I've been pulling a "High Fidelity" lately am I crazy?

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What I mean is this, I'm getting married in three months and lately all I've been doing is thinking of ex girlfriends and what went wrong, I've started to listen to certain music I listened to with these girls and I've even attempted to find some of them. Am I going crazy or is this normal pre-wedding behavior?

― Chris, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Wrong Cusack film to emulate. Life goes better with "One Crazy Summer".

― J Blount, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

i wish!

― Chris, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Word of advice, dont bother, i had the first guy i ever loved get in touch with me for the soul purpose of asking me to forgive him for why we split up, I'd actually forgotten why we had to be honest, but he seemed set on telling me he couldnt get married until he knew I wasn't hateful of him in the slightest. I told him to stop being so melodramatic and go get hitched, as I to even harbour hate for him would mean he'd actually featured in my thoughts for more than a miinute over the past 5 years. Dont bother, just stick to making compilation tapes for your fiance, and trust me, the exes are doing fine without you...

― Claire, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Heh. Though I'm not getting married myself, I've had my bouts of this. Without the musical soundtrack, though.

― Ned Raggett, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

I periodically do this. Well, think about old girlfriends and what went wrong, or more generally people that didn't become girlfriends but arguably could have.

I am however not getting married in three months time.

― DV, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

We could fix that. Will you marry me, DV?

― Ned Raggett, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

"Without the musical soundtrack, though Its true Ned, while Im doing my searching for these lost loves I'll on something that reminded me of them. Im seriously going nuts I think, i have been rather unsuccessful in all my attempts but one. I found my first high school sweetheart and we talked for a bit. I never heard back from her when I asked her if she would tell me if she cheated on me with a certain individual back then. She never wrote back. all this while listening to "Disintegration".

― Chris, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Oh Ned, you tease.

― DV, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Eeg, Chris. I mean, I'm not saying you're nuts or anything, but it sounds like you're almost willingly placing yourself in a spot where you're just going to be uncomfortable and all. I mean, you are going to be happily married and all, right? Speaking from my own single standpoint, I'm jealous of yer finding That Right Someone -- while we all think back to the past and have 'what might have been' thoughts, I'd say celebrate the now and future. :-)

― Ned Raggett, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

yeah i know im not crazy and nothing would ever become of these little thoughts. And I am getting happily married.

― Chris, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

and i am celebrating, in fact im rather excited about september.

― Chris, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

We could fix that. Will you marry me, DV?

Ohmigod...is ILX playa No. 1 looking to retire?

― j.lu, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Oh dear.

― Ned Raggett, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

is ILX playa No. 1 looking to retire?

I'm already married!

― Sorry ladies, but I do have a brother..., Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

And a twin brother at that! ;-)

― Ned Raggett, Friday, 21 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Yes you are crazy. don't do it. itis madness.

― electric sound of jim, Sunday, 23 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)

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