David and I are no longer together.

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We had a long discussion tonight, that turned into a fight. I think we both feel trapped. i am writing this from a friends. I will be staying ther for a while.

― anthony, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

anthony that is miserable: i hope things work out for you

― mark s, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

shit!! anthony - i will be online later if you need to talk

― geeta, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

anthony that's horrible. please have lots of *hugs* i know they wont make anything better but i hope you feel better soon.

― katie, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Yargh. :-( What everyone else said, and *hugs* into the bargain. Hoping for the best for you here.

― Ned Raggett, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

grim news anthony; *hugs* from me too.

― stevo, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Oh Anthony. I wish I could be there and hug you. :-(

― nathalie, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

i hope you can get something out of sympathy via ascii characters on a bulletin board (cos you got it) when you could probably do with some real-life hugs (which i trust you are also getting). i could post a picture of a kitten later if it helps? :-/

― Alan T, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

That sucks dude, I hope you can work things out for the best.

― jel --, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Hey, Anthony, which email address is now the one to mail to? Oh hell, this is just sad. :-(

― nathalie, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

That's terrible news. *Hugglez* from me too.

― RickyT, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Good luck Anthony, I hope you don't feel too bad.

― maryann, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Oh no Anthony - I hope you're coping over there. You can always talk to the boards as a neutral place. Best wishes.

― Sarah, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Sorry to hear that Anthony. I wish you all the best.

― DG, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

that sucks - i hope things work out. you shd write to me or IM me or something if you want

― unknown or illegal user, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

bad luck, I hope things work out for you.

― DV, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Sorry to hear about that, Anthony. Hope you're OK, and if you see me on IM grab me for a chat if you want.

― Tom, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

i need to talk but the machine is in the shop, the adress here is my stop gap.

― anthony, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

and alan, i would like a kitten picture.

― anthony, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Ah, sorry. I bet you work this out, and if you don't, that's for the best too.

― Graham, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

http://alantrewartha.20m.com/sorrykitten.jpg

― Alan T, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

what the kitty said

― mitch lastnamewithheld, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Anthony -- I'm so sorry to hear that. Please take good care of yourself during this time. And here are hUgGlEz if you want them.

― j.lu, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Anthony, I'm so sorry. I wish you nothing but the best.

― Dan Perry, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Give it a day or two and then talk to him; if things have been good so far, you'll probably be able to patch things up. Fights are normal once in a while even in the best relationships.

― Sean, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Here's another kitten for you. I hope it makes things easier.
http://fozboot.best.vwh.net/images/kitten.gif

― toraneko, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Oh, Anthony. I don't know what to say. What a time for the computer to be in the shop...I'm thinking of you and hoping things work out somehow.

― Arthur, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

my best

― Brian MacDonald, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Mine too. I hope you guys sort out how you feel.

― Tracer Hand, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

We love each other and consider each other a family,but it just seems that we cannot live together. Nothing that is huge, just an exhaustion and low level anger that we have not really resolved and now seems to be unresolved. That and we are moving in two wayts so far divided...

i am sad and angry and lost. I do not know how to move forward, he is not accepting the one phone call I made to his office, and all i can think of pissant practical matters.

― anthony, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

it is still quite soon after yr big fight anthony

― mark s, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

i'm very sorry to hear this anthony, and i will also share my HuGgLeZ.

― queenoftheharpies, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

more huggelz, my friend...

― Ron, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Hugs from this direction too, Anthony. It's an absolute shit of a place to be in, but I get the feeling you'll pull through.

― Tim, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Anthony, I feel terrible for you.

I have recently discovered that breaking up with someone is like having music lessons. You can never believe people when they say you'll get better soon and it just takes time, you can't see that day coming no matter how many people assure you that it will.

As a friend, I feel quite powerless to help, particularly at such distance. Make sure you are kind to yourself and remember that you and David love each other. And that many other people love you too.

― rainy, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

I feel confident you will re-unite. Love is the new plateau from which to view the future.

― mike hanle y, Tuesday, 18 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

The time I remember feeling most hurt when I broke up with someone was when the thought first occurred to me, 'now who can I borrow fifty bucks off'? But honestly it was tragic. Honestly.

― maryann, Tuesday, 18 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

I'm really sorry to hear that, anthony. I hope things get better for you soon.

― Nicole, Tuesday, 18 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

(((anthony)))

i will email you privately. . .

― Ms. S., Tuesday, 18 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

My day wasn't all that great either. I feel bummed to say the least. I want to cry.

― anon, Tuesday, 18 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Hey! Me too.

― Sarah, Tuesday, 18 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

*hugs* Sorry that you are suffering so much. Tis hard not to sound trite, but take each day on as it comes.

If David wasn't the right person for you, tis his loss.

― Nichole Graham, Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Oh Anthony, I didn't see this thread before. I am sorry. I hope the last few days have allowed you to feel a bit better.

― Anna, Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

What Anna said, plus email coming soon.

― suzy, Monday, 24 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

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