What do you wish you could like?

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Me.. Jazz. Obviously, jazz is incredibly important and influential... and I occasionally like jazz elements that creep into non-jazz tunes I like. But I've never taken the plunge, so to speak. I explored a little bit over a decade ago, via the experimental/difficult back door via Zorn, Boredoms, etc... and I do have a few less difficult records like Sonny Clark. But it's a taste I'm still acquiring, albeit at a pace I wish would pick up.

So, what about you?

donut bitch (donut), Sunday, 19 January 2003 19:57 (twenty-three years ago)

I wish I could like Foo Fighters, because then I'd have have something in common with everyone else at work. But no, I'm the weird loner with the big headphones.

Serious answer: I wish I could like more classical, I have some amazing Sibelius stuff, but I have no idea where to start.

Nordicskillz (Nordicskillz), Sunday, 19 January 2003 20:04 (twenty-three years ago)

Goth. I don't know where to begin.

Curtis Stephens, Sunday, 19 January 2003 20:05 (twenty-three years ago)

About 2/3 of pop music. My enjoyment of Kylie and "Like I Love You" and almost everything Neptunes-related is a start, but then I turn on the Top 40 station and get hit with J-Lo and I'm all FUK THIS and my progress is halted.

Nate Patrin (Nate Patrin), Sunday, 19 January 2003 20:09 (twenty-three years ago)

Mid-century Blues. '50s-60s soul more than I do.

gabbneb (gabbneb), Sunday, 19 January 2003 20:10 (twenty-three years ago)

Ugh! Jazz! Noooooo!!! Put jazz in jail where it belongs!

For me, I wish I could learn to appreciate more electronic music. You know, that IDM type stuff, bleeps and buzzes and glitches, I wish I could appreciate that more.

kate, Sunday, 19 January 2003 20:11 (twenty-three years ago)

Swing, Soul, Blues, The Grateful Dead.

Ian Johnson, Sunday, 19 January 2003 20:13 (twenty-three years ago)

IDM does not want you Kate. ;p

I wish I could enjoy more of the canon and at the same time more obscure music. Fr'instance, Bowie, MBV, Beatles, VU, Joy Division, more glitch like Jalinek and V. Delay, Dead Can Dance, the Cocteau's Victorialand, the second half of Supermodified, more of Plaid's Trainer, et cetera.

Leee (Leee), Sunday, 19 January 2003 20:27 (twenty-three years ago)

"Like I Love You"

I actually just read this as "Lick I Love You," which strikes me as far superior.

In my case, probably old blues and generally speaking music from the twenties and beforehand, as well as most Jamaican music from the sixties on. In non-English language terms, Spanish-language rock from South America from the last twenty years.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 19 January 2003 20:42 (twenty-three years ago)

The more I think a genre "does not want me" the more I want to understand it, the more I want in. Why do you think I listen to so much music with a strong gender bias against my own gender? (dronerock, prog, etc.)

kate, Sunday, 19 January 2003 20:44 (twenty-three years ago)

Jazz does not want you Kate.

Mr. Diamond (diamond), Sunday, 19 January 2003 21:45 (twenty-three years ago)

My best friend on ILX, Andrew L, is a big free jazz fan, and I really don't much get it, so that would be the one for me.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 19 January 2003 21:52 (twenty-three years ago)

Yeah jazz.

I wish I liked dub more too - I love the idea of dub.

Tom (Groke), Sunday, 19 January 2003 21:54 (twenty-three years ago)

Reggae and Dub.

Ronan (Ronan), Sunday, 19 January 2003 21:55 (twenty-three years ago)

With Jazz, the feeling is mutual.

kate, Sunday, 19 January 2003 21:55 (twenty-three years ago)

donut- bypass jazz and try some of the 'free' stuff first. try and work your way backwards.

either that or try the best type of music evah!!! that's guitars and saxophone played in a 'free' type way. try borbetomagus or the blue humans.

(OK not 'the best' but its pretty good if you laready enjoy guitars and can't get into listening to saxophones)

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Sunday, 19 January 2003 21:58 (twenty-three years ago)

go for albert ayler: try 'Lorrach, paris 1966'. beautiful melodies with damn fine improvisation. it was reissued last year on hatology.

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Sunday, 19 January 2003 22:00 (twenty-three years ago)

Classical. I hear snippets and like it, I sit down to listen to a whole 'thing' and get piss bored. I wish I liked hip-hop more too.

Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Sunday, 19 January 2003 22:01 (twenty-three years ago)

Techno. Actually I'd say most music, because I've entered this phase where almost the only things I enjoy are Russian classical or Broadway show tunes, and it's extremely limiting.

Maria (Maria), Sunday, 19 January 2003 22:05 (twenty-three years ago)

nick- ever heard webern? you won't have any problems with the lenght there. Also go for Cage's 'sonatas and interludes'. you might enjoy the tones that he gets from fucking up the piano strings.

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Sunday, 19 January 2003 22:08 (twenty-three years ago)

I third jazz. I've got my likes alright, but my love of it is rarely visceral. Perhaps I'm not trying hard enough.

Michael Daddino (epicharmus), Sunday, 19 January 2003 23:03 (twenty-three years ago)

I shall check them both out Julio, cheers.

Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Sunday, 19 January 2003 23:06 (twenty-three years ago)

goth, yes. i find it depressing and not in all the ways it's hyped up to be. also - korean pop.

Honda (Honda), Sunday, 19 January 2003 23:28 (twenty-three years ago)

All music which lacks vocals.

Ian SPACK (Ian SPACK), Sunday, 19 January 2003 23:38 (twenty-three years ago)

Well, I really wanted to like alt.country, but I think it's BORING. Jazz is another blank I would like to fill.

JP Almeida (JP Almeida), Monday, 20 January 2003 00:18 (twenty-three years ago)

I like plenty as it is.

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Monday, 20 January 2003 01:03 (twenty-three years ago)

For me it's pre-Nirvana alternative rocksters like Pixies, Black Flag, Sonic Youth etc. because on one level I like what they're doing and can agree with people that it's cool but on another I'd rather just listen to New Wave. I feel like I've missed out on part of something that everybody else I know seems to understand, but then I think 'I can barely afford my habits as is, I can't possibly start building an alt-rock backcatalog as well'

Millar (Millar), Monday, 20 January 2003 01:20 (twenty-three years ago)

Salsa (& other Latin dance stuff). I've just never gotten the groove.

Douglas (Douglas), Monday, 20 January 2003 02:30 (twenty-three years ago)

Modern commercial dance. It'd make finding a club I actually want to be in so much fucking easier.

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Monday, 20 January 2003 02:32 (twenty-three years ago)

All music which lacks vocals.

Seriously, I agree with this shithead. I like voices. Can't do without them. It'd be like having a bowl of sauce.

Eyeball Kicks (Eyeball Kicks), Monday, 20 January 2003 02:34 (twenty-three years ago)

probably reggae as well..

robin (robin), Monday, 20 January 2003 02:37 (twenty-three years ago)

Reggae is maybe the only genre I've never even had the slightest bit of curiousity about. I don't know why; maybe that easy vibe and relaxed groove just drive me nuts. I'd have to do a lot more than just smoke pot to get relaxed enough to identify with that.

Sean (Sean), Monday, 20 January 2003 02:42 (twenty-three years ago)

a) Techno, IDM, drum & bass, and other UK-centric dance genres. I always find myself respecting the ideas behind them, but not being able to stand the musical results at all.

b) Dub. I like some of it, and I hear its influence on many of my favorite postpunk records (the early RT artists were all heavily influenced), but even Lee Perry's Arkology left me going "eh...it's OK...there are a few good songs, I guess..."

mike a (mike a), Monday, 20 January 2003 02:55 (twenty-three years ago)

Nortena. I hear it all the time in my neighborhood, I wish I could enjoy it more. I just find it mildly irritating.

I also wish I appreciated old C&W/Bluegrass more. I like it, I just never really seek it out and I can't tell what's good and what's not.

I've given up on ever really liking jazz that's not free.

Arthur (Arthur), Monday, 20 January 2003 03:04 (twenty-three years ago)

My Bloody Valentine's LOVELESS

Evan (Evan), Monday, 20 January 2003 03:31 (twenty-three years ago)

I don't think there is anything, in general, that I wish I could like, although it happens for short times that I'll try to like some music that'll just have no lasting impact on me (recent examples: Bright and Strapping Fieldhands). I used to get a feeling sometimes that I was listening to something I didn't like, but knew that I'd end up liking it a lot if I spent more time with it. It doesn't happen the same way any more. I'll either dislike something moments after I hear it and never grow to like it (it will never surprise me), or I'll feel somewhat positively from the start and that feeling will remain or maybe fade (sometimes I know I can only like someone's work so much. I feel this way about later Phillip Boa records, which I buy even though I know I won't care after hearing them sound great about 12 times - it's like, he's really talented, but he's settled into being a rock star, and how good can it really be from here?).

tom (other one), Monday, 20 January 2003 04:21 (twenty-three years ago)

kate, that picture you posted of "you" with a synth & weird accesory, it reminded me of Karen Mantler, as that's what i'd have expected her to be doing given the scene she was in at that age

you might like the jazz/rock/ art/electronic music of both Carla Bley and husband Michael Mantler -- they each cut interesting complimentary careers in one of the earliest "alternative music" organisation, distribution and composition schemes, starting from around '65 in nyc -- they also hung around with some of the more interesting rock stars and their families from that time

george gosset (gegoss), Monday, 20 January 2003 05:22 (twenty-three years ago)

My Bloody Valentine's LOVELESS

A fine starting point.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 20 January 2003 05:27 (twenty-three years ago)

I wish I liked the Pixies more; ditto Stereolab. Both seem to have pretty varied discographies and extremely devoted fans; I just haven't found a way to like them. I'm totally with Douglas w/r/t salsa and Latin dance in general; it subtly irks me, in a way that I don't really understand.

Clarke B., Monday, 20 January 2003 06:07 (twenty-three years ago)

the blues -- i like the Stones and Captain Beefheart well enough (and dislike John Spencer Blues Explosion enough to know that their schtick is tantamount to slandering the blues). but for god's sake, i hear muddy waters or the charlie patton/robert johnson/insert-Mississippi Delta-Chicago-bluesman-here and i just don't get it. not flat out hatred, but just total incomprehension as to why so many worthy people love it so strongly.

arabian or indian classical music -- the music itself is fine, but that singing!

Tad (llamasfur), Monday, 20 January 2003 06:17 (twenty-three years ago)

what i meant to say re the singing in arabian and indian music -- sorry, but it always sounds like two people tugging on a cat at both ends.

Tad (llamasfur), Monday, 20 January 2003 06:19 (twenty-three years ago)

That's the best singing ever.

I want to like Fugazi more. I started with the "Margin Walker" EP, which is excellent but I've never really got into the other records. People love them so much and they seem like a really noble thing to like and they always sound interesting and worthwhile but I'm always mystified when people talk about how much they love the band. I also really want to love Guns 'n' Roses. I wish that listening to people like Bob Dylan or Neil Young or Leonard Cohen or Lou Reed didn't feel like being a kid and having your parents drag you to the temple of Greil Marcus for a really long service early in the morning. At least the first couple of those guys have at least one or two songs I appreciate but still.

sundar subramanian (sundar), Monday, 20 January 2003 06:42 (twenty-three years ago)

Clarke, i always thought there sounded like a touch of tex-mex to Pixies, particularly Surfa Rosa -- both Sterelob and Pixies mixed many changes in tempos into their songs, just skillfully enough for it not to sound overly showey or jazzy or clever for its own sake

the Pixies didn't quite sound too american desert and Stereolab not completely european enough to ruin it, but that's me -- i hate hot jazz, hot latin music, and pop music with 1/4 or 1/1 single beats (like disco and pop music like that kylie #1) which again sounds like it has this enforced heat -- often it's too fast to be credible (like a marching beat)

george gosset (gegoss), Monday, 20 January 2003 06:45 (twenty-three years ago)

what do you hear in Arabian or Indian singing, Sundar? i'm genuinely curious -- and i'm not trying to slam it, it's just that i don't get it.

and ditto to Leonard Cohen. why would anyone want to willingly listen to such a pretentious horny old goat? only good thing about mr. cohen: Ween's superimposing a picture of one of themselves on his head for their Pod cover.

Tad (llamasfur), Monday, 20 January 2003 06:48 (twenty-three years ago)

Being dragged to the temple of Greil Marcus for a really long service is a pretty amazing description.


tom (other one), Monday, 20 January 2003 06:49 (twenty-three years ago)

yeah ... like I'm not broke already! :-(

phil jones (interstar), Monday, 20 January 2003 07:29 (twenty-three years ago)

heh, yeah. though I don't think Marcus likes Leonard Cohen much (in Mystery Train he says that one of his songs "screamed Poetry and Art, it virtually raped the listener with its mastery of the Higher Shlock," or something like that). Reed has always been kind of a drag, though he writes some pretty tunes now and then.

Justyn Dillingham (Justyn Dillingham), Monday, 20 January 2003 08:15 (twenty-three years ago)

louis armstrong. he's the most important musician of the 20th C. or so i keep being told. but the hot 5's/7's SOUND so awful...tinny, far-away...anyone would think they were recorded centuries ago.

ditto charlie parker.

anyone want to recommend a foot in the door here re: reiisues/remasters?

elsewhere...anticon/mush/etc. Dose one is straight up torturous.

gaz (gaz), Monday, 20 January 2003 09:41 (twenty-three years ago)

60/70 Icon's like Dylan and The Greatful Dead.

brg30 (brg30), Monday, 20 January 2003 19:40 (twenty-three years ago)

Bob I-can't-stand-anything-about-him Dylan
Janis she's-a-"legend"-why-again? Joplin
Jim this-is-really-the-best-singer-these-guys-could-get? Morrison
Zack de la can-you-write-songs-about-anything-else? Rocha
Fred I-swear-to-God-the-next-person-who-says-I-sound-like-him-is-gonna-find-a-steel-toed-boot-in-their-mouth Durst

nickalicious (nickalicious), Monday, 20 January 2003 19:53 (twenty-three years ago)

I can't say as much about Arabic music but I do like the singing in Indian classical music. One thing is the fluidity with which good singers can move between and finely bend really subtle pitch intervals. It's incredibly precise and technical but when done right it just seems to flow. Also the interplay between more sustained notes and faster frilly ornamented stuff. Listen to how great a tone MS Subblakshmi, for example, can maintain through all this. There's a similar precision and intricacy and delicacy to the gradations of dynamics and timbre. I even thought of Diamanda Galas and Meredith Monk when I was watching Nagamani Srinath. She can move effortlessly from soft, almost vulnerable-sounding tones to nearly frightening and surprising levels. Pandit Bhimsen Joshi is someone else who demonstrates this kind of fluidity. Then also there's rhythm and how the vocal lines relate to the intricate rhythms in the drums, resisting and then maybe going ahead or holding back or falling in. And the relationship with the violin or other lead instrument is like this too - they'll play against each other in a heterophonic way and then it feels huge when they're totally with each other again. I also like that while there is a lot of virtuosity involved, the general overall tone of voice sounds so much less 'stagey' than in Western classical singing (which I also like), more 'natural', softer, closer to the sound of a pleasant speaking voice. The tortured cat comparison surprised me because it's rare that the singing style ever gets very shrill or forceful for long stretches, especially compared to a Western soprano.

sundar subramanian (sundar), Monday, 20 January 2003 21:33 (twenty-three years ago)

I'd like to learn to like Neil Young's most recent album because my dad always plays it in the car and I HATE it, it's SO BORING. It's the only one of his albums I really can't stand. It's called Passion or Are You Passionate or Do You Have Passion or something I think.

Maria (Maria), Monday, 20 January 2003 22:01 (twenty-three years ago)

Stuff that isn't indie. It'd make me feel so much less insecure about my musical tastes, and about my bloody writing too.

William Bloody Swygart (mrswygart), Monday, 20 January 2003 22:04 (twenty-three years ago)

Is "Let's Roll" on that Neil Young album? That song sucked.

sundar subramanian (sundar), Monday, 20 January 2003 22:09 (twenty-three years ago)

The more I think a genre "does not want me" the more I want to understand it, the more I want in. Why do you think I listen to so much music with a strong gender bias against my own gender? (dronerock, prog, etc.)

While there is a definite gender bias re: IDM, I was actually referring to a more generalized elitism common to us IDM folk, that is, if you can't get into it, you're obviously not worthy of listening to it and so go away.

Leee (Leee), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 00:21 (twenty-three years ago)

well, Leee, with a genre like Jazz that I do not want to know about, and I'm sure it doesn't want to know about me, that is fair enough.

With something like IDM, I get the feeling that I would like it if I understood more of what it was on about, what to listen to in it, what to appreciate, what artists have more of what I love in music.

it's like... the other night at Non/Sense, someone (Ambrose's brother actually) took the time to sit down and explain Drum N Bass to me in a way which made sense. I was able to intellectually appreciate, and even emotionally enjoy the music in a way that it wouldn't have made sense otherwise. Some music requires an intellectual understanding as well as a gut-reaction. Some more extreme examples of dronerock, I had to learn *how* to like. I wish that I could learn that with regard to more electronic music.

kate, Tuesday, 21 January 2003 00:31 (twenty-three years ago)

I wish that I could bring myself to like I Love Music, actually.

Your New Best Friend, Tuesday, 21 January 2003 00:36 (twenty-three years ago)

Is it possible for someone to explain what "IDM" stands for? I've never heard the term before...

tom (other one), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 04:34 (twenty-three years ago)

Intelligent Dance Music, unfortunately.

Amateurist (amateurist), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 04:41 (twenty-three years ago)

oh - thank you - I'd never have guessed that. What a weird name for a genre!

tom (other), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 04:54 (twenty-three years ago)

Chinese operatic singing, it's too atonal for my taste. Ditto salsa but I do like merengue.

Micheline Gros-Jean (Micheline), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 05:59 (twenty-three years ago)

electronic or pop music

A Nairn (moretap), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 06:04 (twenty-three years ago)

Today I suddenly discovered that I really like Robert Johnson. That was pretty unexpected, seeing as I've been listening to him occasionally for about two years without really caring much one way or the other.

Justyn Dillingham (Justyn Dillingham), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 06:06 (twenty-three years ago)

Spreading it out in a nutshell, another of IDM's names, electronic listening music more clearly betrays its MO, at least when the movement began. It used to be simply arm-chair techno, "dance music" that you don't need to/can't dance to.

Leee (Leee), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 07:51 (twenty-three years ago)

Re: Salsa. If you don't totally hate it and do like to dance, try the following: take a salsa dance class. If you don't want to pay for that, you can often find a free lesson of some sort included in the admission at clubs having Latin nights. I started out disliking it, but I warmed to it after experiencing it in a more total environment (a Puerto Rico Day Parade); and then I got to positively like it after just a few dance lessons (combined with seeing good dancers dance to it in a club setting). I wouldn't advise making an enormous investment in something you don't like, but trying out a couple free lessons in a club and sticking around long enough to see relatively good dancers on the dance floor might be enough to get you into it. I suppose I could do the "If you like x music, then you might like x salsa" routine, but I'm a little skeptical of that.

I think I would most like to like the blues, jazz and [European] classical music, plus Indian classical. In general, I like the idea of liking the roots of the music I do enjoy, but I'm not actually real big on the blues or gospel music, which both feed into R&B obviously. Otherwise, I guess it would be nice to like more contemporary pop music of some sort.

I am tempted to say I would like to like everything, but would I really? The thought is slightly nauseating.

Rockist Scientist, Tuesday, 21 January 2003 17:13 (twenty-three years ago)

in my experience the only way to get close to liking everything is to nurture a handful of symbolic hate objects

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 17:16 (twenty-three years ago)

Definitely Jazz - I try.. as recently I hijacked a bunch of my dad's jazz Lps

Early Power Pop- since it has influenced so many of the bands I really like, but I cant, just cant get into it- it sounds too dated.

insectifly (insectifly), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 17:21 (twenty-three years ago)

I like what Sundar said about Indian classical singing. Much, if not all, of it applies to the best Arab singers and reciters of the Qur'an (minus any references to instrumental accompaniment!).

I was very pleased this summer when I played some Oum Kalthoum for a salsa friend with a solid background in music in general and she immediately was able to hear (possibly better than me) the precision with which her voice was leaping to hit certain microtones.

I also totally agree with the point that this singing seems far more "natural" than the operatic voice (which I don't enjoy).

Rockist Scientist, Tuesday, 21 January 2003 17:23 (twenty-three years ago)

There are some big 'ole canonical bands I would like to like. Like I wish I liked The Smiths. Yeah, I've tried real hard to like these boys for a while but it won't wash, although Marr is clearly a don. It's just that man with the quiff is too much. Hmm, on the same train are The Cure, although I don't wish I liked them quite as much. I like the idea of liking Roxy Music too but unfortunately I can't hear anything there that tickles my toes in the slightest. Sometimes I despair.

Oh my God, I know who I want to like - Will Oldham. Fuck, everyone I know likes Baldham, but I can't dig him, no matter what. I've tried everything and am now contemplating hypnotherapy as the way forwards.

Right now I want to like the Eighties Matchbox boys but I saw them yet again on the weekend and as ever they left me inexplicably disappointed.

Roger Fascist (Roger Fascist), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 17:34 (twenty-three years ago)

Incidentally, in many case you get into a club for free if you show up early enough for the dance lesson. (Sooner you are there=sooner you can start buying drinks is probably the logic.)

Tad, I think my ability to hear order in Arabic singing may be due to having internalized (at some level I would find impossible to articulate) expectations of what various maqam or modes sound like. If the vocal music is such a turn-off, you might want to try listening to a good oud soloist (I'd recommend Riad el-Sounbatti). It might be possible to "transfer" expectations learned from listening to oud solos, to listening to vocal music.

Rockist Scientist, Tuesday, 21 January 2003 17:39 (twenty-three years ago)

Yeah, same thing, start with instrumental Indian classical music.

mark s: Really? When I make a point of hating things, I usually find that I find similarities to hated objects in so many other things and end up hating a lot. When I start looking for similarities with things I already like, I end up liking more.

sundar subramanian (sundar), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 19:47 (twenty-three years ago)

''in my experience the only way to get close to liking everything is to nurture a handful of symbolic hate objects''

that makes sense i think.

mark- is Coltrane yr 'hate object' for jazz?

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 19:56 (twenty-three years ago)

(On the other hand, when I was a young teenager, I used to always get excited when I'd hear the all to prayer on TV programs coverage of the Middle East, so I probably have some sort of innate taste for this use of the voice.)

Rokcist Scientist, Tuesday, 21 January 2003 20:15 (twenty-three years ago)

i don't hate coltrane julio, i just think he's made a lot more of than his actual music merits

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 20:19 (twenty-three years ago)

sorry not 'hate object'? and yes, I know what you're saying (overrated etc) but I thought when you said 'symbolic hate object' (forgot the symbolic) that might apply to coltrane.

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 20:23 (twenty-three years ago)

I wish I loved all the total crap they play on every radio station i can pick up ever, all the poop they show on telly and all that shit they have in petrol stations and the like where The Pitney Brass & Wood cover Orchestral Beatles Classic Tunes or whatevere.

Life would be so much cheaper and convenient.

mei (mei), Tuesday, 21 January 2003 20:34 (twenty-three years ago)


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