"Can I say you're my girlfriend on Facebook?"

Please, if you’re sending a fellow ilxor a friend request and their profile is set to private, introduce yourself unless you already use your full govt name here. Not gonna accept just because we have ilx friends in common if I don’t know who you are on this forum. Like, my profile is private for a reason.

otm

There's a Facebook page called "Caught in the act" with more than a million followers which posts what used to be known as "fail" videos, but with zero content control. This includes traffic accidents where people are clearly severely injured or even killed. I reported one.

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I also reported a comment on a local newspaper article about a pride event which wished death on LGBT people, same result. Not sure there's any point.