Radical Feminism: Discuss

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See Standpoint Theory and Intersectionality. Google it.
There's a lot out there on intertwined identities and boundary-crossings, especially from Latina/Chicana feminists (Cherie Moraga, Audre Lordes, Gloria Andalzua)

Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 31 August 2003 17:54 (twenty years ago) link

who exactly is a "Patriarchy" (or, what does it mean that society is "set up by and for men"; what is "society")? how is heterosexuality "compulsory" and who demands that it be so?
-- gabbneb (gabbne...), August 31st, 2003.

I'd like to know too. I think women play just as big a part in Patriarchy as men, whatever it is.


"if you are male and you tell a sexist joke you don't have to wonder how it might make women around you feel, because the social pressure on them is so great you know they won't say anything about it"

not where I come from.
-- gabbneb (gabbne...), August 31st, 2003.

Certianly not round here either.

mei (mei), Sunday, 31 August 2003 18:07 (twenty years ago) link


Orbit said:

This is called "silencing". Silencing the voices of others includes belittling them, trivializing thenm (don't you have a sense of humor?) [when it comes to serious issues being trivializes, and as domestic abuse and childhood abuse survivor NO I DON'T because it is not funny. Do I have a sense of humor when people are not trying to trivialize serious things? YES I DO].

--being a woman doesn't mean you have a feminist political awareness (meaning are you really up in it, do you know what people are discussing or just your stereotype of it)

I think the second paragraph here is gently 'silencing' women who are not active feminists.
Perhaps the men who tell these jokes aren't doing it on purpose?

And about RJG's trolling. I think that's the disguise Arnold Swarzenegger's character wears in Total Recall when he's trying to get past customs, he says he's staying for "two weeks".
When he's found out the woman's face splits open and reveal a man inside.

Still don't really see what that has to do with anything.

mei (mei), Sunday, 31 August 2003 18:23 (twenty years ago) link

Is it a metaphor?

Cozen (Cozen), Sunday, 31 August 2003 18:27 (twenty years ago) link

(Orbit, it's generally best to ignore RJG. dnfth.)

oh yeah and i am in the USA, where the majority of women who are murdered are murdered by their spouses, domestic partners, or boyfriends.

just raising questions - i wonder about the sex breakdown of US murder victims. i wonder whether the majority of men who are murdered are murdered by someone they know. i imagine that the majority of murderers are men. i wonder if the last is the best way to view this subject.

when it comes to serious issues being trivializes, and as domestic abuse and childhood abuse survivor NO I DON'T because it is not funny

this may be inappropriate and if so i apologize in advance and anyone is welcome to get rid of this part of my post, but you raised the point so i'll go with it in one direction - do you think feminism is more important than childhood abuse? is the latter part of the former and is it discussed enough?

Do I have a sense of humor when people are not trying to trivialize serious things? YES I DO

i find it disturbing when people trivialize serious things as well. i once almost got into a physical fight (which would be like unheard of from me and which i would undoubtedly have lost resoundingly) with a friend - the grandson of a former supreme court justice, no less - who didn't vote in a national election because the line was too long. but joking about a serious subject does not necessarily trivialize it, and intentions can be misread on here if you're unfamiliar with someone or can't discern their tone. some of the most outspoken political people i know are quite willing to be funny or ironic about things that are quite important to them.

also, because thrice is nicer than twice - "this is complete bullshit"

gabbneb (gabbneb), Sunday, 31 August 2003 18:30 (twenty years ago) link

gabbneb i find parts of your post so genuinely offensive in how they misrepresent my meaning that i can't reply right now. i'm writing you off as a troll. because no one is that clueless. if you think feminism is bullshit why are you on a thread meant for its serious discussion? find something else to do.

RJG is being TRULY offensive and disrespectful, and further he is creeping me out.

Orbit (Orbit), Sunday, 31 August 2003 18:36 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah but he's funny.

Herbstmute (Wintermute), Sunday, 31 August 2003 18:38 (twenty years ago) link

this may be inappropriate and if so i apologize in advance and anyone is welcome to get rid of this part of my post, but you raised the point so i'll go with it in one direction - do you think feminism is more important than childhood abuse? is the latter part of the former and is it discussed enough?
-- gabbneb (gabbne...), August 31st, 2003.

Why on earth should we have to think about which of those two things is more important? They both are!

(gabbneb, if I understand what you're getting at, you're suggesting that someone might become a feminist _because_ they were abused. If that is what you're hinting at then please start another thread, this one is complicated enough already)

mei (mei), Sunday, 31 August 2003 18:40 (twenty years ago) link

i apologize for any offense i caused. i was at first at a loss to understand how i had misrepresented you, because i didn't think that i had represented your position at all. then i went back and looked and understood that you must think that i was saying that you thought that feminism was more important than childhood abuse. that was not what i was saying, but i wasn't careful in my phrasing and now understand that what i wrote could be interpreted to mean that. what i did mean was to raise the question whether childhood abuse was a more important issue than, or should be viewed through the lens of, feminism. i realize that this is off-topic and therefore inappropriate (you were using it as an example of a serious issue, not necessarily a feminist one, and i read you too quickly on that point). i hope that your statement that i "think feminism is bullshit" was a knowing/intentional "misinterpretation" of my meaning.

gabbneb (gabbneb), Sunday, 31 August 2003 18:52 (twenty years ago) link

I think RJG is suggesting that Orbit isn't a real woman but a male misogynist trying to make feminists look bad. He's obviously wrong, as he usually is in these judgements. Orbit is not making feminism look bad at all, in my view, whether you find her attempt to apply the sound and necessary ideas of feminism sensible or patronising or misguided or what.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 31 August 2003 19:31 (twenty years ago) link

reading this makes me think more of how politics fits into our lives. like what texas sam was saying, i used to be ALL ABOUT feminism. i started groups, worked for planned parenthood, went to women's college, volunteered for ladyfest. and the more i got involved in it, the more shaky my one-track belief became. which seems common - people's staunch politicism peaking in college and then waning. maybe out of bitterness or resignation, but i think for me it's more about coming across it's limitations and seeing more and more people you 'should' be aligned with but totally aren't. maybe it's like meeting people based on some obscure band you all like thinking you're all gonna be soulmates.

for instance sometimes you start thinking of women in a context separate from every other reality. like saying on this list, women should be able to do anything they want: be a housewife or a brain surgeon or a sex worker or a pro athlete. well, can anyone regardless of sex do those things? or are the class, economic, legal, and skill-set obstructions? then you get into all the other messy factors of life that prevent people everyone from achieving what they want to do. and can we judge whether what they want is valid or not and worth fighting for (ie. what does a housewife do)?

lolita corpus (lolitacorpus), Sunday, 31 August 2003 19:35 (twenty years ago) link

wrong, martin. guess again?

RJG (RJG), Sunday, 31 August 2003 19:39 (twenty years ago) link

damn. Points for a good try?

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 31 August 2003 19:43 (twenty years ago) link

Orbit is not making feminism or herself look bad at all. If that's what RJG is suggesting he's just being an idiot.

Lolita, youre second paragraph particularly sums up very nicely a lot of what I think. Thanks.

mei (mei), Sunday, 31 August 2003 19:43 (twenty years ago) link

Crosspost.

RJG, was I right about it being from Total Recall?

mei (mei), Sunday, 31 August 2003 19:47 (twenty years ago) link

you were right about that. v. well done.

RJG (RJG), Sunday, 31 August 2003 19:48 (twenty years ago) link

I've only just noticed all the other threads that ppl have been posting to simultaneously. I'm going to go and read them now.

mei (mei), Sunday, 31 August 2003 19:55 (twenty years ago) link

Orbit, can you stop calling long standing regulars Trolls. Idiots, mentalists, people with differing points of view they may be, but Trolls, hardly.

I have a whole spiel about theorising killing identity politics (and socialism which is the catchall for all equality issues) by taking control of the fight away from people most affected by inequality and reducing it to factional bickering by people who weren't really that oppressed in the first place, but we'll come to all of that tomorrow.

Ed (dali), Sunday, 31 August 2003 21:52 (twenty years ago) link

please don't. not everyone who ends up in university has had a cushy middle-class upbringing.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 31 August 2003 23:02 (twenty years ago) link

"Ecofeminism and Feminist Theory"
by Carolyn Merchant
From Reweaving the Web: The Emergence of Ecofeminism, edited by Irene Diamond and Gloria Feman Orenstein, San Francisco: Sierra Club Books, 1990.

"Healing the Wounds"
by Ynestra King
From Reweaving the Web: The Emergence of Ecofeminism, edited by Irene Diamond and Gloria Feman Orenstein, San Francisco: Sierra Club Books, 1990.

Background on the context in which this essay was written.

Date Readings Were Discussed: February 2, 1992
Present: Marsha L., Kalisa, Colleen M., Catherine C., Cathleen M., Ora M., Stephanie R., and Robin Z.

This month we explored the distinctions between feminism and ecofeminism. In describing three primary strands of feminism—liberal feminism, socialist feminism, and radical feminism—Carolyn Merchant and Ynestra King show that second wave feminism is not monolithic.

A bit confused by the various factions, we welcomed this opportunity to dissect second wave feminist theory in order to clarify ecofeminism's roots. We defined in very general terms the predominate (yet often overlapping) characteristics of each type of feminism.

Liberal Feminism: mainstream; reformist; largely white middle class constituency; believes women's presence in the patriarchal system can humanize it; struggles primarily within the system for equal rights for women.

Socialist Feminism: sees societal problems as rooted in material conditions (historical materialism); emphasizes the economic value of women's labor; anthropocentric (human-centered) in its conception of nature as a resource for human needs; advocates political solutions; dismisses spiritual/personal struggle as ineffective for revolutionary social change.

Radical Feminism: sees male supremacism (patriarchy) as the root of societal ills; strong focus on the politics of biology. One version of radical feminism is political, rationalist, and theoretical; feels women's biology (birthing, menstruation, etc.) under patriarchy limits women's access to and power in the public sphere; rejects viewing women as closer to nature.

This is from an "eco-feminist" web site (ugh), but it's close enough.

Most people use the term disparagingly, because they don't know what it is at all.

I don't have time to write about this too much, but the key book is Shulamith Firestone's The Dialectic of Sex. I don't think there are too many radical feminists around these days, in spite of what conservatives say (the ones they call "radical" are in fact "liberal"). Radical feminists used to question economics and the nuclear family - all sorts of things. Radical doesn't mean "extreme", it just means getting to the root of something.

Liberal feminism - see "PC". Liberal feminists don't question institutions too much - many of them are far too in love with our criminal justice system IMO, to give one example.

Kerry (dymaxia), Sunday, 31 August 2003 23:20 (twenty years ago) link

please don't. not everyone who ends up in university has had a cushy middle-class upbringing.

Very good point Di, but I have to argree with Ed also in the sense that this goes back to me saying I don't feel confident in discussions like this (in fact I have a thread topic on this subject I will start later today) due to my not-so-hifalutin education.

It isnt so much a matter of social positioning, as I know a lot of people from less well-off backgrounds can get uni education but I feel personally that having had a university education gives people an advantage when it comes to defining the feminist canon (or whatever else). You'd hardly see a Bolivian factory worker coming in here espousing like someone like Momus (and thats a damn shame), and Ed's OTM - aren't the dispossesed the ones who need the voice most?

If that came across in any way patronising I didn't mean it too. Dammit I feel like what I want to say doesn't come out how I want it to grr.

Trayce (trayce), Sunday, 31 August 2003 23:39 (twenty years ago) link

yeah well i agree with his sentiments too but was just saying, don't generalise. in the university i'm in, academic feminists DON'T get into concrete activism at all. gender students here tend not to turn up for take back the night marches or volunteer at rap crisis or the womens refuge at all. my main problem with scholars these days is that they're trying to convince themselves they are way more politically active than they are by "subverting the binary distinction between theory and practise". grrrr.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 31 August 2003 23:50 (twenty years ago) link

Audre Lorde was not Latina or Chicana. Her family was from the West Indies. Grenada, i believe. Read Zami for further insight.

scott seward, Monday, 1 September 2003 01:21 (twenty years ago) link

rap crisis

heh.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Monday, 1 September 2003 01:27 (twenty years ago) link

I can see it now... P.Diddy and eminiem, lying prose on couches, complainin' about they ho's.

Er, best not derail this very good thread, do carry on :)

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 1 September 2003 01:44 (twenty years ago) link

I used to have a lot of (disproportionately emotionally unsettling arguments) w/ radical lesbian feminists at uni who I generally found to be, yes, inflexible and kneejerk and emotionally unstable, not to mention nowhere near intellectually rigorous enough for the material they were discussing, damaging the arguments they were making as they emerged from their mouths (ha but this is true of anyone who tries to make politics out of their personal life, myself included; see also: "uni students").

However I am super-sympathetic towards many aspects of radical- and eco-feminism, especially insofar as they helped me to politically contextualise my own homosexuality. I think the root'n'branch critique of patriarchy and gender relations is urgent and key, and it ties into the more general processes by which we are all interpellated as subjects. The mistake of dumbed-down radical feminism is to ignore the fact that patriarchy is only a second-level simulacrum of the insubordination of society (by which I mean that gender oppression is a sub-set of oppression of the subject), and thus to assume that it really is just a case of womanhood vs the patriarchy.

I assume this happens for three reasons: a) the comforting thought that liberation from patriarchy is the loose end trailing from the ball of string making up liberation of the subject (radical socialists also do this vis a vis class liberation); b) a sense of intellectual security gained by devising a heirarchy of oppressions which confers upon its deviser an unambiguous response to any ambiguous (read: complex) problem (radical socialists also do this etc.); and c) a desire to effect liberation now prior to skillzing up on all these issues.

Of course this is all dumbed-down radical feminism, and I've read a lot of not so dumbed-down radical feminism which doesn't fall into these traps: its focus on the patriarchy and gender relations is not necessarily arguing for the heirarchical pre-eminence of this particular conflict, any more than a political commentator who writes an article on the economy one week and foreign policy the next is saying that the former or the latter is the most important issue in political debate.

Tim Finney (Tim Finney), Monday, 1 September 2003 01:46 (twenty years ago) link

the only thing i disagree with in that is this:

gender oppression is a sub-set of oppression of the subject

you're right, it doesn't deserve to be given more prominence than other forms of oppression, but gender oppression isn't a subset of anything.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Monday, 1 September 2003 01:54 (twenty years ago) link

True. Gender oppression (in either direction) is essentially built into the asymmetry of the species, while pretty much all other forms of oppression are contingent. I.e. a Martian female (assuming Martians follow the same egg/sperm dichotomy we do) would probably see the differences between the races as being about as important as the differences between different-colored 1992 Honda Accords, while they might very well be able to identify more closely with human females than with Martian males, at least in regards to mating behavior. And, of course, vice versa. It's a special, motherboard-level (no pun intended) case, which is what makes it so perpetually fraught and interesting.

As for radical feminism -- love the second part, not so crazy about the first. Radical anything is guaranteed to annoy me, because all it really means is that some people managed to get together and convince each other that their theory is above the need for empirical support. Nothing is above the need for empirical support. Except possibly Ganesh. And Andrew WK.

Jesse Fuchs (Jesse Fuchs), Monday, 1 September 2003 03:01 (twenty years ago) link

Silencing the voices of others includes belittling them, trivializing thenm (don't you have a sense of humor?) [when it comes to serious issues being trivializes, and as domestic abuse and childhood abuse survivor NO I DON'T because it is not funny. Do I have a sense of humor when people are not trying to trivialize serious things? YES I DO].

What do you think of The Onion?

oops (Oops), Monday, 1 September 2003 03:02 (twenty years ago) link

oppression of the subject),

Could you explain what this phrase means please?

mei (mei), Monday, 1 September 2003 03:42 (twenty years ago) link

Glad you brought that up, Oops, because when Orbit implied use of humour in a serious discussion "trivialises" it, it made me look twice.

I found myself with a fleeting thought of "does this mean I'm being dismissive merely because I'm using humour?". And I'm not, that's never the purpose of me cracking a joke, *especially* in a serious conversation. It's usually, if anything, to try and loosen up the mood to avoid tension and thus unneccesary aggro that would derail the argument. Method of diffusion. I assume that may be why some people on ILX use humour, and they're *perhaps* being unfairly branded as "silencing" or "being dismissive".

Serious, well considered discussions are fantastic, but if they get too tense and ponderous, you lose part of your audience.

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 1 September 2003 03:50 (twenty years ago) link

as in humour can be personalizing, or help with entryism, or be inclusive, remove barriers, or help people gain the confidence to contribute, or democratize opinion?

gareth (gareth), Monday, 1 September 2003 05:42 (twenty years ago) link

Well I like to think so, all of what you've listed is great examples.

Humour CAN be dismissive and trivialize an issue as Orbit said, I do agree - like when someone mocks you with "gee youre so funny when you're mad!" stupidly.

I just don't want to think I'd be thought worse of because I might crack a funny now and then - its the kind of person I am.

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 1 September 2003 05:53 (twenty years ago) link

exactly, i'd be very suprised and perplexed if someone liked you less because of that

gareth (gareth), Monday, 1 September 2003 05:57 (twenty years ago) link

come to olympia.

gabbo giftington (dubplatestyle), Monday, 1 September 2003 05:59 (twenty years ago) link

tempting but my reasons are probably vaguely 'creepy'

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Monday, 1 September 2003 06:01 (twenty years ago) link

is there anything vague about it?

gabbo giftington (dubplatestyle), Monday, 1 September 2003 06:05 (twenty years ago) link

probably not

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Monday, 1 September 2003 06:06 (twenty years ago) link

re: academic feminists having cushy upbringings: please see my entry on the "when you were 10" thread.

Orbit (Orbit), Monday, 1 September 2003 06:07 (twenty years ago) link

Trayce and Di kind of go down what I wanted to say, but couldn't articulate late last night. Basically that moving to ward theory and academia can be a retreat from the cause originally found. It's not a social strata thing, ivory towers are more or less open to anyone who can scramble up nowadays. (now is not the time to have a debate about university access).

Ed (dali), Monday, 1 September 2003 06:08 (twenty years ago) link

One exception--or even several--to the 'rule' doesn't mean there's not some truth to it.

oops (Oops), Monday, 1 September 2003 06:10 (twenty years ago) link

also see the Working Class Academics Association! It is not one, it is many

Orbit (Orbit), Monday, 1 September 2003 06:28 (twenty years ago) link

emmett otter, Monday, 1 September 2003 06:30 (twenty years ago) link

It was funny the first 100001 times but the total recall joke is getting old even for me now, geez.

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 1 September 2003 06:32 (twenty years ago) link

I don't think anyone was suggesting that there aren't loads of working class academics (although one could argue that once you become an academic one ceases to be working class, even if the roots are there) Being working class, though, is no guarantee against disappearing up one's ivory tower (or ones own arse).

Ed (dali), Monday, 1 September 2003 06:34 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah, my comment wasn't at all to do with classism, as Di points out many people get into uni from humble beginnings.

But its those who never DO get there - those who for whatever reason are denied a chance at a better education - that are left out when it all goes theoretical.

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 1 September 2003 07:01 (twenty years ago) link

Sorry, that wasn't as clearly put as I intended... I'm on my way out the door in a rush... will return to this this evening.

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 1 September 2003 07:05 (twenty years ago) link

There is no such thing as a cushy middle class upbringing - just like there's no such thing as normal people.

Feminism would have to be the most boring topic to ever arrive on ILX. Lets get back to talking about sex - at least it's a bit exciting and imaginative.

toraneko (toraneko), Monday, 1 September 2003 13:36 (twenty years ago) link

you obviously haven't been reading the sex threads

Ronan (Ronan), Monday, 1 September 2003 13:40 (twenty years ago) link

my sentiments exactly.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Monday, 1 September 2003 13:47 (twenty years ago) link


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