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he has known me for about 5 months and he proposed??? does he really love me or just what he sees

― ????, Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:01 (twenty years ago)

In Lost Bernard proposed to Rose after just 5 months and that worked out just fine.

― Konal Doddz (blueski), Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:03 (twenty years ago)

ooh shit, spoiler, sorry

― Konal Doddz (blueski), Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:03 (twenty years ago)

Depends on what you showed him.

― mark grout (mark grout), Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:03 (twenty years ago)

thats the thing i havent done anything with him cause i told him i didnt want to... ppl made up rumours that all he wanted was sex and to prove that thats not all he wants we havent done anything sexual

― ????, Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:07 (twenty years ago)

I'm not sure how well you can know someone after just five months, but there again you can still not really know someone even after twenty years.

But after only 5 months? It's all still rose-tinted glasses at that stage, innit?

xpost : how old are you both??

― C J (C J), Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:09 (twenty years ago)

thats true but he said that even after knowing me for that short amount of time he doesnt want to be with anybody else...

it is weird cause we are only youngins

― ????, Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:11 (twenty years ago)

are you married????

― ????, Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:13 (twenty years ago)

― ????, Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:14 (twenty years ago)

I guess that is the end of the thread in real terms.

― Paul Kelly (kelly), Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:18 (twenty years ago)

Being in love when you are 18 is wonderful. Some people do marry young and stay deliriously happy for ever, but the chances of this happening are quite slim because people change - the person you are (with your life experiences, maturity, worldview, hopes, dreams etc) is probably not going to be the same as the person you will be at 28, or 38 etc. You may grow apart, and if you do then that's quite normal.

Enjoy being in a relationship with your boyfriend, but there's not really any rush to make things 'formal', is there? Just see where things go, and whether you both feel the same about each other over the coming years. or months.

― C J (C J), Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:19 (twenty years ago)

that is the best thing anybody has ever told me ... from experience or just common sense????

― ????, Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:22 (twenty years ago)

Oh it sounds like he's in love alright, not many people would marry for other reasons.

Maybe you should be questioning why he's asking to marry you after such a short time together.

Can't you just both be happy without the marriage label for now? If you're still together and in love after a few years at least then, who knows...

xpost2

― Ste (Fuzzy), Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:22 (twenty years ago)

get out now while you still can 2

― dr lulu (dr lulu), Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:41 (twenty years ago)

are you really serious... how did u know this is me???

― ????, Thursday, 20 April 2006 09:42 (twenty years ago)

I don't know how I know that????

― dr lulu (dr lulu), Thursday, 20 April 2006 10:04 (twenty years ago)

omg!

― Konal Doddz (blueski), Thursday, 20 April 2006 10:07 (twenty years ago)

aaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrggggggggghhhhhhhhh u ppl are confusn me

― ????, Thursday, 20 April 2006 10:11 (twenty years ago)

dont worry bout nethin

― Onimo (GerryNemo), Thursday, 20 April 2006 10:11 (twenty years ago)

i havent spoken to you b4 have i???

― ????, Thursday, 20 April 2006 10:14 (twenty years ago)

my husband and I met and started dating when we were 18 but we didn't get married until we were 29; I'm cautious like that.

― teeny (teeny), Thursday, 20 April 2006 11:54 (twenty years ago)

teeny, i like your style!

― tehresa (tehresa), Thursday, 20 April 2006 14:41 (twenty years ago)

My parents started dating at 16 and married at 18 (shotgun - me) and it was a MISTAKE. But you can't generalise from any one (or five, or ten) example(s). C J however, OTM.

― Zora (Zora), Thursday, 20 April 2006 15:44 (twenty years ago)

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