Yeah, it's the association.
Who's the other podcast-network creep?
― Simon H., Friday, 15 June 2018 18:08 (five years ago) link
Dustin from Feral Audio
― just1n3, Friday, 15 June 2018 18:13 (five years ago) link
"the"
― aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Friday, 15 June 2018 18:16 (five years ago) link
(but you might be thinking of Nick Robinson?)
Yes I was referring to Feral Dustin.
― valorous wokelord (silby), Friday, 15 June 2018 18:17 (five years ago) link
Hardwick sold Nerdist six years ago, so anyone who resigns from it today is making an emptier gesture than hand-wringers on message boards.
― kelp, clam and carrion (sic), Friday, 15 June 2018 18:21 (five years ago) link
Sold it in 2012, completely left it last fall.
― Johnny Fever, Friday, 15 June 2018 18:30 (five years ago) link
nerd culture... is bad
― maura, Friday, 15 June 2018 18:42 (five years ago) link
it is essentially what happens when people think all the kids except charlie were treated poorly by willy wonka
― maura, Friday, 15 June 2018 18:43 (five years ago) link
Yeah, Charlie was treated pretty rotten by Willy Wonka too!
― I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Friday, 15 June 2018 18:50 (five years ago) link
an emptier gesture than hand-wringers on message boards
new board description
― too gashly (Ye Mad Puffin), Friday, 15 June 2018 19:38 (five years ago) link
Wringing hands while typing is a special skill which should be valorized imo.
― Gladys McFlatus (Old Lunch), Friday, 15 June 2018 19:43 (five years ago) link
nerds handling this about as well as you'd expect
lmao pic.twitter.com/T5oWddIqC8— Brandy Jensen (@BrandyLJensen) June 15, 2018
― Simon H., Friday, 15 June 2018 19:51 (five years ago) link
ok def. couldn't help but laugh at that
― circa1916, Friday, 15 June 2018 19:57 (five years ago) link
Well, that sums up the last couple of years. Put it in a time capsule.
― Yerac, Friday, 15 June 2018 20:02 (five years ago) link
I guess I should've realized after the death of satire that irony would be next.
― Gladys McFlatus (Old Lunch), Friday, 15 June 2018 20:08 (five years ago) link
that would be:
https://www.polygon.com/2018/6/14/17463404/millie-bobby-brown-meme-twitter-deactivation
― Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 15 June 2018 20:16 (five years ago) link
I haven't listened to Hardwick's podcast in several months, but I hope he hasn't knocked his wife up yet like they were planning so she can gtfo with her Hearst money before it's too late.
― Johnny Fever, Friday, 15 June 2018 21:17 (five years ago) link
that would be:https://www.polygon.com/2018/6/14/17463404/millie-bobby-brown-meme-twitter-deactivation🕸
― flappy bird, Friday, 15 June 2018 22:15 (five years ago) link
Twitter is such an absolute cesspool.
― Yerac, Friday, 15 June 2018 22:35 (five years ago) link
For what it's worth, my "quell surprise" has more to do with unease with adult self-proclaimed nerd culture than it was signaling my brilliant taste at not liking the guy.
― Three Word Username
whenever i hear the words "nerd culture" i reach for my jockstrap
― Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Saturday, 16 June 2018 00:45 (five years ago) link
Shitty nerds have administered more nut punches and atomic wedgies to nerddom than generations of jocks ever did.
― Gladys McFlatus (Old Lunch), Saturday, 16 June 2018 01:07 (five years ago) link
If you haven't been a nerd by the time you are 25, you have no heart; if you are still a nerd after 25, you also have no heart.
― Three Word Username, Saturday, 16 June 2018 05:34 (five years ago) link
I'm all for discussing the toxic elements of nerd culture but lately I've also seen dudes insist that nerds are the problem in a self-distancing way that seems to ignore that men are the problem
― Daniel_Rf, Saturday, 16 June 2018 06:50 (five years ago) link
if you all say nerd 100 times itt it turns into a reddit thread
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 16 June 2018 06:54 (five years ago) link
I've also seen dudes insist that nerds are the problem in a self-distancing way that seems to ignore that men are the problemYES. thank you.
― Stoop Crone (Trayce), Saturday, 16 June 2018 07:24 (five years ago) link
he’s denied everything, not that that closes the book
― karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Saturday, 16 June 2018 07:34 (five years ago) link
― Daniel_Rf, Saturday, 16 June 2018 06:50 (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
oh...still at this eh
― tired culchĂ© (darraghmac), Saturday, 16 June 2018 09:01 (five years ago) link
nerd culture = monoculture
monoculture is misogynistic therefore nerd culture is too
― Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 16 June 2018 14:18 (five years ago) link
He specifically denies "sexually assaulting" her, but her own account describes the emotional abuse that led to her passively allowing him to use her prone body for sex whenever he chose - which he verbally mocked at the same time as taking advantage. If it were in court, this would likely be considered consensual activity.
He has not denied that he blocked her from having friends, socialising on her own terms, having independent interests, TALKING IN PUBLIC, nor that he extensively conspired to have her denied multiple employment opportunities after breaking up.
His statement also appears to confirm that he considered, and still does, a single instance of kissing another person to mark her as a scarlet-lettered harlot, unworthy of his glorious love and mighty semen.
― kelp, clam and carrion (sic), Saturday, 16 June 2018 14:43 (five years ago) link
There is a Mel article that is circulating, this part resonates
" ...yet men of his sort keep taking up arms against “social justice warriors” in order to retain the old mentality of living under siege. A nerdy woman threatens their stranglehold on the archive, as well as Hardwick’s flimsy pretext for success: being a dude who knows a fair amount of Doctor Who trivia."
― Yerac, Saturday, 16 June 2018 15:51 (five years ago) link
this makes me feel bad, because i'm a dude who knows a fair amount of doctor who trivia but somehow never managed to conquer the podcast world
i mean it's probably the lisp but damn, people have been calling me an underachiever since bart simpson
― Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:03 (five years ago) link
"He has not denied that he blocked her from having friends, socialising on her own terms, having independent interests, TALKING IN PUBLIC, nor that he extensively conspired to have her denied multiple employment opportunities after breaking up."
I thought this meant he owned up to this but from the statement I read he simply didn't address it.
― akm, Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:13 (five years ago) link
yes
every time I've seen or heard Hardwick deliver Dr Who trivia he gets it entirely wrong, but that's not a matter for this thread
― kelp, clam and carrion (sic), Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:14 (five years ago) link
actually wait, I just remembered an instance where it is, but I have to catch a plane
siege mentality is an aspirational lifestyle for these guys. it's a great fantasy... convince yourself that you're at war, and suddenly the exigency of war is available for you to act without thinking, and funnily enough your reflexive strategies turn out to be congruent with your desires.
you see it in MRWs, fundamentalists, anti-immigration politicians, gun nuts, preppers, police, libertarians... everywhere.
― com rad erry red flag (f. hazel), Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:52 (five years ago) link
Here is the original article that quote was from. https://melmagazine.com/chris-hardwick-and-why-geek-culture-cant-shake-its-misogyny-c9eba7eb0952
― Yerac, Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:59 (five years ago) link
besiegers who insist they're being besieged
― Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Saturday, 16 June 2018 17:03 (five years ago) link
I first assumed due to Doctor Who context that by "Mel article" you meant an op-ed by Bonnie Langford.
― com rad erry red flag (f. hazel), Saturday, 16 June 2018 17:08 (five years ago) link
Nerd culture today is consumerism as religion, harassing women from Star Wars off social media, daily revelations of abuse, & VR billionaires creating tech to crush immigrants. Meanwhile a football player protests violence against Black people & the President mocks him.— Aaron Stewart-Ahn (@somebadideas) June 16, 2018
― U. K. Le Garage (wins), Saturday, 16 June 2018 17:26 (five years ago) link
yeah, I have said this before but the consequences that men are afraid will happen to them are the exact same consequences that have happened to women, on the same "he said" grounds, that just happen to be wrong strikingly more often, and which happen to often permanently ruin or at least detract from their personal and professional lives. shitty, aren't they?
― aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Saturday, 16 June 2018 19:56 (five years ago) link
also this is otm: I've also seen dudes insist that nerds are the problem in a self-distancing way that seems to ignore that men are the problem.
― aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Saturday, 16 June 2018 19:58 (five years ago) link
Dunno who this is, it’s just one example of this idiotic take coming into my timeline - yes nerd culture is the worst but I wish people would stop and think for one whole second before starting with this “turns out the JOCKS were the woke ones all along haha” nonsense, like yep no rape culture in *checks notes* football, no sir― U. K. Le Garage (wins)
countering a narrative isn't the same thing as reversing it
― Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Saturday, 16 June 2018 22:44 (five years ago) link
https://www.theverge.com/2018/6/16/17471082/amc-pulling-talking-with-chris-hardwick-talk-show-abuse-allegations
AMC has put him in the corner for the time being and he's been removed from this Comic Con panel.
― Johnny Fever, Saturday, 16 June 2018 23:01 (five years ago) link
insist that nerds are the problem in a self-distancing way that seems to ignore that men are the problem
That is an unfortunate imprecision of language, because it sweeps in every man, regardless of his thoughts, words or actions. As I understand it, the problem is behavior, not gender.
I get that oppressed people are not always required to speak with self-conscious precision about their oppressors. But precision and clarity do not hurt the cause of the oppressed; they can only help, imo.
― A is for (Aimless), Saturday, 16 June 2018 23:52 (five years ago) link
Idk blunt linguistic force has a pretty good track record too
― Simon H., Sunday, 17 June 2018 00:06 (five years ago) link
men need to stop talking about the men who are not the problem and fucking fix this (sorry aimless that’s probably not what you meant to say, but all our energy needs to go into making things better, not dwelling on exactly how many men are not to blame)
― karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Sunday, 17 June 2018 00:08 (five years ago) link
this week in melbourne a man raped and killed a woman who was walking home from a gig, and sooo much of the ensuing conversation has had a notallmen flavour to it, rather than going look, as men what can we do to stop this, how can we be role models, how can we identify enabling language/behaviours and call them out, how can we support women who just want to live their lives as safely as most men do
― karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Sunday, 17 June 2018 00:13 (five years ago) link
The only people who I would *maybe* listen to saying #notallmen are the problem are the five guys from Queer Eye, but they are too in empathetically in tune to run with that shit.
― Yerac, Sunday, 17 June 2018 02:28 (five years ago) link
men need to stop talking about the men who are not the problem and fucking fix this
Sounds good!
But since I am a hermit who more or less sees my wife and daughter, with occasional extended family members, none of who tend to show disrespect towards women, I am perplexed how I am supposed to go about this gargantuan task. I have no intention of thrusting my attentions on strange men to determine whether they hold troglodytic views about women, and even if they did, I am not sure I have the correct force at hand required to compel them to change their minds.
This seems like the weak link in the chain that will presumably lead us to paradise.
― A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 17 June 2018 03:14 (five years ago) link