and i am a new person. it's funny how something so small, could be so big. did u do anything with your hair lately?
― surm, Monday, 10 August 2015 04:29 (eight years ago) link
i am waiting for the dye to set right as i type this
― sarahell, Monday, 10 August 2015 04:36 (eight years ago) link
omg
― surm, Monday, 10 August 2015 04:38 (eight years ago) link
so excited for you. black? red lowlights?
i might need to go black again tbh. everybody says they love the distinguished gray but i also just like black hair so, it's like i wasn't born to make you happy
― surm, Monday, 10 August 2015 04:42 (eight years ago) link
"deep cherry brown" -- i had let it grow out to my natural boring brown color in my early 30s to prove that i wasn't going gray. and now I'm 40, and I'm still not going gray, but life is too short to have a boring hair color just to prove, what, superior genetics?
― sarahell, Monday, 10 August 2015 04:45 (eight years ago) link
THANK you! high five!
― surm, Monday, 10 August 2015 04:46 (eight years ago) link
i have to be honest with you, that some people are jealous of my hair. and i'm like, kind of happy about that. i hope that doesn't sound too dickish.
Male dyer here, so shoot me. I have hair that is patchily grey - 70% dark on top, 70% grey on the sides - and yes, some people call it distinguished, blah blah (what Surm said) but I don't like what I see in the mirror so I darken it to make it more even and it makes such a diff and makes me feel happier. At some point when it's all gloriously even silver (in my dreams) I'll stop and have lovely silver hair and I'll grow a beard to match.
And people snidely mention it or refer to it backhandedly at times when there's no need. I'll talk very openly about it if they wanted to.
This all sounds very passive/aggressive but I feel too young to look old and I think I do the upkeep fairly well.
Anyway, I'm happy to hear about ze bangs.
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Monday, 10 August 2015 04:57 (eight years ago) link
Can you imagine anyone disparaging a woman by saying omg she dyes her hair?! Every woman I know dyes theirs!
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Monday, 10 August 2015 04:59 (eight years ago) link
Except my sister who is blessed with hair that has gone platinum white naturally.
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Monday, 10 August 2015 05:01 (eight years ago) link
the bf's mom doesn't like dying hers, she's letting a soft gray come through, it's nice on her
as you can see from the photo below, i did not fuck it up. i blurred the photo to protect the anonymous.
Jed I have gray in my beard now. It is a new look.http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/451fc2b7-ac1e-4a07-a28d-86a7e23ffe4d.jpg
― surm, Monday, 10 August 2015 05:04 (eight years ago) link
also sarahel that color sounds real pretty
― surm, Monday, 10 August 2015 05:08 (eight years ago) link
It's agl x
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Monday, 10 August 2015 05:09 (eight years ago) link
thx dude
― surm, Monday, 10 August 2015 05:12 (eight years ago) link
back is a bit long. i love going for a haircut, i should call my place on Tues. you know Monday's their day off.
― surm, Monday, 10 August 2015 05:15 (eight years ago) link
recently my hairdresser revealed to me that Friday nights can sometimes be very tough for her. you know, watching everyone go out and she can't really, bc Sat starts so early. i felt for her.
― surm, Monday, 10 August 2015 05:51 (eight years ago) link