i cant even get my wife to have sex in the bed never mind the couch.
― Mark Chmuras Hot Tub Crime Machine (chrisv2010), Friday, 19 November 2010 21:19 (thirteen years ago) link
ah, dumper's remorse
― acoleuthic, Friday, 19 November 2010 21:25 (thirteen years ago) link
don't make this about poop
― sonderangerbot, Friday, 19 November 2010 23:18 (thirteen years ago) link
Doesn't initiate sex. Stops having sex after becoming a mother. Doesn't have sex because she doesn't think a man would find her attractive enough.
Chris, what is this woman's background? How socially conservative was her upbringing? There's a strong whiff of traditional values to what you are saying is happening.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Friday, 19 November 2010 23:30 (thirteen years ago) link
bingo. ct, girls.
― Mark Chmuras Hot Tub Crime Machine (chrisv2010), Saturday, 20 November 2010 01:56 (thirteen years ago) link
?
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 21 November 2010 20:41 (thirteen years ago) link
bingo, chrono trigger, girls
3 games that are easy to play, hard to win
― inner g pills (crüt), Sunday, 21 November 2010 20:54 (thirteen years ago) link
Aces Up, Zangband, boys.
This is fun!
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 21 November 2010 20:58 (thirteen years ago) link
she's an uptight connecticut girl^^^
― Mark Chmuras Hot Tub Crime Machine (chrisv2010), Tuesday, 23 November 2010 20:31 (thirteen years ago) link
i was right!
― BIG MUFFIN (gbx), Tuesday, 23 November 2010 20:31 (thirteen years ago) link
I'd look into counciling, then. There may be deep-seated problems here that may need a trained person to resolve.
Alternately, how did she give birth, vaginally or by C-section? If she gave birth vaginally, she may have suffered some damage down there that causes pain during sex. If she is as uptight as you say she is, she may not be willing to tell you about it for whatever reason.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 24 November 2010 01:36 (thirteen years ago) link
how exactly did i end up with a super-drunk girl two minutes from the home of my super-drunk self but end up only saying i'd text her so we could go on a date some time and waving her off home? i mean that's good and all, but DAMN.
― Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Thursday, 25 November 2010 04:01 (thirteen years ago) link
u prob did rite thing
― pro EVOO sucker (acoleuthic), Thursday, 25 November 2010 04:02 (thirteen years ago) link
nonetheless, condolences
― pro EVOO sucker (acoleuthic), Thursday, 25 November 2010 04:04 (thirteen years ago) link
ya you're right. and now since it's snowing (!) i've come home wanting nothing but to listen to the charlie brown christmas album. fuck a sex.
― Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Thursday, 25 November 2010 04:07 (thirteen years ago) link
you should split the difference and fuck to charlie brown christmas imo
― princess tamtam swag (The Reverend), Thursday, 25 November 2010 04:08 (thirteen years ago) link
will propose that by text right now.
― Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Thursday, 25 November 2010 04:10 (thirteen years ago) link
lol
― princess tamtam swag (The Reverend), Thursday, 25 November 2010 04:11 (thirteen years ago) link
whenever this happens I always think of what's my age again
― _| ̄|○| ̄|○| ̄|○ (dayo), Thursday, 25 November 2010 04:12 (thirteen years ago) link
woot woot, got my bj on last night.
― Mark Chmuras Hot Tub Crime Machine (chrisv2010), Monday, 29 November 2010 16:25 (thirteen years ago) link
http://robsmithjr.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/2009-0215-celebrate.jpg
― Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Monday, 29 November 2010 18:22 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.wondercliparts.com/congratulations/congratulation_graphics_4.gif
― mormon's marmots (crüt), Monday, 29 November 2010 18:24 (thirteen years ago) link
peculiar little addendum to my charlie brown story up there is that last night i spent a good hour talking to this girl about christmas music.
― Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Monday, 29 November 2010 20:38 (thirteen years ago) link
:-)
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Tuesday, 30 November 2010 19:12 (thirteen years ago) link
at what point is it ok to complain about being in a drought cause i am only 1.5 months in post-breakup and i am already going nuts
― ╭∩╮⎝⏠⏝⏠⎠╭∩╮ (jeff), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 09:53 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm in a month-long drought (almost) INSIDE a relationship! (The openness thing, you ask? Rainchecked. The flight to NZ? Within 2 months)
― gospodin sim gishel (acoleuthic), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 09:58 (thirteen years ago) link
It's all subjective: if you're having sex on a regular basis, a 1.5 month drought may feel like a looong time. If your sex life is infrequent, 6 months may go by surprisingly quickly. I know, because I've been in both positions.
― Tuomas, Wednesday, 1 December 2010 10:06 (thirteen years ago) link
i'll kill you both, if someone else from this thread doesnt get ye first
― Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 10:09 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm already going batty again
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 1 December 2010 10:17 (thirteen years ago) link
lol @ you people complaining about going without for a month.
― ENBB, Wednesday, 1 December 2010 11:45 (thirteen years ago) link
but really
― Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 11:55 (thirteen years ago) link
Getting on for 2 years here. In a relationship, and I have tried acting, talking, humour, sending suggestive poetry et al. The object of my desires has a low sex drive in any case and has recently been suffering from chronic pain. He's just had an op to fix the pain, but is looking at a 6 month recuperation. I've gone beyond suffering from frustration and settled into thinking of myself as celibate. It seems like the only way to preserve my sanity, given that a) there's no chance for the next good while and b) he's always said 'no' more than he's said 'yes'.
I miss the intimacy.
― Also unknown as Zora (Surfing At Work), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 12:10 (thirteen years ago) link
I might possibly maybe get busy a few days after xmas when I visit Atlanta. hooray me! (This will be the first time I've had sex with two different people in the same year since...ever.)
― Lightning Is For Babies (Johnny Fever), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 12:15 (thirteen years ago) link
you go girl
lj dogg are you going to stop off in Sydney?
― i'm assuming that it's tity boi, host of the mixtape (sic), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 13:01 (thirteen years ago) link
am saving up for just the one flight, sadly...although maybe she and I will take a weekend there before we return to England! :)
― gospodin sim gishel (acoleuthic), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 13:05 (thirteen years ago) link
You want to help end his drought?
― Tuomas, Wednesday, 1 December 2010 13:05 (thirteen years ago) link
(x-post, dammit!)
― Tuomas, Wednesday, 1 December 2010 13:06 (thirteen years ago) link
ha ha
― i'm assuming that it's tity boi, host of the mixtape (sic), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 13:07 (thirteen years ago) link
i am going bonkers
― BIG MUFFIN (gbx), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 13:20 (thirteen years ago) link
Damn my eyesight, I misread that as 'I am going with hookers'
― Les centimètres énigmatiques (snoball), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 13:23 (thirteen years ago) link
that's what we call prostitutes here. "bonkers." because they bonk you.
― BIG MUFFIN (gbx), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 13:24 (thirteen years ago) link
Blackout Crew - "put a bonk on it"
― Les centimètres énigmatiques (snoball), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 13:29 (thirteen years ago) link
"put a prostiture on it"
― Also unknown as Zora (Surfing At Work), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 14:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Shld read 'prostitute', obv.
im back in the saddle.
― Mark Chmuras Hot Tub Crime Machine (chrisv2010), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 15:45 (thirteen years ago) link
xposts to surfingatwork and i guess vegegirl - low sex drive or no sex drive, if your partner has at least one working hand and maybe even a tongue (bonus!) there really is no reason you should be doing without. imo and ime part of a committed relationship is both of you doing things ~for~ each other, without necessarily getting any particular payoff yourself (except the satisfaction that you are making your partner happy).
― just1n3, Wednesday, 1 December 2010 16:25 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yWhSfln1O4k
― BIG MUFFIN (gbx), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 16:29 (thirteen years ago) link
mrs. kkvgz went to her 6 week post-pregnancy checkup today.in: u need 2 pick up my pills at cvsout: okout: what kinda pills they got you on?in: bcntrlout: !
― Julian Osage Orange (kkvgz), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 21:48 (thirteen years ago) link
was in a relationship for years so it definitely feels like a drought. probably more an issue with sleeping alone as opposed to just sex. but yeah, at what point is it an official shameful drought?
― ╭∩╮⎝⏠⏝⏠⎠╭∩╮ (jeff), Wednesday, 1 December 2010 23:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Surfing at Work: Perhaps one of the medications he's on for pain management is lowering his libido?
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Thursday, 2 December 2010 01:33 (thirteen years ago) link