Question about cliques in teen movies...

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Is this accurate? I mean, the 'Mean Girls', 'Clueless' et al depictions of radically segregated lunchrooms? If it is true, why is there such a desire to create a rigid class system in US schools. Maybe it's just an exageration - really nothing like my experience in UK schools. Are kids maybe emulating this depiction of the 'high-school experience'? Can it be just a genre-cliche invented by scriptwriters?

Any feedback related to this phenomenon (especially from US posters) would be appreciated.

(Sorry if this ground has been covered before - this is my first question and the search engine hates me)

Kevin Gilchrist (Mr Fusion), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:36 (twenty-two years ago)

are there cliques in highschool? hell yeah. and this is just the beginning

kephm, Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:39 (twenty-two years ago)

My sixth form was quite like that. Every group had their area of the common room and stuck to it.

Maybe the size of the school has some effect too?

Anna (Anna), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:39 (twenty-two years ago)

The lunchroom segregation is reasonable people want to sit with their friends at lunch - but in my experience, cliques were much more fluid than pop-culture portrays them.

Dazed & Confused and Elephant are the best portrayals of high-school groupings, IMO.

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:42 (twenty-two years ago)

http://www.onlyinmyhead.de/trivial/film/fiheath5.jpg

kephm, Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:42 (twenty-two years ago)

I had a clear group of friends in high school, but it's not I like couldn't (or didn't want) to speak to the other folks.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:44 (twenty-two years ago)

except for ferris bueller, he's very popular. the sportos, the motorheads, geeks, sluts, bloods, waistoids, dweebies, dickheads--they all adore him. they think he's a righteous dude.

kephm, Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:49 (twenty-two years ago)

kevin: US suburban high school was never as good as it was in the movies. not enough cliques, the prom was a TOTAL let down, and detention hall was NEVER the breakfast club.

cutty (mcutt), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:52 (twenty-two years ago)

My prom and graduation were eerily similar to movie depictions.

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:54 (twenty-two years ago)

cutty is so otm that i might have to lock myself into the ladies' room and have a good cry.

lauren (laurenp), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:59 (twenty-two years ago)

this girl i know keeps on telling me that I'm DUCKY. omg wtf lol.

Jon Williams!!!!! (ROFFLE!@!@!@) (ex machina), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 16:03 (twenty-two years ago)

I can speak from rural experience: yes, there were cliques but we were forced to hang out together. Metalheads would smoke everybody out at the jock parties... Cure chicks would be at the beach bonfire parties, etc. The only real outcasts, oddly enough, were the actual farmer kids - not just rednecks, but kids that joined the FFA and raised steers and shit. They sat by themselves at lunch and nobody talked to them.

(I sadly remember a lovely Norweigan exchange student that didn't say a word to anybody all year long. She sat alone at lunch, didn't go to dances, and didn't have any friends. I'm still aching with regret, but I was shy too.)

andy, Tuesday, 22 June 2004 16:18 (twenty-two years ago)

its anthropological im sure. pecking order, etc. leaders always emerge.

bill stevens (bscrubbins), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 17:13 (twenty-two years ago)

My high school didn't have a lunch room, unless the smoking section of the McDonald's next door counts.

hstencil (hstencil), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 17:15 (twenty-two years ago)

"The lunchroom segregation is reasonable people want to sit with their friends at lunch - but in my experience, cliques were much more fluid than pop-culture portrays them."

OTM. My high school was too small to have really definable cliques.

latebloomer (latebloomer), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 18:16 (twenty-two years ago)

I went to a small private school (45 kids/class) and even there we had strict cliques largely formed according to wealth/class. They seemed only fluid enough for class crossovers to eventually find their "right" places in the lunchroom by senior year.
Of course, Hollywood exaggerates this for dramatic effect, but the stereotype comes from somewhere. I 'spose in a consumerist culture, you're defined socially by what activities you can afford.

sexyDancer, Tuesday, 22 June 2004 18:34 (twenty-two years ago)

My graduating class was ~550 and the school was 2500-3000. There were cliques, but there were no problems with stoners and drama kids co-mingling with the athletes and cheerleaders.

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 18:43 (twenty-two years ago)

At my school, the atheletes WERE the stoners.

sexyDancer, Tuesday, 22 June 2004 18:45 (twenty-two years ago)

i think somebody (amateurist?) pointed out on some thread how one of the strengths of dazed & confused was showing the fluid nature of so many cliques, how they generally don't have rigidly-drawn borders

s1ocki (slutsky), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 18:45 (twenty-two years ago)

(me on an Elephant thread, I think)

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 18:46 (twenty-two years ago)

prove it

s1ocki (slutsky), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 18:47 (twenty-two years ago)

If there's a comment on ILX kissing Richard Linklater's ass, it's probably from me.

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 18:47 (twenty-two years ago)

i'm reminded of the address our senior class advisor gave just prior to our graduation: "i'm my forty years of teaching i've never seen such an apathetic group as yourselves. you don't seem to care about anything, you don't even care enough about each other to have formed cliques."


everyone liked or disliked one another based on personal interaction, not general stereotypes. if someone had a beef with you it was because they didn't like you, not because you listened to morrisey or rode a skateboard or played football.

wait, except for the musical-theatre wonks, i'm pretty sure they caught hell from everyone. probably even from the window-lickers and hockey helmet crowd.

otto midnight (otto midnight), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 18:53 (twenty-two years ago)

Cure chicks would be at the beach bonfire parties, etc

Are you Steve Guttenberg?

Dave B (daveb), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 19:19 (twenty-two years ago)

I went to a small private school (45 kids/class) and even there we had strict cliques largely formed according to wealth/class.

At my school, the atheletes WERE the stoners.

well... did you go to my "brother" school, sd?

lauren (laurenp), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 19:22 (twenty-two years ago)

microclassism rulez

sexyDancer, Tuesday, 22 June 2004 19:39 (twenty-two years ago)

Like almost anything in Hollywood movies, there's some truth to it but it's exaggerated.

oops (Oops), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 19:44 (twenty-two years ago)

I went to a small private school (45 kids/class) and even there we had strict cliques largely formed according to wealth/class. They seemed only fluid enough for class crossovers to eventually find their "right" places in the lunchroom by senior year.

Sooooo OTM. I think the size of the school does have a lot to do with it - the smaller the school, the more rigid the cliques because people remember, even when you're a senior, the exact person you were as a Freshman, while in a bigger school, with more students, who can be bothered to even know let alone remember what everyone was?

People love Gravity and Evolution! (kate), Wednesday, 23 June 2004 08:38 (twenty-one years ago)

sixteen years pass...

"Unspooled" just started its second season, and while I'm not sure I can get on board with an entire season of essentially Our Favorite Films, especially from hosts I like perhaps more than I like their own personal tastes, the first film they picked (on a sub-list they're beginning with of I think best high school movies?) was "Mean Girls." I recall enjoying the movie at the time, once, but for some reason this is one of those movies that has hopped over with subsequent generations. Sure, the Broadway musical helped, but clearly the movie got something right that might have just gone over my head. And I think "Unspooled" nailed it: it came out in 2004, which is literally the same year Facebook is being born and the same year of the Janet Jackson Super Bowl snafu (which begat Youtube). Which is to say, more or less, right before the true ascent of social media. In fact, when you watch the movie you don't necessarily even notice that no one has cell phones; they're certainly not posting and texting. Yet at the same time the movie captures the "mean" impetus that drives a lot of the online shit that sprung up in its immediate aftermath. It aims for and captures a primal truth about teen/school behavior better than it could have known at the time.

Similarly, and this may also be key, I kept coming back to the "stop making 'fetch' a thing" dialog, and considered how little "Mean Girls" hinges on specifically trendy or fashionable stuff. Which I also didn't think about until I read the interview with Peyton Reed and the screenwriter of "Bring It On" in the AV Club, and Jessica Bendinger (the writer) says: "Yeah, Dan Waters who wrote Heathers had warned me, 'Do not use today’s language or you will be so mortified when it comes out. Just make it up!' And so I relied on drag queens and gay culture, I think, to kind of inform what they sound like, which is just more creative, funny, sarcastic, witty, bitchy vibes." And then the first comment below the article is someone observing, "I don’t know why it just occurred to me, but three of the most successful and iconic teen movies, that are still a thing today (Heathers, Clueless, Bring It On), invented their own slang." And that's a really good point, and probably partly why these movies *do* jump across generational divides. By not trying so hard to be hip they kind of invent their own hip language, allowing them to focus on these cliques and characters on their own terms - which is to say, as teen templates but also as people. They're recognizable as real characters who represent real cliques that we (of every generation) are all too familiar with.

Josh in Chicago, Tuesday, 25 August 2020 20:59 (five years ago)


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