Complete political despair, despite being very comfortable otherwise

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I realize I'm incredibly lucky compared to most in my country, much less the entire world, so you're more than welcome to ignore this thread and move on.

But I've just been fucking weighed down but complete fucking political despair in the U.S. Whether I knew better or not at the time, I've always had someone "up there" in the higher echelons of the U.S. government that would give me hope that maybe a better time is coming. Not a perfect time. There will never be a perfect time. There may not necessarily be a better time anymore. But at least a time where some common-sense issues will finally be resolved and part of me can be at peace.

But I'm at a complete loss for having any political heroes in this world. It's fucking attrition. The only politicians I can name who I feel are both doing the right thing, and have the energy to make good things happen don't go further than Washington state... and that's only about.. I dunno.. maybe 3 people?

My main point being.. I'm completely depressed about this. It's eaten away at me big time. There are barely any Republicans, Democrats, Libertarians, Green party people, Canadian Liberals, NDPs (that I know of), Conservatives, Reform Party people (haha, like there was ever a chance there)... no one in Europe, or even Australia or New Zealand or any part of the world that has politicians that I can look up to or point to and go "See? It can be this good!"

I was hoping someone could just either shake me out of this stupid funk, because it's probably the stupidest reason to be depressed -- honestly. Or at least find people who know where I'm coming from.

Again, life is otherwise GREAT for me right now, and perhaps I'm just wired to always find something to be worried or depressed about. But I just don't remember a time when I felt that the entire world of politicians/guerrillas were all a huge fucking bag of self-righteous sociopathic douches -- or if not sociopathic, just inept.

I'm not looking to leave the States, at least in the near future. I love my city, absolutely, and love showing it off to visitors and friends. I'm thankful for that. But it's just really daunting when you finally have a clear view of what's above you, and you realize it's just a bunch of asbestos and drywall in the form of people who have this minor job of running the world.

((((((DOPplur)))n)))u))))tttt (donut), Friday, 19 May 2006 07:18 (seventeen years ago) link

habla espanol?

dave q (listerine), Friday, 19 May 2006 07:46 (seventeen years ago) link

poco. :(

((((((DOPplur)))n)))u))))tttt (donut), Friday, 19 May 2006 07:50 (seventeen years ago) link

(I took Spanish in high school, but forgot most of it... same with French in early grade school.)

((((((DOPplur)))n)))u))))tttt (donut), Friday, 19 May 2006 07:50 (seventeen years ago) link

yeah, french - can't speak a word - if there's one thing i'd kick my high-school-self's ass for, it's that

dave q (listerine), Friday, 19 May 2006 07:59 (seventeen years ago) link

if you love your city, set it free, or build a fortress around its heart

sting (listerine), Friday, 19 May 2006 08:07 (seventeen years ago) link

My main point being.. I'm completely depressed about this. It's eaten away at me big time. There are barely any Republicans, Democrats, Libertarians, Green party people, Canadian Liberals, NDPs (that I know of), Conservatives, Reform Party people (haha, like there was ever a chance there)... no one in Europe, or even Australia or New Zealand or any part of the world that has politicians that I can look up to or point to and go "See? It can be this good!"

http://www.santissimo.com/images/timor/x_g/IMG_4911.jpg

(maybe)

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Friday, 19 May 2006 09:01 (seventeen years ago) link

OK - so who is that guy?

Ned T.Rifle (nedtrifle), Friday, 19 May 2006 09:36 (seventeen years ago) link

You're not alone, Donut. I'd be feeling it more if I was in the US, but we're not too far behind you here in the UK.

I wouldn't say I was actually depressed about it, like you my life is pretty good these days. But it's not nice to feel so hopeless about the world's political direction.

xpost yeah, who is that?

Colonel Poo (Colonel Poo), Friday, 19 May 2006 09:59 (seventeen years ago) link

GIANT DOUCHE '08?

Konal Doddz (blueski), Friday, 19 May 2006 10:02 (seventeen years ago) link

So - WHO is that guy?

Ned T.Rifle (nedtrifle), Friday, 19 May 2006 10:57 (seventeen years ago) link

Oh, it's Xanana Gusmao...ok, so my grasp of Timoran politics is a little shaky. Is he a good guy?

Ned T.Rifle (nedtrifle), Friday, 19 May 2006 11:06 (seventeen years ago) link

'Is he a good guy then?' I should have put.

Ned T.Rifle (nedtrifle), Friday, 19 May 2006 11:07 (seventeen years ago) link

I don't despair as much as Donut on the point but I am definitely as burnt out on major possibilities (though minor ones, for now, are everywhere). My love of dark humor is what is keeping me a bit sane right now.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 19 May 2006 11:49 (seventeen years ago) link

we are all fucked; no one gives a shit.

emsk ( emsk), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:08 (seventeen years ago) link

I'm kinda with Donut here... alternating between depression and an odd sense of "sheesh, I can't wait to see what happens next." It's doubly odd, because two people I've known for awhile have already left the country, quite possibly for good, because of the current socio-political climate. I've been thinking about doing something similar, which is probably an indirect reason why I haven't bothered to unpack everything I have in storage, or even find a more permanent place to live.

LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:20 (seventeen years ago) link

The only politicians I can name who I feel are both doing the right thing, and have the energy to make good things happen don't go further than Washington state

The last politician I trusted was killed in a plane crash.

LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:21 (seventeen years ago) link

Without trying to sound flippant, my general plan of slowly but surely stripping down what I have and own may yet pay dividends on that front. Being able to move compactly at a moment's notice has its many advantages.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:22 (seventeen years ago) link

i am not really sure what people mean when they say that NOW they're in despair over the political situation. why now? it's been awful since i can remember (but i'm 21 so...), but by awful i mean nothing gets done and everything still sucks and will suck forever. i don't mean people being at each other's throats, but maybe it's because i'm neither democrat nor republican (*cough* hammerandsickle.jpg) that the stupid, petty fights between the two sides don't faze me. i hate them both equally. what bothers me is that we're so stuck. the two-party "system" is fucking ridiculous, people can't see what's right in front of their faces, the living conditions/education/healthcare stuff is so so bad among the poor and nobody important really cares, it's just posturing all over. but i never want to leave (i love america!) and i think talking about leaving is...pretty dumb.

mainly i guess the current "climate" is not a problem to me because i can't imagine feeling this: Whether I knew better or not at the time, I've always had someone "up there" in the higher echelons of the U.S. government that would give me hope that maybe a better time is coming. i don't even know what that would be like and that's fine with me!

caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:44 (seventeen years ago) link

Hey, in many respects that's a great state of mind to be in -- means that you learn to rely on yourself first and foremost, which is always a good thing.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:51 (seventeen years ago) link

i am not really sure what people mean when they say that NOW they're in despair over the political situation.

Nothing personal, caitlin, but you have answered your own question? The despair is much easier to understand when you've been voting for more than 3 years, although i wonder whether the people who have been voting for 30 years think the same thing about people with say, only 15 years of perspective.

i don't even know what that would be like and that's fine with me!

People get the government they deserve, and revolutions only bring a new set of masters. We're all better off focusing less on "hating both equally" and more on trying to support something postive. If you can find anything.

pleased to mitya (mitya), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:55 (seventeen years ago) link

Donut - perhaps you respect WA state politicians because you have more opportunity and inclination to observe them. perhaps you would respect politicians at similar levels in other states if you had an equal opportunity and inclination to observe them.

as for those seeking and end to the 2-party system - do you think this would shift the political climate/government leftward? on what basis?

gabbneb (gabbneb), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:00 (seventeen years ago) link

I can't help but be annoyed by everything that happens in politics .. but I try to keep telling myself to only worry about the things I can affect. I vote. I encourage other people to vote. I work with a shelter. I try to walk more often. I donate money. I smile at people on the sidewalk. And I post about it on the internet.

Doesn't mean I'm doing everything I could be, but I'm trying to not stress over the things that I'm not going to change. (Still, it all really pisses me the fuck OFF!)

(God grant me the serenity, etc... + Think globally, act locally... )

dave's good arm (facsimile) (dave225.3), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:02 (seventeen years ago) link

xposts

i don't think ending the 2-party system would necessarily shift anything leftward. i don't really believe in parties but i wish we could at least have more than this pseudo-binary thing, nobody can see outside of it and people think they have to pick one and of course it's going to be disappointing because they will never, ever be able to provide what's needed.

also, mitya, it's true that i have only been able to vote for 3 years but there's a lot more to politics than parties and voting, for me anyway. i will never be a democrat, so i don't think i'm ever going to be in despair about the same kind of stuff, i guess. different political things put me in despair. i also don't think it's true at all that just because i hate democrats and republicans that i'm being unproductive. (maybe hate is too negative a word, it's more of an indifference than anything). i think believing in either one of them is pretty damn unproductive, actually.

caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:13 (seventeen years ago) link

oh i don't know why i put the word "unproductive" into your mouth, sorry. i guess i meant "not positive"

caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:14 (seventeen years ago) link

I don't know if this helps you at all, but I take some comfort in knowing that I'm not the only person who is just horrified by the current political climate in the US. Sometimes just finding one or two others and venting helps. (Sometimes trying to ignore the situation and getting your mind off it entirely helps, too.) Believe me, you are not alone.

Sara Robinson-Coolidge (Sara R-C), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:20 (seventeen years ago) link

gabb, while I'm sure that would increase my education on U.S. politics, no doubt, it's not going to help my despair but only confirm it.

I think the Western world's political climate is just going to become more exclusionary as little terrorist incidents cycle around the world.

This is the problem. I'm not unhappy living in the U.S., and sure, it would be so much easier if there were other places that were considered much better places for opportunities, liberties, relative safety, etc., but there aren't, period, and there probably never will be. Each of these cities in each country end up averaging out to be more of the same at the end... and this average is just getting worse and worse. Hence the despair.

If I do ever leave the U.S. for good, I'm sure I won't be allowed back in with ease. This may not matter when I become old enough to not have immediate parents/family in the U.S. around anymore (which isn't really that far away -- I have no siblings.), but I still do. I'm hedging my bets that Western countries are not going to kick out Americans just because they're Americans (given a clean record, blah blah blah...).

I just slowly see a Western world of police/puritanical states forming one by one at a snail's pace. The whole left/right thing is just a distraction to that.

Seeing Democrats embracing homophobia and pro-fundamentalist legislation to gain votes outright was an eye-opener, which I admit I was naive to think would not happen. This is one of many things that brought me to this state of mind..

((((((DOPplur)))n)))u))))tttt (donut), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:26 (seventeen years ago) link

(I was too young to witness the Dixiecrat era, you see... otherwise, I'd be less naive.)

((((((DOPplur)))n)))u))))tttt (donut), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:28 (seventeen years ago) link

keep the faith gabbneb, the democratic party will surely never make you regret it

Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:39 (seventeen years ago) link

compared to the days when national politicians could say things like "integration of the races is an abomination upon our national character" i think things have gotten a whole hell of a lot better, actually - even republicans have to give lip service to anti-racism as well as social welfare programs and all types of shit that they would have imagined - correctly - were vote-losers for decades if not centuries

Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Friday, 19 May 2006 15:10 (seventeen years ago) link

Also, I think there is hope that enough people have realized how fucked up things really are nowadays, and are getting involved. It should take a generation or so for their effects to be felt.

Hopefully we'll survive that long.

kingfish doesn't live here anymore (kingfish 2.0), Friday, 19 May 2006 15:18 (seventeen years ago) link

Oh, it's Xanana Gusmao...ok, so my grasp of Timoran politics is a little shaky. Is he a good guy?

Spent decades fighting for Timor's independence from Indonesia, is now president. Very popular in Portugal due to his symbolising/highlighting the courage of the rsistance. Main reason I think of him whenever ppl talk about not being able to come up with any worthy role models in politics tho is a few years ago when I saw a report about riots in Dili, with footage of him actually walking the streets trying to calm ppl down. Yeah, cynics can say it was a photo op, and yeah, these things are easier/more necessary for a leader to do when we're talking about a miniscule, underdevloped country, but there was still a level of courage and integrity present in that image, stuck with me.

I'm sure there's all sorts of dirt one could dig up on him, but I haven't heard of any yet.

Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xanana_Gusmao

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Friday, 19 May 2006 15:24 (seventeen years ago) link

It's not that hard to learn a foreign language when you really have to, folks.

Colin Meeder (Mert), Friday, 19 May 2006 15:33 (seventeen years ago) link

Read more history and try to keep things in perspective. Everybody always feels like things are getting worse, but generally that's really not the case. Just look at the last century - are things really worse now than during the Great Depression or WWI or WWII? Is the US led war in Iraq really worse than their war in Vietnam? What's depressing is watching humanity make the same mistakes over and over again. We seem to be pretty much caught in a circle (or a wide curving spiral) when it seems like we should be moving in a more or less straight line. Just try not to get too down about things that you can't control (is what I keep telling myself).

Jeff LeVine (Jeff LeVine), Friday, 19 May 2006 15:35 (seventeen years ago) link

are things really worse now than during the Great Depression or WWI or WWII? Is the US led war in Iraq really worse than their war in Vietnam?

Is the middle class currently better or worse off than during WWII or Vietnam?

LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:09 (seventeen years ago) link

It helps to have lived long enough to have seen LBJ, Nixon, Ford, Carter, Reagan, Bush I, Clinton and Bush The Worser in action. Also Mao Tse Tung, Idi Amin, Maggie Thatcher, John Major, Mitterand, Mubarak, George Wallace, et. al.

If it isn't mediocrity it is mendacity. If it isn't incompetance it is megalomania. Sometimes it is all of them together in a total cringeworthy package - like our current Bubblehead-In-Chief. The sort of people who elbow their way to the top are only rarely of a noble character. I have steadily recalibrated my expectations of politicians to a very low threshold. I mostly hope they won't facilitate too much hatred, greed and destruction along the way.

Be glad your life is so good now. Try not to cringe too much at the sight of your "leaders". It helps a bit to mock them ferociously at every opportunity.

Aimless (Aimless), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:13 (seventeen years ago) link

Not to be completely flip there, but much of what I believe is nagging at me is more than just current political dysfunction, but a more generalized "running down." Certainly not any kind of Kunstler-esque collapse.

LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:15 (seventeen years ago) link

It's just the entropy taking hold. You'll get used to it. Just remember that entropy can be locally reversed by the introduction of energy from an outside source, such as sunshine or education through enlightened example.

Aimless (Aimless), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:36 (seventeen years ago) link

Or Japanther playing feedback. Er.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:38 (seventeen years ago) link

If it isn't mediocrity it is mendacity. If it isn't incompetance it is megalomania. Sometimes it is all of them together in a total cringeworthy package - like our current Bubblehead-In-Chief. The sort of people who elbow their way to the top are only rarely of a noble character. I have steadily recalibrated my expectations of politicians to a very low threshold. I mostly hope they won't facilitate too much hatred, greed and destruction along the way.

It also helps to have read Henry Adams.

Alfred, Lord Sotosyn (Alfred Soto), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:53 (seventeen years ago) link

There are a lot of great leaders and functionaries and volunteers. At some point, they will say or do something you will disagree with. In the US, electoral politics is ugly and the punditry is downright nasty. Unfortunately that is the filter we see things through.

Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Friday, 19 May 2006 17:02 (seventeen years ago) link

There are a lot of great leaders and functionaries and volunteers.

Yes. Certainly. Many, many thousands of them. On the other side of the coin are the top percentile of power: Bush, Cheney, Rumsfeld, Frist, Hastert, DeLay and company. It's a progressive winnowing out process as you rise nearer to the top, and conscience is ballast that's tossed over the side.

Aimless (Aimless), Friday, 19 May 2006 17:10 (seventeen years ago) link

What about running for office? Seriously. I'm considering it as an option a few years down the line, despite the existence of a few bong-rip-snapping photos in my past. Other than that, you could volunteer for an organization you believe in, or at least give some money to something.

I'm with the OP on this one. My life is going pretty wonderfully, but I have a real sense of despair and panic about the direction of the world (which has become more material as I just found out my wife is having twins). I used to get by on the general sense that over time, people become more progressive, but I think that that sense was pretty naive, and even if it IS true in the big picture, there can be some pretty scary "localized" downturns as we move towards something better.

Is the answer, as Rushkoff recently said in Arthur, to just disengage? I don't know. Maybe. Somehow that feels like giving up. But on the other hand, giving up on a system that seems irreparable might be better than trying to "fix it from the inside."

schwantz (schwantz), Friday, 19 May 2006 17:36 (seventeen years ago) link

I like Villaragosa as a person, but it remains to be seen just how much political traction he's going to get in the long haul. If he pulls off the LAUSD takeover, he will have done more than any other LA mayor in the past 20 years.

LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 17:50 (seventeen years ago) link

http://www.fwjustice.org/IMAGES/millerphoto.jpg

gabbneb (gabbneb), Friday, 19 May 2006 17:52 (seventeen years ago) link

The parade of unattractive old people isn't making me feel better.

milo z (mlp), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:04 (seventeen years ago) link

i knew that was coming - politics doesn't make me feel good unless it's cool, attractive, young and multiracial

gabbneb (gabbneb), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:07 (seventeen years ago) link

I like Villaragosa as a person, but it remains to be seen just how much political traction he's going to get in the long haul. If he pulls off the LAUSD takeover, he will have done more than any other LA mayor in the past 20 years.

it's good that he's aware of what an anomaly he is -- he's really taking advantage of his little window of opportunity to get shit done for his city. at least he's trying and he's not all talk, no action.

natalie portmanteau (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:18 (seventeen years ago) link

i knew that was coming - politics doesn't make me feel good unless it's cool, attractive, young and multiracial

Hey now, I didn't say white!

milo z (mlp), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:25 (seventeen years ago) link

Once your despair enters its third decade, no biggie.

Dr Morbius (Dr Morbius), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:26 (seventeen years ago) link

Gabbneb, you can post as many pictures as you like but there will be no fundamental change in national politics until two things happen - 1. republican voters begin voting for democrats. 2. democrats stop self-balkanizing themselves.

LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:16 (seventeen years ago) link

republican voters begin voting for democrats.

i dunno how likely this is, aside from possibly swaying moderates who think going into iraq was a shitty idea. a lot of the republicans who've turned on bush have done so because they think he's not tough enough on immigration issues -- that certainly isn't gonna make them start voting democrat though, they'll just support some other conservative who agrees with them.

natalie portmanteau (Jody Beth Rosen), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:36 (seventeen years ago) link

polls this week showed a 10-point move to the Dems by moderate Repubs.

gabbneb (gabbneb), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:38 (seventeen years ago) link

I think that what gabneb is trying to say is that after 2006 & 2008 we can move from despair to mild depression.

Actually, all snark aside, I think we have a lot of good young blood in the Democratic party, and I think it's going to continue to improve.

Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:55 (seventeen years ago) link

polls this week showed a 10-point move to the Dems by moderate Repubs.

Meaningless until November 2006.

LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:56 (seventeen years ago) link

Actually, all snark aside, I think we have a lot of good young blood in the Democratic party, and I think it's going to continue to improve.

I think so too, but I'm not convinced that it will translate into votes. Every major election cycle has been labelled "the year of [insert trendy demographic here]" but each time that hasn't translated into actual numbers.

LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 19:58 (seventeen years ago) link

Blue State

pleased to mitya (mitya), Friday, 19 May 2006 23:38 (seventeen years ago) link

Plot Outline: BLUE STATE is a romantic comedy about a disgruntled Democrat who actually follows though on a drunken campaign promise to move to Canada if George "Dubya" Bush gets re-elected.

"GRAVY FRIES?"

LOL

((((((DOPplur)))n)))u))))tttt (donut), Saturday, 20 May 2006 01:42 (seventeen years ago) link

I can't wait for the outdated "$100 Canadian? That's almost five US dollars!" jokes too LOL

((((((DOPplur)))n)))u))))tttt (donut), Saturday, 20 May 2006 01:45 (seventeen years ago) link

fourteen years pass...

How has this not been bumped in 14 years

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Sunday, 5 July 2020 23:09 (three years ago) link

Currently oscillating between thread title and 'complete political indifference, despite (because) not being very comfortable otherwise'.

pomenitul, Monday, 6 July 2020 01:17 (three years ago) link

Somehow the mask divide makes me despair even more than racism. I know it shouldn’t, but it’s just the fact that something so obviously *beneficial* to society with no real drawbacks can still set off virulent political division. I mean I really, really hope the anti-mask thing is overplayed by twitter bots and sensational media. But it’s so fucking disillusioning. I just want to stay in my northeast liberal bubble forever.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Monday, 6 July 2020 01:35 (three years ago) link

this is me. my job has kept going, I work from home, I have good savings, I'm in good health, I have 30 weeks of severance on deck if I get laid off.

but the ugliness of the world has really done a number on my emotions. on the other hand, days tend to fly back quicker cos nothing really happens, so it's making what I thought would be a long excruciating election year move faster.

I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Monday, 6 July 2020 03:01 (three years ago) link

what I thought would be a long excruciating election year move faster.

get back to us on Oct 1st with an update. ;-)

the unappreciated charisma of cows (Aimless), Monday, 6 July 2020 03:34 (three years ago) link

oh for the days when things merely completely sucked

this has been the best year fuiud (rip van wanko), Monday, 6 July 2020 03:42 (three years ago) link

oh I'm sure Oct 1 from Nov 3 will feel like 3 years

I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Monday, 6 July 2020 03:44 (three years ago) link

Guess that’s sort of encouraging?

There's a performativity about the mask divide which makes me think its not quite as pronounced as might appear

anvil, Monday, 6 July 2020 07:24 (three years ago) link

Glad not to have to have that argument here in England, where the mask divide is between the 1% of the population that wear them and everyone else, who is like “what’s a mask”

Keir’d flex (wins), Monday, 6 July 2020 08:25 (three years ago) link


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