weird al's parents are dead.

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I'm not a huge fan, but you still feel bad for the guy. This came from msn entertainment.

Parents of 'Weird Al' Found Dead
Apr 12, 7:32 AM EST

SAN DIEGO (AP) -- The elderly parents of Grammy-winning recording artist "Weird Al" Yankovic were found dead in their home, apparently victims of carbon monoxide poisoning, officials said.

Nick and Mary Yankovic were found dead Friday in their suburban San Diego home by relatives who were worried because they had not seen the couple in a while, said sheriff's Sgt. Conrad Grayson.

Paramedics found Nick Yankovic, 86, in a chair in the front living room. His 81-year-old wife was on the bathroom floor.

A wood fire had been set recently in the fireplace, Grayson said.

"The house was full of smoke when they opened the door," Grayson said, adding that the family members found the flue closed.

"Weird Al" Yankovic, 44, had no comment during a performance in Mankato, Minn., on Saturday night.

Before the show, a graphic projected on the screens at the back of the stage dedicated the evening to his parents, KTOE-AM reported. Yankovic also canceled a meet-and-greet with selected fans.

A neighbor described Yankovic's parents as nice people who were proud of their son.

"Everybody who came to the neighborhood knew Nick," said John Buehman, who lives across the street. "They're going to be missed, big time."

Yankovic was scheduled to appear Monday in Grand Forks, N.D., as part of a tour for his new album, "Poodle Hat."


The Rebukes of Hazard (mjt), Monday, 12 April 2004 23:39 (twenty-two years ago)

Good grief, that's a horror and a half. :-( I have to say that one of the few problems with my parents' house is that the chimney isn't what it should be for the fireplace and smoke often floats out into the main room, so it's likely this was a similar situation gone to the worst extreme.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 12 April 2004 23:42 (twenty-two years ago)

this is really sad. my condolences to weird al!

s1ocki (slutsky), Monday, 12 April 2004 23:50 (twenty-two years ago)

I just got word of this from another forum, and as such, hurried here loyally. (UGH.) Either way, this is awful news. I guess I don't know what to say...I mean, it does read like a pretty cruel and ironic joke, and no pun intended, but hella fuckin' weird. But then again, maybe not so much. My sympathies to Al...

Francis Watlington (Francis Watlington), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 00:00 (twenty-two years ago)

:(

Curt1s St3ph3ns, Tuesday, 13 April 2004 00:01 (twenty-two years ago)

The obvious if still cruel thing that came to my mind is, of course, the Behind the Music special where the running joke was that he really didn't have any earth-shattering problems/struggles with drugs/etc. Alas.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 00:04 (twenty-two years ago)

Everyone's parents die, but let me send my condolences to Weird Al.

Lil' Fancy Kpants (The K is Silent) (ex machina), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 00:05 (twenty-two years ago)

Yeah. Same here, Ned. It's that whole angle on his reputation ('carefree lifestyle') that now seems to loom large in my mind.

Francis Watlington (Francis Watlington), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 00:11 (twenty-two years ago)

Why do so many nice people keep dying????

Mr. Snrub (Mr. Snrub), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 00:18 (twenty-two years ago)

Weird Al has brought a smile to my face in the past. I'm saddened that this has happened to his family.

jim wentworth (wench), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 00:41 (twenty-two years ago)

wow that's...weird. poor weird al.

strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 00:42 (twenty-two years ago)

(pun sadly not intended)

strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 00:43 (twenty-two years ago)

My condolences to him. Plus I'm kinda impressed he still went ahead and did the show Saturday night and put his audience before his own grieving.

Vic Funk, Tuesday, 13 April 2004 01:36 (twenty-two years ago)

yes, my condolences. is there a site to wish him well?

Eisbär (llamasfur), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 01:38 (twenty-two years ago)

If this leads to VH1 running some sort of special that plays all of his videos, then I will just have to smash my television set.

David Allen (David Allen), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 03:28 (twenty-two years ago)

My first tape I ever bought was Weird Al when I was 7 or 8. He's kept me laughing off and on since then. His parents were always depicted as being loving, supporting people. My condolences.

Mike Salmo (salmo), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 03:36 (twenty-two years ago)

From the man himself:

On April 9, my mom and dad, Nick and Mary Yankovic, passed away in their home in Fallbrook, California. It was the result of a terrible accident – that morning they had started a fire in the fireplace with the flue closed, and were asphyxiated by carbon monoxide poisoning.

Suzanne called me that afternoon on the bus to give me the news, so that I would hear about it before the wire services picked it up.

Needless to say, I feel pretty much the way you would expect me to feel – shocked and devastated beyond words. I loved my parents so much, and this all still seems like a horrible nightmare that I can’t wake up from.

I want to thank my family, friends and fans for the incredible outpouring of love and support that they’ve shown me. It’s wonderful to know that there are so many people around the world who truly loved my parents, and also nice to know that I am not alone in my grief.

I take some small measure of comfort in knowing that they died peacefully, and that they never had to suffer through the pain and loneliness of living without each other. I'm also grateful that they both lived long enough to see me happily married to Suzanne, and particularly happy that they got to meet our beautiful baby daughter Nina. She filled their lives with so much joy this last year. Nina may be too young to remember playing with her grandparents when she gets older, but don’t worry, we’ll have some great videotape to show her.

Many people have wondered what’s going to happen with the tour. I briefly considered canceling some shows, but I ultimately decided that it would be better for me personally to continue working. Plus, I’ve heard from so many people over the years that my music has cheered them up in times of tragedy… well, I thought maybe my music would help me too.

So far, it has. Going up on stage in front of thousands of supportive fans is a cathartic and somewhat therapeutic experience for me right now. I don’t know if I can say that the concerts really take my mind off of the tragedy, but at least they give me a break from sobbing all the time.

Anyway, I have decided not to cancel any shows – the tour will continue as planned. However, I have decided to put a moratorium on all interviews and meet-and-greets for the time being – I just feel like I need some time alone right now.

The funeral will be a very small, intimate service with only the immediate family attending, so please, I ask that you respect our privacy. Just knowing that your thoughts are with us at this time is more than enough, but if you care to contribute anything, in lieu of flowers, Suzanne and I suggest a donation to the Natural Resources Defense Council in my parents’ name.

One thing I would like to ask everybody to do, though… please, go out and get carbon monoxide detectors for yourself and your loved ones. If my parents had had one in their home, there’s a very good chance that they would still be with us today.

In fairness to the memory of my mother, I should point out some errors that appeared in the press. Although she was starting to have a problem with short-term memory loss (she was taking medication for it), my mother was never diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.

As long as I’m pointing out errors that the press has made, it was my Aunt Dot who found my parents when she was bringing them lunch that day, as she routinely did (and not a group of relatives concerned that they “hadn’t heard from them in a while” – the family was close and caring and saw each other several times a day). Also, my aunts and uncles all live in separate houses (not together, as some articles implied), and for what it’s worth, I am not represented by the William Morris Agency either.

I don’t know how much else I can say about my parents that I haven’t already said in interviews over the years. Although I always found it a little uncomfortable, my dad talked a lot about death. He mentioned a few times that he was planning to go on a diet so that his “casket would be easier to carry.” I guess that’s where I got my sick sense of humor from. And he was always talking about how much he was looking forward to seeing his old army buddies again (in the next life). I sure hope they’re having a great reunion right now.

As unthinkable as this tragedy is to me, I just know that my mom and dad were very much at peace with the world and with their lives. And I guess I can take a small amount of comfort in that too.

Thank you all again for your overwhelming kindness and support. It means more to me than you can ever know.

Love,
Al

Matt Boch (Matt Boch), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 04:45 (twenty-two years ago)

Quite a fine and thoughtful message given unbearable circumstances. Hats off -- and good thoughts -- to the man.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 04:52 (twenty-two years ago)

I wasn't expecting to be, but I'm moved by that statement.

Huck, Tuesday, 13 April 2004 04:57 (twenty-two years ago)

He's really a pretty impressive guy after all.

Forksclovetofu (Forksclovetofu), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 05:15 (twenty-two years ago)

a small thing but it's sort of interesting how many wrong details there were in the press report, and he's certainly directly referring to at least the one on the CNN site where i first caught it, don't know if that was originally from AP or what. i do remember wondering why they would mention william morris etc. a kind of case study illumination of what's always going on perhaps?

dukespiracy, Tuesday, 13 April 2004 05:26 (twenty-two years ago)

It's the CNN-syndrome, news-gathering agency are under more and more pressure to break news-items so they often file stories with less than full facts and just correct and align as the story is developed and followed and occasionally researched.

Huck, Tuesday, 13 April 2004 05:35 (twenty-two years ago)

He played here (Mankato, MN) on Saturday, and while I didn't attend the show, friends told me that he had a large graphic projected behind the stage dedicating the show to his parents. Very touching and I as well wasn't expecting to be as moved as I was by this news.

I haven't listened to my Weird Al tapes in years, but his were the first albums I ever bought and still have great memories of listening to them with my friends in junior high while we were all nerding out on Mt. Dew and D&D.


pholm, Tuesday, 13 April 2004 13:53 (twenty-two years ago)

he seems like a genuinely nice and smart human being...that was touching.

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 14:10 (twenty-two years ago)

weird al tours and plays in front of thousands of fans?

anthony kyle monday (akmonday), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 14:20 (twenty-two years ago)

Er, yes. (Call me befuddled at your surprise.)

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 14:35 (twenty-two years ago)

Weird al in 1) Popular 2) Intelligent, shock.

Come on! Show some perspective.

mark grout (mark grout), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 14:37 (twenty-two years ago)

sorry to hear this, weird al.

RJG (RJG), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 14:39 (twenty-two years ago)

Thoughts with Al. That was indeed a moving statement.

Crackity (Crackity Jones), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:13 (twenty-two years ago)

weird al tours and plays in front of thousands of fans?

weird al's been spending hundreds since they had small faces.

he does real well on the midwest county/state fair circuit...seems like he plays the MN state fair and Somerfest in Milwaukee every year....

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:16 (twenty-two years ago)

God, can you imagine having your parents die this tragic death and then having to go onstage and guffaw your way through a polka version of Green Day songs?

dean! (deangulberry), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:22 (twenty-two years ago)

aww.. that's sad.

Kim (Kim), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:25 (twenty-two years ago)

wasn't his dad like the king of midwestern polka?

amateur!st (amateurist), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:28 (twenty-two years ago)

No, that was Frank Yankovic. Surprisingly, there is no relation.

dean! (deangulberry), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:30 (twenty-two years ago)

I thought Frankie was his uncle?

The Huckle-Buck (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:30 (twenty-two years ago)

xpost

The Huckle-Buck (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:30 (twenty-two years ago)

Nah, that's a common mistake -- you're thinking of Frankie Yankovic, very much the polka king but another Yankovic entirely. The two of them did have a mutual regard thing going, though, and one time I recall some TV special Weird Al in the mid-eighties where he and Frankie jammed.

Xpost and a half there.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:31 (twenty-two years ago)

though there should be not much surprise that two unrelated strains of Yankovics have polka-knowledge.

The Huckle-Buck (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:31 (twenty-two years ago)

wow, i had been convinced it was his dad

thanks for setting me straight

amateur!st (amateurist), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:43 (twenty-two years ago)

i thought he took his stage name from frank yankovic!

s1ocki (slutsky), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 17:54 (twenty-two years ago)

I always thought there was a Weird Al-Frank Yankovic connection, too. Obviously not.

jim wentworth (wench), Wednesday, 14 April 2004 02:18 (twenty-two years ago)

my condolences to weird al and his family.

i used to listen to his tapes a lot when i was younger, and he has had a subtle influence on my life. in fact, he is probably one reason why i am not a rockist. listening to his nirvana parodies around the same time that the originals came out was very healthy!

Aaron Grossman (aajjgg), Wednesday, 14 April 2004 17:30 (twenty-two years ago)

Weird Al Honors Parents' Memory With
'Tears In Heaven' Parody
FALLBROOK, CA—Zany, mourning entertainer "Weird Al" Yankovic has parodied Eric Clapton's eulogy song "Tears In Heaven" in loving tribute to his parents, who recently died of carbon-monoxide poisoning in their San Diego home, a spokesman for Yankovic said Monday. "Al's hurting deeply right now, and this is his way of honoring Nick and Mary," Karl Tuft said of the song in which a subdued Yankovic sings, "First you lit some flames / Then the smoke stopped your breathin' / Carbon mono's th'way you went... / Up to heaven" over a somber, minor-key accordion melody. Tuft added that the best way for Yankovic to give voice to his pain and loss was by altering the voice of Clapton's pain and loss.

Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 20 April 2004 22:35 (twenty-two years ago)

what did Weird Al ever do to the Onion?

hstencil, Tuesday, 20 April 2004 22:37 (twenty-two years ago)

That does seem like a shitty thing to do.

My name is Kenny (My name is Kenny), Tuesday, 20 April 2004 23:28 (twenty-two years ago)

Coolio wrote it.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Tuesday, 20 April 2004 23:30 (twenty-two years ago)

My respect for the Onion just went down A TON.

Mr. Snrub (Mr. Snrub), Tuesday, 20 April 2004 23:32 (twenty-two years ago)

The Onion always does incredibly tacky obituaries.

When George Harrison passed away: "RINGO NEXT"

When Gene Siskel passed away: "EBERT VICTORIOUS"

Chris Dahlen (Chris Dahlen), Wednesday, 21 April 2004 01:04 (twenty-two years ago)

yeah but that last one is at least funny

strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Wednesday, 21 April 2004 01:05 (twenty-two years ago)

and the 1st one is at least true

dyson (dyson), Wednesday, 21 April 2004 01:33 (twenty-two years ago)

That Onion piece is fucking terrible -- usually there is an instructive component to their comedy. This is just mean and not funny. Plus Weird Al is kind of like a spiritual forefather to The Onion -- and it's his parents, who aren't even public figures! Disgraceful.

Mark (MarkR), Wednesday, 21 April 2004 02:00 (twenty-two years ago)

Plus Weird Al is kind of like a spiritual forefather to The Onion

Uh...

C0L1N B3CK3TT (Colin Beckett), Wednesday, 21 April 2004 02:03 (twenty-two years ago)

I must admit, I do like the Onion's song parodies.

BanjoMania (Brilhante), Wednesday, 21 April 2004 02:09 (twenty-two years ago)

I belive you're thinking of Weird Al - honest mistake.

Mark (MarkR), Wednesday, 21 April 2004 02:16 (twenty-two years ago)

four years pass...

http://www.nypress.com/blog-3025-samberg-co-dont-compare-to-weird-al-as-song-satirists.html

ladies and gentlemen, mr. biff_tannen (and what), Monday, 15 December 2008 21:58 (seventeen years ago)

btw crybabies,

--The Onion never got more hate mail then the time they did that Weird Al gag
--The Onion is friends with Al and told him they were doing it and he was cool with it.

Whiney G. Weingarten, Monday, 15 December 2008 22:02 (seventeen years ago)

The song/video (it's difficult to separate the two since the track would suffer without the visuals) is a send up of faggy Euro-pop

Go, New Your Press, go

Whiney G. Weingarten, Monday, 15 December 2008 22:03 (seventeen years ago)

York

Whiney G. Weingarten, Monday, 15 December 2008 22:03 (seventeen years ago)

And that's not even what it's a parody of

Whiney G. Weingarten, Monday, 15 December 2008 22:04 (seventeen years ago)

I'm not sure this person grasps the difference between parodies of specific songs and more general pastiche, either

nabisco, Monday, 15 December 2008 22:09 (seventeen years ago)

^^^better than anything Andy Samberg will ever do

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 15 December 2008 22:21 (seventeen years ago)

well yeah we all know john darnielle is better than andy samberg but i dont see what that has to do with this thread

ladies and gentlemen, mr. biff_tannen (and what), Monday, 15 December 2008 22:28 (seventeen years ago)


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