songs that make you cry

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Fugazi - Last chance for a slow dance

mother father, Sunday, 7 May 2006 11:20 (seventeen years ago) link

At This Moment-Billy Vera & the Beaters

If only I were joking.

Jacobs (LolVStein), Sunday, 7 May 2006 11:32 (seventeen years ago) link

On reflection, pretty much every song that makes me a weepy fucker contains some lyric or another about aging, mortality, birth, loss, overabundant joy, regret, etc. (change in general) that hits a little too close to home. To wit:

Badly Drawn Boy - "You Were Right, Parts 1 & 2"
Sarah McLachlan - "Adia" (yes, really)
Jeff Buckley - "Lover, You Should've Come Over"
Beach Boys - "'Til I Die", and any number of songs from Pet Sounds
REM - "Country Feedback", and any number of songs from Automatic For The People
Stevie Wonder - "Isn't She Lovely?", and several other Songs from ...The Key Of Life
The Softies - "Hello, Rain" (playing right into Rose Melberg's emo-drenched hands)

Also: I blubbered mightily, and continued with multiple replays, to Kanye West's "Celebration" the other day, upon graduating from college after eleven years of false starts and fucking around. So that was probably entirely situational.

Deric W. Haircare (Deric W. Haircare), Sunday, 7 May 2006 14:22 (seventeen years ago) link

The Year Of The Cat

Kim (Kim), Sunday, 7 May 2006 15:12 (seventeen years ago) link

wild is the wind - nina simone
asleep and dreaming - magnetic fields
if you ever need a stranger - jens lekman

Yes!

Orange, Sunday, 7 May 2006 15:15 (seventeen years ago) link

"Yellow" by Coldplay - Song makes me want to cry and stab myself in the heart everytime I hear it

joe schmoe (joeschmoe), Sunday, 7 May 2006 15:36 (seventeen years ago) link

Sadly today, Cattle and Cane, Go-Betweens

kornrulez6969 (TCBeing), Sunday, 7 May 2006 15:43 (seventeen years ago) link

Dylan, You're A Big Girl Now
Sylvian / Sakamato, Forbidden Colours
Johnny Thunders, You Can't Put Your Arms Around a Memory
Style Council, Paris Match
Lou Barlow, Beautiful Friend (KCRW version)
Roxy Music, Spin Me Round
Rickie Lee Jones, Company

douglas eklund (skolle), Sunday, 7 May 2006 22:37 (seventeen years ago) link

OH CRAP! There are also two or three tracks on The Dirty Three's Horse Stories which cause total meltdown. It's been so long since I've listened to that album that I'd forgotten. I feel like maybe the potential meltdowns are why I've avoided it.

Deric W. Haircare (Deric W. Haircare), Sunday, 7 May 2006 23:07 (seventeen years ago) link

Genesis' "Afterglow" and "Mad Man Moon".

While we're at it, Anthony Phillips (their first guitarist) also has a score of lump-in-the-throat tunes in his solo work. Seek out: "Seven Long Years", "God If I Saw Her Now", "Collections", "Unheard Cry"...

Joe (Joe), Sunday, 7 May 2006 23:35 (seventeen years ago) link

A lot of Stephin Merritt songs, also -appropriately- The Crying Game (Boy George's cover).

daavid (daavid), Monday, 8 May 2006 05:03 (seventeen years ago) link

I forgot "Smalltown Boy" by the Bronski Beat.

daavid (daavid), Monday, 8 May 2006 05:04 (seventeen years ago) link

Carl Wilson quotes Stephin Merritt from EMP:
[On falsetto]: "When there's a break in the voice you can't tell if you are laughing or crying. I've discovered this trying to sing at a show in Colorado, at high altitudes. The body starts heaving, huhh-huhh-huhh, and you just choose whether to laugh or to cry, since we're conditioned to associate it with one or another. ... This is also why men cry at Wouldn't It Be Nice by the Beach Boys more than women do - because you are subvocalizing along with the song without knowing it, and when you reach the falsetto break, you subconsciously feel like you are already crying."

I'm gonna have to check to see if the points when I feel myself welling up correspond to a falsetto jump. Also, boys' vs. girls' emotional response?

gooblar (gooblar), Tuesday, 9 May 2006 12:32 (seventeen years ago) link

gooblar, that quote reminds me of how I feel when I listen to Arcade Fire's "In the Backseat." At around 3:15, when she starts wailing. That song has made me cry.

Steve Goldberg (Steve Goldberg), Tuesday, 9 May 2006 12:51 (seventeen years ago) link

A couple of these may be situational, but these songs can have me teary-eyed in a matter of minutes...

Something Corporate - 'Konstantine'
Iron & Wine - 'The Trapeze Swinger'
Bayside - 'Winter' (About their drummer who recently passed away)
Something Corporate - 'Globes And Maps' and 'Walking By'
Five For Fighting - 'Superman'
Coldplay - 'The Scientist' (I know for a fact that this was just because of something that happened to me personally, although the video is really sad, and it is generally a sad song)
Goo Goo Dolls - 'Iris'
Death Cab For Cutie - 'I Will Follow You Into The Dark' and 'What Sarah Said' (Especially when he sings "Love is watching someone die... So who's gonna watch you die?")
Colin Hay - 'I Just Don't Think I'll Ever Get Over You'

Brooke, Monday, 15 May 2006 21:38 (seventeen years ago) link


Mary Black - "Mo Gile Mear". I have no idea what she's singing about, but I know it's gotta be something really sad.

Kate Bush - "This Women's Work". High on the weep-o-meter - especially if you hear it while watching "She's Having a Baby".

Jane Olivor - "Song for my Father". Sweet Lord, please make it stop! :-)

Jane Siberry - "Calling All Angels". Mainly the chorus.

Sara Groves - "Fly" or "You Cannot Love Your Love", take your pick.

Yep, they all have a similar feel to them - guess they all hit the same buttons...

roebri, Thursday, 18 May 2006 04:05 (seventeen years ago) link

Iron and Wine - Passing Afternoon (kills me)

Dylan - You Belong to me (On Natural Born Killers soundtrack, and I'm not sure where else)
Also, Bob Dylan's Dream (On Freewheelin) is the saddest song about growing up I've ever heard

Elliot Smith - Somebody That I Used to Know

Smashing Pumpkins - Glynis (Anybody else?? From 'No Alternative' Comp)

Leonard Cohen - Chelsea Hotel ("I can't keep track of each fallen rock..."). Also: Democracy from "The Future" (Sail on, sail on, Oh mighty ship of steel). Even if the lyrics are cynical, the melody makes me swell with some vague hope for, well, the future i guess, and whatever vestiges of purity are left of the *idea* of america.

Dinosaur Jr - Seemed like the thing to do (maybe not CRYING here, but still...)

I'll Second:
Thrasher - Neil Young
Time - Tom Waits

timmay (The Giant Mechanical Ant), Thursday, 18 May 2006 05:02 (seventeen years ago) link

Tom Petty's "American Girl", Joni Mitchell's "River" and Janis Ian's "At Seventeen" all have the POTENTIAL to make me cry. But if you wish to GUARANTEE the tears, nothing can beat this:

http://www.minorlooneytunes.com/pictures/marc021.jpg

Myonga Von Blubbering (Monty Von Byonga), Thursday, 18 May 2006 05:31 (seventeen years ago) link

everything by headman with tara on vocals gets tears in my eyes.
(from laughter, that is)

dem rocked! (dem rocked!), Thursday, 18 May 2006 09:37 (seventeen years ago) link

"The First Time Ever I saw Your Face" ...either the original by Roberta Flack or the redo by Celine Dion. It is an incredibly heartfelt and beautiful song. I think of my wife when I hear it, so it has meaning for me.

Eric S, Tuesday, 23 May 2006 16:44 (seventeen years ago) link

Blue Thunder - Galaxie 500

jake dean, Thursday, 25 May 2006 09:44 (seventeen years ago) link

not sure Ewan McColl would agree that Roberta Flack's version of "The First Time..." is the original

winter testing (winter testing), Thursday, 25 May 2006 11:33 (seventeen years ago) link

Kris Kristofferson - "In the News"
P!nk - "Dear Mr. President"
Dolly Parton - "Jolene" and "Coat of Many Colors"

shorty (shorty), Thursday, 25 May 2006 16:16 (seventeen years ago) link

Beatles - Julia
Billie Holiday - Solitude
Buddy Holly - Everyday
Willie Nelson - Angel Flying too Close to the Ground

Carlos C., Friday, 26 May 2006 05:54 (seventeen years ago) link

The Softies - "Hello, Rain" (playing right into Rose Melberg's emo-drenched hands)

This may be the first time anyone has ever described the Softies as "emo". But yeah, they are probably the band that most readily evokes tears from me. (For Maximum Weeping Efficiency, though, I will usually go with the title track from Winter Pageant.)

On a more bizarre note, I also have a hard time not crying when I hear Bikini Kill's "Rebel Girl". And I have no idea why. It's not the band -- nothing else by them does it. It's not any association I have with the song -- I don't have any. I don't find the song sad. But there I sit, crying semi-uncontrollably. Fortunately, I do not listen to Bikini Kill on any kind of regular basis.

Pessimist (Pessimist), Friday, 26 May 2006 07:24 (seventeen years ago) link

Blackbird - sarah mglachlan
Only You- Yazoo
Blower's daughter - damien rice
Bittersweet Symphony- The verve
Colourblind- counting crows
Sparks - Coldplay
Built this way - Samantha Ronson
Little Star- romeo & juliet soundtrack

isabella, Tuesday, 30 May 2006 12:36 (seventeen years ago) link

Hurt...the Johnny cash version

mark, Wednesday, 31 May 2006 19:20 (seventeen years ago) link

Inner City Life

JTS (JTS), Wednesday, 31 May 2006 20:20 (seventeen years ago) link

mr_hopkinson's computer's version of Fake Plastic Trees and Where Is My Mind

StanM (StanM), Saturday, 3 June 2006 20:23 (seventeen years ago) link

two years pass...

cover of Suede's "Trash" by Mt Goats

midnight challops (wanko ergo sum), Thursday, 6 November 2008 23:53 (fifteen years ago) link

for some reason i can't put my finger on, "therese" by the bodines

thereminimum chips (electricsound), Thursday, 6 November 2008 23:55 (fifteen years ago) link

one year passes...

I have cried at three different songs today....I think I just needed to cry.

Walter Melon (Abbott), Tuesday, 27 April 2010 04:19 (fourteen years ago) link

Can't listen to Gavin Bryar's Jesus' Blood Never Failed Me anymore for this reason. If I get to the Tom Waits bit I'm okay though.

mmmm, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 17:23 (fourteen years ago) link

Colony by Joy Division, particularly the line "the sons of broken homes who always meet here"

Dr X O'Skeleton, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 17:46 (fourteen years ago) link

"A Lady of a Certain Age" / The Divine Comedy

Turangalila, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 18:00 (fourteen years ago) link

"The Flesh Failures - Let the Sun Shine" in from Hair

Turangalila, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 18:02 (fourteen years ago) link

Georgia Lee - Tom Waits
Many a Fine Lady - Townes van Zandt

ImprovSpirit, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 21:58 (fourteen years ago) link

  • dennis wilson, carry me home and it's not too late
  • iron & wine, bird stealing bread and weary memory
  • richard hawley, the ocean

Daniel, Esq., Tuesday, 27 April 2010 22:00 (fourteen years ago) link

Taylor Swift, "The Best Day." Twice in the past 18 months; no other song has done it even once. (Being a parent has a lot to do with it.)

xhuxk, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 22:12 (fourteen years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVdVTVR-j0Q

meisenfek, Wednesday, 28 April 2010 10:21 (fourteen years ago) link

Somewhat obscure I know, but this one I can never get through with my eyes still dry - and I'm a guy....

"Long Nights" - Crack the Sky

Saddest. Song. Ever.

Especially since it's told from through the eyes of someone trying to cheer up his friend, who may or may not realize that given the situation it just can't be done.

Lee626, Friday, 30 April 2010 09:12 (fourteen years ago) link

"Cry" by The Sundays.
"Half Asleep" by the School of Seven Bells has been setting me off recently.

the big pink suede panda bear hurts (ledge), Friday, 30 April 2010 09:14 (fourteen years ago) link

Okay so I'm watching the Arthur Russell documentary 'Wild Combination' and it's just come to the part where his parents and his partner are talking about AR on his deathbed. It then cuts to a tracking shot of some cornfields with Mimi Goese from Hugo Largo singing a cover of a song by Arthur called 'Time To Go Home Now', and I was *gone*. Talk about pushing buttons, but damn!

Heavy Potato Encounter (MaresNest), Friday, 30 April 2010 09:20 (fourteen years ago) link

John Lennon - "Beautiful Boy (Darling Boy)," so long as I don't think of Mr. Holland's Opus

Sam Weller, Friday, 30 April 2010 11:42 (fourteen years ago) link

Joy Division - Atmosphere
Elliot Murphy - How's the Family
Patti Smith - The Jackson Song
Bruce Springsteen - The Last Carnival, Gypsy Biker, You're Missing [almost guaranteed every time!], Land of Hope & Dream

ImprovSpirit, Friday, 30 April 2010 17:04 (fourteen years ago) link

Godley and Creme's "Cry" was the last song that did this to me, stupid as it sounds.

Trip Maker, Friday, 30 April 2010 17:08 (fourteen years ago) link

Talk Talk- Time It's Time
Current 93- The Frolic
Robyn Hitchcock- Autumn Is Your Last Chance

International Harvester Of Eyes (Jon Lewis), Friday, 30 April 2010 17:08 (fourteen years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-5chQcTBZfw

biologically wrong (Z S), Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:19 (fourteen years ago) link


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