But I've just been fucking weighed down but complete fucking political despair in the U.S. Whether I knew better or not at the time, I've always had someone "up there" in the higher echelons of the U.S. government that would give me hope that maybe a better time is coming. Not a perfect time. There will never be a perfect time. There may not necessarily be a better time anymore. But at least a time where some common-sense issues will finally be resolved and part of me can be at peace.
But I'm at a complete loss for having any political heroes in this world. It's fucking attrition. The only politicians I can name who I feel are both doing the right thing, and have the energy to make good things happen don't go further than Washington state... and that's only about.. I dunno.. maybe 3 people?
My main point being.. I'm completely depressed about this. It's eaten away at me big time. There are barely any Republicans, Democrats, Libertarians, Green party people, Canadian Liberals, NDPs (that I know of), Conservatives, Reform Party people (haha, like there was ever a chance there)... no one in Europe, or even Australia or New Zealand or any part of the world that has politicians that I can look up to or point to and go "See? It can be this good!"
I was hoping someone could just either shake me out of this stupid funk, because it's probably the stupidest reason to be depressed -- honestly. Or at least find people who know where I'm coming from.
Again, life is otherwise GREAT for me right now, and perhaps I'm just wired to always find something to be worried or depressed about. But I just don't remember a time when I felt that the entire world of politicians/guerrillas were all a huge fucking bag of self-righteous sociopathic douches -- or if not sociopathic, just inept.
I'm not looking to leave the States, at least in the near future. I love my city, absolutely, and love showing it off to visitors and friends. I'm thankful for that. But it's just really daunting when you finally have a clear view of what's above you, and you realize it's just a bunch of asbestos and drywall in the form of people who have this minor job of running the world.
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― sting (listerine), Friday, 19 May 2006 08:07 (seventeen years ago) link
http://www.santissimo.com/images/timor/x_g/IMG_4911.jpg
(maybe)
― Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Friday, 19 May 2006 09:01 (seventeen years ago) link
― Ned T.Rifle (nedtrifle), Friday, 19 May 2006 09:36 (seventeen years ago) link
I wouldn't say I was actually depressed about it, like you my life is pretty good these days. But it's not nice to feel so hopeless about the world's political direction.
xpost yeah, who is that?
― Colonel Poo (Colonel Poo), Friday, 19 May 2006 09:59 (seventeen years ago) link
― Konal Doddz (blueski), Friday, 19 May 2006 10:02 (seventeen years ago) link
― Ned T.Rifle (nedtrifle), Friday, 19 May 2006 10:57 (seventeen years ago) link
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― emsk ( emsk), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:08 (seventeen years ago) link
― LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:20 (seventeen years ago) link
The last politician I trusted was killed in a plane crash.
― LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:21 (seventeen years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:22 (seventeen years ago) link
mainly i guess the current "climate" is not a problem to me because i can't imagine feeling this: Whether I knew better or not at the time, I've always had someone "up there" in the higher echelons of the U.S. government that would give me hope that maybe a better time is coming. i don't even know what that would be like and that's fine with me!
― caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:44 (seventeen years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:51 (seventeen years ago) link
Nothing personal, caitlin, but you have answered your own question? The despair is much easier to understand when you've been voting for more than 3 years, although i wonder whether the people who have been voting for 30 years think the same thing about people with say, only 15 years of perspective.
i don't even know what that would be like and that's fine with me!
People get the government they deserve, and revolutions only bring a new set of masters. We're all better off focusing less on "hating both equally" and more on trying to support something postive. If you can find anything.
― pleased to mitya (mitya), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:55 (seventeen years ago) link
as for those seeking and end to the 2-party system - do you think this would shift the political climate/government leftward? on what basis?
― gabbneb (gabbneb), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:00 (seventeen years ago) link
Doesn't mean I'm doing everything I could be, but I'm trying to not stress over the things that I'm not going to change. (Still, it all really pisses me the fuck OFF!)
(God grant me the serenity, etc... + Think globally, act locally... )
― dave's good arm (facsimile) (dave225.3), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:02 (seventeen years ago) link
i don't think ending the 2-party system would necessarily shift anything leftward. i don't really believe in parties but i wish we could at least have more than this pseudo-binary thing, nobody can see outside of it and people think they have to pick one and of course it's going to be disappointing because they will never, ever be able to provide what's needed.
also, mitya, it's true that i have only been able to vote for 3 years but there's a lot more to politics than parties and voting, for me anyway. i will never be a democrat, so i don't think i'm ever going to be in despair about the same kind of stuff, i guess. different political things put me in despair. i also don't think it's true at all that just because i hate democrats and republicans that i'm being unproductive. (maybe hate is too negative a word, it's more of an indifference than anything). i think believing in either one of them is pretty damn unproductive, actually.
― caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:13 (seventeen years ago) link
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― Sara Robinson-Coolidge (Sara R-C), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:20 (seventeen years ago) link
I think the Western world's political climate is just going to become more exclusionary as little terrorist incidents cycle around the world.
This is the problem. I'm not unhappy living in the U.S., and sure, it would be so much easier if there were other places that were considered much better places for opportunities, liberties, relative safety, etc., but there aren't, period, and there probably never will be. Each of these cities in each country end up averaging out to be more of the same at the end... and this average is just getting worse and worse. Hence the despair.
If I do ever leave the U.S. for good, I'm sure I won't be allowed back in with ease. This may not matter when I become old enough to not have immediate parents/family in the U.S. around anymore (which isn't really that far away -- I have no siblings.), but I still do. I'm hedging my bets that Western countries are not going to kick out Americans just because they're Americans (given a clean record, blah blah blah...).
I just slowly see a Western world of police/puritanical states forming one by one at a snail's pace. The whole left/right thing is just a distraction to that.
Seeing Democrats embracing homophobia and pro-fundamentalist legislation to gain votes outright was an eye-opener, which I admit I was naive to think would not happen. This is one of many things that brought me to this state of mind..
― ((((((DOPplur)))n)))u))))tttt (donut), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:26 (seventeen years ago) link
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― Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Friday, 19 May 2006 15:10 (seventeen years ago) link
Hopefully we'll survive that long.
― kingfish doesn't live here anymore (kingfish 2.0), Friday, 19 May 2006 15:18 (seventeen years ago) link
Spent decades fighting for Timor's independence from Indonesia, is now president. Very popular in Portugal due to his symbolising/highlighting the courage of the rsistance. Main reason I think of him whenever ppl talk about not being able to come up with any worthy role models in politics tho is a few years ago when I saw a report about riots in Dili, with footage of him actually walking the streets trying to calm ppl down. Yeah, cynics can say it was a photo op, and yeah, these things are easier/more necessary for a leader to do when we're talking about a miniscule, underdevloped country, but there was still a level of courage and integrity present in that image, stuck with me.
I'm sure there's all sorts of dirt one could dig up on him, but I haven't heard of any yet.
Wikipedia:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xanana_Gusmao
― Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Friday, 19 May 2006 15:24 (seventeen years ago) link
― Colin Meeder (Mert), Friday, 19 May 2006 15:33 (seventeen years ago) link
― Jeff LeVine (Jeff LeVine), Friday, 19 May 2006 15:35 (seventeen years ago) link
Is the middle class currently better or worse off than during WWII or Vietnam?
― LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:09 (seventeen years ago) link
If it isn't mediocrity it is mendacity. If it isn't incompetance it is megalomania. Sometimes it is all of them together in a total cringeworthy package - like our current Bubblehead-In-Chief. The sort of people who elbow their way to the top are only rarely of a noble character. I have steadily recalibrated my expectations of politicians to a very low threshold. I mostly hope they won't facilitate too much hatred, greed and destruction along the way.
Be glad your life is so good now. Try not to cringe too much at the sight of your "leaders". It helps a bit to mock them ferociously at every opportunity.
― Aimless (Aimless), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:13 (seventeen years ago) link
― LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:15 (seventeen years ago) link
― Aimless (Aimless), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:36 (seventeen years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:38 (seventeen years ago) link
It also helps to have read Henry Adams.
― Alfred, Lord Sotosyn (Alfred Soto), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:53 (seventeen years ago) link
― Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Friday, 19 May 2006 17:02 (seventeen years ago) link
Yes. Certainly. Many, many thousands of them. On the other side of the coin are the top percentile of power: Bush, Cheney, Rumsfeld, Frist, Hastert, DeLay and company. It's a progressive winnowing out process as you rise nearer to the top, and conscience is ballast that's tossed over the side.
― Aimless (Aimless), Friday, 19 May 2006 17:10 (seventeen years ago) link
― gear (gear), Friday, 19 May 2006 17:16 (seventeen years ago) link
I'm with the OP on this one. My life is going pretty wonderfully, but I have a real sense of despair and panic about the direction of the world (which has become more material as I just found out my wife is having twins). I used to get by on the general sense that over time, people become more progressive, but I think that that sense was pretty naive, and even if it IS true in the big picture, there can be some pretty scary "localized" downturns as we move towards something better.
Is the answer, as Rushkoff recently said in Arthur, to just disengage? I don't know. Maybe. Somehow that feels like giving up. But on the other hand, giving up on a system that seems irreparable might be better than trying to "fix it from the inside."
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― gabbneb (gabbneb), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:08 (seventeen years ago) link
it's good that he's aware of what an anomaly he is -- he's really taking advantage of his little window of opportunity to get shit done for his city. at least he's trying and he's not all talk, no action.
― natalie portmanteau (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:18 (seventeen years ago) link
― Fluffy Bear Hearts Patricia Torres Ray (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:23 (seventeen years ago) link
Hey now, I didn't say white!
― milo z (mlp), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:25 (seventeen years ago) link
http://www.hcjic.org/images/Photos/obama-clinton2.jpghttp://www.law.washington.edu/LCT/Pubs/News/Images/cantwell.jpghttp://archives.cnn.com/2000/ALLPOLITICS/stories/08/11/sanchez.playboy/story.sanchez.kabc.jpghttp://img.thehill.com/img/news/072705/Gene%20Taylor%20copy.gifhttp://www.sfsu.edu/~news/2004/spring/78a.jpghttp://207.44.246.82/~michroni/news/images/stories/2005.10.10/Front%20PAGE,%20granholm.jpghttp://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/politics/images/daily/rahm_012598ap.jpghttp://www.newyorkbusiness.com/images/gallery/SC_sheekey.jpghttp://www.house.gov/schultz/photogallery/ph_group.jpg
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― Dr Morbius (Dr Morbius), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:26 (seventeen years ago) link
― LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:16 (seventeen years ago) link
i dunno how likely this is, aside from possibly swaying moderates who think going into iraq was a shitty idea. a lot of the republicans who've turned on bush have done so because they think he's not tough enough on immigration issues -- that certainly isn't gonna make them start voting democrat though, they'll just support some other conservative who agrees with them.
― natalie portmanteau (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:36 (seventeen years ago) link
― gabbneb (gabbneb), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:38 (seventeen years ago) link
Actually, all snark aside, I think we have a lot of good young blood in the Democratic party, and I think it's going to continue to improve.
― Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:55 (seventeen years ago) link
Meaningless until November 2006.
― LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:56 (seventeen years ago) link
I think so too, but I'm not convinced that it will translate into votes. Every major election cycle has been labelled "the year of [insert trendy demographic here]" but each time that hasn't translated into actual numbers.
― LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:58 (seventeen years ago) link
― pleased to mitya (mitya), Friday, 19 May 2006 23:38 (seventeen years ago) link
"GRAVY FRIES?"
LOL
― ((((((DOPplur)))n)))u))))tttt (donut), Saturday, 20 May 2006 01:42 (seventeen years ago) link
― ((((((DOPplur)))n)))u))))tttt (donut), Saturday, 20 May 2006 01:45 (seventeen years ago) link
How has this not been bumped in 14 years
― longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Sunday, 5 July 2020 23:09 (three years ago) link
Currently oscillating between thread title and 'complete political indifference, despite (because) not being very comfortable otherwise'.
― pomenitul, Monday, 6 July 2020 01:17 (three years ago) link
Somehow the mask divide makes me despair even more than racism. I know it shouldn’t, but it’s just the fact that something so obviously *beneficial* to society with no real drawbacks can still set off virulent political division. I mean I really, really hope the anti-mask thing is overplayed by twitter bots and sensational media. But it’s so fucking disillusioning. I just want to stay in my northeast liberal bubble forever.
― longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Monday, 6 July 2020 01:35 (three years ago) link
OTOH https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.foxnews.com/politics/fox-news-poll-voters-say-yes-to-face-masks-no-to-rallies.amp
Guess that’s sort of encouraging?
― longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Monday, 6 July 2020 01:36 (three years ago) link
this is me. my job has kept going, I work from home, I have good savings, I'm in good health, I have 30 weeks of severance on deck if I get laid off.
but the ugliness of the world has really done a number on my emotions. on the other hand, days tend to fly back quicker cos nothing really happens, so it's making what I thought would be a long excruciating election year move faster.
― I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Monday, 6 July 2020 03:01 (three years ago) link
what I thought would be a long excruciating election year move faster.
get back to us on Oct 1st with an update. ;-)
― the unappreciated charisma of cows (Aimless), Monday, 6 July 2020 03:34 (three years ago) link
oh for the days when things merely completely sucked
― this has been the best year fuiud (rip van wanko), Monday, 6 July 2020 03:42 (three years ago) link
oh I'm sure Oct 1 from Nov 3 will feel like 3 years
― I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Monday, 6 July 2020 03:44 (three years ago) link
There's a performativity about the mask divide which makes me think its not quite as pronounced as might appear
― anvil, Monday, 6 July 2020 07:24 (three years ago) link
Glad not to have to have that argument here in England, where the mask divide is between the 1% of the population that wear them and everyone else, who is like “what’s a mask”
― Keir’d flex (wins), Monday, 6 July 2020 08:25 (three years ago) link