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My last boyfriend dumbed me cause i didnt give him anything if you no what i mean. and now i like this new guy and he likes me to but my last boyfriend told everyone that i didnt give him anything so now this guy doesnt wanna go out wit me!!! please can i have some help tell me how not to be so shy and scared.

― meagan, Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Well, it all depends.. how long were you together? Is there a deep dark reason why you didn't give him any besides being shy and scared? Is getting any the only reason he was your boyfriend? Is the new guy naive enough to believe anything your last boyfriend says? Details, sistah!

― Brian MacDonald, Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Megan, if you are 45 and asking this then you have more problems than even this board can help you with.

Oh and by the way I clicked on this thread b/c I thought it was titled "pulling out".

― Ms. S., Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

pulling out and putting out go hand...

...well, i'll get my coat.

― jess, Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

'Me coat,' surely.

― Ned Raggett, Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

meagan, you are learning the valuable life lesson that BOYS ARE STOOPID

― Ron, Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

in my experience it's the men who are stupid. Boys persevere, men sulk if they can't get into yer panties.

― rainy, Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Jeez, one should never listen to what someone's ex said, they always exaggerate out of bitterness and spite.

― electric sound of jim, Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

This exact same thing happened to me when I was 11. The most popular boy in Form 1 (11 years) asked me to go out with him but I wouldn't kiss properly ('pash'). So he had a meeting on the field with his twelve year old ex-girlfriend (who I thought of as a terrifying lady) and she told him to dump me. Actually she came and told me I was dumped because I wouldn't pash him. But it was all worth it because when I had my first real kiss a few months later it was the best thing in my life. So I say listen to yourself only because no-one else knows.

― maryann, Thursday, 20 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

just fuck him

― anthony, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

urgent and key info (some of which has been requested already):

1) how old are you/him?

2) how long were you together?

3) a rough sketch of yr sexual history ('sweetnsexy' makes me think you are maybe trolling)

4) why keep getting involved with men who do not have a 'prior commitment' to celibacy pre marriage (xians) if this is such a big deal and you are of legal age?

5) if you are of legal/hormonal age WHY is sex not desirable for you? (surely you must realize sex is desired by the majority of humanity who choose to engage in relationships who are not religious?)

(please note these qns are trying to respect yr personal choice and that the ex is prob a jerk if he's talking shit abt you)

― p., Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Anthony speaks wisdom.

― J Blount, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

sounds like you're dating jerks. i mean i wouldn't go out with someone who'd have a problem with no sex before you even START dating.

― Maria, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

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