'Sympathetic characters'

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Odd trivial crit question - does it annoy you when people say about books or films, "I didn't like it because a)I couldn't relate to any of the characters b)none of the characters were sympathetic"? I thought the whole point was to experience somebody else's POV for a change! If somebody dislikes stuff they can't identify with isn't that lamentable egotism? And if none of the characters are 'sympathetic', a)isn't that more of a reflection on reader than writer, and b)who says characters have to be 'anything'? I just hear this alot from people, if it's not their own memoirs they hate it? "I don't know anybody who acts like those people, this film/book is crap" etc

dave q, Tuesday, 10 September 2002 08:38 (twenty-two years ago) link

i agree with dave q. but having said that if characters just annoy me, that puts me off. the kids in secret history just pissed me off, and so i got bored with anything they said or did. don't know why i finished the bluddy book

Alan (Alan), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 08:40 (twenty-two years ago) link

Just read JM Coetzee's 'Disgrace', which is from the point of view of the single most dislikable, self-deluding character I've ever seen, but I still thought it was kind of optimistic (new social structures formed and some people are a bit discombobulated but it could hardly be worse than the old ones [according to novel IMO] although SA readers might see it different) Maybe I just prefer unreliable narrators?

dave q, Tuesday, 10 September 2002 08:41 (twenty-two years ago) link

I usually like books with unsympathetic characters. 'Relating' to everyone in fiction would just be dull - that's what RL friends are for. But I have a problem with authors whose characters are *supposed* to be sympathetic but patently are not (or not to me). Nick Hornby is one that springs to mind.

Archel (Archel), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 08:48 (twenty-two years ago) link

I just like books with strong characters whose behaviour flucuates, and they mess up or do terrible things. I hate wussy sympathetic characters, as they often appear pious (sp? I don't care) and holier than thou. It's like the narrator in Gatsby, I hate him, but Gatsby was a million times more likable.

james e l (jel), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 08:52 (twenty-two years ago) link

If I read books in which all the characters are rapists I tend to lose interest. But that's an extreme example. In general I don't dislike books where the main characters are not overly sympathetic. However, it does make it hard to retain interest in the book/film/whatever if none of the characters are ones with which I can empathise.

DV (dirtyvicar), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 09:10 (twenty-two years ago) link

Agreed about 'sympathetic' - often in my favourite films/TV shows there is not one sympathetic character. But "I don't know anyone who acts like that" is skirting 'believable', and having believable characters is a good thing usually.

Tom (Groke), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 09:18 (twenty-two years ago) link

amen, dave q!

rener, Tuesday, 10 September 2002 09:34 (twenty-two years ago) link

I just like books with strong characters whose behaviour flucuates, and they mess up or do terrible things. I hate wussy sympathetic characters, as they often appear pious (sp? I don't care) and holier than thou. It's like the narrator in Gatsby, I hate him, but Gatsby was a million times more likable.

The narrator in Gatsby is trying to come across as a pretty straight guy, but it's clear he's a bit of a shit to people, and his narrative is contradictory and self-serving. So, though he's unlikeable, in a quietly fucked-up way he's pretty interesting.

Eyeball Kicks, Tuesday, 10 September 2002 09:35 (twenty-two years ago) link

"Just read JM Coetzee's 'Disgrace', which is from the point of view of the single most dislikable, self-deluding character I've ever seen, but I still thought it was kind of optimistic (new social structures formed and some people are a bit discombobulated but it could hardly be worse than the old ones [according to novel IMO] although SA readers might see it different) Maybe I just prefer unreliable narrators?"

Why do you have to like a character to relate to them, or even sympathise with them? The narrator of Disgrace is a hugely flawed man, but I'd hardly call him the single most dislikeable character I've ever seen...

Matt DC (Matt DC), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 09:47 (twenty-two years ago) link

On the other side of the coin, my favourite narrator ever is Humbert Humbert, and I think I'd be very worried if I found myself identifying with him...

Matt DC (Matt DC), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 09:50 (twenty-two years ago) link

All art is conflict, though, and if all the characters are unsympathetic, there can be no conflict.

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 09:57 (twenty-two years ago) link

If all the characters are unsympathetic, surely this = LOADSACONFLICT?! (ie Michel Houllebecq novels).

Jerry the Nipper (Jerrynipper), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 10:14 (twenty-two years ago) link

Muriel in Muriel's Wedding (I know - it's a film, not a book) was an interesting character because you kind of felt sorry for her but recognised that she brought bad stuff on herself as well.

I can't think of any book that I have not enjoyed because I didn't relate to the characters or because they were not "nice". What with a combo of empathy and suspension of disbelief I enjoy just about all the books I read.

The only book I can think of that I've read about a rapist was "The Green Light" by Ray Mooney, and it was a fantastic book. The only book I can think of at the moment that I didn't enjoy was about an archaeologist called "The Source". I was pretty young at the time though, perhaps now I'd be more capable of empathising with an archaeologist and therefore would enjoy it. Crikey it was boring the first time around.

toraneko (toraneko), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 10:20 (twenty-two years ago) link


TS: Byron vs Alice Walker

the pinefox, Tuesday, 10 September 2002 10:25 (twenty-two years ago) link

I suppose the whole concept of a sympathetic character is quite a tricky one. 'Likeable' or 'nice' characters, we agree, are not necessarily sympathetic. But is it then completely subjective, in that we sympathise with the characters who share our particular flaws? Which would make using the term 'sympathetic character' in a review, for example, a nonsense (unless the reviewer's personal demons are written into the review). Is there such a thing as a universally sympathetic/unsympathetic character? Which is Hamlet? Othello? Faust? Heathcliff?

Archel (Archel), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 11:10 (twenty-two years ago) link

It's funny, I never really picked up on the flawed nature of the Grebt Gatsby's narrator. but I was young when I read it.

my favourite actor in the world is swoony Ralph Fiennes. He always plays somewhat rubbish flawed characters. RoXoR.

DV (dirtyvicar), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 11:13 (twenty-two years ago) link

milton's satan: cool or fool?

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 11:15 (twenty-two years ago) link

I have a problem with authors whose characters are *supposed* to be sympathetic but patently are not (or not to me).

Usually I don't care whether a character is sympathetic except in cases like this, because it's really irritating.

Nicole (Nicole), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 11:26 (twenty-two years ago) link

only in television. i want sympaththic charchters in television. also i want to learn how to spell.

anthony easton (anthony), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 14:08 (twenty-two years ago) link

milton's satan: cool or fool?

Baudelaire claimed Milton was subconsciously on Satan's side. I'm sure people have written dissertations on the concept of Paradise Lost as a parable of Milton's circumstances after the fall of Cromwell and the restoration of the monarchy.

Part of the problem is that people may be confusing "sympathetic" with "attention-grabbing." In some of the examples above, the wicked (or otherwise flawed) characters capture the audience's imagination a lot more readily. As for characters developed by the author with the intention of invoking sympathy in the audience, has everyone here heard of Oscar Wilde's comment on the death of Dickens' Little Nell?

j.lu (j.lu), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 14:24 (twenty-two years ago) link

Blake: Milton was "a true Poet, and of the Devil's party without knowing it." The Marriage of Heaven and Hell

I think this switch is basic to Romanticism and its (better) village-idiot cousin the Gothic. cf also Hannibal Lecter (org.name Hyppolite Lecteur = "hypocrite lecteur" = YOU the WICKED READER!! do you SEE!!)

(haha guess who just finished first draft of xenakis piece which = k-suXoR as stands)

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 14:45 (twenty-two years ago) link

Archel do you think that it is that ambiguity about whether or not those charcters are 'sympathetic' that makes them 'great' literary characters? I agree completely about Nick Hornby by the way.

Richard Jones (scarne), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 14:57 (twenty-two years ago) link

I think only ambiguous characters CAN be great yes. I wouldn't say it's ONLY the ambiguity that makes my examples 'great' though. The major problem I have with Nick Hornby, particularly in High Fidelity, is that he seems to be think he has created a tragically flawed hero (sympathetic) when in fact the character is just a boring arse (not sympathetic).

Archel (Archel), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 16:11 (twenty-two years ago) link

I was thinking about this the other day, how I kinda enjoy film/lit characters reprehensible/unreliable/muddied enough to refuse our attempts to unload ourselves on them- without the sympathy 'hook', we're left with greater moral responsibilites as readers/viewers, unable to attribute our shared foibles and flaws as baggage accompanying an essentially good, respectable, upstanding life. Loss of character trust sometimes means loss of self trust and I think that's something that I don't see explored enough in films, or maybe I'm just not watching the right ones.

oh and an SA reader's perspective on 'Disgrace': as terrible as the 'discombobulation' that the characters in the book undergo, I think there *is* a thread of optimism. In a society that's sometimes as unsympathetic as Lurie himself (today the newspaper was requested, and refused, to print a picture of the horribly mutilated body of a raped 6yr old girl, her "colon bulg[ing] out between her thing legs", as an anti-rape statement), confusion and sporadic violence are still infinitely preferable to government-mandated racism and murder. In an essay i've yet to read, a university professor of mine apparently tears the book to shreds, writing it off as bleak coffeetable talk for 'white guilt'-challenged whites.

Mitch Lastnamewithheld, Tuesday, 10 September 2002 17:32 (twenty-two years ago) link

Yes, that Wilde line is wonderful, and is a good answer to this thread. I agree with Dave, it's an annoying and pretty stupid reason to dislike a book - though I do understand that finding characters who you really like in a book (as well as believing them and finding them interesting) can be a positive thing. Really, it's those parenthetical qualities there that are urgent and key, most of the time.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 17:57 (twenty-two years ago) link

Um...could someone please post the Wilde quote, for those of us who are less informed? Thanks.

nory (nory), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 18:39 (twenty-two years ago) link

"One must have a heart of stone to read the death of Little Nell by Dickens without laughing."

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Tuesday, 10 September 2002 18:46 (twenty-two years ago) link

I'm totally with Dave Q on this. Nothing is more irritating than someone who says they didn't like a book because they couldn't sympathize with the characters. If I took that attitude to reading I'd never be able to pick up a newspaper (except to read the want-ads).

Sympathy is a subjective thing. I always tended to relate to the villain in books when I was young for reasons I couldn't quite understand (and probably never even thought about). Now I think it's because I was intrigued by the occasional glimpses of goodness in them, while heroes never seemed to have any wicked thoughts.

Justyn Dillingham (Justyn Dillingham), Wednesday, 11 September 2002 03:37 (twenty-two years ago) link


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