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Remember the first time you saw a dead body? Who was it? How did you feel? My first experience was when I was about 5 or 6 years old and I snuck into a house I'd been warned not to go into. I sat outside for a bit and watched people come and go, dabbing at their eyes and huddling in groups around the door, speaking quietly. When I pushed open the door and walked in, I nearly shat myself with fright. There, laid out, with candles all around the bed was the oldest, pastiest-faced hag I'd ever seen with what looked like bits of superglue holding her downturned mouth closed. It was a rural wake and there were women sitting around keening and rocking backwards and forwards. My legs actually buckled and it took me quite a few minutes to find the strength to scarper out of there as quickly as I could. I think I then experienced my first panic attack.

I'm still not too good around dead bods.

penelope_11, Thursday, 22 April 2004 23:18 (twenty-two years ago)

I've never seen a dead body. I think I'm too de-sensitised to be effected these days.

Johnney B (Johnney B), Thursday, 22 April 2004 23:23 (twenty-two years ago)

"I have just realised that I have never seen a dead body or a real female nipple. That's what comes of living in a cul-de-sac."

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Thursday, 22 April 2004 23:28 (twenty-two years ago)

First time I saw a dead body was a couple of months ago, before my grandma's funeral. She looked a bit like the singer from The Vines.

Cathy (Cathy), Thursday, 22 April 2004 23:51 (twenty-two years ago)

To my knowledge, I have yet to view a dead body. I wonder if this is somehow strange or unusual.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 23 April 2004 00:16 (twenty-two years ago)

Cadavers in anatomy labs. Fortunately, that's my only encounter with them.

Barry Bruner (Barry Bruner), Friday, 23 April 2004 00:17 (twenty-two years ago)

Apart from telly I dont think I've seen one either. Nor been to a funeral.

Trayce (trayce), Friday, 23 April 2004 00:19 (twenty-two years ago)

An old man died waiting for the 37 bus outside of JAGS. It hadn't been that long, really. I wasn't sure he was dead at the time, as the bus came before the ambulance arrived. Some other people told me the next day that they'd covered him up.

N. (nickdastoor), Friday, 23 April 2004 00:21 (twenty-two years ago)

Nor been to a funeral.

I've been to an interring -- my grandmother's ashes -- but the funeral ceremony itself had occurred two months previous. It felt strange but right, though, since it was just myself, my father, the gravedigger and a family friend who is also an Episcopal priest. Rather than a massive ceremonial event, it was quiet and dignified, very gentle.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 23 April 2004 00:23 (twenty-two years ago)

I too have never seen one nor been to a funeral. The closest I ever came was when I was 10 or 12, walking by the train tracks with my dad and the police intercepted us and told us to take another route because there was a transient who had been hit by a train ahead on the path. We would have a few deaths like this a year, my ex's dad committed suicide this way after I moved away.

teeny (teeny), Friday, 23 April 2004 00:27 (twenty-two years ago)

I saw my father's dead body when I was 14. He looked about as he had looked all throughout his disease, except not breathing.

j c (j c), Friday, 23 April 2004 00:35 (twenty-two years ago)

i saw dead bodies all the time. i lived in an area with a lot of old people, and when the ambulance came i would watch them defibrillate my neighbors and sometimes they lived by mostly they died. i guess this was from ages 10-12.

at 11 i went to my first open-casket viewing; i just took my cues from the adults. it seemed strange to me that i had played chess with him just the week before. seriously.

then later, my senior year in high school, i saw a few dead and near-dead as a part-time admitting clerk in the emergency room. the dead didn't bother me so much as the very ill and injured.

Orbit (Orbit), Friday, 23 April 2004 00:39 (twenty-two years ago)

Me too. Amputees freak me out for some reason.

I saw a dead (presumably) homeless guy on the sidewalk the other day though. I appalled myself by first thinking "damn i wish i had my camera".

mouse, Friday, 23 April 2004 00:41 (twenty-two years ago)


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