And the reason it's used as a term of endearment is because of it's offensiveness, not because it's a neutral term.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4IfoUM6a4bA
― Poisoned by Johan's pea soup. (Tom D.), Friday, 1 June 2018 15:25 (five years ago) link
(I'm really just annoyed by people elsewhere who defend attacking women with that word by saying that it's not offensive in Scotland or Australia, when it is. Was especially common during the gamergate harassment period)
― Leaghaidh am brón an t-anam bochd (dowd), Friday, 1 June 2018 15:43 (five years ago) link
It's generally a safe bet to trust the utterer's opinion as to whether or not their gendered pejorative of choice is offensive. They tend to be pretty impartial about it, I find.
― On the Wingers of Love: The Kip & Debra Story (Old Lunch), Friday, 1 June 2018 15:50 (five years ago) link
Possibly interesting to compare perception of misogyny, harshness/taboo of insult of cunt compared to twat, is there an etymological reason for that? Don't think I've ever heard anyone complain about twat being misogynistic.
― Colonel Poo, Friday, 1 June 2018 15:55 (five years ago) link
Thinking of the gendered aspect, curiously I think it feels more manly to be called a cunt than a prick. Not that I want to be called either.
― Alba, Friday, 1 June 2018 15:59 (five years ago) link
I called the woman I work for a cunt while talking to our HR woman last week during a moment of extreme anger. Was very happy when I realized that she hadn't heard me.
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 1 June 2018 16:07 (five years ago) link
annoyed by people elsewhere who defend attacking women with that word by saying that it's not offensive in Scotland or Australia, when it is.
fuck up cunce
― we used to get our kicks reading surfing MAGAzines (sic), Friday, 1 June 2018 16:08 (five years ago) link
It's a strong insult but when you're dealing with a really reprehensible asshole sometimes it is the most fitting and effective choice and yes obv it's gendered but for me that isn't really an issue when it's used by a woman describing another woman etc.
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Friday, 1 June 2018 16:09 (five years ago) link
that 2001: a space odyssey was an allusion to the homeric odyssey.
― how's life, Friday, 1 June 2018 16:09 (five years ago) link
Nick b - lazy is a synonym of feckless so that usage is correct
― synonym toast crunch (Ross), Friday, 1 June 2018 16:17 (five years ago) link
That's how it's mostly used in the UK.
― Poisoned by Johan's pea soup. (Tom D.), Friday, 1 June 2018 16:38 (five years ago) link
Dang. Layers upon layers here.
https://i.imgur.com/jqXyoJc.jpg?1
― pplains, Friday, 1 June 2018 16:46 (five years ago) link
I was shockingly old when I opened the Samantha Bee thread just now and suddenly discovered why we were discussing gendered pejoratives all day itt.
― On the Wingers of Love: The Kip & Debra Story (Old Lunch), Friday, 1 June 2018 21:36 (five years ago) link
the origin of the term "soap opera"
― brimstead, Friday, 1 June 2018 21:50 (five years ago) link
melodramatic show that was largely sponsored by soap company adverts innit
― Stevolende, Friday, 1 June 2018 21:56 (five years ago) link
um yeah i just didn't know where the "soap" part came from
― brimstead, Friday, 1 June 2018 21:57 (five years ago) link
That “Rudy” was short for rude boy until like, uh, last year. I just thought that Rudy was a common old fashioned guy’s name in England.
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Saturday, 2 June 2018 01:28 (five years ago) link
... Jamaica, you mean.
― Poisoned by Johan's pea soup. (Tom D.), Saturday, 2 June 2018 05:45 (five years ago) link
probably thinking of the specials tbf
― synonym toast crunch (Ross), Saturday, 2 June 2018 06:22 (five years ago) link
True. It is a cover of a Jamaican song, of course!
― Poisoned by Johan's pea soup. (Tom D.), Saturday, 2 June 2018 07:07 (five years ago) link
haha
― synonym toast crunch (Ross), Saturday, 2 June 2018 08:11 (five years ago) link
Rudeboy Giuliani
― raise my chicken finger (Willl), Saturday, 2 June 2018 09:54 (five years ago) link
Rudeboy and the dweebs
― Leaghaidh am brón an t-anam bochd (dowd), Saturday, 2 June 2018 12:22 (five years ago) link
That Minnie Riperton's daughter is Maya Rudolph, whom she addresses at the end of Lovin' You ("Maya, Maya, Maya").
― Alba, Saturday, 2 June 2018 13:19 (five years ago) link
yes! I think I learned that via pop up video
― flappy bird, Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:27 (five years ago) link
The specials yeah but also the clash.
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Saturday, 2 June 2018 14:38 (five years ago) link
lol I was thinking about a certain clash song after reading comments about the word “feckless” on ilx this week
― mh, Saturday, 2 June 2018 18:07 (five years ago) link
wait
ye were focusing on feckless
lolz
― laurel or hardyhearin (darraghmac), Saturday, 2 June 2018 18:10 (five years ago) link
what did ye decide out of prurient interest
rudy. probably could fail
― mh, Saturday, 2 June 2018 20:55 (five years ago) link
I also thought about it immediately because of the “feckless” convo.
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Sunday, 3 June 2018 00:16 (five years ago) link
I knew it!!
― mh, Sunday, 3 June 2018 00:24 (five years ago) link
I was going to make a Rancid joke, but then I remembered that song was called "Ruby Soho".
― pplains, Sunday, 3 June 2018 01:04 (five years ago) link
Ruboy
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 3 June 2018 01:22 (five years ago) link
I'm not sure if this is a "wha?" or a "how could you not know?".
My partner (Canadian) and I (British) were talking about hypothetical dog names for our hypothetical dog, and I suggested Toby after the dog in A Study in Scarlet, and then she told me Toby was a racist slave name, but she couldn't remember why. Is this a thing? All I could find online was a dialogue reference from Eastbound and Down, and, more pertinitently, that Toby was Levar B's slave name in Roots (I haven't seen it). Anyway - Toby: yes or monstrous?
― Chuck_Tatum, Monday, 4 June 2018 21:21 (five years ago) link
nothing other than Roots comes to mind
― valorous wokelord (silby), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:25 (five years ago) link
Toby was the dog in the Great Mouse Detective. "Toby, sic 'em!" or some such thing.
― how's life, Monday, 4 June 2018 21:31 (five years ago) link
my friends' dog is called Toby. as far as I know they're not racists
― My name is the Pope and in the 90s I smoked a lot of dope (dog latin), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:32 (five years ago) link
Mr Punch's dog is called Toby
― koogs, Monday, 4 June 2018 21:52 (five years ago) link
I think of Toby jugs (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toby_Jug), a Shakespearean character, Toby Keith, and a nickname for Tobias before I get to slave names.
― emotional support vegetable (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:52 (five years ago) link
that is the question
― laurel or hardyhearin (darraghmac), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:52 (five years ago) link
my grandparents had a dog named Toby
― mh, Monday, 4 June 2018 21:52 (five years ago) link
dammit Darragh I was just about to post a Toby or not Toby quip
― emotional support vegetable (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:53 (five years ago) link
look i hadnt all day and god forbid it was let slip yknow
― laurel or hardyhearin (darraghmac), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:01 (five years ago) link
My cousin, who is AA, named her son Tobias. Don't know if that disproves anything, but I think this theory is dubious at best.
― Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:32 (five years ago) link
"People hear the name Tobias and they think 'big black guy'"
― valorous wokelord (silby), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:33 (five years ago) link
t/s Tobias from Arrested Development vs Tobias from Animorphs
the word holiday comes from "holy day"
― (The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:36 (five years ago) link
god forbid it was let slip
Arf.
― Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 04:47 (five years ago) link
Just today realized that the first moon landing, Chappaquiddick, the Tate-LaBianca murders, and Woodstock all occurred within the span of a few weeks.
― This Bobo Isn't Going to Honk Itself (Old Lunch), Thursday, 7 June 2018 19:32 (five years ago) link