Where will you go to talk about music after you leave ilm for good?

I've gotten that maybe once or twice, I don't think the dude meant anything malicious by it and they definitely handled it well when I said I wasn't interested. the fraughtness I'm more concerned with is "you haven't heard of/don't like _____? wow, you're an idiot/fake music fan," whether stated or unstated

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aw thanks for that, breastcrawl and curmudgeon--I likewise value your efforts in maintaining extremely useful threads that lately I've mostly lurked on. It can definitely suck posting a lot to minimal reaction, and afrobeats especially is super vital and exciting right now. I've made my peace with dancehall not getting on most people's radar these days, but Wizkid should be like 2002 Sean Paul right now.

Hi eeyore :)

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the fraughtness I'm more concerned with is "you haven't heard of/don't like _____? wow, you're an idiot/fake music fan," whether stated or unstated

― aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Monday, August 13, 2018 6:52 PM (three days ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this post turned out to be incredibly prescient

but who am I to talk, I'm just a troll apparently

Have stet or co announced when ilx is shutting down or what

when I leave ilx I won't be talking about music

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good q

periodically irl? :(

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KyQJXkj-wY8

more valid than ever

xp to crüt (originally)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3oxe4mlsQos

hipinion noticed this poll, but their discussion inevitably went off on a tangent about the meteoric rise of Fishmans

ftr hipinion hasn't been culturally relevant since they started their Lewis 'L'amour' megathread in 2013, whereas ilxor hasn't been culturally relevant since [???????????}

in the interim since this poll closed i've decided to shift from boring people to death by talking about the records i like to boring people to death by talking about my gender dysphoria

which is good news because there are at least a couple dozen forums where everyone is 22 and has a drawing of themselves but if they were an anime girl as an avatar

I mostly just bore my wife with music talk, although I also manage to recommend her stuff she likes, so it's all good.

My friends aren't very adventurous when it comes to music. For whatever reason, this has been a staple of my existence as far back as I can remember. I've never met a true obsessive irl.

Last night, I was taking to a “rock guy” about music at a bar. When I mentioned that I mainly listen to pop and R&B these days, I got these responses:

* “That R&B must use a lot of auto-tune, huh?”

* “I heard Ryan Adam’s cover of Taylor Swift’s 1989, and decided to try listening to the original album, pretending that it was by a new indie artist or something. I didn’t hate it; those are some pretty good songs.”

He also delivered a take on modern hip-hop which I won’t repeat here (he contrasted it to the ‘90s rap that he loves); though to his credit, he prefaced it by admitting he was largely ignorant on the topic.

Anyway... taking about music IRL can be a trip.

Trip or trap? “Trip trap, trip trap,” said the troll. “Who’s that trip-trapping over my bridge?”

It is a trip! I recently learned that a guy I know wasn’t aware of Sassy magazine! Unless he was messing with me, which I guess is possible but cruel and not in character, I’d assume he was being sincere. I explained! I like when people are honest about things they don’t know about. That’s part of the joy of talking about music irl imo. The other part is mostly about talking with people irl.

Learning about things from people is enjoyable as well — the sharing of knowledge in general

I like when people are honest about things they don’t know about

otm about learning and knowledge.

i mostly know sassy magazine through their association with ian svenonius

I subscribed to Jane magazine for a few years as a young single guy (late ‘90s).

My older sister had many issues of Sassy, and like any reading material she brought to the house, I read it too.

Was Sassy the one that used to have "Cute Band Alert"?
My younger sister also had a subscription, and I did find myself leafing through the copies more than I would've ever admitted to my friends at school.

For years I thought Sassy magazine was just a made-up thing from that SNL sketch with Phil Hartman.

In fact, you could say it was a thing I was shockingly old when I learned

at the very least it's a conversation starter! while i was out that night, i asked a few more people if they were aware of Sassy magazine (then and/or now) and one guy learned about it via Rookie. ya never know! this is why talking with people is enjoyable. it's not a competition.

Was Sassy the one that used to have "Cute Band Alert"?
yes
also "sassiest boy in america" (ian svenonius was the inaugural winner iirc), tutorials for making your own clothes and other DIY stuff, cover stories about girls who do cool things, diverse models. a total departure from girl mags of the time. it was a real template for what we recognize as modern girlhood (diverse, confident, independent, DIY) it came up because i was talking about making collaged flyers with my class by cutting up old magazines and i bragged that i had every issue of sassy but they're in a pile at my parents' house. my brag was useless though bc this person wasn't aware of sassy. the end.

anyway as far as talking about music is concerned, i recommend a perennial classic: going to shows and talking with people.

I recently learned that a guy I know wasn’t aware of Sassy magazine!

How old is he? I've never heard of it but then again I was born in the mid-80s and have never knowingly bought a music magazine.

i wouldn't have brought it up if he were very much older or younger than me -- he's about 4 years younger than i am iirc?
i used to guzzle music magazines, it was all there was!