i have not been to a dentist in probably 10 years

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Have you ever had a tooth rot from the inside, the nerve shriveling up and dying while still encased in yr tooth, from raging infection? If you have, it looks much, much less tempting to putt off dentist visits. Any root canal, in fact, any TWO OR MORE root canals, are worth avoiding nerve death.

I actually fell ASLEEP during my last root canal, and I've been deathly afraid of needles for about twenty years. I promise you it can be done.

Laurel, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 02:59 (sixteen years ago) link

Please spare yourself and go in. You don't want to have a slight twinge on a Friday afternoon that you shrug off, but which by the midnight hours of Saturday has turned into a monster that rules your head until the inflammation swells your eye(s) shut and makes your face feel on fire, so that you can stagger around Brooklyn looking for a hospital at sunrise because there is no fucking way you can stay in the house any longer.

It was my pre-bike days and I had no internet at home, and no money for a car service or similar, not that I was even thinking that clearly, and I left the house without really knowing where the nearest hospital WAS, and had to ask a policeman for directions and walk and walk. Then I was in the ER for four or five hours begging for antibiotics before anyone would even see me. I apologize for the drama, but srsly really please don't do this. Go to the dentist.

Laurel, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:04 (sixteen years ago) link

Not you, Abbs -- but people who HAVE insurance and avoid the dr because it's scary and there are needles and sometimes mildly bad news involved. Because even once I HAD a Real Job I still tried to avoid the dentist but it ends badly, it always ends badly.

Laurel, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:09 (sixteen years ago) link

i don't have insurance (practically no one does in NZ). so i'm looking at pretty hefty financial damages if i need any work done. i think that's scaring me more than the needles and pain.

Rubyredd, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:14 (sixteen years ago) link

also: thanks laurel. i know you're right and i need to suck it up and just make an appointment.

Rubyredd, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:15 (sixteen years ago) link

You will seriously be very fucking grateful and if you have it done (say if you have to have wisdom teeth pulled or root canals) maybe up to $35, at least $250 just for a cleaning & x-ray. Do it there, plz, you will be so glad. ONe, two days of your least favorite for overwhelming security & relief...half the reason I was afraid to go is I was afraid things wld be beyond help. But I was pleasantly surprised they weren't!

Abbott, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:15 (sixteen years ago) link

oops I meant $3k not $35...maybe with the exchange rates it wld be cheaper here. Also, maybe there's a discount clinic in yr area?

Abbott, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:16 (sixteen years ago) link

i think it's maybe cheaper here. my best friend is getting her wisdoms pulled this week, and it's costing $2000 (NZD), but half of that is the cost of a general anaesthetic, because hers have to be cut out from deep in her gums.

Rubyredd, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:19 (sixteen years ago) link


In dental terminology an "impacted" tooth refers to a tooth that has failed to emerge fully into its expected position. This failure to erupt properly might occur because there is not enough room in the person's jaw to accommodate the tooth, or because the angulation of the tooth is improper.

So Abbott, your teeth are the opposite of impacted.

mh, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:20 (sixteen years ago) link

exchange rates would fuck me - NZ$1 buys US$0.72

Rubyredd, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:20 (sixteen years ago) link

Aw thx mh! I knew something was wrong there. What is the proper word?

Abbott, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:24 (sixteen years ago) link

Erupted, I think.

mh, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:26 (sixteen years ago) link

that is it. hhoray!

Abbott, Tuesday, 27 November 2007 03:26 (sixteen years ago) link

four months pass...

i just made a dentist appointment after 4 years of putting it off.

bell_labs, Thursday, 24 April 2008 17:29 (sixteen years ago) link

i am so afraid.

bell_labs, Thursday, 24 April 2008 17:39 (sixteen years ago) link

It'll probably be fine, I didn't go for a decade, and I only had to have one filling replaced. Though, it that falls out, I have to get a crown which is ££££!

jel --, Thursday, 24 April 2008 17:42 (sixteen years ago) link

i wonder how hstencil's teeth are

omar little, Thursday, 24 April 2008 17:51 (sixteen years ago) link

i still haven't been (since the "scary things yr hairdresser sed" thread) and mine are "fine"

mark s, Thursday, 24 April 2008 17:53 (sixteen years ago) link

i didn't go for four years between appointments. between filling five cavities and a cleaning, i've had to go six times since january

impudent harlot, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:05 (sixteen years ago) link

so, yknow, there's that

impudent harlot, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:05 (sixteen years ago) link

i didn't go for ten years and when i finally did go it was not all that bad. but i have "good teeth" whatever that means. ALSO: the first dentist i went to wanted to put me under to clean my teeth, so i found another dentist who didn't want to do that kind of dumb shit

Mr. Que, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:06 (sixteen years ago) link

can you tell when you have cavities? do they hurt? i've never had a cavity or root canal or any of that stuff but i'm convinced i'll have 12 of them this time.

bell_labs, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:07 (sixteen years ago) link

if youve never had a cavity, and you cant feel anything now that definitely feels like a cavity (extreme sensitivity to cold, air, food, etc), and its only been four years, i bet you will have a maximum of two cavities, and probably none.

something cool about having small teeth is that its easy to floss them!

69, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:13 (sixteen years ago) link

i definitely have a chipped toof but it doesn't hurt.

bell_labs, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:16 (sixteen years ago) link

my teeth are sort of horrible anyway (impacted wisdom teeth due to small jaw, sensitivity), but i've been taking much better care of them this year

impudent harlot, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:17 (sixteen years ago) link

I stand by my "go for the gas" advice.

Jaq, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:19 (sixteen years ago) link

relax! if you've never had a cavity and aren't experiencing pain, then it's highly unlikely that after four years of inattention you'll need a root canal.

lauren, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:19 (sixteen years ago) link

also, i am SO AFRAID of the dentist but managed to go after about 10 years of putting it off and nothing terrible happened. i had to get my old fillings replaced, which wasn't fun, but it was totally tolerable.

lauren, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:20 (sixteen years ago) link

ok, you're making me feel better! i just keep reading horrible stories of people needing $15k worth of dental work and getting really paranoid.

there is probably a lot of cosmetic stuff that is wrong with my teeth, they are very crooked. i had braces, but it was when i was in 2nd grade and half of my adult teeth hadn't even grown in yet...which seems kind of counter-intuitive. but hey i know nothing about orthidonture!

bell_labs, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:27 (sixteen years ago) link

but i am not too worried about that. it's not like i ever smile or anything!

bell_labs, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:28 (sixteen years ago) link

but hey i know nothing about orthidonture!

it's orthodontia

gabbneb, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:30 (sixteen years ago) link

whatever it is, no child of mine is ever getting a pallette expander because that was just unnecessarily cruel.

bell_labs, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:37 (sixteen years ago) link

funny you should mention that

my teeth are all hillbilly snaggly/crooked cause my mom didn't think I needed braces. "it's just cosmetic and you're a boy" anyway my son is undergoing the orthodontal experience now and holy shit I can't believe how complicated it is, before he gets the braces he has to wear all kinds of gear and spacers and retainers and last week they put something in his mouth that wasn't fitted right and he was in agony for few days. and the cost! when we first met w/the orthodonist he couldn't say the amount out loud, he wrote it down on a piece of paper and slipped it across the table (presumably smelling salts were on hand) like a funeral director.

maybe my mom was on to something.

m coleman, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:48 (sixteen years ago) link

see i had that stuff done and i still have hillbilly teeth! and my jaw is fucked up, possibly from that stuff. i don't understand why they don't wait until the kids at least have their adult teeth in to fix them? i'm sure there is some logic, but it seems questionable to me.

bell_labs, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:53 (sixteen years ago) link

like my palette probably would have expanded itself when i grew up, without the torture device?

bell_labs, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:54 (sixteen years ago) link

Been about 4-5 years, and I finally got round to getting the details of a dentist to make an appointment next week.

Things is I stopped bcz, in my every 6 months check up it used to always be 'fine' (also my former dentist went to the private sector). I know I should have gone about two years ago when I had this slight persisting ache. The slightness meant I kept putting it off, and when it finally subsided after a period I forgot all about it.

I'm terrified really. I really don't make this appointment...

xyzzzz__, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:56 (sixteen years ago) link

when i underwent the orthodontia, basically anything that required my active intervention just didn't happen -- i wouldn't wear the headgear or the retainer or whatever. i still turned out relatively human-looking.

waiting for the tmj to kick in, tho

mookieproof, Thursday, 24 April 2008 18:58 (sixteen years ago) link

When my daughter was 8 or 9, she had a friend whose parents went overboard on the orthodontia - that poor kid seemed to have had every tooth in her mouth pulled, then when the new ones came in they immediately got wrapped in metal and clamped into place. I couldn't imagine subjecting my kid to that much painful intervention, so she has one bicuspid that is out of line. Which she hates and occasionally blames me for not slapping her in braces, but if she really wants it dealt with she can pay for it herself now.

Jaq, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:06 (sixteen years ago) link

ok, you're making me feel better! i just keep reading horrible stories of people needing $15k worth of dental work and getting really paranoid.

-- bell_labs, Thursday, April 24, 2008 1:27 PM (39 minutes ago) Bookmark Link

ive had cavities and have some tooth pain :-/

deej, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:08 (sixteen years ago) link

when i underwent the orthodontia, basically anything that required my active intervention just didn't happen -- i wouldn't wear the headgear or the retainer or whatever. i still turned out relatively human-looking.

Me too. I would actually fall asleep with them on and then in my sleep take them off and throw them clear across the room. My teeth totally shifted and I hate them because I swear I was Jaq's daughter's friend. I had 10 baby teeth pulled at 8 to make way for braces which I then had until I was 14. I deserve perfect teeth dammit! I just wonder what the hell I would have looked like if I hadn't had all that crap done.

ENBB, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:10 (sixteen years ago) link

I am also going to the dentist in a couple weeks and scared shitless. I already know I need to have one of my wisdom teeth pulled and am dreading what else they'll say I need done.

ENBB, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:11 (sixteen years ago) link

wisdom teeth weren't that big of a deal for me because i had them done at once, while i was under general anesthetic. i'm a big fan of being unconscious whenever possible.

lauren, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:13 (sixteen years ago) link

I didn't go to the dentist as a teenager, and in my 20s (I'm 25) I've spent well over $6K fixing them.. with insurance these last three years. $2400 to remove my four grossly rotted wisdom teeth that took years to come out. I blame my Dad and his "we don't need dental care" attitude :(

GO TO THE DENTIST! SEND YOUR KIDS! etc

I went to the dentist yesterday. Three cavities, lucky me. I have teeth like marshmallows!

Finefinemusic, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:13 (sixteen years ago) link

wisdom teeth weren't that big of a deal for me because i had them done at once, while i was under general anesthetic. i'm a big fan of being unconscious whenever possible.

See, I'm TERRIFIED of getting general anesthesia so that sounds awful to me. I've had one wisdom tooth pulled already (they all came in without incident) and that was a "Hey we're just going to fill that cavity today oh wait no we're not - it's too deep. How'd you like to get a wisdom tooth out with no advance warning or prep time?" type situation and ended with me in tears because I was so scared. The anticipation was worse than the actual extraction though.

ENBB, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:16 (sixteen years ago) link

I think I'm most afraid they're going to say I need root canal because everyone makes that sound so scary.

ENBB, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:17 (sixteen years ago) link

root canals aren't so much painful as they are tedious

omar little, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:19 (sixteen years ago) link

i felt like i was sitting there forever. bored out of my skull as they bored into it.

omar little, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:20 (sixteen years ago) link

Wisdom teeth was actually kind of fun with the drugs and all

Catsupppppppppppppp dude 茄蕃, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:21 (sixteen years ago) link

i didn't mind getting my one wisdom tooth pulled. it took about thirty seconds.

omar little, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:22 (sixteen years ago) link

I didn't get any drugs! My dentist is an asshole.

ENBB, Thursday, 24 April 2008 19:23 (sixteen years ago) link


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