Have you given up friends, a job, possesions? Do you ever wonder if it was worth it?
Maybe we can help each other come to terms with our losses, and remind each other it was for the best. Sigh.
― Rumpie, Wednesday, 24 August 2005 09:53 (twenty years ago)
― I Dream Of Sleep (kate), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 09:57 (twenty years ago)
My ex and I were living with his parents for the last two years of our relationship - they had a big house with a large garden and lived across the road from woodland which the dog absolutely loved.
When I split up with my boyfriend and got a tiddly wee flat of my own, I realised it was for the best to leave the dog where he had company all day and a home he knew well.
I think it would have been selfish to have taken him with me and left him cooped up in my first floor flat while I worked all day but God, I fucking miss him.
― Rumpie, Wednesday, 24 August 2005 10:17 (twenty years ago)
also, charlie brown:
http://photos29.flickr.com/36150217_ea051ae5ba.jpg?v=0
― stevie (stevie), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 10:19 (twenty years ago)
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― I Dream Of Sleep (kate), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 10:35 (twenty years ago)
― Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 10:36 (twenty years ago)
I've given up ridiculous amounts of quite important things - jobs, relationships, homes, my education, etc. - in the name of "music" or pursuit of creative goals or some kind of self expresssion (thinking this would be the cure for depression or whatever).
In the long-term, NO, it bloody well wasn't worth the sacrifice. And really, when it comes down to it, I should think "oh, but I've got these great experiences which I wouldn't trade for the world..." but actually, at the moment, I'm pretty much thinking "No, actually, really, I'd like those bits of my life back."
― I Dream Of Sleep (kate), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 10:40 (twenty years ago)
― Rumpie, Wednesday, 24 August 2005 10:51 (twenty years ago)
― I Dream Of Sleep (kate), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 10:52 (twenty years ago)
― Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 10:53 (twenty years ago)
― I Dream Of Sleep (kate), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 10:56 (twenty years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 11:52 (twenty years ago)
― and I can walk out into the world, singing with my people (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 11:55 (twenty years ago)
― I Dream Of Sleep (kate), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 11:55 (twenty years ago)
― g-kit (g-kit), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 11:55 (twenty years ago)
― tissp! (the impossible shortest specia), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 11:56 (twenty years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 11:57 (twenty years ago)
I am glad I am not the only one. But then again, I like just about any murder mysteries. I even watch CSI:BBC for christs sake...
― I Dream Of Sleep (kate), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 11:57 (twenty years ago)
― g-kit (g-kit), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 11:58 (twenty years ago)
― tissp! (the impossible shortest specia), Wednesday, 24 August 2005 12:00 (twenty years ago)