ILX: Season Of Smut

I talk about sex all the time. I wish there were less talk, more rawk, but that's life.

2) What do you fantasize about? (feel free to be anonymous)

Right now? Having someone to snuggle with who'll distract me from the fact that there's NO FUCKING HEAT in my apartment.

2)i seem to fantasize a lot about group sex these days. but it always involves a certain rock star whos been dead for about 25 years (tho sorry to disappoint i fantasize him alive and well).

3)What a fucking dumm question.

2) the usual assortment of straight-guy stuff, though I tend not to cross too many boundaries in re consent (ie my fantasies tend to include discussions beforehand, if you can believe that)

2) The only fantasy I'll admit to is seducing men whose preferred type of women is drastically different from me. (This is more about my dissatisfaction with my body image and my annoyance with how the media represents women with my shape.)

(I know the post said "be anonymous" but what's the fun in that?)

thats not far fetched at all.

What I'm curious about is how ilX0r would feel if everybody did their best to be open about #2

haha yeah i stupidly forgot that men are creeps. sorry. forget i asked.

2) I cannot even begin to describe how unbelievably vanilla my fantasies are.

2 - Ah, the intimate question. Okay, I fantasize most about emotional intimacy, but when I am looking for ideas to get the blood flowing, then I fantasize about sensations, and as a dominant I think about being worshipped and as a sadist I think about the power over someone and taking them to new heights of sensations and them "thanking" me through multiple orgasms. Oh, and as being bi-sexual, the stated fantasies apply to all genders (male, female, and everything in-between.)

Oddly, (and here is where things get personal) I have found myself more and more turned-off by "live action." I am active in the leather community (het and gay) and attend parties where things occur that would normally put one over the top as far as sexual arousal is concerned. However, like with most things, the more visually exposed to things I become, the more blase they are. I realizied this a couple of months ago, when I was at a women's play party - I will not go into the gristly details, but think "roman women's orgy" and you'd not be far off base. And I found myself sitting on a couch, with two females rubbing my feet and legs and talking with a friend about carpet spot removal. Sad, eh?

So I've started to distance myself from such activities so that my tolerance to such images and ideas will once again becoming arousing.

Oh, and Matos - thanks for your words - I have the same trouble with the fantasies, getting caught-up in the dialogue and interaction as opposed to thinking about the orgasm-end of things.

But, as far as the fantasies go - when I think about men, they tend to raunchy and very active. When I think about women, they tend to be calmer, more loving, more intimate (though there are moments of raunch there, too).

(And after having, for years, thought I'd end-up in a long-term relationship with a woman, I find myself in a long-term relationship with two men. Odd where life takes us.)

1) I don't talk about it so much but I tend to be more ok with it when I'm getting some, so having a boyfriend or love interest of sorts = Ally more open about everything.

2) I almost always end up forgetting to fantasize about actually getting it on, and my fantasies tend to end with me falling asleep while thinking about having a conversation about the T1 or Highlander or my cousin's fake wedding or something.

3) Obv. yes.

Wait ... you're not saying you fantasize about your high-speed internet connection? Are you?

Insomnia suXors.

Around the Clock!!

My fantasies tend to revolve around group sex in many combinations (I've mentioned before that I'm bi).

secret favorite sex thing: i'm staying at someone elses house or theyre staying at mine and they start to have sex. hearing it is great catching glimpses of it even better. mmm, must have more guests soon

Needless to say I read this as 'far-felched.' I feared.

1) Because

2) This and that

3) One wonders.