Accurate Depecitons of Gay or Queer Men on Televison

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Willow/Tara and Carrie Weaver are both women-what about Gay Men ?
Regulars, not one episode only guest stars.

anthony easton (anthony), Sunday, 16 February 2003 19:01 (twenty-three years ago)

Rickie, the Wilson Cruz character on My So-Called Life.

Francesca's gay dads on the Tracey Ullman show.

David from Six Feet Under, maybe.

Arthur (Arthur), Sunday, 16 February 2003 19:13 (twenty-three years ago)

the women in sex in the city are basically gay men, but possibly not v.accurate (eg for one thing they are women)

mark s (mark s), Sunday, 16 February 2003 19:38 (twenty-three years ago)

pee-wee herman

jess (dubplatestyle), Sunday, 16 February 2003 19:55 (twenty-three years ago)

(upon watching pee wee's big adventure last night one of nancy's friends remarked "if you crossed pee-wee with a chicken it would be phil", another of nancy's (queer) pals.)

jess (dubplatestyle), Sunday, 16 February 2003 19:56 (twenty-three years ago)

pee wee, and the women are coded.
im sick of doing that, of reading and hoping and looking b/w the lines or depending on portrayals that are self loathing (cf David)

why is this ?

anthony easton (anthony), Sunday, 16 February 2003 20:07 (twenty-three years ago)

one of the reasons i want to write abt "if..." is that it deals with a densely homosocial world w/o actually ever making a big thing of this, or pushing it centre-stage as a topic — it's just kind of pervasively there, and not made an issue of at all (in either direction)

in TV maybe it has this aura of inescapable politicisation — a character can never just be who s/he is, but also has always to declare where the programme-makers stand — and this after a while just totally poisons the portrayal-in-itself?

(this is less of a problem when stuff is coded, obv: eg where do buffy's makers stand on the Rights of Demons? well, they don;t and they don't feel they have to, and therefore demonism can stand for underground sexuality one week and then not the next)

mark s (mark s), Sunday, 16 February 2003 20:16 (twenty-three years ago)

Smithers?

Nate Patrin (Nate Patrin), Sunday, 16 February 2003 20:38 (twenty-three years ago)

(probably not)

Nate Patrin (Nate Patrin), Sunday, 16 February 2003 20:38 (twenty-three years ago)

Would a straight man be able to answer this question at all, Anthony? I'm not sure that I do knowe what makes a really *accurate* depiciton, and if I did posit a suggestion I can imagine being scornfully told that how would I know, anyway?

Mark C (Mark C), Sunday, 16 February 2003 20:40 (twenty-three years ago)

of course you can mark, i am sure that you know homosexuals, gays, queers, post queers, and any no. of other folx who self id as a sexaul other- do their lives match up with the lives you see on tv.

mark, can you expand on if (i considered it a code, but a code for the SI student revolt taken in that time and place, an aoplogy and a how to for revoultion & destruction of class and place-o/c their was some homosocial shit but it didnt seem the point.)

also, thinking of willow and tara and how that relates to the demon as sexual underground, can you tell me more about that ?

anthony easton (anthony), Sunday, 16 February 2003 20:56 (twenty-three years ago)

i suppose this question is really about 'can a straight OR gay writer create a gay character in their show whose life does not revolve around their sexuality?' and whether this is more a flaw on the writer's part or society and media perceptions. because camp behaviour and outspoken displays of homosexuality are still considered taboo to an extent thus still a cornerstone of humour (from Will & Grace to Queer As Folk to Things To Do Before You're 30) in the U.S., Canada, UK, Ireland and Australia (not sure how it goes in Europe or indeed anywhere else in the world).

but of course the stereotypes do exist, for they are celebrated and endorsed by some heterosexuals and homosexuals alike, so who's to say whether the characters from Queer As Folk (UK) or Ferdy from This Life (UK) or that guy in that Aussie show (forgot its title) are NOT accurate depictions? Will & Grace's stereotypes are highly dubious though without a doubt (i.e. they might mean well but for all his posturing Jack is never seen WITH a male partner indulging in any love-related activity/action, let alone in a natural 'so what?' light, and nor is Will who appears as sexless/assexual anyway which comes across as ironically over-realistic or over-compensating to many homosexuals)

stevem (blueski), Sunday, 16 February 2003 20:56 (twenty-three years ago)

QAF, now thats an interesting one-lets talk about that.

anthony easton (anthony), Sunday, 16 February 2003 21:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Anthony, do you really think of David as "self-loathing?" I mean, I see your point, but I think this is half of what I like about him as a character: he's not held up as some kind of fully-formed example-queer, we actually get to watch him struggle to sort out his own sexuality, to experience all sorts of successes and failures in working out how exactly he fits into his own sexuality. (Keith is way more of the fully-formed "this is a gay person" example, and may be slightly more what you and Mark are looking for -- it's conditional upon his being sort of tangential to David, but his queerness is something that's completely set and confident, and the shows dealings with his character are all about other aspects of his personality, e.g. his temper and his family. He is like 80% a gay character whose character isn't at all about being gay.)

nabisco (nabisco), Sunday, 16 February 2003 21:00 (twenty-three years ago)

hmm, yeah i do.
and self loathing is part of the whole beginnings of coming out, and that struggle is legit.

but you need to move on, and how he moved on-with the fucking and the whoke scenes where he is fearful of his mother, and the buttoned up "im not really anything but loved" i dont konw...

now keith seems to be a foil for david, a knight n shining armour (cf vegas) and he does teach david how to be a proper angry faggot, but he does not exist without him ,he will disappear etc
(race and keith-interesting side question)

look at tara and willow or weaver- they exist as sepearate as other, their grief is real and the struggles dont seem to be so ott.

anthony easton (anthony), Sunday, 16 February 2003 21:11 (twenty-three years ago)

well, yes, anthony, exactly: if.... is a story abt tradition and revolt and how they intertwine, and the gay stuff is kind of just there as a free lunch really, subtle and tender and not made a big deal of... recall this is less than year after homosexuality between adults became legal in the uk, and here it is NOT THE PRIMARY SUBJECT OF THE STORY

the fact that if.... doesn't usually feature in the canons of queer cinema is closely releated to the fact that it gets its portrait of (i think) several types of gay man (repressed or otherwise) on-screen in such an open and unconstricted way

the section where wallis is exercising on the parallel bars for philips; the section where philips is being traded among the "whips" to discomfit denson (or denton, i forget his name), the way jute is appraised by (and flirts with) rowntree, and — deepest of all — knightley's adoration-unto-worship of travis

mark s (mark s), Sunday, 16 February 2003 23:23 (twenty-three years ago)

Any thoughts on "Ellen?" I find the episodes before she came out to be the most interesting to look at in terms of depictions of homosexuality. Its not clear whether she is a bad actress and couldn't conceal her difficulty portraying heterosexual romantic love or if she is a really great actress for portraying someone who has such subtle but obvious discomfort with the opposite sex.

Film seems to be a better place to look, because of its diversity. 1985 you have My Own Private Idaho, where thanks to River Phoenix's improv., homosexuality goes from a business to a plausible reality...the same year you have My Beautiful Laundrette. I think Paris is Burning came out around this time too. More currently, I thought But I'm A Cheerleader was both a fairy tale gay world but still was an accurate portrayal (in SOME of the more three dimensional characters) of lesbianism.

Its very difficult for me to generalize about "what homosexuals are like," as I seem to encounter regional differences such as the togetherness of lesbians in Olympia, WA vs. the flaming agression of gays in the bay area. Whether or not t.v. portrayals conform to my anecdotal experience doesn't really prove anything to me.

Ryan McKay (Ryan McKay), Monday, 17 February 2003 00:12 (twenty-three years ago)

Based on the gay guys I know IRL, I'd like to think the gay lads on Secret Life of Us (the bartender and ... the other bloke. God I cant recall their names!) are pretty accurate, in that they DONT ascribe to the campy screaming queen stereotype. Much as I enjoy the show, Will and Grace shit me to tears thanks to Jack and Karen. If I was gay, I'd be embarrased to be associated with someone like Jack.

QAF (US, havent seen UK version) leaves me with the same impression. Why accentuate the bawdy, sex-crazed, drug-crazed aspect all the bloody time? I know way more annoying straight wankers who are coked up and shagigng everything that moves, than gay ones.

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 17 February 2003 00:25 (twenty-three years ago)

well obviously you can find accurate depictions of gay men all over television, since someone's sexuality ultimately determines every single aspect of their personality, and in the specific example of gay men, having a preference for cock automatically turns you into a one-dimensional character that can be filmed.

webber (webber), Monday, 17 February 2003 00:29 (twenty-three years ago)

There's an extra problem here - we only believe in the straight characters and relationships we see on TV because they are omnipresent enough to become simulacrums - we believe them because they form a key part of our understanding of heterosexuality. 'We' however know more about gay people IRL than we do from TV, so the jar between reality and TV is greater.

I thought the first season of QAF (US) was actually quite good in its portrayals, with a level of reality that could be seen through the gloss. Now (halfway through second season over here) it's descended into high farce, and is to gay people as Ally McBeal was to straight people.

Tim Finney (Tim Finney), Monday, 17 February 2003 02:40 (twenty-three years ago)

My Beautiful Launderette came out a few years before Paris Is Burning which came out a few years before My Own Private Idaho.

Has anyone mentioned Oz yet?

James Blount (James Blount), Monday, 17 February 2003 03:01 (twenty-three years ago)

oz is about forced confinement, is genet a reflection of queer id ?

anthony easton (anthony), Monday, 17 February 2003 03:08 (twenty-three years ago)

How about Billy Crystal's character on "Soap"? Was he not one of the first gay characters on the tube? (And is it a bad thing that he got a girl pregnant? The idea being that he's not "totally" gay, or something?)

I'm Passing Open Windows (Ms Laura), Monday, 17 February 2003 03:21 (twenty-three years ago)

Lance Loud?

James Blount (James Blount), Monday, 17 February 2003 03:39 (twenty-three years ago)

Painfully accurate, that one.

Arthur (Arthur), Monday, 17 February 2003 04:41 (twenty-three years ago)

I'm worried by this phrase "accurate depictions" It suggests that we all know what traits constitute a Gay Man, etc. Do you just mean: characters who are written with the ring of truth and happen to be gay (whether or not this is a big part of the character)? By that standard I agree re. David from Six Feet Under, though I have problems with the show in general.

Amateurist (amateurist), Monday, 17 February 2003 04:49 (twenty-three years ago)

now keith seems to be a foil for david, a knight n shining armour (cf vegas) and he does teach david how to be a proper angry faggot, but he does not exist without him ,he will disappear etc

Seeing as how 6' under is the only show mentioned I actually watch, I can only comment on it, and this part of a post by anthony, which suggests that Keith is the closest to real because he is so close to being assimilated. Because he will dissappear without David, the spotlight, and become a 'normal' person dealing with job and family, etc.

Perhaps this is just the closest character to being a real person, rather than A Gay Man In Society.

jm (jtm), Monday, 17 February 2003 06:00 (twenty-three years ago)


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