― DV, Thursday, 29 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― dV, Thursday, 29 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Tom, Thursday, 29 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Andy, Thursday, 29 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― fritz, Thursday, 29 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Dare, Thursday, 29 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Tim, Thursday, 29 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
Not that the industry that produced Britney doesn't make this assumption as well. . .
― Nitsuh, Thursday, 29 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Kim, Thursday, 29 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
Full disclosure - I have a Britney poster. It hangs above my CD shelves. Opposite it though is "The Boys Of S Club 7".
I think the points he made about wanting to feel in touch would fit in with the desire of 'being'. Although it's a bit more complex in that case because it's not the popstar herself that these older fans want to be in touch with, it's her young audience.
My dad later tried to watch the Victoria Secret's fashion show on ABC. My mom liked that even less.
If it wasn't for old men in recliners TV might actually be worth watching.
― Lindsey B, Thursday, 29 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― daria gray, Friday, 30 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
But your post is shrouded in hypotheticals and maybes (possibly to quite sensibly avoid offense) and therefore I'm not sure where you now stand in relation to the original question - the issue of *inherent* suspectness. I'm sure that a lot of straight men will have a different appreciation for Britney than I do, but will all of them? Also, there's the age question: is a 19 year old boy who is turned on by Britney defined by his age or his attraction in this situation ie. is he too suspect because of this desire to fuck/use/consume, or is his guilt vitiated by a contemporaneity of age with the object of consumption? Hopefully I've made it clear that I'm not disagreeing with your position so much as wanting to link this back to the original question.
― Tim, Friday, 30 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
The question does need to be asked: since Britney is legal, why does liking to look at her necessarily make an older man "pervy?" The implied answer is that it's because the age difference bars any possibility of a healthy romantic interest in her, thus his looking is strictly sexual. But his looking at a televised woman his own age may just as likely be strictly sexual.
What makes young-woman lusting "pervy" is when a man finds young women attractive specifically because he views them as easier targets for domination or manipulation. I don't think the middle- aged man in the recliner really thinks this. I think Britney dominates him, in that he's wowed by her "youthful vitality" and feels somewhat unable to compete with it (isn't this how "adults" usually react to young-person trends?), and I'm guessing his thoughts about Britney include a whole lot of "Why didn't I know girls like that when I was teenager?" or "Jesus, I wish I was going to high school now."
― Nitsuh, Friday, 30 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― dave q, Friday, 30 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
Back to my office. Tom brings in a Britney CD. Colleague: "Oh, Britney Spears, bet I know why you've got that." Tom then has three options, according to Kim's schema.
1. "Yes, she's a babe. I'd give her one." Likely Response: "Tom you sad man but yeah I would too", male bonding and banter follows.
2. "No no I like the music." Likely Response: "What? But it's crap."
3. "I identify with Britney and want to be her or her idealised audience." Likely Response: ambulance called.
― Tom, Friday, 30 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― anthony, Friday, 30 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― geoff, Friday, 30 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
I think the attraction is in the recapitulation of youth, a way of working out issues of how we came to be who we are by watching others play-out (play-act) these things for us.
― Sterling Clover, Friday, 30 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
Nonsense, I hate her. *pause* Er, anyway.
― Ned Raggett, Friday, 30 November 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― daria gray, Saturday, 1 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― mark s, Saturday, 1 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― daria gray, Sunday, 2 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Tim, Monday, 3 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― anthony, Monday, 3 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Sterling Clover, Monday, 3 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
Basically, I'd say that while an individual is too unpredictable to level generalizations at with any kind of accuracy, the demographic group that the individual belongs to is *relatively* more consistent and so can be generalized about to a greater degree. Individual variables ought to average out to form an at least slightly predictable group behavioural model, which (before anyone says that generalizations are useless) could be either a formal marketing analysis or simply an informal personal opinion based on observance. We all do it all the time. Odd aberrations will likely be noted and rationalized in both cases - so if there's an extraordinary phenomena, we usually ask why. So when the explanation we receive doesn't mesh with what we already "know" and does NOT explain the aberration - I think that's the point we all go "Hmmmmmm" something else is going on here.
In this case, while we'd be perfectly willing to believe that straight 35 yr old John, or gay 20 yr old Bob might both sincerely like Britney for the music alone (if that's what they're claiming that is) and we'd believe it because we believe in the existence of personal idiosyncracies. Now perhaps what's happening here is that just too many thirty something males are claiming the exact same idosycratic quirk - and wisely, we're just not buying that *all of them* can possibly be telling the truth.
If that makes any sense, and answers the question in the slightest.
― Kim, Tuesday, 4 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Luke, Tuesday, 4 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Tom, Tuesday, 4 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― mark s, Tuesday, 4 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
*However*, these are areas I'd be reluctant to venture into myself with only logical suspicions and anecdotal evidence on my side - it was postulated as a largely *rational* and not empirical argument that men would have to lust after Britney to like her, and there's been very little empirical evidence (of the sort you allude to) put forward to justify the claim. Before cries of "but it's obvious men drool over Britney!" are hurled at me from all sides, I admit this is true, but, *crucially*, are they buying the albums?.
I think there's a huge difference between a thirtysomething guy thinking Britney's sexy when watching her video clips and a thirtysomething guy who actively buys her albums and enjoys the music, and I wonder if many of us actually know many people who fall into the second category (esteemed members of the beeyotches excepted, of course!), let alone understand or have proof of their motivations.
Personally, I can't imagine many guys who are going for the sex angle would actually bother with the albums when they can just buy a Rolling Stone mag with more revealing pictures... AND as Tom pointed out, if they *did* buy the album it would be the sexual motivation they'd be most likely to admit to straight off the bat.
Furthermore, this entire debate by its nature focuses on how Britney's music is different to the music a thirtysomething should be listening to (without specifying what the latter is - but that's a whole 'nother issue), but ignores the ways in which Britney's music is or can be similar to other non-contraband music. I know my Britney-inspired moment of truth occurred upon listening to "Born To Make You Happy", which seemed to me to perfectly encapsulate that sense of needing to belong to someone that I'm drawn to in many of my favourite songs, from The Smiths' "I Know It's Over" to Amira's "My Desire (Dreem Teem Mix)" to The Blue Nile's "Tinseltown In The Rain" - none of which are songs aimed at teenage girls, but in my head I group "Born..." with them.
The distinction I guess I'm trying to make is between Britney and her music. Britney as a physical (and visual) person may have one or many intended audiences, but Britney as a character expressed through the narrative of a song has many many more, because that character and that narrative are infinitely harder to pin down than Britney's age, looks and behaviour.
And *that's* ignoring her booty-shaking grooves, which add a whole new intended audience ("Oops... I Did It Again" and "I'm A Slave 4 U" are both at least partially designed for clubs, even if they're not the ones ILM regulars might be likely to frequent). Ultimately, there's just too many variables for me to even be comfortable with referring to a "significant proportion" of adult male listeners unless such a reference was trailed by a stream of caveats and disclaimers.
This is beginning to feel like nitpicking, which I apologise for... perhaps as a Britney-fan being faced with accepting that my appreciation is "more than likely" to be suspect makes me want to argue harder.
― Tim, Tuesday, 4 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
P.S. Proof is not what I'd need really, but I'm genuinely interested in looking at some sort of real-life examples of the question's proposed connection, whether individual or statistical. Which is not to say they necessarily exist or are easy to get a hold of, of course...
― Sterling Clover, Tuesday, 4 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
Luke: "the last gasp of a suffocating thinker."
Mark S.: I KNOW YOU ARE BUT WHAT AM I?
Me: A thuffocating Sinker.
― Nitsuh, Tuesday, 4 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― daria gray, Wednesday, 5 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― dave q, Wednesday, 5 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Mark Morris, Wednesday, 5 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Tom, Wednesday, 5 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― Sterling Clover, Wednesday, 5 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― maryann, Wednesday, 5 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)
― dave q, Thursday, 6 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-four years ago)