thread for sarahel

it's ok just1ne; all is patched-up, forgiven, and given an A++ rubber-stamp of approval, never again would they take for granted the gift of reading one anothers' posts <3

maybe a straight A if we're not gonna get carried away

please don't get carried away ... I think that's where the troubles started.

i think it was YOU who got carried away, B+ woman

uh-uh, I wasn't the one who suggested the other party have sex with another ilxor!

it's too soon to joke, but velko is a very handsome ilxor as they come so i'll graciously retract that one. :)

I think we're even.

Yes. Night!

Actually ... if I were to get an Ulver album, which one should I get?

sarahel, you never included your email address in the webmail that ya sent me-- so i can't give you the lowdown on j0seph l3ase.

also, you live in oakland? or the City?

i missed the convo-- oakland....

well, we should try to cross paths at some point?

Wait, is this how Louis hits on women?

Jesus don't you ppl ever know when to stop?

― Pancakes are one of my favorite ways to party. (ENBB), Friday, 24 July 2009 20:14 (Yesterday) Permalink

If you have to ask....

Btw i am also curious as to how LJ hits on women. I haven't read "the game" but I wonder if this tactic might be found somewhere within in.

sarahel - well my favourite album of the decade is 'blood inside', so that one. but all of them are worth it.

nick - you got me sussed. back to the drawing-board.

xp table: sorry, I thought you could just click on my display name and reply.

I'm female ... almost 35.

Same here. Except male, obv. Are you another Scorpio freakshow?

I love this thread.

sarahel, is it Sarah El or Sara Hel?

― ian, Tuesday, July 7, 2009 7:37 PM (4 weeks ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

Was just thinking this

xp kenan: that is my astrological sign, yes. Some of my best friends are also Scorpios, including my better half.

My first name ends in an "h" ... some "Sarah"s are really touchy about people omitting the "h" ... I was when I was much younger, now I really don't care if someone gets it wrong. In high school choir, there were two other Sarahs, so we were called by our first name and last initial, and I was "Sarahel."

good day sarahel

Sarahel, recommend me something awesome to listen to that you have been enjoying of late.

I've been liking Absu a lot, and Koenjihyakkei. Flying Luttenbachers have been one of favorite bands for several years now.

awesome thankig u

The latter band also did a great cover of "De Futura" by Magma. Unfortunately, the album is out of print. I'm sure it's online somewhere, so if you download it for free, you can do so with a clear conscience.

testing bookmark function

did it work?

yes!

!

It's the first time I've used that feature. I wanted to figure out how it worked. I felt dumb that people had posted on this thread yesterday, and I didn't notice, because I was too busy over in the milk aisle.

bookmark function has destroyed my personal life tbh

is milk aisle bookmarked T

xp kenan: that is my astrological sign, yes. Some of my best friends are also Scorpios, including my better half.

A scorpio-scorpio marriage sounds both awesome and anxious. I learned to stay away from those people a long time ago. :)

(I'm a Scorpio-Libra cusp, btw. October 23.)

I thought that's what v1agra was invented for?

xp kenan: he's a Scorpio/Sag cusp. I'm square in the middle of Scorpio, but with a Leo moon and Aries rising. One of my exes was a Scorpio-Libra cusp -- he was a real piece of work.

As am I.

What a piece of work is a man! How overbearing in conversation, how intolerable in vanity!

I felt very proud to be his first ex-girlfriend that he was on speaking terms with post-breakup.

we were close friends first, and the relationship really should have stayed that way, tbh.

I have a couple exes that still like me ok. I have a few that really, really don't.

no interest with being friends with exes

It's always better to get out before they hate you deeply.

before me, he made not-speaking-to-his-exes a matter of principle. When I found out he was getting married (years after we broke up), I was pretty shocked. He had trouble getting close to someone and not becoming seriously contemptuous of them.

really do not agree with that principal, reason they're exes afaics

meant to say disagree

double negative yo!

My contempt of people is constantly being tempered by my need for them. So you make choices.

I think he probably just grew up, honestly. Some of the emails he's sent me about his wife, definitely seem like the contempt thing hasn't gone away, but I think he genuinely does love her, and I hope it works out.

I think part of his appeal to me was that he was more fucked up than I was, and I wanted to "help." The first time I cried in front of him, he told me, "I liked you better when you didn't have feelings." I should have ended things right there, but I was romantic and 20 years old.

The first time I cried in front of him, he told me, "I liked you better when you didn't have feelings."

Whoa. Ok, I'm not THAT much of a piece of work.

what's fucked up is i think he sounds awesome in that story

I can be a cold-ass motherfucker, but that's extremely mean-spirited.