My Date With Drew

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I saw it last night. If you don't know, the premise is a digital diary through the rose-tinted glasses of 27-year-old Brian Herzlinger, who aspires to have a date with his dream girl: Drew Barrymore. Shot entirely for $1,100 that Herzlinger won on a game show, the production used a camera purchased on credit from Circuit City, and then returned it under the store's 30-day refund policy. On his journey to woo Drew, Herzlinger consults a psychic for love advice, hires a Drew look-alike to practice his date etiquette and crashes the world premiere of 'Charlie's Angels: Full Throttle.' Supporting Herzlinger's quest with anecdotes and advice are several Hollywood insiders who appear as themselves including Eric Roberts, Corey Feldman and 'Charlie's Angels' screenwriter John August.

It was laugh out loud funny, gut wrenching, and really really sweet - I was completely charmed (even if Brian did start to bear a weird resemblance to my brother as the movie went on). It's good. Really.

luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 15:29 (twenty years ago)

I saw something about this on Jay Leno a long time ago... I'm glad to see it is finally getting released.

Tape Store (Tape Store), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 15:32 (twenty years ago)

So, does the guy get to have a date with her?

Kittens Licking Cakes (coco), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 15:33 (twenty years ago)

Is it out on dvd or in theaters?

Kittens Licking Cakes (coco), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 15:33 (twenty years ago)

That would be telling! (I'll email you)

It's in theatres.

luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 15:35 (twenty years ago)

spoiler: He gets arrested at the premiere for indecent exposure; police find hundreds of porn mags with Barrymore's head pasted in on every page.

Hurting (Hurting), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 15:37 (twenty years ago)

I have to ask a jerky question: if this movie only cost $1,100 to make, as they keep crowing in reviews, why the fuck do I still have to pay $10 to see it? Shouldn't it cost like $1 or something to get in?

n/a (Nick A.), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:33 (twenty years ago)

Ithaca College grads, these chaps

gear (gear), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:35 (twenty years ago)

this got a scathing review in entertainment weekly.

teeny (teeny), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:38 (twenty years ago)

You have to ask a jerky question, Nick, because you KNOW I'm gonna make you go see it with me! And buy popcorn and a Coke!

Kittens Licking Cakes (coco), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:39 (twenty years ago)

F that.

n/a (Nick A.), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:43 (twenty years ago)

I see Drew Barrymore as something to avoid, not to actively seek out.

n/a (Nick A.), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:43 (twenty years ago)

i watched an interview with this guy. what a dick.

jed_ (jed), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:44 (twenty years ago)

B-but, Nick, you like movies that don't necessarily have happy endings! You could think of it as an art piece!

Kittens Licking Cakes (coco), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:44 (twenty years ago)

coming soon: My Date With Sarah. Ohhhhh yeah.

teeny (teeny), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:47 (twenty years ago)

I've met this guy a couple times, being from the same alma mater and all. He IS a dick!

gear (gear), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:49 (twenty years ago)

police find hundreds of porn mags with Barrymore's head pasted in on every page.

heh. and with all the eyes cut/scratched out, strangely enough.

kingfish completely hatstand (Kingfish), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:52 (twenty years ago)

What was that other movie that featured a complete simpering, preening, egotistical, worthless cocksnot as he filmed his dating life? I saw it on cable once. I wanted to punch that guy until he swallowed all his teeth.

Paunchy Stratego (kenan), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:54 (twenty years ago)

oh yeah, what was that movie

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:55 (twenty years ago)

i really can't help but think of the guys who make these movies as the scummiest of LA scumbags.

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:56 (twenty years ago)

20 Dates

Candicissima (candicissima), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:56 (twenty years ago)

That's why we love them so, slocki.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:57 (twenty years ago)

Have you ever started a thread fully knowing what kind of reaction you were going to get, but you did it anyway? I resolve to no longer talk about movies or music on Ilx.

luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:57 (twenty years ago)

the reaction was that people were curious and somewhat skeptical, whaddya expect

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:59 (twenty years ago)

xxxpost Oh! I was called 20 Dates. The only justice in the movie was that a lot of the dates were walked out on by the women.

Paunchy Stratego (kenan), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 19:59 (twenty years ago)

YOU were called 20 dates?!

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 20:00 (twenty years ago)

Once upon a time.

Paunchy Stratego (kenan), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 20:01 (twenty years ago)

To be fair, this movie has a yellow 51 on Metacritic, and 20 dates has a red 36.

Paunchy Stratego (kenan), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 20:01 (twenty years ago)

Brian Herzlinger Talks About "My Date With Drew"
from Fred Topel

Man, I could have been in a movie. If only I’d covered the premiere for “Charlie’s Angels: Full Throttle,” I would have been in the background of “My Date with Drew.” The documentary of one man’s quest to ask his childhood dream girl on a date features the film’s premiere, and shows him scamming his way into the after party. I could have been background extra #4.

Brian Herzlinger decided to pursue a date with Drew Barrymore after he won $1,100 on a game show pilot with Barrymore’s name as the answer to the final question. Using the six degrees of separation policy, he got friends of friends to connect him to people in Barrymore’s circle. But this isn’t an inside Hollywood tale. In fact, it’s an outside Hollywood tale.

Herzlinger worked temp jobs in the industry but couldn’t move up.

So he decided to make a film using a video camera bought from Circuit City, to be completed within the store’s 30 day return window. Along the way his friends, family and several celebrities chime in on his plan. His ex-girlfriend even calls, only to get jealous of his pursuit of an unattainable star.

I had my own six degrees moment with Brian during our phone interview. When he revealed he went to Ithaca College, I couldn’t believe I hadn’t found that out before. Not only did we share an alma mater, but he was only a year ahead of me. While we still haven’t figured out what class or extracurricular we had together, we bonded over the film school experience.

Was “20 Dates” an influence at all?
“No, not at all actually. None of us had seen it until we had just started shooting, and we decided to watch it just to see what he had done. We found out afterwards actually after that movie came out that a lot of the stuff that happened in that movie was fabricated. But we were very dead set on making sure that everything that happened in our movie was real and true. We were going to have the audience go along on the roller coaster ride that we went on.”

Should anybody with a video camera make a film?
“Well, if you want to make a movie, the technology is available to do it. There’s no excuse now. We shot this home movie on a video camera that fits in the palm of your hand. We didn’t have a microphone, didn’t have lighting equipment, didn’t have a tripod. We cut the whole movie on a laptop computer, so if you have a story that you want to tell, then there’s no excuse to not do it.”

Have you met a lot of aspiring filmmakers with big ideas like this?
“Yeah, [director/producer/editor Jon Gunn], [director/producer/editor Brett Winn] and myself went to film school together, so there’s a whole flock of us who moved out to LA to pursue the dream of being filmmakers. The thing we found out very quickly is that there is no set road that defines how you can actually go and become a filmmaker.

If you go to law school, you come out, you go to a law firm and you’re hired after they check you out. Same thing with a doctor. You go to medical school, you have a residency and then you’re a doctor. For a filmmaker, there’s no set road. That’s what happened with me, that’s what happened with Jon, that’s what happened with Brett. None of us expected this little movie to be the one that’s getting a worldwide theatrical release. The movie was a side effect of this journey of me just trying to make this lifelong dream come true. The only other filmmakers that we’ve talked to about the concept is friends of ours who went to Ithaca College with us.”

What does writer/director Bill D’Elia think of the finished film, since he’s a little down on your idea in the beginning?
“Bill D’Elia was the first person to stand up and cheer at the very first screening of the movie. He’s a really good guy. He’s got his opinions but the thing is that he got the journey. That’s the same response we’ve had actually with audiences around the country who’ve seen the movie, where they come up and they feel inspired by our journey. They come up to me and say, ‘Thank you for making the movie. You’ve inspired me to follow my own lifelong dream.’

The movie is about me trying to get this dream date with Drew, but more than just whether or not I got the date, it’s about the journey, about the ride. And people identify with the quest because it’s a universal theme. Everybody’s had a crush on somebody that’s seemingly unattainable, that somebody that was on the poster on your bedroom wall growing up that you dreamed about meeting. Even Bill D’Elia I’m sure has that, so once they see it they love it.”

What’s been your experience meeting journalists who’ve interviewed Drew Barrymore?
“Every journalist that’s interviewed Drew has said to me that if she’s not the best interview they’ve ever had, she’s the nicest person they’ve ever had to interview. She is what she puts out there.

I first saw her when I was six years old when I saw ‘E.T.’ It’s not creepy because she was six and it’s age appropriate. The reason I’ve had a crush on her for so long is because when you see what she’s gone through, she’s lived like seven lifetimes and could have gone down very many different paths. She could have gone down the regular child actor road like Corey Haim or something where you wind up like Gary Coleman as a security guard in a mall.

She came through all of that with such flying colors. For her to have such a positive outlook on life and spread that around, that more than any reason is why I respect and admire her so much. She just comes across so great.”

Why did you decide to embark on this while she wasn’t single?
“Well, that all stemmed from the game show. When I went on that game show and won the $1100, the fact that her name won me that money, that was my little inciting incident if you will. That was the moment of, ‘You know what? I’m going to go for it. I’m going to do it. I’m going to take this 1100 bucks and put it towards making this dream come true because she won me the money.’ So it’s all from that. That started the ball rolling.

Coincidentally during the 30 days, we knew that the ‘Charlie’s Angels: Full Throttle’ premiere was going to be happening. That’s the one thing we knew that was happening for sure during our travels, because we had no idea what was going to happen from day to day. That’s why it’s such a roller coaster ride. Like I said, we didn’t do any prep. We got the camera on Monday morning and started shooting and just trying everything we could using the six degrees of separation to meet Drew.”

Is the film being used by studios as an exposé on premiere security?
It is not being used as an exposé, thank goodness. Some of the best reactions, when we put up our website, mydatewithdrew.com, it was originally to try and get Drew to see the trailer, to give her immediate access wherever she was in the world. She was traveling around the world promoting ‘Charlie’s Angels: Full Throttle’ at the time. So we just wanted to make it easy for her to see the trailer.

When we put that up, we told a couple of friends and within two weeks we have over 150,000 hits on that website. It was just unbelievable, reaching as far as Spain, Greece, Portugal, Brazil. It was everybody saying, ‘Hey, go for it, Brian. Get that date with Drew and if you do, can you get me a date with Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt or Meg Ryan?’

Again, because everybody relates to the quest. But one of the best guestbook entries we got was from a guy who worked at Circuit City. He said, ‘As a Circuit City employee, you’re my worst nightmare. But as a man, you’re my hero.’ And security guys, people who for a living work these premieres and do security for them, they’ve written to the website and too and say, ‘You’re my worst nightmare, but I love the movie.’ That kind of thing.”

How much did the music rights cost to all the songs you sing in your car?
“Oh my God, all the music in our movie, we just decided to take our favorite songs growing up, or whatever happened to be on the radio that I was singing to because you sing in the car I’m sure. Everybody does. So when we were doing that, we were never thinking, ‘Oh wow, we’re going to have to pay thousands and thousands of dollars for these songs.’

They were very expensive and the only reason why we were able to use them is because after the movie was done and had won all the film festivals and was finally picked up by a distributor, in order to put it in theaters, the distributor had to pay for them.”

What took so long between “Charlie’s Angels 2” and now to get this finished?
“We edited the whole movie on Brett’s laptop computer. We spent a couple months doing that. We’d also been editing the movie while we were shooting because we had no idea how the movie was going to end, but we figured we’d edit the rest of the movie accordingly.

What we did was after we got the movie finished, we wound up going to do the film festival circuit because we wanted a distributor. It’s hard to sell a movie that you have $1,100 dollars on a DV camera that there hasn’t been a movie like this in existence before. This is the first of its kind. It’s a hybrid date romantic comedy that was shot like a documentary. And there was no blueprint on how to successfully market this movie, so it was hard to sell it.

All the studios who saw the movie loved the movie, but they were scared to take the risk in promoting it and marketing it and getting people into theaters. So we’ve spent a long time.

It was a long road to get this movie sold and to get it into theaters. We turned down offers to turn this movie into an eight episode reality TV show. We turned down a lot of money to put this on television. We really banded together and believed in our project enough to say, ‘No, this belongs in a theater. We cut it like a movie, it’s our dream to get this into theaters, we’re going to go for it.’ You know, if you don’t take risks, you have a wasted soul. So it took a long time to get the distributors interested, and then they saw how it played at the film festivals. We won all the film festivals we played at beating movies like ‘Napoleon Dynamite,’ ‘Garden State’ and ‘Super Size Me’ for the audience award for best feature. These are movies that we adored, so when we beat them out for that award, we were just freaking out. And so were the distributors. So it was just a long time coming and here we are, two years later.”

Are you afraid this might typecast you for your future career?
“Nah, no, no, not at all. I’m not somebody who ever wanted to be in front of a camera. I have been getting a lot of oncamera offers, but for me, anything I did in front of the camera would be to further my career behind the camera as a director. Kerry and Jon have their own production company called Lucky Crow Films and Brett and myself have our own production company called Rusty Bear Entertainment. Between all of us, we have a lot of projects that we have in development that are feature films with a budget much bigger than $1,100 dollars. We want to make some fiction films, get it out there.

The next thing that the four of us are going to do together is that we’re executive producing a TV series based on the movie and inspired by the whole quest in ‘My Date with Drew’ where we follow somebody else trying to make their own lifelong dreams come true in 30 days. We’re going to executive produce that and I’m going to host that and just keep moving along.”

What other types of features do you want to do?
“The ones that Spielberg makes. I want to make movies that inspire, uplift and just are very positive movies for people. That really stemmed from the experience we had with ‘My Date With Drew’ because when you’re playing this movie for audiences and you have them coming up to you and telling you that you inspired them to follow their dreams, that’s a hard high to match. It’s just the best feeling in the world so I want to keep doing that.”

What’s your daily income now?
“I get no money. All the money we got from the movie, we put right back into the movie to promote it and for the marketing, so it has to do well in the theaters for us to see something. And I wouldn’t change anything about this ride for any money amount. It’s been an amazing ride.”

But for money? Do you still work at E?
“I worked at E for a month. I couldn’t do it after that. It was driving me crazy. Then I wound up temping at a company that Brett cuts trailers for, a company called Trailer Park. So I was temp PAing for a while but then I had to stop so I could start this press tour. They give you a per diem, so you can eat and that’s what I’ve got.”

gear (gear), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 20:06 (twenty years ago)

what's funny is this interviewer is a guy i sort of knew in college as well, one who talked about 20 Dates about as much as alex in nyc talks about killing joke...x10.

gear (gear), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 20:12 (twenty years ago)

just a guy who was really obsessed with 20 dates? shudder

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 20:15 (twenty years ago)

What other types of features do you want to do?
“The ones that Spielberg makes."

I'm picturing this guy making low-budget knockoff remakes of every Spielberg movie right after they come out.

Jordan (Jordan), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 20:38 (twenty years ago)

yeah and his TV show idea sounds like a knockoff remake of that morgan spurlock show.

gear (gear), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 20:40 (twenty years ago)

What other types of features do you want to do?
“The ones that Spielberg makes."

Is this a line of dialogue from Dawson's Creek?

jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:05 (twenty years ago)

This review made me not want to see the movie, but I'd like to hear Luna respond to this line of critique:

Moderately watchable but awfully predictable, this 2003 documentary chronicles the efforts of one of its three directors, Brian Herzlinger, to score a date with Drew Barrymore--who ever since E.T. has been the girl of his dreams. As quickly becomes obvious, his real passion isn't to go on a date but to make a movie about it, which results in our distrusting the authenticity of the feelings of everyone involved in this project, including Barrymore. While constantly bemoaning his shrinking budget, Herzlinger at one point pays $75 for a psychic's advice. Is he sincere, or does he just think it will make a good sequence? Jon Gunn and Brett Winn codirected. PG, 90 min.

jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:06 (twenty years ago)

I really think his passion was to go on the date with her - I just don't think he was faking it. I could be wrong, I am no kind of film critic, I just know what I like and I was really charmed by this. He comes off a little weird in some places, sure, but the overall effect is endearing... I don't look for deeper meaning in things like this. Sure it's predictable - does he get the date? Yeah - otherwise why would they have released the movie? But it was fun to watch.

luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:29 (twenty years ago)

You can interpret what this says about me if you like, but it's one of the very best movies I've seen this year.

luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:30 (twenty years ago)

I'm guessing that he did really wanna go on a date or at least meet her, but sometime during the process of making the movie, the movie itself became more the focus. which is only natural and perfectly okay.

oops (Oops), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:34 (twenty years ago)

When I lived in LA she could be found at El Coyote every Thursday night. Not a big deal then (except maybe for Eric Erlandson).

gygax! (gygax!), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:35 (twenty years ago)

My date with Drew Daniel on the other hand...

gygax! (gygax!), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:36 (twenty years ago)

That would be more entertaining, I'd wager.

Leon C. (Ex Leon), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:38 (twenty years ago)

man why do people go to el Coyote? so bad...

gear (gear), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:46 (twenty years ago)

Drew is a perfect KY gentleman, for the record.

(that was over 10 years ago gear, different times i'd imagine)

gygax! (gygax!), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:47 (twenty years ago)

cheap margharitas before new beverly!

Remy (x Jeremy), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:48 (twenty years ago)

what is a KY gentleman?

(well the food is bad at least! the margaritas are el cheapo and decent, true)

gear (gear), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:49 (twenty years ago)

drew is from teh kentucky.

jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:58 (twenty years ago)

(alternately: i dunno, ask martin!)

jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 21:58 (twenty years ago)

robble

gear (gear), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 22:08 (twenty years ago)

man why do people go to el Coyote? so bad...

SO OTM

Dr. Glen Y. Abreu (dr g), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 22:12 (twenty years ago)

http://avclub.com/content/node/25248

the onion liked it

kingfish completely hatstand (Kingfish), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 22:21 (twenty years ago)

what is a KY gentleman?

http://www.harvardpilgrim.mimrx.com/harvard/SiteImages/PrdImages/200x200/0381370089025.JPG

zappi (joni), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 22:30 (twenty years ago)

That's what I was thinking, zappi...

You can interpret what this says about me if you like, but it's one of the very best movies I've seen this year.

That you're a romantic?

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 22:48 (twenty years ago)

It's true.

luna (luna.c), Wednesday, 10 August 2005 22:51 (twenty years ago)

one year passes...
I didn't think he seemed like a scumbag.

wordy rappinghood (roxymuzak), Monday, 6 November 2006 18:39 (nineteen years ago)

i still hate el coyote

cousin larry bundgee (bundgee), Monday, 6 November 2006 18:47 (nineteen years ago)

what is it

wordy rappinghood (roxymuzak), Monday, 6 November 2006 18:57 (nineteen years ago)

It's this dumpy little mexican place here in LA, rox - the food is crappy, the margaritas suck, but it's beyond popular. No one I know can figure it out.

luna (luna.c), Monday, 6 November 2006 19:17 (nineteen years ago)

a friend was just telling me a story about a guy who filmed a video of him asking her out in various quirky locations. everyone agreed that it is totally creepy. i think the video is online somewhere...

cousin larry bundgee (bundgee), Monday, 6 November 2006 19:19 (nineteen years ago)

el coyote sounds like the la version of sf's la rondalla, aka La Rondiarrhea, a totally lame Mission dive that is wildly popular, even though it's surrounded by far superior Mexican restaurants

Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Monday, 6 November 2006 19:22 (nineteen years ago)

people are so easily creeped out

wordy rappinghood (roxymuzak), Monday, 6 November 2006 19:23 (nineteen years ago)


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