should i give the grateful dead a chance?

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Mods plz change thread title to: Dr. Suggestban, Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Dead

music loves drugs (Drugs A. Money), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 21:42 (thirteen years ago) link

"Without wishing to sound too alt snooty, Ghost and esp. Acid Mothers Temple do the whole folk-psych rock jam thing w/ so much more passion, imagination and freaky fun."

I like Ghost but still, lol

Euler, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 21:46 (thirteen years ago) link

"You'd never mistake the Dead for someone, you know, good."-I'm Street but I Know my Roots (sonofstan), Tuesday, April 19, 2011 5:25 PM (24 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

You'd never mistake your opinion for anything other than, you know, shitty.

Thraft of Cleveland (Bill Magill), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 21:56 (thirteen years ago) link

Dead fans, eh, don't like it up 'em.....

I'm Street but I Know my Roots (sonofstan), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:03 (thirteen years ago) link

one man gathers what another man spills

five gone cats from Boston (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:10 (thirteen years ago) link

Lol otm!

music loves drugs (Drugs A. Money), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:24 (thirteen years ago) link

I clicked on this just to read Kate's post at the top again. Still OTM

If you claim to like garage rock, and you think that the first Dead album consists of uninspired hippie stoner jams, then I call bullshit on you ever having listened to it.

wk, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:28 (thirteen years ago) link

B: "Oh, it's, uh, Kremlin Tiger Flower, uh, 2506. Have you heard them before?"

Haha, probably works the other way around too. "Hey have you heard this Dead bootleg?" "Ugh, this sucks, I hate the Grateful Dead. This is so boring." "jk, this is that rare japanese psych reissue you were raving about last week"

wk, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:31 (thirteen years ago) link

most dead haters in my experience are kinda like yr dad saying how bad vegetarian food tastes i.e. they haven't really got much of an idea about what they're talking about but they like the pose they strike when they say it

five gone cats from Boston (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:32 (thirteen years ago) link

i'm not big on the dead but i think jerry is such a great singer, his voice always sounds sad and tired and wise and lonely to me

tbh, the episode where lindsay weir listens to american beauty on freaks and geeks really made me want to become a deadhead

the zing cheese incident (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:37 (thirteen years ago) link

!

I am pretty sure I have never, in God knows how many years of talking about music w/ppl, run across "I don't dig the dead but I like the way Jerry Garcia sings" - this is a really novel take for real!!

five gone cats from Boston (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:40 (thirteen years ago) link

my friend said to me, "man you love the Band, check out Europe 72" & that's what it took for me. I can see that if you're really hot on what's ~Outttt There~ in the 21st century that the Dead are gonna seem kinda stodgy---I get that pose, is what I'm saying (even if it means great things are closed off to you on account of that pose)

Euler, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:41 (thirteen years ago) link

american beauty sort of is the best album of all time though, in the right mood.

reallysmoothmusic (Jamie_ATP), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:42 (thirteen years ago) link

I'm rocking disc 2 of Harpur College 5/2/70 & the back door's open 'cause it's warm out & the neighbors got the bbq goin and life is fucking awesome

five gone cats from Boston (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:44 (thirteen years ago) link

I didn't know anything about the Dead except for what I had heard from ex-Bill Graham staffers about how annoying the fans and hangers on and everything that *goes* with the Dead was, so I had this image that I would hate their godawful hippie stylings.

But after I sought out Workingman's Dead and American Beauty a couple of years ago, I was glad I'd taken the time to prove myself wrong. Really, really, truly love the studio albums.

have a few Deadhead friends who insist "live bootlegs are where it's at" but I think I need recommendations from non-Deadheads or, I dunno, non-koolaid drinkers to send me down that path...because it seems like that way leads to madness, and there's SO many!!

I mean it's saying something that I'm a PJ fan and I'm mortified by the amount of Dead bootlegs and live shit around :D

VegemiteGrrl, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:48 (thirteen years ago) link

also as a footnote to that, I learned that the BGP staffers I knew all actually did *like* Dead music, and could sing along to just about anything you threw at them with a faint smile on their face...but it was all the Deadhead baggage that had screwed them up

VegemiteGrrl, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:49 (thirteen years ago) link

we had a thread about this I think. Get Harpur College, Europe '72, & Cornell, and go from there if you get addicted, I think.

five gone cats from Boston (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:49 (thirteen years ago) link

ya, this thread has some good suggestions: Grateful Dead live, Dick's Picks etc - S&D

tylerw, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:51 (thirteen years ago) link

def check out Veneta Fairground, 8/27/72 too...there's a lot of classics in 1972 but that August 27th show is just stellar, both sides of the band in full bloom.

Euler, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:52 (thirteen years ago) link

vegemitegrrl, this thread gets bumped regularly, there's plenty of live material there.

Grateful Dead live, Dick's Picks etc - S&D

elsewhere on ilx though, a bunch of people have discredited the "only live albums plus american beauty/workingman's dead" listening axis and pretty much acknowledged that the later studio albums have a lot of merit.

multiple xps

cia never wore tie-dyes (kkvgz), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:53 (thirteen years ago) link

re. Jerry's singing & later Dead studio stuff, I've been bumping this a bunch recently:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kw96J8_HC8I

Euler, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:55 (thirteen years ago) link

most dead haters in my experience are kinda like yr dad saying how bad vegetarian food tastes i.e. they haven't really got much of an idea about what they're talking about but they like the pose they strike when they say it

FWIW it's worth, I'm pretty sure I've heard every legit Dead release up to about Blues for Allah, and have owned a few of them, hoodwinked by the you like X, therefore... line of argument, and because I can't resist cheap vinyl, and every once in a while I think, just maybe, there's something there...... like, I love the Band and the Burritos and even like the first NRPS record, a lot, so W/man's Dead and American Beauty ought to be nailed on for me right? wrong - it may be country rock, but it's not very good country rock and the singing and playing is terrible - or the 'you like all that Miles live stuff from the early seventies, well you'll love Live Dead, or whatever' well no: 10 seconds of Can, from any record, pisses over any -indeed all - of the Dead's supposed adventures.

But hey, someone is going to come on and say....

Dude, no, you have to hear this most ultimate jam session that they did on this super-rare collectible live bootleg out-take from 1973...

I'm Street but I Know my Roots (sonofstan), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 22:58 (thirteen years ago) link

Dude, no, you have to hear this most ultimate jam session that they did on this super-rare collectible live bootleg out-take from 1973...

tylerw, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 23:00 (thirteen years ago) link

(but for real, it's ok if you don't like the dead! IT'S OK)

tylerw, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 23:00 (thirteen years ago) link

^^^^
I know, just avoiding work here.

I'm Street but I Know my Roots (sonofstan), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 23:02 (thirteen years ago) link

like, I love the Band and the Burritos and even like the first NRPS record

if you love this and hate the dead then yeah yr posing because you enjoy hating the dead. it's cool I'm the same way w/the Beatles

five gone cats from Boston (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 23:16 (thirteen years ago) link

some of their stuff is pretty good. but there is too much of it, which I think is my problem, so the signal to noise ratio is pretty bad.

akm, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 23:19 (thirteen years ago) link

the same could be said of the fall, I guess, but I like them more.

akm, Tuesday, 19 April 2011 23:19 (thirteen years ago) link

fuckin A on Harpur College even like you get to "Dancing in the Streets" and the Weir vocal is just painfully bad and you think, ok you know what, this set has run outta steam, game over, you guys can't make a silk purse out of the hammy shit you pulled in the first five minutes here and then the band gets loose and the solo connects with scorpio or whatever constellation it is it's pulling its energy from and it's like the pretty meh exercise that got you there was a formal necessity, like Homer talking about dawn with its ruby-red fingers and all that who-cares biz that suddenly lands you in the middle of the ocean with a Odysseus and his men and they're all living breathing creatures and you can feel the sun they're waking up in and smell the ocean air and it's just fuckin

just good is what

five gone cats from Boston (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 23:25 (thirteen years ago) link

american beauty sort of is the best album of all time though, in the right mood.

I have a complicated history with the Dead/deadheads that makes it hard for me to enjoy their music at face value, but I was in a bar a couple of weeks ago and they had American Beauty as one of the discs in a CD changer and it was really working for me.

phantoms from a world gone by speak again the immortal tale: (Jenny), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 23:35 (thirteen years ago) link

never been able to get past the shitty songwriting, shitty singing, and totally lackluster playing. sorry guys. kate OTM

The Everybody Buys 1000 Aerosmith Albums A Month Club (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 19 April 2011 23:41 (thirteen years ago) link

weird how many songwriters would call you crazy for 1/3 of that opinion

five gone cats from Boston (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Wednesday, 20 April 2011 00:02 (thirteen years ago) link

"I don't dig the dead but I like the way Jerry Garcia sings"

Haha, I've sorta said something like this on a thread or two. After years of Dead-dislike, I discovered I really like The Jerry Garcia Band, in large part because I find the singing better than most Grateful Dead stuff (and the gospel singers are a better backup than the less-vocally-gifted Bob Weir.)

Hardcore Bangage (Dan Peterson), Wednesday, 20 April 2011 00:16 (thirteen years ago) link

Love the Dead; American Beauty is top 10 of all time for me, love Workingman & Europe 72, just recently got into Live Dead which is awesome, I even like Aoxomoxoa which is not the trippy wtf mess per reputation (exception = What's Become of the Baby), but mostly just a space-y Workingman prototype with classic rock singles (St. Stephen, Cosmic Charlie, China Cat Sunflower)...

but I'm with VegemiteGrrr; I'm a little hesitant to start getting into the live shows & boots. There's so many! I'll probably check some of that stuff out, along w/ some later albums, but the stuff I've heard is great...!

What Dead stuff do you like Bill Magill?

music loves drugs (Drugs A. Money), Wednesday, 20 April 2011 00:26 (thirteen years ago) link

apology accepted re the tard comment (if you were apologizing to me-- if you were wishing you'd said "fuckhead" instead then I take it back)

Mark, Wednesday, 20 April 2011 00:41 (thirteen years ago) link

10 seconds of Can, from any record, pisses over any -indeed all - of the Dead's supposed adventures.

Well sure. OTM. Can't argue with that.

I love the Band and the Burritos and even like the first NRPS record, a lot, so W/man's Dead and American Beauty ought to be nailed on for me right? wrong - it may be country rock, but it's not very good country rock and the singing and playing is terrible

This is such silly nonsense. NRPS? Give me a break. The Band only has a few songs that are as good as anything on WD, or AB. "if you love this and hate the dead then yeah yr posing because you enjoy hating the dead" is totally OTM. You're posing or you have cloth ears.

wk, Wednesday, 20 April 2011 00:55 (thirteen years ago) link

xp: ohhhhhh fuck, I didn't even know you posted here. shit. apologies both to you and to anyone who might have been offended by the language.

cia never wore tie-dyes (kkvgz), Wednesday, 20 April 2011 00:56 (thirteen years ago) link

never been able to get past the shitty songwriting, shitty singing, and totally lackluster playing. sorry guys. kate OTM

I'm not a huge Dead fan, and I hate to come across as some kind of tedious, nerdy, muso prick, but I can't help but read that as "Hi, I know absolutely nothing about music!"

wk, Wednesday, 20 April 2011 01:04 (thirteen years ago) link

LOL re: Casey Jones / yt

I'm 42 my wife is 26 every time she hears this song she spreads her sweet pussy its timeless music
kocnn 2 months ago 8

wk, Wednesday, 20 April 2011 01:07 (thirteen years ago) link

the only reason that the Grateful Dead gets any hate on ILM is because it gets much love on ILM and it's a popular hippie band

cold hands of monkeys on my heart (CaptainLorax), Wednesday, 20 April 2011 01:07 (thirteen years ago) link

but you don't see me going in metal threads just to say "I don't like metal music"

cold hands of monkeys on my heart (CaptainLorax), Wednesday, 20 April 2011 01:09 (thirteen years ago) link

The Band only has a few songs that are as good as anything on WD, or AB

Boo to this. I've always felt the Band captured exceptionally well what I felt the Dead was frequently aiming for.

I've tried so many points of access for the Dead. The early studio albums. The early live albums. The early bootlegs. The middle period bootlegs. The later bootlegs. Sometimes I've liked what I've heard, most times I can't make it through, and like some of the above posters I often wonder what's getting lost in translation. Just not clicking. Always baffled me that a band that stuck around for long, with such renown, with such distinctive players, couldn't even accidentally make a good record on a regular basis. I blame the drugs.

Part of the problem, or the problem with my perception, is that I just don't hear any edge to it, something to grab hold of beyond its general ... optimism, I guess? I like my improv and jamming dark, discordant and mysterious. At the opposite end, I do enjoy "American Beauty."

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 20 April 2011 01:18 (thirteen years ago) link

Part of the problem, or the problem with my perception, is that I just don't hear any edge to it, something to grab hold of beyond its general ... optimism, I guess? I like my improv and jamming dark, discordant and mysterious.

I consider this a valid & useful criticism - the jamming aims most often for a sort of middle ecstasy, a groove that's about wonder in my opinion - it is seldom about darknesses. Aoxomoxoa on the other hand I consider a pretty dark thing, and AB is loaded with darkness. But "edge" is not what this band is into.

five gone cats from Boston (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Wednesday, 20 April 2011 01:22 (thirteen years ago) link

I'm with Josh. I have tried American Beauty & Workingman's Dead and just didn't like 'em at all. I have Live/Dead, Europe '72, and the full 10CD version of the Fillmore East 1969 box in my iPod, though, and I like those. I don't like the vocals at all, especially on Europe '72, but when they become an instrumental act on the Fillmore discs they have their moments.

that's not funny. (unperson), Wednesday, 20 April 2011 01:25 (thirteen years ago) link

Josh in Chicago, you probably like VU and I think that band sucks balls. I actually own Loaded and like a couple tracks on that one though.

cold hands of monkeys on my heart (CaptainLorax), Wednesday, 20 April 2011 01:30 (thirteen years ago) link

I mean it's just a bunch of "different strokes for different folks". For instance, I think chamber pop can have lots of awesome music but most folks are all about some crappy upbeat punk rock etc.

cold hands of monkeys on my heart (CaptainLorax), Wednesday, 20 April 2011 01:34 (thirteen years ago) link

I think a deadhead hurt Kate somehow when she was young.

I like Garcia, can't abide Weir singing or his songs. Also: two drummers, no backbeat, no driving bass either - Lesh talks a lot about theory and counter melody, but to me his playing sounds clumsy, with a lot of bum notes.

thirdalternative, Wednesday, 20 April 2011 01:54 (thirteen years ago) link

man, i love the dead, but if there was ever a band that was born to make you wince, it was them. soooooooooooo much goodness and so much...erghhhhhhhhhhhh too. but that's their thing. the whole "they're not the best at what they do..." those live moments when they seem utterly incapable of getting a groove going. the ultimate bummer. but there is so much beauty too. and robert hunter and jerry garcia were responsible for the bulk of it. can't help but think what if...jerry had hooked up with some of the umpteen zillion other amazing musicians in california back then instead of the dudes he ended up with. but then they wouldn't be who they were. for better and worse.

(like...what if the dead had been jorma and jerry and the god-like jack casady and, i dunno, the drummer from mad river and dallas taylor or who knows...so many possiblities...)

scott seward, Wednesday, 20 April 2011 02:23 (thirteen years ago) link

xpost It's not a competition, dude (in terms if influence and impact, I don't think I'd rate the VU, for example, over the Dead). I love music. All sorts of music. Like the forum says. Which is why I find it odd that a particular music many, many people love, with many qualities that I generally love, has never clicked with me. That's why I've given it so many chances. I can listen for hours to indulgent Fairport Convention spinoffs. I can listen for hours to certain acts in the Kompakt stable. I can listen for hours to krautrock wankery. I've just always wondered, personally, what it is about the Dead, of all bands, that's failed to connect with me.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 20 April 2011 02:27 (thirteen years ago) link

Again, must be the drugs!

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 20 April 2011 02:31 (thirteen years ago) link


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