"Happiness"

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The Todd Solondz movie. Much better than American Mo'Fuckin' Beauty, wouldn't you say?

David, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Anybody seen Storytelling yet? Being slightly irrational with the AB-bashing, but Happiness still clamps its ass in a vice-grip.

David, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I thought it was terrible and aimless, actually.

Ally, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

It still clamps American Beauty's ass in a salad-shooter.

David, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

No, I don't think so. At least American Beauty didn't have Lara Flynn Boyle in it.

Ally, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Movie criticism as personal spite! A fine art.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I agree with Ally. Found them very similar and went out of my way to find Happiness AFTER seeing American Beauty because I had wanted to and missed it. Anyway, thinking it would kick the fairly lame American Beauty's booty, I rented it and made kind of a big deal about it to my girlfriend. I said something like, "It's like American Beauty. It's really good, but it was kinda overlooked. Dan Clowes did the movie poster." Then, halfway through, we both kinda made faces and said American Beauty was better. And, really, American Beauty kind of sucked my asscrack in a way.

Nude Spock, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

And Happiness clamped its ass in a juice maker.

David, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Is this a good thing, all this ass-clamping? Hey, what do you call a vegetarian with diarreah? Salad shooter! Ha.

Nude Spock, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I didn't particularly respond to American Beauty, so I suppose I'll take Happiness. Happiness heartily dedicates itself to the complete opposite of Hollywood moviemaking norms -- it gives you absolutely no clues as to how to receive it, and leaves you sitting there uncomfortably, having to actually think about whether you're going to decide to find it amusing or sick or sad or cynical or what ... and it ends on such a remarkable we-mature-within-this- mess note. And so while I see the very clear connections to American Beauty in terms of subject matter, my enjoyment of Happiness came much more from seeing it as an attack on the idea that films should tell you how to feel rather than letting you work it out for yourself ... I think.

I have issues with Alan Ball and Beauty. Ball is really and truly strident in his belief that the American middle class is somehow overly repressed and emotionally detatched, which has been a fashionable thing to believe since the 1950s but is not, I don't think, an entirely valuable or interesting thing to be going on about today, not to mention not entirely true anymore. That concern works much better in Six Feet Under, insofar as it's about a family of undertakers, whose repression and detachment can be seen as unique to them, and not a complaint about life in general; the characters the family is surrounded with are more often emblematic of the opposite. I'm okay with the idea that Ball has concerns in that area and wants to deal with characters working through them, but I don't appreciate his projecting those concerns on everyone else in the world as well and pretending that the problem is universal.

Nitsuh, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Is this a good thing, all this ass-clamping?

Questionable, I know.

David, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Oh, and two additional notes:

(1) I can't imagine Happiness on video -- the best thing about seeing it was watching people in the theater try to come to a consensus as to how they should react. 10% would laugh loudly, as in "We are hip enough to recognize this is a cynical joke," and then 10% would give them dirty looks, as in "You are a sick individual to be laughing at this." Possibly 5% cried at one point or another, and everyone else just looked around nervously.

(2) Ball's whole obsession is, I think, massively wrapped up in the fact that he is, I believe, gay. This makes perfect sense, when you think about it.

Nitsuh, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I read a review of American Beauty (by Allan Jones) where he said that, apart from Spacey's Burnham, the characters come too close to caricature and I think that's right. And Philip Seymour Hoffman's far more entertaining than Spacey.

David, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Granted, it was a couple of years ago, and I've only seen it once, but I did not like Happiness at all because I thought it completely lacked complexity and insight into suburbia. It just seemed to be an act of revenge on Solondz' part - everything was engineered to elicit your contempt and nothing more. I didn't get that from Welcome to the Dollhouse.

At least in American Beauty, the characters were not as they originally seemed to be.

So what is "Happiness" really saying, anyway?

Kerry, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Ethan to thread!!

Josh, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

happiness is the one movie which keeps american beauty from being the worst movie ever.

keith, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

'what are we being told here? that beneath the surface of of small town, usa, passions run dark and dangerous? don't stop the presses'. - roger ebert on blue velvet, 1986.

ethan, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Yes, but Blue Velvet is funny. Happiness is just dumb.

Ally, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

happiness > american beauty > blue velvet.

ethan, Tuesday, 27 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

There's nothing funny about Phillip Seymour Hoffman.

Wheeler, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i haven't seen American Beauty, but I've seen Happiness. i pretty much agree with what Nitsuh says about it.

di, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I would like to note that I rented _Happiness_ on video a couple of years back and inadvertently paused to make myself a sandwich just before Dylan Baker made his sandwich.

Personally, I admire _Happiness_, but I really like _American Beauty_. If you're looking for considered analysis, scroll up to Nitsuh's post, already.

David Raposa, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Can i say i have not disagreed w. Nitsuh . He isalways otm. it pisses me off the motherfucker

anthonyeaston, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Wait, Anthony -- you agree with my dimestore psychoanalysis of Ball's homosexuality, too? I'm unsure on the point, but I sometimes suspect the emotional repression he accuses the entire North American middle class of suffering from is really just the reaction his own friends and family had to his homosexuality, projected outward. This is totally a guess.

Nitsuh, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Try living in the suburbs. It makes American Beauty seem subtle.

Melissa W, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i liked both movies, but for different reasons. i thought Happiness was far, far bleaker though - well duh! i'd watch American Beauty again (i think i've seen it 3 times now), but Happiness strikes me as too bleak for a second viewing - well, i wouldn't watch it again on my own.

katie, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I can't imagine Happiness on video
Not difficult, it looks like all other videotapes only the movie on it is Happiness. ;-) I love both films. But if I had to make a choice, then it'd definitely be Happiness. It made me feel completely uncomfortable with my own self, reactions,...

helen fordsdale, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I think Ball wants to be the tortured queer, the closety case because its dramtic and hes a drama queen. But living high in hollywood where everyone from the poolboy to the suits has had a cock in there mouth makes queerdom banal. Hes grasping for the only place where his boring quirk can be considred base and shocking.

anthony, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

apart from Spacey's Burnham, the characters come too close to caricature

Apart from Spacey's Burnham? I agree (AGAIN!) with what Nitsuh says about American Beauty. It just seemed a really unoriginal film suffused with an enormous sense of its own importance. As for Happiness, I do remember having problems with it but I can't remember what they were. I much, much preferred his previous film Welcome To The Dollhouse.

Nick, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Oddly that's what made me enjoy American Beauty - and I think almost definately comes from the direction. It said directly to me that it was an important movie, and the themes contained within should be taken away and digested. (Not that these themes were new, or even very exciting). Whereas Happiness just doesn't care, it shows you this dysfunctional set of relationships and shrugs its shoulders and says "Life is like that". I found Hppiness more movie, the scene with the Dad explaining to his kid why he wouldn't fuck him whilst they are both sobbing is tremendously moving. But there is the feeling (which I also got from Welcome To The Dollhouse) that these were just intellectual excercise to shock or provoke. Nothing wrong with that, I just did not respond as well to it.

I don't think Beauty is a great movie, but there was something about its pomp and self-importance which I responded to. I suppose its the idea that if you have something to say, have the courage of your convictions. Happiness is more conversation - isn't this interesting, isn't everyone fucked up - an idea which never takes too much root in me.

Happiness was a lousy choice for a date movie too. Gah!

Pete, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

american beauty=american middle aged men jacking off over next dr nehgbour girl...yawn

happniness...piss funny.

geoff, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I just don't see what's funny about a film where everyone just kind of sits around acting like jackasses and it's basically like every day life except with a terrible actor like Lara Flynn Boyle.

Ally, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I haven't seen her in anything else, but Lara Flynn Boyle's acting style worked in Happiness.

David, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Ally -- there is a giant flaw in your argument. If your everyday life is actually like Happiness, then either:

(a) something is horribly wrong with your life and you need help, or

(b) Happiness and The Doom Generation are the only movies in history that realistically address your life, therefore you should like them.

Nitsuh, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Plus note that Happiness is not necessarily meant to be funny. Or sad, or dramatic, or sick, or titillating, or anything else. It's meant to make you draw actual moral conclusions about what you're viewing On Your Own, without meaningful cuts or orchestral pieces to tell you how to feel.

Nitsuh, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Happiness is far better than AB (though I liked it as well.)

another twisted movie: friends and neighbors. yay or nay?

Samantha, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Plus note that Happiness is not necessarily meant to be funny. Or sad, or dramatic, or sick, or titillating, or anything else. It's meant to make you draw actual moral conclusions about what you're viewing On Your Own, without meaningful cuts or orchestral pieces to tell you how to feel.

I need to watch this again. But I find this lack of intent hard to believe. Isn't there some intent revealed in the choices made regarding situations and characters - showing some situations and not others, and having characters respond in this way and not that way? I guess I found the dots a little too close to bother connecting.

Kerry, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I found both movies to be very obvious, in their own way. The major difference was that I identified with aspects of most of the characters in "American Beauty" while "Happiness" was like watching an initial read-through of a film major's senior thesis.

Dan Perry, Wednesday, 28 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)

two years pass...
I just got upset and mad reading an interview wherein it was said 'happiness' is 'very bold and very sad.'

cozen (Cozen), Saturday, 13 March 2004 21:18 (twenty-two years ago)

Happiness is very crap and very crap

Sym (shmuel), Sunday, 14 March 2004 00:11 (twenty-two years ago)

Don't you mean "very crappy"?

Aja (aja), Sunday, 14 March 2004 00:13 (twenty-two years ago)

I stand by my words

Sym (shmuel), Sunday, 14 March 2004 00:14 (twenty-two years ago)

Don't step on them.

Aja (aja), Sunday, 14 March 2004 00:20 (twenty-two years ago)

five months pass...
Vs. 'the ice storm'

I never thought ang lee had such an even, unjudgemental, beautiful, and complicated film as this in him. though I don't know too much abt his other films. as I said on the other thread, everyone is v. v. good in it too - tobey maguire auditioning his version of quaint and goofy fr his future peter parker; sigourney weaver so reasonable and cold; christina ricci her usual dispassionate edged with adolescent curiosity; elijah wood 'sexual'; even kevin "a fish called wanda" klein (sp?) can't ruin it.) pretty bleak, however.

cºzen (Cozen), Monday, 30 August 2004 23:06 (twenty-one years ago)

'Happiness' has Jon Lovitz in it - that alone makes it classic.

Kevin Gilchrist (Mr Fusion), Monday, 30 August 2004 23:17 (twenty-one years ago)

The Ice Storm is the film that I am saving up most in the whole world. I know I will love it.

Alba (Alba), Tuesday, 31 August 2004 00:35 (twenty-one years ago)

The Ice Storm is really very good.

jaymc (jaymc), Tuesday, 31 August 2004 01:52 (twenty-one years ago)

It sure is.

the music mole (colin s barrow), Tuesday, 31 August 2004 02:24 (twenty-one years ago)

eleven months pass...
This movie was on the other night as part of a double bill with Donnie Darko. I think it fucked with my head. Deeply.

Donnie Darko, I found, did not stand up. The teen angst shit just seemed hackneyed and cliched and simplistic, and I found the sci fi stuff just seemed half baked.

Happiness, though, I think has got inside my head and stayed there. I know it's supposed to be black humour. I know it's not supposed to make moral judgements, but it was just unrelenting and grim and left me feeling bleak. I go to films for escapism, not to be reminded of awfulness and disconnection.

OTOH, Jared Harris naked.

Alce Tea-Skirt (kate), Tuesday, 9 August 2005 08:58 (twenty years ago)

why are people so hot for things which are 'nonjudgemental'?

N_RQ, Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:01 (twenty years ago)

I could have scripted that entire opening scene of Happiness (in the restaurant) but the film lost me after that. A little of Philip Seymour Hoffman's soul-searching goes a long way for this viewer (see also Magnolia).

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:03 (twenty years ago)

Was Donnie Darko an extended tribute to James Stewart (plot from It's A Wonderful Life sans laffs, rabbit only he can see, Vertigo passim)?

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:05 (twenty years ago)

happiness > american beauty > blue velvet.

i don't know who this 'ethan' character is but clearly he was MENTAL back in 2001.

J.D. (Justyn Dillingham), Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:07 (twenty years ago)

'donnie darko' is much better than all three. i wasn't a goth as a teenager, perhaps this is just my late-onset gothness coming out.

N_RQ, Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:07 (twenty years ago)

Mulholland Dr > Blue Velvet > all other cinema

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:08 (twenty years ago)

I knew the "Andy" character reminded me of someone...

why are people so hot for things which are 'nonjudgemental'?

I'm not hot for things that are nonjudgemental. I'm very judgemental. I just prefer movies that don't spell it out in that simplistic Bad Guy/Good Guy Bruce Willis Blows Shit Up American way.

I'm just getting a bit sick of films where there are *no* sympathetic characters at all.

Alce Tea-Skirt (kate), Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:08 (twenty years ago)

Plus note that Happiness is not necessarily meant to be funny. Or sad, or dramatic, or sick, or titillating, or anything else. It's meant to make you draw actual moral conclusions about what you're viewing On Your Own, without meaningful cuts or orchestral pieces to tell you how to feel.
-- Nitsuh (nt...), November 28th, 2001.

oh god.

this is fucking stupid. sorry, i dunno if nitsuh is still around.

N_RQ, Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:10 (twenty years ago)

Don't apologise. Again this is a fundamental misconception of art; we know the world is chaotic, but I'm afraid it's the job of the artist to create some order out of the raw material, rather than the easy getout clause of "well, you work it out," whereas surely a work of art should convey to us what the artist feels.

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:13 (twenty years ago)

x-post

I suppose it depends on what kind of films one watches on a regular basis.

If all one watches are hazy non-moralistic art films, one must get bored of all that non-judgementalism. If all one ever watches are cartoon-based blockbusters one's friends drags one to, it makes a nice relief. I suppose.

Donnie Darko failed to move me either way. I'm glad that I saw it originally after all the fuss had died down, so I was able to accept it on its own terms. But, as I said, it just didn't stand up. Too overdone.

Anyway, what do I care? Like I said, Jared Harris naked.

Alce Tea-Skirt (kate), Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:16 (twenty years ago)

i like "blue velvet" more than any of the other "look the suburbs are creeping with EVIL DO YOU SEE??" films (unless "it's a wonderful life" counts) because lynch doesn't seem interesting in drawing any sort of moral from the story - it's just pure sensation, like: let's see what happens when one world runs smack into another world.

J.D. (Justyn Dillingham), Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:18 (twenty years ago)

Ditto on the Blue Velvet, but it could just be because that film is so associated with a time and a place for me.

Alce Tea-Skirt (kate), Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:19 (twenty years ago)

hum, that's a good point kate. i did spend many years watching indie/foreign films like you say. by way of contrast the last 5 films i have seen are 'national treasure', 'war of the worlds', 'batman begins', 'hitch' and 'serpico'. so i'm in a good vs evil kind of place. but i didn't like 'happiness' back in '99, i guess it just felt kind of heartless and forced, and indie films don't have to be that. it felt like a film for people who watch indie films, rather than a film somebody wanted to make and ended up getting funded independently: in other words, justas calculated as 'national treasure' in its own way.

i like 'blue velvet' for dennis hopper.

N_RQ, Tuesday, 9 August 2005 09:21 (twenty years ago)


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