What was The Best Year Of Your Life?

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12 months, January to December, full of fun? Lunacy? How what why when where?

Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Friday, 24 January 2003 10:46 (twenty-three years ago)

This year. Already.

Every year gets better and better.

Pete (Pete), Friday, 24 January 2003 10:52 (twenty-three years ago)

1996. The whole year had its ups and downs, but the summer of '96 was one of the most idyllic times of my life. I was home from school, taking acting classes at HB Studios, working in a low-stress job at a bookstore and making okay money, and I was in the opening stages of what was initially a very happy relationship.

Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 24 January 2003 10:53 (twenty-three years ago)

I was kind of naive and uncynical at that time (well, as much as someone like me can be). I wish I could have that back.

Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 24 January 2003 10:55 (twenty-three years ago)

Last year. Things got better on every level, pretty much, and I had some fantastic times to boot.

1992 was also a magnificent year - cramming 6 years of adolescent experience into 12 giddy months; first proper girlfriend, first proper boozing, first drug-taking, first gig i actually liked, first proper parties etc etc etc - really shit summer holiday though in which 6 years of pent-up teenage tantrums were shamefully released, so 2002 wins cos my holidays last year were grebt!

Tom (Groke), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:01 (twenty-three years ago)

it would be hard to choose between 1994 and 1995. both wonderful and happy (and relatively carefree). 2001 was shaping up to be another good one... :-(

Marcello Carlin, Friday, 24 January 2003 11:02 (twenty-three years ago)

decade-wise; '70s wonderful, '80s transitional, '90s the best, '00s so far horrible.

Marcello Carlin, Friday, 24 January 2003 11:04 (twenty-three years ago)

1994 - well the first 9 months of it. The last time everything was "okay," since then I've just been trying to re-reach that pinnacle, ave't I? I became a camp legnd (I mean that both ways, as I did this drag thing at the Hindu summer camp - don't ask:), I made a zillion new friends (fair weather friends, but who knew at the time?) at my still-new school, I poured itching powder on my Social Studies teacher the last day of junior high and got expelled the first three days of high school but got out of it by apologizing, thereby becoming a legend in my own time by physically harassing a member of the faculty and GETTING AWAY WITH IT SCOTT-FREE, I won my first student council election and had an entire legion of upper-classmen campaign on my behalf without my involvement, I was beginning to have my major summer crush reciprocated, and I got a leading role in the high school's annual play, one of two freshmen to do so. Life was looking so promising...

Then I broke down on October 11th...8 years, 3 months, 12 days...life has never been the same, but at least after reaching the nadir in 1998, every year has gotten relatively better, at least

Vic (Vic), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:14 (twenty-three years ago)

the best is yet to come, like pete it just gets better and better, although 1998, 2001, 2002 were vintage years

Ed (dali), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:19 (twenty-three years ago)

1997 I think. I was in love for the first (and only, I'm not sure?) time. I had moved to London and was feeling *secure*. Had one year left at university but was majoring in philosophy, which I loved. Life just seemed to be 'coming together'.

It didn't!

Lara (Lara), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:19 (twenty-three years ago)

1997 for me too I think. Got rid of abusive boyfriend, worked away from home for 3 glorious fun filled months, bought my first ever flat, made loads of new friends, loved my job, pulled every weekend, had plenty of cash and a brilliant social life. Ahhh those were the days....

smee (smee), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:27 (twenty-three years ago)

2525

duane (24 hour troubleshooter), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:35 (twenty-three years ago)

Ack 1997 was so so horrible, I'm still not recovering from it. Subjectivity is so strange! If I even read (in print) or see or hear "1997" anywhere I wince it is, it was so traumatizing

Vic (Vic), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:37 (twenty-three years ago)

1999 was pretty good to me. Discovering electronic music, smoking a lot of dope, not doing much else. I've been feeling stressed out ever since then.

Andrew (enneff), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:49 (twenty-three years ago)

Vic is OTM.

Mark C (Mark C), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:50 (twenty-three years ago)

Last year was by-and-large pretty good, certainly nothing dreadful to complain about, landed a pleasant job, stayed happy with Emma for probably 350 days of the year, had some very pleasant times, but no adventures. Whereas 2000 for me was mentalist, the biggest ups and downs I've ever had, flirtation with alcoholism, much traversing of the country going to gigs with like-minded loons, waking up pissed on stranger's floors in London, loads of great music (well, music that I loved, in hindsight about 70% of it was actually great and the rest was dross, but fuck it, at the time I was involved in it and loved it and it took me palces [spiritually, emotionally, mentally and geographically]). Had a very weird but enviable on-off relationship with a psychopath (I was her bit-on-the-side), fell out with my best mate in the world in the most hideously drawn-out and disconcerting fashion ever (him = paranoid drug addict, me = careless, nihilistic alcoholic). Basically 2000 for me was a seizing of the contempt for normality and safety that total nihilism allows, and I behaved like a fucking twat, but it was great fun, I learnt a lot about myself, realised my capabilities and limits, earned a lot of amusing and crazy stories to tell, and came out of the end (eventually - I'm still emerging now in many ways) a better person than I realised I could be.

Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:53 (twenty-three years ago)

I'm tempted to go for 1995, in that like Tom I crammed several years of adolescent experience into a short period of time. Unlike Tom, I crammed all that experience into THREE WEEKS at the end of which I almost didn't recognise myself. It was fun. 1997 was fun too, but followed up with the worst year of my life, so I can't really look too fondly upon some of it.

The last few years have all been great - from about 99 until 2001 things seemed to get better and better. 2002 was a bit of a transitional year (new job, house, friends, life...) but this year has been pretty rocking already and looks like its going to continue to be so. Very carefree as well, which helps.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 24 January 2003 11:57 (twenty-three years ago)

Probably 1999. Company taking over the world, fabulously wealthy in entirely imaginary money, almost everyone I know doing really well, a general sense of having the best friends in the world, and a world that was getting better. 2000 had it's moments as well, but shades of 2001 were starting to creep in towards the end.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Friday, 24 January 2003 12:10 (twenty-three years ago)

2003 im thinking...the other great years were more up and down, plenty bad to balance out the good. other good ones were 1999 and 1995 and 1993

gareth (gareth), Friday, 24 January 2003 12:15 (twenty-three years ago)

And then you joined Havoc!

Lara (Lara), Friday, 24 January 2003 12:17 (twenty-three years ago)

2002, for eventfulness alone.

Graham (graham), Friday, 24 January 2003 12:20 (twenty-three years ago)

Corvil, in 2002. Havok wouldn't have me (sob).

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Friday, 24 January 2003 12:21 (twenty-three years ago)

Woops.

bzzzzz bzzzzz

Lara (Lara), Friday, 24 January 2003 12:22 (twenty-three years ago)

i have real fond memories of 1990 - school and musical memories mainly. it was pretty much the end of my childhood and i was just about to step up into real teenage hell so i cherish those heady days before i had to get a paper-round, buy acne treatments etc. :(

august 2000 - august 2001 is the best 12 consecutive months i think i have ever had in my life as an adult - mainly due to acquiring girlfriend, increasing social circle (it was only a crescent before), things improving at work, moving out into my own flat, starting numerous web projects, being able to download lots of music finally...fantastico

stevem (blueski), Friday, 24 January 2003 12:25 (twenty-three years ago)

2000, i think. the summer of 2000, in particular.

weasel diesel (K1l14n), Friday, 24 January 2003 12:52 (twenty-three years ago)

the first 3/4 of 2001 were pretty great; actually as on the other thread i'll take the academic year 2000-2001.

but really i think 2003 will be; there are just so many good things in my life right now and so few bad ones.

toby (tsg20), Friday, 24 January 2003 12:53 (twenty-three years ago)

1994 was my best year cos I lost my virginity & bought loads of great records & had my first proper girlfriend who was cute and Italian and she cooked the best pasta for me which we ate while we drank and fucked and watched the world cup & I started to dress well & I visited London for the first time & lots of other fun things happened which is the opposite of now.

1994 was also my worst year.

Eyeball Kicks (Eyeball Kicks), Friday, 24 January 2003 13:02 (twenty-three years ago)

i'm impressed that y'all can remember years so far in the past so well, i have trouble remembering what happened yesterday

geeta (geeta), Friday, 24 January 2003 13:03 (twenty-three years ago)

Yeah I was just thinking that, it's all a big mush, I can't remember what I did 3 weeks ago.

Ronan (Ronan), Friday, 24 January 2003 13:10 (twenty-three years ago)

1997 showed the biggest improvement, but only because 1996 was so bad. 2002 wins: surgery wound up forcing me to get into better shape, I sold more writing than in all previous years put together, qualified for guilds and grants, a thing I wrote went into second edition, I started painting, my brother got out of prison after a lengthy stay for adolescent stupidity, Ben and Jerry's made an ice cream based on my suggestion ("The Full VerMonty"), and best of all, I met my girlfriend. 2003's got a lot to live up to.

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 24 January 2003 13:10 (twenty-three years ago)

1989 was the most exciting. Spent just over four months in America studying, then working. Made some lifelong friends that year and had some great friendships that were a little briefer.

Bit of a voyage of discovery in lots of ways. Took acid for the first time, enjoyed living and working in a completely different environment, was able to re-invent myself to a large extent.

Had some of the best nights of my life and finshed the year a very different person to the one that started it (in a good way).

More recently, the last couple of years have seen me very happy and settled. Became a father in 2001, and I think I've found what I've been looking for all these years (some sort of purpose/meaning in life) in a place I was never expecting. Spent years worrying about how I'd find a job that would fulfill me and now realise it doesn't matter.

James Ball (James Ball), Friday, 24 January 2003 14:07 (twenty-three years ago)

1986 was great!

July 1992 - June 1994 = pretty good

2000 - I can't complain - Got my MA, did more generally, got my old job back and so didn't have to go through the endless round of rejection interviews, started buying music I liked instead of music I wanted to like, read more books than before...

jel -- (jel), Friday, 24 January 2003 18:24 (twenty-three years ago)

2001 -- saying goodbye to berkeley in the most pleasant and mellow summer imaginable, reading, listening to music, bonding with friends, nesting, then moving to chicago, embarking on what at the time felt like a great new life course (wore off a bit in the '02) and beginning a v. nice relationship.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Friday, 24 January 2003 18:36 (twenty-three years ago)

1997. I had just met the girl I'd eventually marry. For the first time, I had joined a band that actually played out; we opened up for a bunch of my local favorites and even toured to some small extent. For the first and only time in my life, I was somewhat "popular," and never lacked for drinking buddies or people to hang out with. I could feel myself seizing certain opportunities that I knew wouldn't come around again. Indeed, a lot of the circumstances that made my 1997 possible vanished by 1998. I've either lost touch or fallen out with a lot of the people with whom I was inseparable at the time.

mike a (mike a), Friday, 24 January 2003 18:43 (twenty-three years ago)

Runner up: 1999. Lots of traveling, getting married, and driving cross-country to move in a new city.

mike a (mike a), Friday, 24 January 2003 18:44 (twenty-three years ago)

This is a hard question..
I'd like to say 2003 because I'm very optomistic and my life really does seem to get better each year.

Runners up...
1998 - Played in two bands I really enjoyed. Had lots of fun with my then-new bf. Had lots of friends that, for the most part, I have since lost touch with. Went to New York and DC for fun mini-vacations.

1995 - Just graduated high school. Really excited about going to college where I could settle down for 4 years because I was so sick of moving around. Went to lots of parties and listened to the PIXIES all the time. Lots of fun first semester at college too. Felt like I could do anything with my life/ big open field of possibilities.

1983- Can't remember this too well, but I was 6. I just remember being really happy all the time. I was my parents' little princess, the oldest of 3 daughters. I went to Disney World with my mom and Cinderella talked to me on my birthday. Every day was exciting. I had all these cute little frilly dresses. We went to the zoo, camping, the science museum, libraries... My mom always had something planned for me. When I woke up she would sing to me. When I went to bed, she would sing to me again after my bible stories. Pure heaven.

Sarah McLusky (coco), Friday, 24 January 2003 18:54 (twenty-three years ago)

1996- found tons of incredibly great things to read. school was awful but i was so interested in all the books i was reading and the stories i was writing that it didn't get me down.

1997- went to middle school and met people who liked being smart and liked talking about books and didn't know that i was supposed to be shy and socially awkward. lots of new friends. teachers who cared whether i was interested and challenged.

2001/early 2002- socially very fun year, first relationship, which was fun at first.

Maria (Maria), Friday, 24 January 2003 20:41 (twenty-three years ago)

Hmm, probably 2000. I was 21 and full of fun! I met lots of wonderful people (including my girlfriend) and most things were new and exciting. Now my tummy wobbles.

Ally C (Ally C), Friday, 24 January 2003 20:53 (twenty-three years ago)

But it's so soft and *smooth*.

Lara (Lara), Friday, 24 January 2003 21:35 (twenty-three years ago)

Hmm, there is that...

Ally C (Ally C), Friday, 24 January 2003 22:20 (twenty-three years ago)

Now you'll sleep a little more soundly tonight. Night night.

Lara (Lara), Friday, 24 January 2003 22:26 (twenty-three years ago)

2000 was unbelievably great for me, but like i mentioned in the worst year of your life thread, everything came crashing down and made 2001 even more difficult to handle/accept

i wish that when this thread and the opposite were conceived they were placed as one....it would be interesting to see how people picked themselves back up following their worst year...or in my case vice versa

jack, Friday, 24 January 2003 22:37 (twenty-three years ago)

Well, I can tell you that 1992 was far better than 1991, my stated worst year. It actually didn't start out that way: my dad died in early 1992. But by midyear 1992 I'd gotten a new job, moved to Manhattan, and very much started my life over. It was great to bounce back after the hell that was 1991.

mike a (mike a), Friday, 24 January 2003 22:49 (twenty-three years ago)

2002 was sweet.

Mandee, Friday, 24 January 2003 23:22 (twenty-three years ago)

So far, this one.

sundar subramanian (sundar), Friday, 24 January 2003 23:45 (twenty-three years ago)

every year better than the last. At least I think so, because I certainly wouldn't want to live through them again. But threads like this scare me, because it makes me worry that as fine as now is, I'm gonna like...miss it later. It's not SO good that I'll be comfortable pining for it.

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Friday, 24 January 2003 23:50 (twenty-three years ago)

all yrs r da same

naked as sin (naked as sin), Saturday, 25 January 2003 00:35 (twenty-three years ago)

So far, it was 2001. I was in a class filled with friends old and new, people who accepted, appreciated and (to some degree) understood me, great folks, all of 'em. Sk00l was (and remains) grebt because all the annoying stuff like maths and science was gone and I could focus on all the fun stuff like philosophy. Also got to read Viagens Na Minha Terra by Almeida Garret (one of my all-time fav books.)

I was at Epinions (an amateur writer site) during that time, making music reviews that I was truly PROUD of (even tho they pro'lly sucked in retrospect) and gaining respect from writers that I truly admired (I was, and still am, an enormous net-writah-groupie)

In the Summer, I visited the beautiful country of Sweden and finaly met my long time netfriend and general Partner In Kryme John, spending a few days with him soaking up the greatness of Sweden's music scene and basking in the surrealism of it all.

Don't remember much about the music: there was Semisonic and The Ramones and Burt Bacharach and Ash and Prefab Sprout and Pulp and a few others.

And yeah, I still didn't (and don't) have a girlfriend, but I had a crush- a pleasant crush whom I could just think about warmly, instead of the tragic bloated Real Love crap that I had gone through the past few years. So that was cool too.

Yeah yeah yeah, Twin Towers, tragedy of our lives, blah, blah, blah. That didn't happen until September, and then, yeah, a few weeks of being a nervous wreck, but ya learn ta live, as y'all know.

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Saturday, 25 January 2003 00:51 (twenty-three years ago)

Yeah yeah yeah, Twin Towers, tragedy of our lives, blah, blah, blah

You wouldn't be all "blah blah blah" if you were in New York when it happened. Dude, you weren't even in the country.

Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Saturday, 25 January 2003 01:07 (twenty-three years ago)

1996. I got my first ever car of my own. I had a group of friends with whom I regularly did things (some are no longer in my life; the rest are too busy to get together). The Afghan Whigs and Soul Coughing put out two of the finest CDs of the decade (in my opinion), so there were lots of trips to shows. No money worries (my job was a dead end, but it was well-paid and not difficult). I was in a stable relationship with a man who hadn't yet begun to work my nerves.

Hmmm...I'd say this list gives me some goals to work towards in 2003.
:^}

j.lu (j.lu), Saturday, 25 January 2003 01:12 (twenty-three years ago)

Being as I'm only 21, I'm gonna have to say something along the lines of what Jason London says in Dazed and Confused (paraphrasing):

If the best years of my life are already behind me, kill me now.

Girolamo Savonarola, Saturday, 25 January 2003 01:21 (twenty-three years ago)

The jury' s out.

felicity (felicity), Saturday, 25 January 2003 01:43 (twenty-three years ago)

You wouldn't be all "blah blah blah" if you were in New York when it happened. Dude, you weren't even in the country.

I didn't mean to be disrespectful; *of course* I'd see things diferently if I had been in NYC when it happened. It's just that 2001 was a great year for me and whenever I say that ppl inevitably bring up 9/11.

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Saturday, 25 January 2003 01:48 (twenty-three years ago)

Girolamo, that quote is relevant no matter what your age.

Venga, Saturday, 25 January 2003 01:49 (twenty-three years ago)

Yes, but in my case I actually believe that my best years are well ahead of me.

Girolamo Savonarola, Saturday, 25 January 2003 02:20 (twenty-three years ago)

i guess i have a lot of fond memories of 1998 but they don't really count as much of it involved altered states and my best friend told me she never wanted to see me again and i never really recovered from that. at least things are better for me than they were two years ago.

di smith (lucylurex), Saturday, 25 January 2003 03:38 (twenty-three years ago)

2000, when I was dating J*ff. The happiest year of my life.

Sean (Sean), Saturday, 25 January 2003 03:46 (twenty-three years ago)

1995. I studied abroad, got married and began to wrap up what was an altogether successful college career. Then I went and topped it with what has so far been a dismal stab at adulthood.

That Girl (thatgirl), Saturday, 25 January 2003 03:49 (twenty-three years ago)

I'd have to say that most years I can recall clearly possess enough duff moments (if ONLY I meant the beer) to disqualify from being The Best. 1998 takes the cake for possessing the highest highs & the lowest lows, so for lack of a clear-cut winner, that'd be it. 1980 took the cake & smushed it in my face all rude-like. Most of the years between sizucked. (Note: my dribble glass is always half-empty.) (Well, duh - it's a dribble glass.)

David R. (popshots75`), Saturday, 25 January 2003 08:26 (twenty-three years ago)

I'm hoping it just might be 2003.

Ben Mott (Ben Mott), Saturday, 25 January 2003 19:16 (twenty-three years ago)


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