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well he just texted me and luckily i live with the most outdoorsy of outdoorsman and he said he dashed home BUILT A TRAP and set it up there with canned cat food and treats and stuff

i really hope he comes to him or gets trapped, lol

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:51 (fifteen years ago) link

i really just dont even have room to be upset about that right now, i just have to keep pushing it down

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:51 (fifteen years ago) link

Oh dear, I hope you'll find your cat and he/she is fine. My mom's cat was once lost in the woods for almost two months, but eventually she was found and she wasn't hurt or anything (just lost some weight). Thankfully cats are quite good at surviving.

Tuomas, Monday, 15 December 2008 07:52 (fifteen years ago) link

Especially in the woods, which I think used to be their natural habitat(?).

Tuomas, Monday, 15 December 2008 07:53 (fifteen years ago) link

awww roxy i hope you find your kitty :(

also, i kind of want to punch your ex-guy too.

RADNESS UNLIMITED! (sunny successor), Monday, 15 December 2008 15:49 (fifteen years ago) link

YOU VOTED FOR BUSH IN 2000!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Wednesday, 17 December 2008 02:13 (fifteen years ago) link

what the hell

pretty impressive war skills (gbx), Wednesday, 17 December 2008 02:59 (fifteen years ago) link

did he want to have a beer with him

♪☺♫☻ (gr8080), Wednesday, 17 December 2008 02:59 (fifteen years ago) link

Rox lots of "aww" and "soz, bro" from a dude on the internet you don't know.

This: forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands. (in my experience at least) goes away. It takes AWHILE, but it goes away, and afterwards the music you associated with the ex becomes even more your own than it ever was beforehand. Kind of cool actually.

en i see kay, Wednesday, 17 December 2008 05:54 (fifteen years ago) link

in my experience, you have to start forcing yourself right now to listen to this music and listen to it repeatedly, till there's no longer an association (or you get a new association).

just1n3, Wednesday, 17 December 2008 06:00 (fifteen years ago) link

awesome part of my last breakup is now i have a good reason to not watch grey's anatomy or the tudors

♪☺♫☻ (gr8080), Wednesday, 17 December 2008 06:20 (fifteen years ago) link

cat unfound

also, forgot that our first real date was to see ian curtis movie, and the first convo we had was about joy division

lol, my actual favorite band you DICK i'm taking them back you don't even like new order

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Friday, 19 December 2008 07:22 (fifteen years ago) link

Oh dear, hope the cat will be found eventually... At least it's not cold there in the winter, right?

Tuomas, Friday, 19 December 2008 07:34 (fifteen years ago) link

It's pretty cold, but he's a Norwegian cat.

A Norwegian Forest Cat, actually, is his breed!!

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Friday, 19 December 2008 07:35 (fifteen years ago) link

Well, he should manage in the forest for a while then.

Tuomas, Friday, 19 December 2008 07:40 (fifteen years ago) link

poor kitty :(

tokyo rosemary, Friday, 19 December 2008 14:02 (fifteen years ago) link

that cat went on some kind of buddhistic soul journey for 6 weeks when i lived downtown and came back very thin and covered in leaves, acting very serene

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Friday, 19 December 2008 22:37 (fifteen years ago) link

He learned a lot about himself, out there.

the ref (ed hochuli ha ha) (call all destroyer), Friday, 19 December 2008 22:46 (fifteen years ago) link

texted me for no reason. i asked a question back to no repsonse. what a weirdo.

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 21 December 2008 09:00 (fifteen years ago) link

not the cat, but the ex

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 21 December 2008 09:00 (fifteen years ago) link

"ROX - IN FORST 4 XMAS VAC - C U L8R <3 CAT"

snoball, Sunday, 21 December 2008 09:53 (fifteen years ago) link

awwww <3

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 21 December 2008 09:59 (fifteen years ago) link

Can I do this too pretty pls? I think it will be healthy.

You rarely came to see either of my bands play even when you weren't doing anything else and when you did you would completely disappear and often leave entirely. When I said I didn't mind if you didn't like our music but I wanted you to tell me if this was the case you yelled at me for not spending enough time with you. You yelled at me for not spending enough time with you almost constantly for the majority of the hours I spent with you every day for like 5 months straight.

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:24 (fifteen years ago) link

You decided we were broke up when we had a fight (at 3 am) without clarifying this with me and somehow managed to cheat on me with your douchebag yoga teacher before I got out of work the next day (at 3 pm)...you said you thought we were broke up.

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:26 (fifteen years ago) link

You yelled at me for doing stuff around the house for your mom (her mom has MS) because you said now she would expect you to also.

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:27 (fifteen years ago) link

After I got you into Wax Fang when we saw them in November you tried to keep me from singing along with their songs by putting your hand over my mouth and making mean faces at me.

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:29 (fifteen years ago) link

You made out with a girl at that show who had a fake beard and looked like Bono!

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:29 (fifteen years ago) link

I always paid for you for everything because you were unemployed. (<-this one is pretty much on me though)

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:30 (fifteen years ago) link

An unemployed massage therapist who traded massages for yoga lessons from the dude you eventually cheated on me with.

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:31 (fifteen years ago) link

You also never wrote me a letter (I wrote many while you were in Lake Tahoe!), made me a mix CD, cooked me a meal or made me a pie or anything!

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:32 (fifteen years ago) link

Shit I should probably stop. Sorry to steal your thread rox! <3 u!

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:32 (fifteen years ago) link

You refused to go to Nashville AND Chicago with me & my band because you thought I was in love with one of our singers.

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:34 (fifteen years ago) link

haha whoops

Okay now I'm done.

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:34 (fifteen years ago) link

keep it up this chick sounds like bad news its important to vent

eman cipation s1ocklamation (max), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:37 (fifteen years ago) link

i mean i dont want to speak for rox but shes an open hearted person and im sure shed encourage you to keep posting

eman cipation s1ocklamation (max), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:37 (fifteen years ago) link

she was very encouraging when i posted on this thread

a mountain climber who plays an electric guitar (gabbneb), Monday, 22 December 2008 22:48 (fifteen years ago) link

After I got you into Wax Fang when we saw them in November you tried to keep me from singing along with their songs by putting your hand over my mouth and making mean faces at me.
WOW

ghost kittens! so cute! (sunny successor), Tuesday, 23 December 2008 04:07 (fifteen years ago) link

hey as a sidebar - do all guys well not EXPECT so much as want a meal cooked for them as a romantic gesture? Because I gotta tell you it'll be a minnesota day in hell before I do that for anyone. im pliable though

ghost kittens! so cute! (sunny successor), Tuesday, 23 December 2008 04:09 (fifteen years ago) link

shit i must be crazy - i make my bf breakfast (lol it's just a bowl of cereal) and lunch every day

just1n3, Tuesday, 23 December 2008 04:14 (fifteen years ago) link

cooking food with/for someone is fun imo but if yr not into it it's no biggie, and anyone who would find that a dealbreaker is perhaps weird. but in both the above cases it seems of a piece with just general thoughtlessness and self-centredness.

dugong.jpg (jabba hands), Tuesday, 23 December 2008 04:16 (fifteen years ago) link

people in different styles of showing love shocker

♪☺♫☻ (gr8080), Tuesday, 23 December 2008 04:18 (fifteen years ago) link

lol

give oscar the grouch (a-bomb), Tuesday, 23 December 2008 04:18 (fifteen years ago) link

Okay I will rephrase.

You always promised to make me a pie and you never even made me toast.

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Wednesday, 24 December 2008 02:27 (fifteen years ago) link

To be fair you did make me coffee a couple times.

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Wednesday, 24 December 2008 02:27 (fifteen years ago) link

OH! You didn't tell me you were going to Atlanta for 10 days, I found out when I saw your dad at Krogers the night before you left. WTF.

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Wednesday, 24 December 2008 02:31 (fifteen years ago) link

When you left you took my only tempurpedic pillow!!!!

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Wednesday, 24 December 2008 02:31 (fifteen years ago) link

thank you for the memories foam

estela, Wednesday, 24 December 2008 02:33 (fifteen years ago) link

ha!

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Wednesday, 24 December 2008 02:33 (fifteen years ago) link

You told my sister that my penis is shaped like a torpedo!

"I Like My Hogen-Mogen" (nickalicious), Wednesday, 24 December 2008 02:33 (fifteen years ago) link

with the fins and everything??>

Merry Christuomas (electricsound), Wednesday, 24 December 2008 02:35 (fifteen years ago) link


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