Sex Droughts

Haha, I'm not that much of a hopeless romantic, although I used to be.

Reverend: If you had been going for ten years without a relationship, I'd be worrying about you, but there's nothing wrong with you and nothing wrong with the way you're going about things. You've got friends and family, and I'll bet that your next romance will come from the former. It's also alright not to be a casual sex person, many people aren't.

― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Tuesday, September 21, 2010 6:03 PM Bookmark

I've never really been in a real relationship tho. :/

when you meet the right person, you notice that they actuallly ~help~ you sort your shit out. obv this all depends on what kind of shit we are actually talking about. but generally a relationship is about sorting all kinds of shit out together.

I do have to say, I've never really thought about it this way and I find it quite heartening!

On more of a downer note, I've long had a suspicion that I tend to come off as aloof and unattainable to potential romantic interests. Never really been sure what to do about this.

I've never really been in a real relationship tho. :/

What do you think of as a real relationship?

you know, it's perfectly ok to be single, for however long you want. i think it's just assumed that everyone wants to be in a relationship, but if that's not your thing then... that's ok too. i don't think there's anything wrong with it, no matter how long you've gone without being in one.

One lasting more than a couple months of dating.

On a side note, I just invited a girl over for dinner this friday, to which she obliged. I'm not completely hopeless.

hit it, rev! hit it for all of us!!!

(srs tho <3)

One lasting more than a couple months of dating.

I wish I could have had some of those non-real relationships you talk about when I was younger.

My love life before I met my husband at 23: One makeout session with a classmate at 14. A friend of my nephew's who I played around with a couple of times when I came to visit. My nephew, oral sex, once. One date with a classmate in college. And I lost my virginity to another classmate, who I never saw again. No other boyfriends or girlfriends, even casual sexless ones.

Yes, I am bitter about this.

On a side note, I just invited a girl over for dinner this friday, to which she obliged. I'm not completely hopeless.

Good going! I'm really happy for you.

wait - you blew your nephew?

Yes, and vice versa. He was about a year or two younger than me.

(No, I'm not Johnny Fever's aunt, silly people!)

People on tv don't lie when they talk about incest being commonplace.

It's a weird thing, though. I would never do that to a niece or nephew, but I'm not at all damaged or grossed out about what happened to me (maybe because my aunt was only 4 years older and not a full-grown woman).

xp Hi! Aunt Christine.

thread delivers.

My nephew, oral sex, once.

I know this is the TMI board, but UH.

XD

Aside from the nephew thing, that doesn't sound too much less exciting than my own sex life.

anyway my newest thing is calling this thread SEX DRAUGHTS in my head and imagining going off to the pub for a pint of SEX DRAUGHT

haha I have been thinking that same thing

I'll have one.

i thought they closed that place etc

Hahaha!

i could sure use one

I rly prob should not be reading this thread at work imo but wtf.

if only it were that easy to pull at a bar

I've never met anyone at a bar I'd want to go home with, much less engage in a relationship with. But then again, I live in a pretty shitty town.

It was his idea (he'd been away from his girlfriend for a while and was horny as hell) and we'd had a lot of romantic and sexual chemistry between us for the four or five years we knew each other. Like I said, he was the best friend I've ever had and the only regret I have about what we did was that it ruined our friendship. I haven't seen him for twenty-some years.

i'm ok dealing with a drought unless there's someone i'm really crushing on. that can be correlated of course and then u might do something stupid. otherwise don't sweat it, totally fine to be single. just do things you want to do without the objective of sex and maybe you will meet someone who's doing some of those things too.

Besides, I'm thrilled that I've finally been able to gross out ILTMI.

it finally happened

http://11.media.tumblr.com/Tl31aqg2PqrfjmghF1IdiBvQo1_500.gif

lol

i don't have a problem with family members having consensual sex

just do things you want to do without the objective of sex and maybe you will meet someone who's doing some of those things too.

This is the biggest truth bomb this thread's produced so far.

:)

DERAIL ALERT: My aunt hasn't had an easy life. She's the mother of five boys with three fathers, broke her back in a car accident, was hooked on pain pills for years, has been to jail for not paying taxes, and is just generally unhealthy.

What I got out of sexual contact that early? I've always been attracted to women in a position of power or with domineering personalities.

eh. the aunt-nephew barrier had already been broken in this thread. any other aunts and nephews are just walking through the open gates at this point.

xp to christine

Well, that was biography. Not pertinent to the topic at hand, but I wanted to match Christine's follow-up on her nephew. xp

http://i26.tinypic.com/rbf76o.jpg

just kidddddding btw

haha

THIS FORUM IS NOW INCESTED

hahahahaha that moss gif is the best popcorn one I've seen in a long time

I should really get around to seeing that show.

You don't have to answer this, but I wonder if there was any sexual abuse in her past--most 15-year-old girls aren't that aggressive sexually unless something like that happens, and the rest of her bio suggests some trauma in her background.

(Before someone asks: I have no sexual abuse in my past. None whatsoever.)

x-post - (Totally not on topic but it's very hit or miss imo. There is, however, one episode (Gay - The Gay Musical) that is one of the best things ever.)

I've never met anyone at a bar I'd want to go home with, much less engage in a relationship with. But then again, I live in a pretty shitty town.

― Johnny Fever, Wednesday, September 22, 2010 5:18 AM (18 minutes ago) Bookmark

yeah this happened to me once with a girl this summer, then we met again outside the bar and the chemistry fizzled

:/

Anyone up for a game of sex draughts?

"King me, baby! King me!"