cry at westerns and boxing mellers.
― skateboards are the new combover (Dr Morbius), Friday, 1 January 2016 17:25 (eight years ago) link
yeah, I was not expecting Creed to affect me. Michael B. Jordan was terrific and ooh boy a hottie.
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 1 January 2016 17:42 (eight years ago) link
i am fasting today and it's not fun!
― surm, Saturday, 2 January 2016 19:34 (eight years ago) link
used to hate thin sweaters talk about a 180
― surm, Saturday, 2 January 2016 19:35 (eight years ago) link
lol wrong thread
― surm, Sunday, 3 January 2016 00:35 (eight years ago) link
in other news my dealer just told me that my hair looks a mess, p sure it's a sign i need to reassess things in my life :P
― surm, Sunday, 3 January 2016 00:36 (eight years ago) link
happy new new, my dear beloved gaywads
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Monday, 4 January 2016 16:03 (eight years ago) link
happy! i just cut my own hair and i'm still alive!
― surm, Tuesday, 5 January 2016 20:28 (eight years ago) link
was a bowl involved?
― skateboards are the new combover (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 5 January 2016 20:31 (eight years ago) link
no thank GOD
― surm, Tuesday, 5 January 2016 20:35 (eight years ago) link
just the buzzer - i'm p amazed i did not butcher it
― surm, Tuesday, 5 January 2016 20:39 (eight years ago) link
omg I like COMPLETELY missed the last thread and now here we are in winter
― police patrol felt the smell of smoke and found that goat burns (Stevie D(eux)), Tuesday, 5 January 2016 22:59 (eight years ago) link
based on some random posts i've seen, you've been happy lately Steve, which is a great excuse for not posting and great in general!
― Copy rights, pleasing all star wars fans, hiring professionals. (forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 6 January 2016 00:47 (eight years ago) link
i'm reading a paper entitled "An4l Intercourse and Fec4l Incontinence" so none of you have to.
― skateboards are the new combover (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 6 January 2016 15:07 (eight years ago) link
by Robin Wood?
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 6 January 2016 15:16 (eight years ago) link
sorry if that came off as uncaring; these days smooching is usually good enough for me, esp since snot and a cancellation from the Pianist kept me from getting my Christmas fuck.
― skateboards are the new combover (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 6 January 2016 15:18 (eight years ago) link
oh right Christmas fuck!
― surm, Wednesday, 6 January 2016 15:19 (eight years ago) link
forgot about that one this year. St Patty's fuck it is
― surm, Thursday, 7 January 2016 16:47 (eight years ago) link
soooooooooooooo it's almost Friday....!!!!!!!!!!!!!
― surm, Friday, 8 January 2016 01:54 (eight years ago) link
I'm a bit stoned and have mixed a good gin and tonic before watching Gueros again.
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 8 January 2016 02:11 (eight years ago) link
ah this explains yr taste in cinemaaaah
― skateboards are the new combover (Dr Morbius), Friday, 8 January 2016 02:16 (eight years ago) link
lol
i'm a bit stoned and about to WRITE YOU SOME REVIEWS Alfred have fun with that
― surm, Friday, 8 January 2016 02:20 (eight years ago) link
saw it already last summer, this is recess
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 8 January 2016 02:21 (eight years ago) link
Hello gays, I
- haven't smoked a cig since New Year's- have an ass that makes contact with the seat of my pants now- am back in the problematic poly situation that nearly killed me/my relationship last year but this time armed with self-esteem and better communication skills- am going to see a Chinese doctor- am playing Wind Waker again- am reading Nazim Hizmet, Robert Glück, Tolstoy shorts and the Carrie Brownstein book- am going to Sundance- am feeling full of light and life and love
― got a long list of ilxors (fgti), Friday, 8 January 2016 03:54 (eight years ago) link
nice. cigarettes suck and asses are great.
― J0rdan S., Friday, 8 January 2016 04:40 (eight years ago) link
um are you at sundance in an official musical capacity, if you don't mind me asking?
― big Mahats (mattresslessness), Friday, 8 January 2016 04:44 (eight years ago) link
Yeahhhhh *smiles in front of mirror* "A blessing and an inspiration" *tries again* "A blessing and an inspiration"
― got a long list of ilxors (fgti), Friday, 8 January 2016 14:35 (eight years ago) link
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lie7oxgbRG1qay58d.jpg
"A blessing and an inspiration" *tries again* "A blessing and an inspiration"
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 8 January 2016 14:41 (eight years ago) link
i am unfamiliar w/ the concept of an ass that does NOT make contact with the seat of one's pants; diagram, please.
― skateboards are the new combover (Dr Morbius), Friday, 8 January 2016 15:33 (eight years ago) link
you certainly have a lot of thoughts on butts Jordan xo
― surm, Friday, 8 January 2016 21:27 (eight years ago) link
Any tips on the most graceful, non-awkward or, hell, even the funniest way to tell a friend from your closeted days that you've recently reconnected with that you are not only gay but, in fact, married?
― Bitch I'm in the 2112 (cryptosicko), Saturday, 9 January 2016 04:18 (eight years ago) link
Dinner for two at a quiet restaurant that turns into hilarious flash mob style musical performance.
― Whoremonger (jed_), Saturday, 9 January 2016 07:18 (eight years ago) link
Last night was:
https://usresponserestoration.files.wordpress.com/2015/05/cullinan-ranch-first-levee-breach-2015-1-6_noaa_clip.gif
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 9 January 2016 13:45 (eight years ago) link
some nights are!
― surm, Saturday, 9 January 2016 15:44 (eight years ago) link
last night was a backhoe?
― clouds, Saturday, 9 January 2016 22:38 (eight years ago) link
muddy?
― big Mahats (mattresslessness), Saturday, 9 January 2016 22:40 (eight years ago) link
j/k though i did spend like way too long contemplating what "a washout" could entail
― big Mahats (mattresslessness), Saturday, 9 January 2016 23:24 (eight years ago) link
last night was... torrential
i mean, i downloaded a lot of torrents
― clouds, Saturday, 9 January 2016 23:44 (eight years ago) link
― big Mahats (mattresslessness), Saturday, 9 January 2016 23:45 (eight years ago) link
haha
― surm, Sunday, 10 January 2016 15:05 (eight years ago) link
i kneel at the twink throne
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 9 March 2016 06:13 (eight years ago) link
i have a date tonight omg
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Wednesday, 9 March 2016 21:59 (eight years ago) link
Louis Garrel was dashing and self-deprecating; his film stinks tho.
― we can be heroes just for about 3.6 seconds (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 9 March 2016 22:25 (eight years ago) link
why do I sense that telling him this would turn him on
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 9 March 2016 22:26 (eight years ago) link
my date was cute! also young, which is pretty new for me. we had cocktails and afterward i drove him home & we made out in my car. to be cont'd.
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Thursday, 10 March 2016 17:57 (eight years ago) link
I have started going to the gym! I have officially become ~one of them~
― police patrol felt the smell of smoke and found that goat burns (Stevie D(eux)), Thursday, 10 March 2016 19:53 (eight years ago) link
i will be the last holdout
L Garrel is quite self-effacing and direct-seeming, just a bit disappointing; but i'd still drink the bathwater.
― we can be heroes just for about 3.6 seconds (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 10 March 2016 20:00 (eight years ago) link
i started going to the gym again recently too. it's a tiny one, only has treadmills/ellipticals, weight machines and free weights, and i am so clueless about how to use the machines - i think i might cop a personal training session or two if only for that reason
― donna rouge, Thursday, 10 March 2016 20:38 (eight years ago) link
I have fallen back into the thing that was destroying my life last yearBut we've talked and set up boundaries and we're all for it 100% and I'm not depressed any more and I'm, what's the opposite of cautiously optimistic? decisively optimistic
― got a long list of ILXors (fgti), Friday, 11 March 2016 00:06 (eight years ago) link
i have a job now? in an office? working super long hours but it's interesting (at least it's interesting two days into it) and rewarding and intellectually stimulating.
i am supposed to decorate my office in a way that conveys my personality and i'm trying to think of art or posters or something that are both gay and office appropriate.
― no longer in MTL (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 15 March 2016 15:41 (eight years ago) link
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4142/4886352646_6c9f2b99d9_z.jpg
― sexy dander (Stevie D(eux)), Tuesday, 15 March 2016 15:59 (eight years ago) link
are you required to decorate your office? My cubicle has a shelf for books. C'es tout.
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 15 March 2016 16:01 (eight years ago) link
it is...encouraged?
― no longer in MTL (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 15 March 2016 16:44 (eight years ago) link
it was indicated to me by someone who has been here a year longer than me that personalizing offices is smiled upon by the partners etc. etc.
and tbh i will be spending long enough hours here (six day weeks!) that making this room slightly warmer and comfier probably is for the best.
― no longer in MTL (Alex in Montreal), Tuesday, 15 March 2016 16:46 (eight years ago) link
i would just paint the walls black
― we can be heroes just for about 3.6 seconds (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 15 March 2016 17:00 (eight years ago) link
photos of Lubitsch + nude Jake on mine
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 15 March 2016 17:01 (eight years ago) link
so what's the word on scruff v clean-shaven these days
― surm, Wednesday, 16 March 2016 14:33 (eight years ago) link
team facial hair til the day i die tbh
― sexy dander (Stevie D(eux)), Thursday, 17 March 2016 11:51 (eight years ago) link
Left my razor's power cord in Chicago last summer.
Should I go see Warhol's The Nude Restaurant at surm's workplace tomw night?
― we can be heroes just for about 3.6 seconds (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 17 March 2016 14:21 (eight years ago) link
well i am
the Bad Muslim emailed me. musta got dumped wants a roll in the hay.
― we can be heroes just for about 3.6 seconds (Dr Morbius), Friday, 18 March 2016 16:14 (eight years ago) link
order a double at the nude restaurant then
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 18 March 2016 16:15 (eight years ago) link
he's going away for the weekend now, the shit.
― we can be heroes just for about 3.6 seconds (Dr Morbius), Friday, 18 March 2016 19:38 (eight years ago) link
had a loverly time tonight in Providence with Patron Sailor! xxoo love ya
― the tune was space, Saturday, 19 March 2016 05:09 (eight years ago) link
i had such an awesome time! A+ show & hang time, thanks for coming thru town!
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Saturday, 19 March 2016 21:20 (eight years ago) link
Went on a date with a former student -- a first. No self-consciousness on either end. It went quite well.
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 20 March 2016 15:06 (eight years ago) link
we need a spring thread, you lollygaggers.
― we can be heroes just for about 3.6 seconds (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 24 March 2016 17:06 (eight years ago) link
is there a spring thread yet? its snowing here today
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Monday, 4 April 2016 16:54 (eight years ago) link
a friend was having a party because he's moving away, and he told everyone the party is drag themed and to come dressed up blah blah blah
so of course i show up and im the only one in drag, whoops lol
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Monday, 4 April 2016 16:57 (eight years ago) link
i think that's festive :) :) it's supposed to snow here this weekend!
― surm, Saturday, 9 April 2016 15:25 (eight years ago) link
guys i'm so happy
Hello!
― clog dabussy (fgti), Saturday, 9 April 2016 18:30 (eight years ago) link
Me and bf are back with other couple, now I'm wondering if there's something wrong with me that all I want to do is lie in bed and cuddle with my lover and can do so for days on end and all else in the world seems stupid
― clog dabussy (fgti), Saturday, 9 April 2016 18:32 (eight years ago) link
^^ good pop songs are made out of this
― surm, Sunday, 10 April 2016 15:01 (eight years ago) link
also v Clarissa Vaughn fwiw
― surm, Sunday, 10 April 2016 15:02 (eight years ago) link
i'm in a highschool hair stage, like it flips out and up in the front
how do we feel about this?
― surm, Monday, 11 April 2016 16:55 (eight years ago) link
Two new additions to my lexicon:
Young men who act cute but are not? Twaren'ts.Men who aren't cute or young and never were? Tweren'ts.
― fgti, Thursday, 21 April 2016 00:08 (eight years ago) link
my name is twight've been
― 1staethyr, Thursday, 21 April 2016 02:39 (eight years ago) link
just bypassing spring, eh inverts?
― we can be heroes just for about 3.6 seconds (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 21 April 2016 03:12 (eight years ago) link
I can't bypass spring w/out recording my reunion with rev last week in Seattle:
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f308/sotoalf/13048166_10154500491216494_6701929456220755378_o_zpsbesdobz1.jpg
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 23 April 2016 23:46 (eight years ago) link
sweet
― we can be heroes just for about 3.6 seconds (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 24 April 2016 00:14 (eight years ago) link