Being close friends with both parties in an extremely turbulent, fractious relationship: dud or fucking mega dud

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It's completely ruined my saturday evening and possibly tainted the next six months or so of my social life. Sorry, internet, I just need somewhere to vent.

chap who would dare to welcome our new stingray masters (chap), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:25 (nineteen years ago)

Mostly I've only ever been one of the turbulent, fractious parties. Surely a night out with Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf? is more fun than a night out with The Waltons?

My Life in the Ghost of Bush (noodle vague), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:30 (nineteen years ago)

Trust me -- it ain't.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:33 (nineteen years ago)

More exciting, more memorable, yeah. Fun, not so much.

Joe Isuzu's Petals (Rock Hardy), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:36 (nineteen years ago)

I'm clinging to exciting and memorable on account of being terrified of death.

My Life in the Ghost of Bush (noodle vague), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:39 (nineteen years ago)

fucking mega dud.

like whoa.

Hoosteen (Hoosteen), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:40 (nineteen years ago)

The worst, especially if both parties, when you are hanging out with them individually, want to spend all of your quality time alternately complaining and priming you for information about their partner. UGLY.

elmo argonaut (allocryptic), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:51 (nineteen years ago)

Oh yeah, listening to people slagging off their former loved ones is massively dudlicious. I was only thinking of the sophisticuffs.

Domino Man (noodle vague), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:54 (nineteen years ago)

GOD DAMN I'M GONNA DO A REGGIE PERRIN SOON

Domino Man (noodle vague), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:54 (nineteen years ago)

this shit is dudcity

gbx (skowly), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:55 (nineteen years ago)

who wouldn't love a night out with the waltons?!

jed_ (jed), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:57 (nineteen years ago)

You just want to have your wicked way with John-Boy.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:58 (nineteen years ago)

never quite been in this exact situation, thankfully. most of my close friends are either in settled relationships, or are with people I barely even know.

I await this inevitable circumstance with great trepidation, however.

You've Got Scourage On Your Breath (Haberdager), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:58 (nineteen years ago)

Is this about the recent elections?

Bobby Ganush (Uri Frendimein), Sunday, 19 November 2006 02:59 (nineteen years ago)

The worst aspect of it is the nagging guit that you might have inadvertantly done something to exacerbate things.

chap who would dare to welcome our new stingray masters (chap), Sunday, 19 November 2006 03:01 (nineteen years ago)

The worst, especially if both parties, when you are hanging out with them individually, want to spend all of your quality time alternately complaining and priming you for information about their partner. UGLY.

-- elmo argonaut (elmo.oxyge...), November 19th, 2006. (allocryptic) (later) (link)


sooooo otm...

sometimes my entire life be like DAMNNN! (tehresa), Sunday, 19 November 2006 03:03 (nineteen years ago)

Ned, you are so right ;)

i've been in this situation too often, most recent occasion i was getting phone calls from both parties and asking me what x (and y) was saying and having to pretend not to have spoken to y (and x).

colossal dud.

jed_ (jed), Sunday, 19 November 2006 03:13 (nineteen years ago)

But being in the middle of stupid craziness is a vibrant part of living, isn't it?

(And I'm exaggerating my own part in the shouting match, a little.)

BUT C'MON. RAGE! RAGE!

[/light dies]

Domino Man (noodle vague), Sunday, 19 November 2006 03:16 (nineteen years ago)

Actually the worst thing about it is you're catching so much flak and gulit about it, but you haven't had so much as a fucking blowjob.

chap who would dare to welcome our new stingray masters (chap), Sunday, 19 November 2006 03:18 (nineteen years ago)

Dud dud dud. Especially when you put marriage, affairs, mental illness, and emotional abuse into the equation. It's all bad.

Sara R-C (Sara R-C), Sunday, 19 November 2006 03:49 (nineteen years ago)

Dud, indeed.

Forest Pines (ForestPines), Sunday, 19 November 2006 11:32 (nineteen years ago)

i have so many couple friends it's just going to be horrible if any of them ever break up or if this happens. i aint takin sides, that's for sure! DUD!!

gunther heartymeal (keckles), Sunday, 19 November 2006 14:02 (nineteen years ago)

and yet millions of people watch soap operas.

Through a twenty deep screen of humourists (noodle vague), Sunday, 19 November 2006 14:12 (nineteen years ago)

Yeah but you don't have the characters calling you up at 2 am while drunk.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 19 November 2006 14:13 (nineteen years ago)

I don't like soap operas.

Through a twenty deep screen of humourists (noodle vague), Sunday, 19 November 2006 14:20 (nineteen years ago)

Classic! But then I hate the world and myself and thing everyone should be as miserable as I am.

It's the lazy and immoral way to become super hip. (Austin, Still), Sunday, 19 November 2006 14:32 (nineteen years ago)

THINK

Jesus, that other thread has got me fucked up.

It's the lazy and immoral way to become super hip. (Austin, Still), Sunday, 19 November 2006 14:33 (nineteen years ago)


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