http://letsnotdate.tumblr.com/image/29380046536
― Matt Armstrong, Tuesday, 14 August 2012 03:19 (eleven years ago) link
reverse psychology eh
― protected by viper. stand back. (D-40), Tuesday, 14 August 2012 06:37 (eleven years ago) link
'some transentental evening'
― Pureed Moods (Trayce), Tuesday, 14 August 2012 08:02 (eleven years ago) link
arrr stuffed up the joek with my typos.
KLF mixtape titles for bad typists
― snoball, Tuesday, 14 August 2012 08:05 (eleven years ago) link
If one of the first dozen words a potential date said to me was "pulchritude", I'd run in the opposite direction til I collapsed and died.
― REV LION (The Reverend), Tuesday, 14 August 2012 08:42 (eleven years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3bzc7NHbfY
― This cad needs a cordial introduction to Eugene of Oxbow. (forksclovetofu), Sunday, 16 September 2012 15:06 (eleven years ago) link
Marc Loi posted to Feminist Majority FoundationDecember 6 near Norfolk, VADo you guys have an agenda and workshop information for March's conference yet? I'd like get a few fellow to attend, but I'd love to see if the agenda fits needs of our focus.
― buzza, Monday, 24 December 2012 22:54 (eleven years ago) link
not Marc but
nopunin10did 3 hours ago
As a male feminist, I sum it up this way: when it comes to gender issues, I defer to whatever Jezebel tells me to do. That can get kinda confusing at times, but it usually sorts out.
― Matt Armstrong, Friday, 1 March 2013 01:32 (eleven years ago) link
that's how I break it down to an extent
― ☠ ☃ ☠ (mh), Friday, 1 March 2013 01:33 (eleven years ago) link
was gonna say
― forks is lucky he didn't get stabbed over a marilyn monroe cd (forksclovetofu), Friday, 1 March 2013 03:55 (eleven years ago) link
http://www.amazon.com/review/R25PS9RXY7Z39O
― we're up all night to get (s1ocki), Sunday, 12 May 2013 05:28 (eleven years ago) link
Do you think that was the first film he had ever seen and was unfamiliar with the concept of storywriting/plot/moviemaking?
― pplains, Sunday, 12 May 2013 05:36 (eleven years ago) link
I'm just happy there's more than feminism that I can lolz on him now.
why don't ppl like promiscuous ppl i never understood
― Treeship, Sunday, 12 May 2013 06:14 (eleven years ago) link
how is he not on twitter
― gr8080, Sunday, 12 May 2013 14:54 (eleven years ago) link
http://www.amazon.com/gp/cdp/member-reviews/A2NT3A28052BRW/ref=cm_pdp_rev_all?ie=UTF8&sort_by=MostRecentReview
Someone once said to never buy an autobiography written by someone who is still alive Someone once said to never buy an autobiography written by someone who is still alive Someone once said to never buy an autobiography written by someone who is still alive Someone once said to never buy an autobiography written by someone who is still alive
― i guess i'd just rather listen to canned heat? (ian), Sunday, 12 May 2013 15:20 (eleven years ago) link
i love this lil guy
― goole, Sunday, 12 May 2013 15:38 (eleven years ago) link
If you're looking for great drama, you're certainly not going to get it in this movie. But if you're looking to go back to a place and time when you were a child, when you experienced your first kiss, your first CD and finally holding the girl of your dreams in your arm, this movie is it.
― we're up all night to get (s1ocki), Sunday, 12 May 2013 15:41 (eleven years ago) link
Remember when Marc Loi was a child of the 1960s, when he bought his first CD?
― pplains, Sunday, 12 May 2013 15:47 (eleven years ago) link
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― tweeship journey to 77 (mh), Monday, 13 May 2013 15:37 (eleven years ago) link
http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/05/stay_at_home_dad_sexual_fantasies_why_i_d_like_to_stop.single.html
― max, Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:20 (eleven years ago) link
when people say that they are afraid their thoughts are "objectifying" women, it sounds like they have a horrible, magical affliction wherein every woman they stare at for too long turns to stone.
― the strange and important sound of the synthesizer (Treeship), Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:30 (eleven years ago) link
i don't really understand this guy's issue though. if he is at a place where he doesn't see personhood, intelligence, etc. and sexiness as contradictory wrt women, why does it matter if he has passing sexual thoughts about the women that he sees? how is that objectifying them? this seems more puritanical than feminist. the real issue with staring at women in public is that it makes them feel uncomfortable, so he should try to not do that if he isn't already, but this constant vigilance over what thoughts go through his mind seems like it would produce a lot of frustration.
― the strange and important sound of the synthesizer (Treeship), Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:35 (eleven years ago) link
The simple solution is mandatory religion
― sleepingbag, Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:35 (eleven years ago) link
you misspelled "castration"
― i didn't even give much of a fuck that you were mod (forksclovetofu), Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:37 (eleven years ago) link
wanted to post that in this trhead but its locked itt a strange man asks if you saw the ass on that one
― max, Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:37 (eleven years ago) link
max read @max_read 20mbefore feminism if you had lustful thoughts you just wore a hair shirt and whipped yourself every night. now you write slate essays
max otm
― k3vin k., Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:42 (eleven years ago) link
I often feel like dudes who are all "omg I am tortured by my perverted sexual fantasies because of my feminism" are really looking for a way to tell all of the feminists they want to bone about their sexual fantasies
― they are either militarists (ugh) or kangaroos (?) (DJP), Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:45 (eleven years ago) link
ding ding ding
― another sub-standard post from (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:46 (eleven years ago) link
there's more than a family resemblance between them and the so-called "nice guys" feminists hate, who similarly seek female validation by insisting that they are more civilized, and less brutishly masculine than "most men".
― the strange and important sound of the synthesizer (Treeship), Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:50 (eleven years ago) link
Tell me more about these nice guys that feminists hate.
― waterface, Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:57 (eleven years ago) link
http://gawker.com/5969878/nice-guys-of-ok-cupid-are-not-really
― the strange and important sound of the synthesizer (Treeship), Thursday, 30 May 2013 13:58 (eleven years ago) link
A lot of tortured guys are just well-meaning and naive. A long time ago, I nervously confessed my disgusting and depraved thoughts to a girl and she was just like haha that is so tame. I had considered myself one of the great perverts of the universe.
― Eyeball Kicks, Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:01 (eleven years ago) link
Wow a Gawker link, that's some solid evidence there. Case closed!
*closes case*
― waterface, Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:06 (eleven years ago) link
Max Read, feminist, blinker.
― waterface, Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:07 (eleven years ago) link
*blinks*
http://www.waterace.com/images/WALogo.gif
― how's life, Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:08 (eleven years ago) link
i had the worst dream last night where i had non-consensual sex w/ a random mental projection. well, i'm not sure that it was non-consensual, but the construct didn't explicitly say 'yes' during the dream, at least at any point that i can remember. whew, it feels so good to get this off my chest.
― Mordy , Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:08 (eleven years ago) link
http://images.cpcache.com/image/12171208.png
― the strange and important sound of the synthesizer (Treeship), Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:10 (eleven years ago) link
"nice guys" who think they are nice guys shouldn't be called Nice Guys
― waterface, Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:10 (eleven years ago) link
I think that guy is an idiot. But I do think that if he really goes around all day eagerly looking for women (like he says, while driving past intersections) to discreetly ogle, that seems like a reasonable thing to be mindful of and maybe dial back, ask yourself why it's so consuming, etc. Just don't write a Slate article about it.
― lets just remember to blame the patriarchy for (in orbit), Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:14 (eleven years ago) link
Also stop masturbating so much
― waterface, Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:16 (eleven years ago) link
Dear God, I hadn't read the whole article. The part where he calls up the sex addict hotline...
― they are either militarists (ugh) or kangaroos (?) (DJP), Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:20 (eleven years ago) link
okay this is actually a comedy bit, right
― they are either militarists (ugh) or kangaroos (?) (DJP), Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:23 (eleven years ago) link
Like road rage, ogling, while momentarily satisfying, actually consumes energy and attention, and ultimately makes the task of driving more difficult.
― the white queen and her caustic judgments (difficult listening hour), Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:24 (eleven years ago) link
lol i read most of article with this half-articulated uncomfortable feeling that all this focus on the tremendous unwithstandable power to distract wielded by women on sidewalks in shorts was some kind of well-meaning ingrown parody of the taliban mentality, and then:
Instead of undressing them with my eyes, I’m cloaking them in imaginary burqas.
i mean i don't know man be careful there
― the white queen and her caustic judgments (difficult listening hour), Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:26 (eleven years ago) link
I mean at this point I am just assuming dude walks around all day like this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbUpGoOjFWw
― they are either militarists (ugh) or kangaroos (?) (DJP), Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:26 (eleven years ago) link
the fuck is wrong with people
― goole, Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:31 (eleven years ago) link
my plan for your life, andy hinds: fuck your wife, get a job, don't ever write anything for slate
― goole, Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:32 (eleven years ago) link