ease into the pussy amirite
― lag∞n affiliated (The Reverend), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 02:29 (twelve years ago) link
:/
― wolf kabob (ENBB), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 02:52 (twelve years ago) link
Whoaaaaaaaaaaaaa
― frogbs, stills, and nash (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 03:24 (twelve years ago) link
I m with her right now. Going fairly well but had to drink to get my senses right
― frogbs, stills, and nash (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 03:26 (twelve years ago) link
best of luck bro
but if you're soliciting advice (and if you're not feel free todisgregard this) may i suggest not posting to the ilx sex droughts thread while on a date, sober or otherwise?
― ⚓ (gr8080), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 03:53 (twelve years ago) link
discretionary gr8080 is otm
― valleys of your mind (mh), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 03:55 (twelve years ago) link
otherwise we someday risk the LJ ilxing-while thing where all our psyches do not need to know that
― valleys of your mind (mh), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 03:56 (twelve years ago) link
wasn't really a date, if anything i only chose this thread cuz this acct doesn't have 77 access and not looking to re-add it.
― Bo Jackson Overdrive, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 13:11 (twelve years ago) link
i think that was directed at neanderthal
― lag∞n affiliated (The Reverend), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 15:39 (twelve years ago) link
haha
― am0n, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 15:47 (twelve years ago) link
lol
Rev - they're the same person.
― wolf kabob (ENBB), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 15:54 (twelve years ago) link
oh!
― lag∞n affiliated (The Reverend), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 16:00 (twelve years ago) link
Was so tempted to put the moves on my friend's gf last night. We were high and she is so beautiful and weed makes me really horny. I'm not really 100% sure if it was my respect for my friend that was stopping me or just simply the presence of their housemate, but I could barely contain myself. (Friend was upstairs, fast asleep.) We just kind of stood there sometimes talking and sometimes just exchanging long glances. I need a better outlet.
― marissa explains it all (The Reverend), Sunday, 26 February 2012 22:30 (twelve years ago) link
Kind of regretting turning down the opportunity last weekend to be rebound sex for a beautiful girl. It would have been a bad idea, but damn.
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Monday, 27 February 2012 05:23 (twelve years ago) link
Rev, it sounds like you dodged a bullet, though gods know I understand where you're at. Milo, you should have hit that.
― stay in school if you want to kiw (Gukbe), Monday, 27 February 2012 05:31 (twelve years ago) link
Gukbe OTM
― Θ ̨Θƪ (sic), Monday, 27 February 2012 08:23 (twelve years ago) link
Ugh, restored from the wrong iphone backup, last texts were graphic sexts from an ex. I should have had bad idea sex.
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 01:54 (twelve years ago) link
graphic as in words or as in graphical displays
― valleys of your mind (mh), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 02:14 (twelve years ago) link
words
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 02:24 (twelve years ago) link
sexts by definition include multimedia content imo
― sleepingbag, Tuesday, 28 February 2012 02:26 (twelve years ago) link
no images but they definitely got the point across
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 02:39 (twelve years ago) link
whose point?
― flagp∞st (dayo), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 02:43 (twelve years ago) link
Do you think libidos come back if you exercise them? I seem to have misplaced mine.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Thursday, 1 March 2012 00:10 (twelve years ago) link
Sometimes I wonder if I should worry, but I'm not unhappy and I do trust that my brain and body are okay, whatever "okay" is for me, I don't doubt that. It's just...you know, maybe a little samey all the time.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Thursday, 1 March 2012 00:11 (twelve years ago) link
yes xp
― mookieproof, Thursday, 1 March 2012 00:11 (twelve years ago) link
yes
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 1 March 2012 00:14 (twelve years ago) link
Do libidos go away forever if you don't exercise them, that's what I wonder.
― cashmere tears-soaker (Abbbottt), Thursday, 1 March 2012 00:33 (twelve years ago) link
libidos can go dormant, but I don't know that they go away? maybe?
― Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 1 March 2012 00:34 (twelve years ago) link
I certainly have a libido, I just don't know what to do with it. Maybe it's different for womens and mens?
― marissa explains it all (The Reverend), Thursday, 1 March 2012 01:04 (twelve years ago) link
I will say this much: I don't stop having the urge to get off, I just have no interest in lingering over the job or involving anyone else.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Thursday, 1 March 2012 01:07 (twelve years ago) link
And even the idea of making out with another person is like "YUUUCK! People put their MOUTHS on each other's MOUTHS?? I've seen that in movies I guess but that shit is nuts."
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Thursday, 1 March 2012 01:08 (twelve years ago) link
even if that person were like . . . dangerous?
― mookieproof, Thursday, 1 March 2012 01:37 (twelve years ago) link
Ha! I think libido is a learned (habitual) response. Can lie (lay?) dormant, but when awakened, is irrepressible.
― Virginia Plain, Thursday, 1 March 2012 01:42 (twelve years ago) link
Oh Laurel, I've been there. The disconnect between perceived goals and "wtf, other people" is a thing, for sure.
― valleys of your mind (mh), Thursday, 1 March 2012 14:30 (twelve years ago) link
no comment about whether that's my current frame of mind
both of you otm
― marissa explains it all (The Reverend), Friday, 2 March 2012 18:42 (twelve years ago) link
Feeling it maybe a little. About time, tbh.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Friday, 16 March 2012 20:26 (twelve years ago) link
+I thought I misplaced my libido, and I was kind of alarmed, but then I got drunk and kissed someone the other day so I am less alarmed. I still feel weirdly devoid of any ability to meaningfully communicate to other people though. Hence my sex drought. I am trying to just keep doing productive things while my self-confidence is still down. It hasn't helped a whole lot yet. I did clean my room, though.
― Sexess - Sexual Success Or; Successful Sex (crüt), Saturday, 17 March 2012 10:36 (twelve years ago) link
idk where that plus sign came from, but I like it. it makes the thought look more additive.
― Sexess - Sexual Success Or; Successful Sex (crüt), Saturday, 17 March 2012 10:37 (twelve years ago) link
Really feelin' it lately. I'd love even just a cas hookup at this point tbqfh. Gahhh.
― Medical Dance Crab With Lesson (Trayce), Saturday, 17 March 2012 11:20 (twelve years ago) link
can I post on this thread about being married and thinking "Oh great, I'm gonna be fucking every day and that's gonna totally make up for back when I was younger and shy and never got laid", but then I get a job that's an hour away and I have to wake up early in the morning to get there and so it's a pure miracle if both me and my wife manage to stay up later than the kids. I mean, I could extrapolate this to all things that I could do for myself in my free time - playing music, watching movies, folding laundry - but I'm particularly miffed about the once-a-month sex.
Even last night, we were totally like "let's do this" so I drank a ton of yerba mate around 8 so I wouldn't fall asleep (usually, my wife is the late night person), but for some reason the baby stayed up until midnight and my wife just conked out.
Sometimes when I'm asleep, my wife will shake me awake for sex, or try to molest me or something, but I get so tired these days that if I get woken up, I'm basically so miserable that I cry.
I know most of y'all got it worse than I do in terms of duration and all, but this is really bringing me down because it's not even like I have to overcome my social anxiety to go out and find a partner. I have a sex partner who's totally freaky and likes to bone down. I just have little to no sex.
― lag∞na beach: the real ∞range c∞unty (beachville), Saturday, 17 March 2012 12:51 (twelve years ago) link
I got drunk and kissed someone the other day
!! That is how you do it iirc.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Saturday, 17 March 2012 15:45 (twelve years ago) link
No sex since right around xmas last year, which is one of my shortest droughts. I should be fine, tbh, but I think spring is making me horny.
― Johnny Fever, Saturday, 17 March 2012 15:55 (twelve years ago) link
When you all say "libido" do you mean just horniness or interest in sex with others?
I ask b/c I was gonna say that I had misplaced my libido, but that's not exactly right since I still feel, uh, horny, but the thought of trying to pick up somebody at a bar (or on the street, lol Boystown), which is normally NBD is just so distasteful. And I can't seem to find the wherewithal to date.
― free societies must let drunken gay Texans have sex (Je55e), Saturday, 17 March 2012 16:22 (twelve years ago) link
That's def what I meant, Jesse, think some other folks did, too.
― drawn to them like a moth toward a spanakopita (Laurel), Saturday, 17 March 2012 16:25 (twelve years ago) link
maybe the internet has replaced the part of the brain that would be satisfied by 'dating'
― flagp∞st (dayo), Saturday, 17 March 2012 16:28 (twelve years ago) link
I just have little/no desire to have sex
― Joan Cusack clumsily running into a water fountain (Stevie D(eux)), Monday, 19 March 2012 14:06 (twelve years ago) link
Tag, someone else is it.
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Saturday, 24 March 2012 18:32 (twelve years ago) link
Quickly coming up on a year. My prior record (since escaping my teenage years, anyway) was maaaayyyyybe a couple of months. Any libido I have is overridden by my current repulsion with relationships and my general acknowledgement of the emptiness of casual hookups. To be honest, I'm really trying to just rechannel that energy into other, more productive endeavors for the first time in my adult life.
― Arnold Drummond, Process Server (Deric W. Haircare), Saturday, 24 March 2012 18:44 (twelve years ago) link
I am glaring at Laurel while giving congrats
― mh, Saturday, 24 March 2012 18:56 (twelve years ago) link