who is the biggest prole on lix

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in the words of another thread, it had to happen...

i'm way down there, come join me.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:13 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm the son of a hospital doctor (not a consultant) and a teacher. so not incredibly well off, but not a poor childhood either. squarely bourgeois.

Robbie Lumsden (Wallace Stevens HQ), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:16 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm common as muck, me

Dadaismus (Dada), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:19 (twenty-two years ago)

My paternal grandfather was a union organiser who got blacklisted by the jarrow shipyards, and died in poverty. Some years ago, my mum did the whole ancestral search thing, and nearly every ancestral thread lead to irish migrant labour!

you all = pwnz0r3d!!!1

Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:19 (twenty-two years ago)

My dad is an construction worker and my mom is a (untrained) children's nurse in a kindergarten, but I myself am an university student. Does coming from a prole background count?

Tuomas (Tuomas), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:20 (twenty-two years ago)

Irish migrant scum and proud of it!

Dadaismus (Dada), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:20 (twenty-two years ago)

ha, the prole prog threat.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:22 (twenty-two years ago)

Lix, what are you doing under a prole?

Markelby (Mark C), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:23 (twenty-two years ago)

...dancing round a Mayprole

Dadaismus (Dada), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:24 (twenty-two years ago)

Monty Python did this better.

N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:24 (twenty-two years ago)

haha barry, I only just got that one!!

Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:25 (twenty-two years ago)

i am a great believer in the non-ironic sporting of vests as casualwear

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:27 (twenty-two years ago)

Dad a machinist at Vauxhall for 23 years (prior to that: Dorbarns, English Electric, national service), Mum a domestic in various nursery and primary school kitchens (except when she worked in a laundry aged 14-16 and a brief hated spell on the production line at Berwick Toys in the mid-70s). Two-up two-down council house with no phone, bathroom or inside lav until 1979. But we were happy, etc.

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:29 (twenty-two years ago)

I like Budweiser.

hstencil (hstencil), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:29 (twenty-two years ago)

dad an electrician. mum stayed at home.
big thing for fried food.
am poor.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:30 (twenty-two years ago)

Electricians are loaded!

N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:31 (twenty-two years ago)

Parents rose from boring humble origins to become halfway recognised classical musicians so I fear no I'm not much of a prole. I try, tho, I was nearly reduced to searching for 20c on the ground for food tonight

Mr Mime (Andrew Thames), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:32 (twenty-two years ago)

similar thread.

hstencil (hstencil), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:33 (twenty-two years ago)

Dad was a builder (fencer to be exact) and mum a hairdresser. I am a horny handed son of a cut and blow dry.

Dave B (daveb), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:35 (twenty-two years ago)

if mum stayed at home, then not that poor.

chris (chris), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:39 (twenty-two years ago)

yes surely one income is usually better than two (wtf?!?!???!?).

hstencil (hstencil), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:39 (twenty-two years ago)

last night I actually started crying when I thought about what a life my grandfather's had: as a kid during the depression worked on his dad's farm, joined the military for WWII (and was a POW), came back, got married, built his own house (which he and gran still live in) and started working at the factory. Was also volunteer fireman. Sent his son to Vietnam. Retired now and you can't keep him indoors, he is all the time building things like parks for his town, he's pushing 80 and just built an enclosed patio onto the house, mom said she caught him reshingling the house recently just after he'd had a cast taken off for a broken ankle. He's a big guy too, probably 6'2" and 250#, it's amazing.

I don't know why, it just struck me somehow, how tough yet simple and wonderful a life it was--like when you're little you might think about being a soldier or a fireman someday, and he did that, and built houses and cars too! Also he helps keep things in perspective for me; he lived through the depression and WWII and Vietnam and the cold war. He's very quiet, I wish he would tell more stories. He surprised me a while back, suddenly grumbling about how it broke his heart to see the US sending kids off to war again. He absolutely lives at the American Legion building, although a lot of his contemporaries have passed and it is more the Korea and Vietnam vets who are there now.

I'm pretty proud of this sort of working-class background, and also sad that this sort of dignified working-class life is fading away. That's change, though.

teeny (teeny), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:41 (twenty-two years ago)


Electricians are loaded!

This reminds me of a program about london kids being stuck in a house for a week, prior to the experiment they didn't know eachother. The last day they were discussing status and money. One said his dad was an electrician. The girl replied= "Pah I would aim higher than that!" I laughed my phat arse of being aware that the boy's dad was probably swimming in money.

Dad's parents were *common people*. My mum's parents were okay. Her mother thinks she's a reincarnated (?) countess - I kid you not. It's hilarious... in a way. My parents run a shop. We're not exactly swimming in money but are doing fine. :-)

jesus nathalie (nathalie), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:41 (twenty-two years ago)

Fencing is a posh mans sport. No-one who has not got over ten siblings belongs on this thread (also answering the bizarre idea that if only one parent works family cannot be that poor. Int he olden days being up the duff was a full time job).

Pete (Pete), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:43 (twenty-two years ago)

Hmmm see I always find this hard to explain, but despite my Dad's super uppermiddleclass job etc we were CONSTANTLY in hideous debt, Mum had to do a lot of um piano teaching (v nonprole yes) to ensure we had grocery money, she hoarded a sack of various vegetables in rational fear of eventual ruin, Pizza Hut once or twice a year was an incredible treat. BUT we lived in a HOUSE, so mostly anyone I end up telling vaguely about this thinks we lived in gorgeous luxury. I KNOW TOO MANY FUCKING PUNK TRYHARD POLITICAL DORKS

Mr Mime (Andrew Thames), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:43 (twenty-two years ago)

There was the month or so we had to live in a motel till one of my Dad's luckily richass friends bailed us out, I guess. Should remember that.

Mr Mime (Andrew Thames), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:44 (twenty-two years ago)

He charged interest, tho

Mr Mime (Andrew Thames), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:45 (twenty-two years ago)

very modest upbringing (technically single-parent) but always food on the table. neither proud nor ashamed.

stevem (blueski), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:46 (twenty-two years ago)

xpost - old people who surprise you are the coolest fucking thing in the world.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:46 (twenty-two years ago)

between the time my parents divorced and my mom remarried, that was the roughest.

hstencil (hstencil), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:47 (twenty-two years ago)

the bizarre idea that if only one parent works family cannot be that poor

thanks pete, i wasn't even going to bother replying to that crazy idea. well put.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Monday, 24 May 2004 13:57 (twenty-two years ago)

we were at our best off when mum wasn't working is all, it's a bit redolent of margo and jerry is all. Jerry goes out to work while margo "potters"

chris (chris), Monday, 24 May 2004 14:06 (twenty-two years ago)

jerry and margot didn't have kids.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Monday, 24 May 2004 14:13 (twenty-two years ago)

Children aren't allowed in Surbiton.

Ricardo (RickyT), Monday, 24 May 2004 14:15 (twenty-two years ago)

jerry and margot didn't have kids.

The lack of kids was the shadow that loomed over The Good Life.

Michael Jones (MichaelJ), Monday, 24 May 2004 14:15 (twenty-two years ago)

there were baby goats, i'm sure. anyway this thread is about class war. for some people every day is about subsitence, bah to the sodding good life.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Monday, 24 May 2004 14:21 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm pretty proud of this sort of working-class background, and also sad that this sort of dignified working-class life is fading away. That's change, though.

It's change for the better surely? Working-class dignity in the face of poverty is obviously something to be proud of, but at the same time something to be angry about, ie angry that such reserves were called upon.

Enrique (Enrique), Monday, 24 May 2004 14:21 (twenty-two years ago)

Was it ever established that Jerry and Margot were childless? Perhaps they had 'grown-up' children, who didn't live at home...

Andrew L (Andrew L), Monday, 24 May 2004 14:23 (twenty-two years ago)

my grandad was a coal miner
i have worked in a steel mill
i have been a union member
i'm from pittsburgh
i like sports

i'm still not much of a prole, but i can pass

mookieproof (mookieproof), Monday, 24 May 2004 14:23 (twenty-two years ago)

Working-class dignity in the face of poverty

No, the point was that they weren't poor. (Poor was my other grandfather, who was too drunk to hold down a job.) My mom's family weren't totally comfortable all the time, but a union factory job allowed you to keep your kids in food and clothes at least, and you didn't have to worry about retirement.

teeny (teeny), Monday, 24 May 2004 14:33 (twenty-two years ago)

Was it ever established that Jerry and Margot were childless? Perhaps they had 'grown-up' children, who didn't live at home...

was it ever established jerry and margot didn't peel back their heads when no one was looking to free their real hermaphrodite, alien selves, then go out and implant their extraterrestial eggs in tom and barbara's pigs? no, but it's an unlikely plot twist.

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Monday, 24 May 2004 15:18 (twenty-two years ago)

These pontifications are making me fear The Good Life: The Legacy

N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 24 May 2004 15:20 (twenty-two years ago)

You were looking forward to it previously?

Tim (Tim), Monday, 24 May 2004 15:21 (twenty-two years ago)

What were Tom and Barbara growing in their back garden...
POD PEOPLE.

Pete (Pete), Monday, 24 May 2004 15:28 (twenty-two years ago)

terrace house Acton, parents worked in libraries.

jel -- (jel), Monday, 24 May 2004 15:36 (twenty-two years ago)

Don't quite qualify as prole, me, apparently. Both my parents have been working as teachers, each for more than 50 years now.

t\'\'t (t\'\'t), Monday, 24 May 2004 16:25 (twenty-two years ago)

that's some long class!

jel -- (jel), Monday, 24 May 2004 16:29 (twenty-two years ago)

btw, teeny's post about her granddad is lovely

mookieproof (mookieproof), Monday, 24 May 2004 16:32 (twenty-two years ago)

Yus, tres spiff. :-)

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 24 May 2004 16:33 (twenty-two years ago)

that's some long class!
-- jel

well the school they've been working at will be closed this autumn, eventually :(

t\'\'t (t\'\'t), Monday, 24 May 2004 16:36 (twenty-two years ago)

sigh

my pathetic life-story answer just deleted itself

but that's all the likes of me deserve

Snowy Mann (rdmanston), Monday, 24 May 2004 16:40 (twenty-two years ago)

My great great great great grandfather was this man. Bishop John McMullen:

http://www.saint-dennis.org/history/images/mcmullen.jpg

a tale from his life:

"...the next phase of their journey was undertaken on John McMullen's behalf. Needing a baptismal certificate the boys moved to Ballynahich http://www.storyfest.com/ire.ballynahinch.html McMullen's birthplace. While being too young to remember anyone when he left, many townsfolk flocked around John reminiscing about the times before his family uprooted.

The return to Dublin following their success at Ballynahich included a final briefing with Archbishop Cullen. More letters of introduction, one to Cardinal Fransoni, another to the rector of the Irish College, Doctor Kirby, were dispensed. The final blessing was given. James McGovern and John McMullen were on their way to the ancient city of Rome.

While traversing England, with nothing out of the ordinary occurring, the voyagers were about to experience a potentially disastrous event. Leaving towards Europe from Dover, the young acolytes arrived at Calais to find a dragnet in place by the port authorities. Their passports were viewed with the utmost scrutiny. As the authorities conferred it was decided to remove James and John to another room for further interrogation. John was extremely nervous by these developments. Prior to leaving Chicago his older brother had presented a loaded double-barreled pistol to him. It had been stowed within John's baggage during the transatlantic excursion, but before leaving Dublin John removed it from its resting-place and stuffed it in his jacket.

Inevitably, the French authorities discovered the pistol upon searching the young men. They were immediately placed into custody. Since no common language could be established between the English-speaking Americans and the French officers a call was sent out for a Latin-speaking French priest to mediate the predicament.

With the help of the priest the detainees were allowed to leave, minus the 'McMullen Special'. The reason for their detention rattled the young men as they set off for Paris. Apparently the French police had received word from their counterparts in London of a conspiracy to assassinate the French ruler, Napoleon III. The word was spread through the ports to be on the lookout for a young man and a boy traveling from England and believed to be involved in the intrigue..."

also:

October 1871

In October 1871, Holy Name and St. Mary’s are destroyed in the Great Chicago Fire. Holy Name Pastor and Rector, Fr. John McMullen, finds all the parish buildings in flames upon his return to the campus from elsewhere in the city. He retrieves the Blessed Sacrament; all else is lost. Later that month, he visits New York and New England, seeking donations to help rebuild Holy Name and give relief to Chicago’s fire victims.
1871-74 Chicago Bishop Thomas Foley and Fr. McMullen criss-cross the country, raising funds for the reconstruction of churches, schools, hospitals and orphanages. Holy Name parishioners worship in a makeshift "shanty Cathedral," a boarded-up, burned-out house on Cass Street (now Wabash Avenue).

Gear! (Gear!), Monday, 24 May 2004 16:46 (twenty-two years ago)

My grandfather was the oldest son of Swedish immigrants who farmed in Red Wing and went to work for the Tennessee Valley Authority and the WPA in the Depression before returning to Minneapolis and opening a hardware store. He closed his shop and went into real estate, making a few really good investments (like buying the land where the Mall of America now sits - but he sold it when the land was to become the Met Stadium). This may sound very upwardly mobile but my grandmother became mentally ill after the birth of her fourth child so every day was a struggle until my mom was about 15.

My other grandfather was the only son of the founder of the northernmost hospital in Minnesota, a doctor who was what used to be called 'lace-curtain Irish'. He didn't really discuss his family much and I think fell out with them after university.

Despite some of my advantages, when I was a kid we were totally shit-poor most of the time. I remember being instructed not to answer the door in case it was a process server with forclosure papers, and the blocks of Reagan cheese and food stamps my mother qualified for when she got too sick to work. A lot of kids from the first wave of divorcing parents might have similar stories to mine.

suzy (suzy), Monday, 24 May 2004 16:48 (twenty-two years ago)

after that my family tree has seen lots of priests, cops, or assembly line workers.

Gear! (Gear!), Monday, 24 May 2004 16:49 (twenty-two years ago)

No prole here. I come from the deserving poor, not the dregs.

Aimless (Aimless), Monday, 24 May 2004 17:02 (twenty-two years ago)

I split time between a house on a dirt road and my grandparents' chicken farm. Lock thread, yo

Morley Timmons (Donna Brown), Monday, 24 May 2004 17:37 (twenty-two years ago)

Everyone's claiming to be a prole, but no one is accusing anyone else of being one. ILE in being overly polite shoxor!

"I know I aint common.. I gots class I aint never even used yet."

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 24 May 2004 17:44 (twenty-two years ago)

I got a short little history book about my family for xmas, it was nice. Why not share. My paternal great-grandfather immigrated from Britain as a blacksmith and did OK when he switched over to auto work. Grandfather was a steelworker here in upstate NY. In the 60's he got sick and couldn't support the family, they were bad off until my pops left to live with a relative in Alaska. Pops worked for the gummint fighting wildfires and got some kind of scholarship out of it. Then he came back to NY for a bit, and met my mom. Her father was an orphan polish immigrant who had to fend for himself at 12 in the depression, pulled a Horatio Alger and built a plumbing business and at the end of his life had a few million. Her mom came from a middle class polish immigrant family in auto business- one brother ended up owning a speedway and another a wrecking yard, so i think the auto business was a connection between the two families. Well, then my mom and pops married and went back to Alaska. Around the time I was born they were actually living in a log cabin and often eating caribou and shit like that. He was an artist for a while and then got into teaching. It was in a place where whites were actually outnumbered by eskimos and people rode snowmobiles to school. He helped do union organizing and from that got a chance to move back to NY into a job with a really poor rural school district. (Students would leave little piles of cowshit off their boots under their desks because they milked cows for hours before going to school.) Mom was a social worker but had a 10-year gap out of work to stay home. It was pretty low-middle class life without luxuries. I remember having to walk blisteringly long distances to day care and never ate in restaurants except on birthdays. Later on, luckily it was good enough that I got decent help with college. It's not doing a lot of good right now though without work out there. I had to live in a van and worse, so if broke, desperate & unemployed = prole then stick me on top of that pile.

sucka (sucka), Tuesday, 25 May 2004 04:43 (twenty-two years ago)

I wanted a portable TV for my 10th birthday but got a 68cm one instead. It proved to be useless on the move.

Pack Yr Romantic Almanac (Autumn Almanac), Tuesday, 25 May 2004 04:52 (twenty-two years ago)


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