Arcane Sexual Violence

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If you fall asleep with some chick and you wake up and she's got her finger stuck up your asshole, is that 'rape'?

― dave q, Saturday, 25 January 2003 20:37 (twenty-three years ago)

Depends on whatever the look is on your face when you realise what's going down. That holds up in court. In Turkey, at least.

― Nordicskillz (Nordicskillz), Saturday, 25 January 2003 20:39 (twenty-three years ago)

Well, depending upon where you live, but in Scotland, 'technically', dave, no.

― Cozen (Cozen), Saturday, 25 January 2003 20:42 (twenty-three years ago)

Did she pull it out and make you lick it???

― brg30 (brg30), Saturday, 25 January 2003 22:38 (twenty-three years ago)

If you fall asleep with some chick and you wake up and she's got her finger stuck up your asshole, is that 'rape'?

If you didn't consent to be anally penetrated, you could declare this a case of rape or indecent assault, depending on the language of the applicable law. (Some older laws penalize rape only when a woman is the victim.)

― j.lu (j.lu), Sunday, 26 January 2003 03:33 (twenty-three years ago)

There's not enough information in the question to give any kind of reasonable answer.

I guess this is the part where someone could question the sincerity of the question citing NOT the "guys never say no" double standard, but instead the "this is dave q and we've read his posts before so because it's him (with his history) we're skeptical". But of course that would be a classic error.

― Kim (Kim), Sunday, 26 January 2003 04:02 (twenty-three years ago)

One finger. Come on. You must have been blackout drunk or something, because I could be drunker than a Russian sailor and still feel some assplay goin' on.

― Polo Pony, Sunday, 26 January 2003 07:47 (twenty-three years ago)

but dave q doesnt drink!

― chaki (chaki), Sunday, 26 January 2003 09:20 (twenty-three years ago)

What the fuck would someone be doing to just wake up and "Oh, hey, there's a finger up my ass!"? Wouldn't you have noticed it like way earlier? I can't even answer the question because I can't think of a conceivable way this could happen, short of like a minor drug overdose knocking ya out.

― Ally (mlescaut), Sunday, 26 January 2003 09:29 (twenty-three years ago)

It's really nice to wake up being made love to - it'd be really sad if no-one did that anymore for fear of being accused of rape.

I would say that the "intimacy conventions" of your relationship with the other person would define whether or not it was rape.

If it was a one night stand person then it's going a bit far. If it's someone more familiar but you were an arse-virgin or not interested in arse stuff then it's going a bit far but if it's something you have done previously together and both feel comfortable with then maybe it's not going to far.

But then that's like saying that a husband technically can't rape his wife, which is bullshit of course.

― toraneko (toraneko), Sunday, 26 January 2003 11:29 (twenty-three years ago)

five years pass...

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― joule kilcher (goole), Saturday, 20 December 2008 21:21 (seventeen years ago)

Heh heh heh, aren't I shocking with my attention-getting un-PCness.

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― Sven Hassel Schutthefuckup (The stickman from the hilarious 'xkcd' comics), Saturday, 20 December 2008 21:24 (seventeen years ago)

Heh heh heh, aren't I shocking with my attention-getting un-PCness.

-- dave q, Monday, 29 July 2002 01:00 (5 years ago) Bookmark Link

― Sven Hassel Schutthefuckup (The stickman from the hilarious 'xkcd' comics), Saturday, 20 December 2008 21:24 (9 minutes ago) [IP: 91.104.121.21] Bookmark

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― Pashmina, Saturday, 20 December 2008 21:36 (seventeen years ago)