Sergeant Marc Loi --> A Caring Molester
― not having a luxury watch is terrible (unregistered), Thursday, 13 May 2010 21:57 (fourteen years ago) link
lol
― Fig On A Plate Cart (Alex in SF), Friday, 14 May 2010 01:42 (fourteen years ago) link
Plan B for soldiers in IraqBy: Amy
The following is a recent conversation between fellow contributor Marc Loi and I via Facebook. I am posting this to generate conversation about this subject because maybe I'm the only one who thinks this way? Please let us know what you think! :
Marc L is going to bring lots of Plan B to Iraq, in case an female soldiers need it, but do not have access to it! 6:03pmAmy Twisdale at 7:26pm March 15 :um..Marc L at 9:28pm March 15: Um?Amy Twisdale at 9:57pm March 15: who says the female soldiers are going to be having sex in IRAQ .. and personally i think that's really their own business unless you plan on knocking up female soldiers while they're there. think before you post something marcMarc L at 9:59pm March 15: Well, it does happen in Iraq - and around military bases in global south nations where abortions are not available. Sex is a matter of life - and suppose a soldier gets pregnant, isn't it better that she has access to plan B, since, well, the military does not provide abortions?Amy Twisdale at 10:16pm March 15: you mentioned two things. 1. military bases in the global south- are you talking about prostitution.. in that case you should bring condoms 2. i don't think a female soldier needs you to rescue them from pregnancy. a.pregnancy is not a bad thing always b. don't you think many u.s. women are on birth control c. i don't think it's any of YOUR business to provide plan b for anyone. let them deal with it personally. i appreciate and respect your feminism, you know that marc. but sometimes i feel you go a little too far and overstep your boundaries as a man. yes i said it.Marc L at 10:22pm March 15: Well, considering the number of military women being sent home based on the fact they are pregnant, there IS a need for Plan B. And as you say, it's not my business, but it's there as, well, Plan B should they ever need it. I merely see a need, and thus, doing something about it. It's good that you told it as is, though - because, well, it allows me to see things from your perspective. Although I have to ask: how is this any different than, say, a male politician requiring that the military provide Plan B at their medical facilities? Would HE be out of line?Amy Twisdale at 10:38pm March 15: unfortunately the government controls such things so in this case that is how policy is created. but you're not a politician (yet) and even if you are going to bring plan b (which by the way is $40 a pill.. how many are you bringing?! you must be rich!) i feel it was inappropriate to put that in your status update because plan b... and abortions for that matter are completely personal and emotional and shouldn't be talked about like you're gonna be passing out candy. it also makes it look like female soldiers are promiscuous or something.. also, how are they going to know you have it? what makes you think anyone's going to tell you 'hey marc, do you have any plan b, i think i'm pregnant'Marc L at 10:45pm March 15: Well, then our conversation ought to focus on how society slut slams women, right? It seems that the perception if promiscuity is a bad thing. This, I see, is both a policy issue and an issue of how we view women. Anyway, I am calling around to see which pharmacy will allow ME to buy it without a prescription. My plan was just to keep it with just Soldiers I know, both males and females. For me, this is not about rescuing anyone, but changing a culture and mindset within the military. I am not a rich man, Amy, but I do live with Spartanlike, and thus, whatever the Army pays, I can use for things like these. Thanks for pointing out what seemed like "rescuer" and "damsel in distress" situation, though - and thanks for not being mad at me. :)Amy Twisdale at 10:47pm March 15: lol just constructive criticism i still love you marc
Amy Twisdale at 7:26pm March 15 :um..
Marc L at 9:28pm March 15: Um?
Amy Twisdale at 9:57pm March 15: who says the female soldiers are going to be having sex in IRAQ .. and personally i think that's really their own business unless you plan on knocking up female soldiers while they're there. think before you post something marc
Marc L at 9:59pm March 15: Well, it does happen in Iraq - and around military bases in global south nations where abortions are not available. Sex is a matter of life - and suppose a soldier gets pregnant, isn't it better that she has access to plan B, since, well, the military does not provide abortions?
Amy Twisdale at 10:16pm March 15: you mentioned two things. 1. military bases in the global south- are you talking about prostitution.. in that case you should bring condoms 2. i don't think a female soldier needs you to rescue them from pregnancy. a.pregnancy is not a bad thing always b. don't you think many u.s. women are on birth control c. i don't think it's any of YOUR business to provide plan b for anyone. let them deal with it personally. i appreciate and respect your feminism, you know that marc. but sometimes i feel you go a little too far and overstep your boundaries as a man. yes i said it.
Marc L at 10:22pm March 15: Well, considering the number of military women being sent home based on the fact they are pregnant, there IS a need for Plan B. And as you say, it's not my business, but it's there as, well, Plan B should they ever need it. I merely see a need, and thus, doing something about it. It's good that you told it as is, though - because, well, it allows me to see things from your perspective. Although I have to ask: how is this any different than, say, a male politician requiring that the military provide Plan B at their medical facilities? Would HE be out of line?
Amy Twisdale at 10:38pm March 15: unfortunately the government controls such things so in this case that is how policy is created. but you're not a politician (yet) and even if you are going to bring plan b (which by the way is $40 a pill.. how many are you bringing?! you must be rich!) i feel it was inappropriate to put that in your status update because plan b... and abortions for that matter are completely personal and emotional and shouldn't be talked about like you're gonna be passing out candy. it also makes it look like female soldiers are promiscuous or something.. also, how are they going to know you have it? what makes you think anyone's going to tell you 'hey marc, do you have any plan b, i think i'm pregnant'
Marc L at 10:45pm March 15: Well, then our conversation ought to focus on how society slut slams women, right? It seems that the perception if promiscuity is a bad thing. This, I see, is both a policy issue and an issue of how we view women. Anyway, I am calling around to see which pharmacy will allow ME to buy it without a prescription. My plan was just to keep it with just Soldiers I know, both males and females. For me, this is not about rescuing anyone, but changing a culture and mindset within the military. I am not a rich man, Amy, but I do live with Spartanlike, and thus, whatever the Army pays, I can use for things like these. Thanks for pointing out what seemed like "rescuer" and "damsel in distress" situation, though - and thanks for not being mad at me. :)
Amy Twisdale at 10:47pm March 15: lol just constructive criticism i still love you marc
― ('_') (omar little), Sunday, 22 August 2010 18:55 (fourteen years ago) link
marc loi otm
― goole, Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:06 (fourteen years ago) link
not my business, but it's there as, well, Plan B should they ever need it. I merely see a need, and thus, doing something about it.
― the girl with the butt tattoo (harbl), Sunday, 22 August 2010 19:54 (fourteen years ago) link
what makes you think anyone's going to tell you 'hey marc, do you have any plan b, i think i'm pregnant'
― not everything is a campfire (ian), Monday, 23 August 2010 02:10 (fourteen years ago) link
i will
― hey marc, do you have any plan b, i think i'm pregnant (The Reverend), Monday, 23 August 2010 02:59 (fourteen years ago) link
this twisdale person is mad rong. sure loi is, well, loi, but her kneejerk "if they get pregnant it's PRIVATE leave it ALONE god" is clearly not up to speed on life as a female soldier.
― goole, Monday, 23 August 2010 04:23 (fourteen years ago) link
our conversation ought to focus on how society slut slams women
― ('_') (omar little), Monday, 23 August 2010 04:44 (fourteen years ago) link
omar where is that from?
― goole, Monday, 23 August 2010 04:52 (fourteen years ago) link
^^^Marc L at 10:45pm March 15
― ('_') (omar little), Monday, 23 August 2010 04:54 (fourteen years ago) link
The following is a recent conversation between fellow contributor Marc Loi and I via Facebook.
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― goole, Monday, 23 August 2010 04:57 (fourteen years ago) link
i appreciate and respect your feminism, you know that marc. but sometimes i feel you go a little too far and overstep your boundaries as a man. yes i said it.
"yes, I said it"!
― mc banhammer (Pashmina), Monday, 23 August 2010 10:31 (fourteen years ago) link
http://cdn.buzznet.com/media-cdn/jj1/headlines/2009/05/wanda-sykes-twins.jpg
― nonviolent j (unregistered), Monday, 23 August 2010 12:48 (fourteen years ago) link
― mc banhammer (Pashmina), Monday, August 23, 2010 5:31 AM (6 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
a challop indeed
― NOT FUNNY NEEDS MORE GUCCI (deej), Monday, 23 August 2010 17:24 (fourteen years ago) link
T/S Marc Loi or Bee M1chael P@ine
― Matt Armstrong, Monday, 23 August 2010 19:04 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/19/magazine/19Letters-t-ONLANGUAGE_LETTERS.html
― buzza, Friday, 7 January 2011 04:38 (thirteen years ago) link
google alert?
― predeep natsvitika (forksclovetofu), Friday, 7 January 2011 14:14 (thirteen years ago) link
dude seems to have become less of a creepo and more of a proper, admirable feminist in his old age.
still, I don't think it's helpful to recast an ugly slogan like "man up" (which means something like "don't be a pussy" in its original sense) as a call to stop violence against women. while the goal of the Man Up Campaign is noble, and it's true that men have a huge responsibility to curb such violence, the phrase "man up" continues to imply that there are values/morals/strengths that men naturally hold and women naturally lack — a philosophy that perpetuates gender imbalance and, ironically, perpetuates violence against women. sometimes "taking back" hateful language can be a dramatic and effective means to combat hate, but in this case I don't think it's possible to reclaim "man up" without partly reinforcing its bigoted origins.
― i probably busted a nut when i was tossing her cookie salad (unregistered), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:03 (thirteen years ago) link
"Mensch Up"?
― predeep natsvitika (forksclovetofu), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:05 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.aidshealth.org/assets/images/in-the-news/press-releases/photos/blair_man-up.gif
― buzza, Friday, 7 January 2011 18:06 (thirteen years ago) link
that ad seems to suggest that AIDS testing consists of sticking yr dick in blair underwoodor vice versa
― predeep natsvitika (forksclovetofu), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:07 (thirteen years ago) link
BRO DOWN
― ice cr?m, Friday, 7 January 2011 18:09 (thirteen years ago) link
wood on the down under
― buzza, Friday, 7 January 2011 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
― ('_') (omar little), Monday, August 23, 2010 12:44 AM (4 months ago) Bookmark
im dying @ 'slut slams'
― Princess TamTam, Friday, 7 January 2011 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
dont google that btw
nut up or slut up?
― i probably busted a nut when i was tossing her cookie salad (unregistered), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:14 (thirteen years ago) link
http://img89.imageshack.us/img89/5264/loim.jpg
― i probably busted a nut when i was tossing her cookie salad (unregistered), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:17 (thirteen years ago) link
who is it that is friends w/ this guy on fb
― plax (ico), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:19 (thirteen years ago) link
http://img502.imageshack.us/img502/6281/loi2.jpg
― i probably busted a nut when i was tossing her cookie salad (unregistered), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:20 (thirteen years ago) link
http://img696.imageshack.us/img696/8691/loii.jpg
marclby
― buzza, Friday, 7 January 2011 18:21 (thirteen years ago) link
oops, last one was a repost; should be
http://img375.imageshack.us/img375/3936/loi2z.jpg
― i probably busted a nut when i was tossing her cookie salad (unregistered), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:22 (thirteen years ago) link
http://img263.imageshack.us/img263/6281/loi2.jpg
― i probably busted a nut when i was tossing her cookie salad (unregistered), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:24 (thirteen years ago) link
tempted to go with "Chocolate Vaginas will be here shortly" as a dn, but...
― predeep natsvitika (forksclovetofu), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:28 (thirteen years ago) link
I like how he proactively sets up defense mechanisms in every post like he's learned to anticipate the blowback he's going to get
― mavisbeacon666 (San Te), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:31 (thirteen years ago) link
http://img692.imageshack.us/img692/5227/loi2d.jpg
unremarkable post aside from the fact that I misread "ponies" as "poonanis".
― i probably busted a nut when i was tossing her cookie salad (unregistered), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:36 (thirteen years ago) link
MAN UP, says Marc Loi
― Matt Armstrong, Friday, 7 January 2011 18:45 (thirteen years ago) link
chocolate vagina.
― http://tinyurl.com/MO-02011 (Pleasant Plains), Friday, 7 January 2011 18:49 (thirteen years ago) link
Jennifer Anne likes this
― goole, Friday, 7 January 2011 19:18 (thirteen years ago) link
chocolate babka
― puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Friday, 7 January 2011 19:25 (thirteen years ago) link
the most annoying thing about marc loi is that despite years and years of apparently studying feminist theory he still thinks its a good idea to attack misogyny as not being manly enough/not scoring enough chicks
― nakh get on my lvl (roxymuzak), Saturday, 8 January 2011 05:03 (thirteen years ago) link
'feminist deconstruction aside' is like his mantra. i don't really understand it but it's okay because he's funny.
― toastmodernist, Saturday, 8 January 2011 05:14 (thirteen years ago) link
truth bomb xp
― dayo, Saturday, 8 January 2011 10:52 (thirteen years ago) link
u can tell hes really invested in the feminist project of deconstructing sexual difference
― plax (ico), Saturday, 8 January 2011 13:03 (thirteen years ago) link
For political scientist Marc Loi, McCain's latest strategy in claiming everyone is his friend is a last-ditch effort at connecting with the American people - one Loi says he does not foresee as being a success.
"John McCain has made a lot of claims," Loi said from his home in Norfolk, Va. "He says he's a maverick, he is not; he says he is more women's rights, he's not; and now he says he's everyone's friend, he is not - I've yet spoken with anyone who says they are his friend or want to be his friend. You cannot go be expected to be president if no one wants to be your friend."
For McCain, Loi continued, this will be a case of both friendship and presidential ambitions denied.
http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=38523388752&topic=5154
― Matt Armstrong, Sunday, 20 February 2011 01:35 (thirteen years ago) link
is he trying to write for the Onion now?
― pre-prison, prison, and post-prison (latebloomer), Sunday, 20 February 2011 04:42 (thirteen years ago) link
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More options Sep 29 1999, 11:00 pmNewsgroups: alt.parents-teensFrom: dstn2b...@a✧✧.c✧✧ (Marc Loi)Date: 1999/09/30Subject: Re: Prepubescent boys, Help/advice wanted.Reply to author | Forward | Print | Individual message | Show original | Report this message | Find messages by this author
Racheal,
Why talk to him at all about it? I am sure that he will be able to find out onhis own as he learns more about his sexuality. There are certain issues thatare best when not talked about, and I think that masturbation is one of them.I understand that every teenage boy masturbates, but it doesn't mean that theyare ignorant about the issue. Let him be, and I am sure that he will grow intoa fine young man who is in "touch" with his sexuality. As for the questionabout ejaculation, I believe that msot boys start at 13-15. I remember myfirst ejaculation (sorry for the details), I wasn't scared at all.Ejaculations don't "just happen", it's a lengthy process that takes months todevelope. It's hard to explain without going into graphic details, and thisbeing a teenage/parents board, I will respect that and not go into it anyfurther. But don't worry, he will be fine. :) I would know, I was there a fewyears ago.Marc
― buzza, Sunday, 20 February 2011 04:51 (thirteen years ago) link
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― uncle twikkelingssteurnissen (unregistered), Sunday, 20 February 2011 05:00 (thirteen years ago) link