there’s bullies here. I’m too old for this shit
Love to all the cool people
― Fuck the cockfarmer J (Ross), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:32 (five years ago) link
thanks
― frogbs, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:36 (five years ago) link
Ross, my post was an attempt to empathize with where you're at. I said nothing to warrant that response. You might consider that in light of the reactions you're seeing itt.
― Caddyshack III: Back to the Shack! (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:36 (five years ago) link
― Fuck the cockfarmer J (Ross), Wednesday, August 8, 2018 2:32 PM (twelve minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― frogbs, Wednesday, August 8, 2018 2:36 PM (eight minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
ok lol
― The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:44 (five years ago) link
I don't know if there was a well-meaning message behind what j. wrote but the delivery of said message was completely fucking wretched
I know this is a messageboard and tone can be hard to suss out but, jesus christ
― mh, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:48 (five years ago) link
ross is trying to protagonize every thread he is on in a way that seems unhealthy and should probably be temp-banned for his own good imo.
― ( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:50 (five years ago) link
and we used to actually bully on this website
semi-regular reminder that ilx is a terrible place to work on one's mental health, which doesn't make it different from anywhere else on the internet.
― call all destroyer, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:52 (five years ago) link
I'd never recommend it for anyone else, but getting really tweaked on caffeine and writing a long screed that completely misses the point in the conversation, only to never open that thread again is my horrible form of catharsis
now the cat's out of the bag
― mh, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:53 (five years ago) link
xpost A terrible place in general, yes probably, but there are dedicated threads which are treated as safe spaces and can be genuinely helpful.
This, notably, is not one of those threads.
― Caddyshack III: Back to the Shack! (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:54 (five years ago) link
Is all of this happening on the secret messageboard because there is a lot of peoples' reactions here that is confusing.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:56 (five years ago) link
Also, I don't recall bullying on this website really. People seem a lot more aggro now. Except I know some of us used to follow orbit around saying "twoooooo weeks" after her posts and I think that scared her.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 19:59 (five years ago) link
Doing that to orbit was pretty meanBut I'm also clueless why ppl are upset here but I also have hardly posted in the last 5 years
― homosexual II, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:11 (five years ago) link
Yeah, it's regretful now especially since it was supposed to be innocuous at first. It was so long ago I can't even remember much about her.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:15 (five years ago) link
there is a lot of peoples' reactions here that is confusing.
do you mean people's reactions to Ross' months of flying off the handle and wishing violence or death or illness on people, then saying "peace" afterwards, or do you mean Ross' reactions to people suggesting that he might be going through a tough time as evidenced by his actions
― 16, 35, DCP, Go! (sic), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:21 (five years ago) link
Is this happening on hidden threads? I've posted sparingly for a decade so maybe I am missing historical stuff.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:27 (five years ago) link
― mh, Wednesday, August 8, 2018 12:53 PM (thirty-six minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
hi there
― ( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:30 (five years ago) link
ironically this is a great post
― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:38 (five years ago) link
i haven't been around for 84 days and now i come back ... to this?
god this is sad
― the late great, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:47 (five years ago) link
well, maybe if you were the punctual great.....
― dele alli my bookmarks (darraghmac), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:51 (five years ago) link
doubt that helped, deems
― rip van wanko, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:54 (five years ago) link
:-/
― dele alli my bookmarks (darraghmac), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:56 (five years ago) link
should feel good that things go to shit in one's absence
― for i, sock in enumerate (Sufjan Grafton), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:57 (five years ago) link
now save us, please
― for i, sock in enumerate (Sufjan Grafton), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 20:58 (five years ago) link
I never wished death on anyone? I’ve definitely been an asshole and I’m sorry for that. As a former addict I did post while in frames of mind that were counterproductive to peace. Anyway I’m sorry for damage caused and yeah temp ban me or delete me, it’s cool
― Fuck the cockfarmer J (Ross), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:01 (five years ago) link
Sorry old lunch I thought you called me wobbly lolI misread you entirely. Owch. Easier to walk away now really
― Ross, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:04 (five years ago) link
^^ round and round we go
― the late great, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:05 (five years ago) link
I never wished death on anyone?
not since yesterday, anyway
honestly i wish anvils would drop on some of you spineless jelly fish fuckers
― 16, 35, DCP, Go! (sic), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:06 (five years ago) link
Look I just want to be banned or deleted. Mods please do this.
― Ross, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:06 (five years ago) link
Is it me or is this board way busier and livelier than this time last year? Must be the world cup lifting everybody's spirits up.
― xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:17 (five years ago) link
heyyyy it's the roundly hated dickhead that called me a middle eastern uncle tom and prodded me into quitting!
― the late great, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:21 (five years ago) link
didn't work!
― xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:22 (five years ago) link
obviously!
― the late great, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:25 (five years ago) link
Carry on then!
― xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:26 (five years ago) link
(thousand word off topic post ensues)
― mh, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:27 (five years ago) link
late great >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>xyzzzzz
late great I was really enjoying yr posts on the Gene Wolfe/NEWSUN thread yesterday (since I just started re-reading that), good stuff
xp
― Οὖτις, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:28 (five years ago) link
Good stuff!
― xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:29 (five years ago) link
xp thanks buddy
i apologize for calling you rapey mo in 2003
― the late great, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:29 (five years ago) link
i could not get into newsun
which killed me because yes tlg posts on it are brilliant
tlg > gene wolfe, essentially
― dele alli my bookmarks (darraghmac), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:32 (five years ago) link
that's the kind of thing you move to the top of the resume, templates be damned
― Karl Malone, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:34 (five years ago) link
I don't remember this tbh (and besides I blame ethan for all that crap)
― Οὖτις, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:36 (five years ago) link
There's a Gene Wolfe thread? Point the way!
― pomenitul, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:37 (five years ago) link
I don't really consider dropping anvils on fish fuckers to be a sincere death threat. ymmv.
― Yerac, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:39 (five years ago) link
there's a couple, but this is the good one: gene wolfe's book of the NEWSUN!!!!! reading club
― Οὖτις, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:40 (five years ago) link
Thanks!
― pomenitul, Wednesday, 8 August 2018 21:42 (five years ago) link
I didn't say threat.
― 16, 35, DCP, Go! (sic), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 22:03 (five years ago) link
Remember the good ol days when we used to make fart jokes
― F# A# (∞), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 22:58 (five years ago) link
The thread that celebrates itself its own title.
― Stoop Crone (Trayce), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 23:05 (five years ago) link
BTW this whole thing is p funny because it seems people have forgotten that the whole I AM NOW LEAVING ILX FOREVER *comes back a day later* was a long-running joke on the site a long time ago.
― Stoop Crone (Trayce), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 23:07 (five years ago) link
Have you ever really looked at a flower, it's beauty is undescribable.
― Caddyshack III: Back to the Shack! (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 8 August 2018 23:07 (five years ago) link