That's neither here nor there though -- the very open-shut "I don't go to _______" attitude really really irks me no matter what cultural setting it's being applied to.
And scanning ILX in the past couple of days...
Yes: I met a girl recently: "I don't go to the East Bay..." She looked ill when I told her I live in Oakland.-- andy (and...), January 28th, 2004 4:15 PM.
Generally speaking, I don't go to Brooklyn. But I might, for Arthur Doyle. -- Phil Freeman (newyorkisno...), January 27th, 2004.
What's up with people who say this?
― jody (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:31 (twenty-two years ago)
i think a potentially valid reason for this, is if people come to the city from suburbia, and they've wanted to get away from suburbia all the time they were growing up, they wanted to be in the big city. so, when they get here, they dont want to go to the bits that remind them of where they came from, and they dont want the bits that are not exactly like what they dreamed the big city would be
― Stringent Stepper (Stringent), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:37 (twenty-two years ago)
― andy, Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:38 (twenty-two years ago)
― Felonious Drunk (Felcher), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― lauren (laurenp), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― Eric H. (Eric H.), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean Carruthers (SeanC), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:43 (twenty-two years ago)
Plus, I see far gnarlier stuff in Downtown SF than I ever see in Oakland (people-wise, not blight-wise).
― andy, Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― Eric H. (Eric H.), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:47 (twenty-two years ago)
I agree it's snobbery if the person has never been there before, or only remembers being there once or twice in the past under less-than-pleasant circumstances...
(..like every person who disses Orange County who's only encounter was going to Disneyland, for example)
― donut bitch (donut), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― lauren (laurenp), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― lauren (laurenp), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:49 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nemo (JND), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:49 (twenty-two years ago)
― donut bitch (donut), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:49 (twenty-two years ago)
What the hell difference does it make if I don't visit certain areas? The only reason I come down here to northern VA is because I have to work here. Otherwise I'd stick to DC and my neighborhood as much as possible. I like walking.
― TOMBOT, Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― andy, Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:54 (twenty-two years ago)
(xpost)
― lauren (laurenp), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:55 (twenty-two years ago)
That's fine, but would you refuse to go to a certain neighborhood even if the Ikea you needed to go to was there, just because you "don't go" there?
― jody (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 21:56 (twenty-two years ago)
Only if it was a huge transportation hassle, but never just because "i don't go there".
I don't think you'll find many people on this forum like that, Jody... they're all probably like "I just won't go to ILX".
― donut bitch (donut), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― TOMBOT, Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― TOMBOT, Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:03 (twenty-two years ago)
haha, touche
― jody (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:12 (twenty-two years ago)
probably half of oakland is snazzier, nicer, and safer than most of SF. admittedly there are crap areas of it as well but people don't judge SF by Hunter's Point, so people shouldn't judge Oakland by East Oakland.
I live in Berkeley and a great many of the SF people I know would rather die than drive over the bridge. They still expect me to show up to everything though. I mean, I used to drive across the bridge TWICE a fucking day, sometimes 4 times. It is not the end of the world. Although, I guess, if I lived in SF I wouldn't leave either, if only so I wouldn't have to come home and search for parking.
― anthony kyle monday (akmonday), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:19 (twenty-two years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― kephm, Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― teeny (teeny), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:29 (twenty-two years ago)
But did you see the look of horror on her face when Steve said "Brooklyn"?
― jody (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:34 (twenty-two years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:35 (twenty-two years ago)
In London, however, if it's not in Zone 1, it can f*ck right off. But that has more to do with my Underground phobia (quite a sensible phobia given the levels of dirt and pollution) than any sensibilities.
But that said, it depends on the bus routes. I will go to out of the way places (Stoke Newington) if I can get there by one busride, while places I have to transer for (Swiss Cottage) I'm far more loathe to go.
― The River Kate (kate), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:35 (twenty-two years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― Anna (Anna), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― The River Kate (kate), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― lauren (laurenp), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― The River Kate (kate), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:49 (twenty-two years ago)
xpost
― kephm, Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:50 (twenty-two years ago)
I NEVER went to South London, except when my friend J lived in New Cross. Yeesh. (sorry, Julio)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:52 (twenty-two years ago)
(Sorry to pick on Columbia, that's where my brother used to live. And complained about having to treck all the way out to Hunters Point to see me.)
― The River Kate (kate), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 22:53 (twenty-two years ago)
― teeny (teeny), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― gygax! (gygax!), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:02 (twenty-two years ago)
But being all posh and saying "I don't go X" is annoying, yeah.
― mookieproof (mookieproof), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― phil-two (phil-two), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:19 (twenty-two years ago)
― El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:21 (twenty-two years ago)
(xpost: nicole wins!)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:24 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:28 (twenty-two years ago)
― donut bitch (donut), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― i've been holding it in for years (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― Markelby (Mark C), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― The River Kate (kate), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:34 (twenty-two years ago)
― Anna (Anna), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:35 (twenty-two years ago)
(OK, after all this smugness, just watch me get home and all my belongings will be in a big pile in the lobby of our block of flats, and the lock will be changed...)
― The River Kate (kate), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:37 (twenty-two years ago)
Anna, understood, but North Londoners have the benefit of living somerwhere perceived (fairly in part, I'm sure) as trendier than south London. So I've been to north London lots, cos it's expected of me. Don't fear what you don't know.
― Markelby (Mark C), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:38 (twenty-two years ago)
― The River Kate (kate), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:40 (twenty-two years ago)
(I went out in Chiswick once, it was all a bit 'we shop at Gap and we're proud of it'. People looked at me like they knew I was skint/ wearing too much eyeliner. Sorry. I'm going to bed now I've been forced to reducing others to snotty cultural stereotypes, goodnight)
― Anna (Anna), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― Stringent Stepper (Stringent), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:54 (twenty-two years ago)
― paulhw (paulhw), Wednesday, 28 January 2004 23:58 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tim Boudskle, Thursday, 29 January 2004 00:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pious Twin (abennett), Thursday, 29 January 2004 01:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― Pious Twin (abennett), Thursday, 29 January 2004 01:08 (twenty-two years ago)
― Allyzay, Thursday, 29 January 2004 01:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― antexit (antexit), Friday, 30 January 2004 07:08 (twenty-two years ago)
Also, once you're inside a cab they have to take you wherever you want to go, whatever borough, by law.
Just because it's a law doesn't mean it's always obeyed. Esp. if you're black and going to Hunt's Point in the Bronx (not that I'd know from experience).
― hstencil, Friday, 30 January 2004 07:15 (twenty-two years ago)
― hstencil, Friday, 30 January 2004 07:16 (twenty-two years ago)
I got this last year. I reminded the guy that it was the law, and he just replied "tough shit" and waited for me to get out of the cab.
― jody (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 30 January 2004 07:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― hstencil, Friday, 30 January 2004 07:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― jody (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 30 January 2004 07:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― Orbit (Orbit), Friday, 30 January 2004 07:27 (twenty-two years ago)
hahahaha, yeah, there's only one rude cabbie left in NYC!
― hstencil, Friday, 30 January 2004 07:28 (twenty-two years ago)
― jody (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 30 January 2004 07:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 30 January 2004 12:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Friday, 30 January 2004 12:30 (twenty-two years ago)
― Markelby (Mark C), Friday, 30 January 2004 12:50 (twenty-two years ago)
when i'm back in the states, i can hear myself saying that i won't go to some of the small towns surrounding kalamazoo that consider themselves 'suburbs' like mattawan or richland that just remind me of high school football games and therefore hold no interest for me.
― colette (a2lette), Friday, 30 January 2004 13:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah (starry), Friday, 30 January 2004 13:08 (twenty-two years ago)
::realises boyfriend is from Blackheath and prepares to be beaten up upon return::
― The River Kate (kate), Friday, 30 January 2004 13:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Markelby (Mark C), Friday, 30 January 2004 13:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― The River Kate (kate), Friday, 30 January 2004 13:53 (twenty-two years ago)
Unsurprisingly, Joel Kotkin sez "Suburbia isn't dead yet!"
― Elvis Telecom, Thursday, 10 July 2008 18:35 (seventeen years ago)
Only white folks say this!
-- andy, Wednesday, January 28, 2004 4:38 PM (4 years ago) Bookmark Link
dumb post not tru
― and what, Thursday, 10 July 2008 18:38 (seventeen years ago)
I don't go there if it takes more than an hour to bus to. Why? BECAUSE IT TAKES MORE THAN AN HOUR TO BUS TO
― Will M., Thursday, 10 July 2008 18:50 (seventeen years ago)
This is even stupider in Cleveland, which is just separated by a river, yet people will say "I don't go to the East Side/West Side."
― Pancakes Hackman, Thursday, 10 July 2008 18:58 (seventeen years ago)
except for work i rarely leave my neighborhood or the ones surrounding it. why? because i don't really need to. good bars, the best music venues, and most of my brick and mortar shopping is all done here. i don't have any reason AGAINST other places, just rarely the need to go.
― chicago kevin, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:02 (seventeen years ago)
joel kotkin is a moron.
my ex-professor bites back:
http://www.cp-dr.com/node/2069
― get bent, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:06 (seventeen years ago)
OTM, same here-- i think the problem is more like if I were like "the best _____ restaurant is in ________" and you were like "i don't GO to _______" in spie of something actually being recommended to you there!
― Will M., Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:08 (seventeen years ago)
that that whole "i don't go to ________" without a compelling reason is retarded.
― chicago kevin, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:14 (seventeen years ago)
i remember when i lived in queens some dude was trying to chat me up somewhere and asked me where i lived and when i said queens he was like "ew, why?"
i hate people so much.
― bell_labs, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:18 (seventeen years ago)
i never go to rogers park or edgewater but that's only because without a car (or even with one depending on the time of day) it takes forfuckingever to get up there.
― chicago kevin, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:21 (seventeen years ago)
queens rules. what a dbag.
― get bent, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:27 (seventeen years ago)
welcome to life as a new jerseyan.
― Eisbaer, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:34 (seventeen years ago)
bell labs = http://www.bearsandbellies.com/kevin_james.jpg
― and what, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:36 (seventeen years ago)
bearsandbellies.com?
― bell_labs, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:38 (seventeen years ago)
-- Eisbaer, Thursday, July 10, 2008 3:34 PM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark Link
ugh
― carne asada, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:38 (seventeen years ago)
How can Americans return to the cities when the cities with the infrastructure that would justify returning to them are for the most part unaffordable now?
Anyway, suburbs like you get in Connecticut and New Jersey are pretty well hooked up to public transportation, so I doubt the "BosWash" suburbs are going anywhere anytime soon. Seems like more of an LA/Midwest/South problem.
― burt_stanton, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:39 (seventeen years ago)
Heh. Ask people who live in Portland if they ever go voluntarily to Gresham, Camas, Vancouver(WA), Woodburn, Wilsonville(Fry's is a special exception), Clackamas. etc.
― kingfish, Thursday, 10 July 2008 19:45 (seventeen years ago)