Really? If my aunt wrote me an email or whatever and acknowledged what happened so many years after the fact and wanted to pursue a conversation about it, that would creep me out. AND I still see her semi-regularly. If you contact this guy, he's could blow a gasket.
― Johnny Fever, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 06:05 (thirteen years ago) link
That's why I said "among other things." I'd wait for him to bring it up, of course.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 06:17 (thirteen years ago) link
On the other hand, I might wait for him to contact me.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 06:18 (thirteen years ago) link
The reason I say this is because it's possible you remember it a lot more clearly (and with more importance) than he does. You married at 23, didn't have much history relationship-wise before that, and have apparently been committed to one person since then. This guy may have had dozens of relationships and lots of sex and perhaps might not want to dig back that deep.
I realized this a year or so ago when my first serious girlfriend/ex-fiancee/girl I lost my virginity to got back in touch with me after her divorce. She was so apologetic and wanted to mend things and all this kind of behavior that I wasn't really interested in because I'd had many chances to get over her and move one, but she'd only had one (she married the next guy she dated after me and had a kid with him). For her, I was only one ex removed, but for me she was about 10 exes ago.
― Johnny Fever, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 06:25 (thirteen years ago) link
move one=move on
― Johnny Fever, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 06:26 (thirteen years ago) link
He'd remember me as a close friend even without what happened, but I think you're right--best not to dig it up.
and have apparently been committed to one person since then
I have, but my husband and I haven't--we've had a number of group sex experiences, including one fairly long-lasting friends-with-benefitship. But I've talked about this on ILTMI before, probably a little too much.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 06:38 (thirteen years ago) link
Ahh, I was only lurking until a few months ago, so I probably missed that.
― Johnny Fever, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 06:47 (thirteen years ago) link
this thread is sadly lacking in sex droughts.
― estela, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 06:57 (thirteen years ago) link
not on my part!
― p.m.s.b. (pre-mall smoke bomb) (zorn_bond.mp3), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 06:58 (thirteen years ago) link
2 wisks
http://i54.tinypic.com/2gwhv2u.jpg
― p.m.s.b. (pre-mall smoke bomb) (zorn_bond.mp3), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 06:59 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm going to start saying "2 wisks" far too often for the people around me in the foreseeable future.
― Johnny Fever, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 07:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Srsy my favorite thing I've found online in a while.
― master of retardment (ENBB), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 07:02 (thirteen years ago) link
Qiana!
^what my keyboard corrected 'wisks' to.
― estela, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 07:03 (thirteen years ago) link
OK MANJE
― p.m.s.b. (pre-mall smoke bomb) (zorn_bond.mp3), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 07:05 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KlB77vM2FMg
― Fartbritz Sootzveti (Steve Shasta), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 07:08 (thirteen years ago) link
rev,
as a favour to me could you maybe not 'hit that for all of us', leave me out as my gf prob wouldn't understand.
thanks
― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 08:56 (thirteen years ago) link
^ hit it twice for me, then.
― Johnny Fever, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 08:59 (thirteen years ago) link
poor rev won't be able to enjoy his first sex in years, he'll be too busy crossing off hitit.xls
― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 09:02 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, we should take it easy on him. If he's anything like me, the very first time after an extended break doesn't last too long. He needs to focus!
― Johnny Fever, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 09:05 (thirteen years ago) link
^ neggin
― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 09:08 (thirteen years ago) link
He does masturbate once a day, which should help.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 09:56 (thirteen years ago) link
It helps, but it's still very different.
― Johnny Fever, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 10:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Right. And he may not end up having sex this time.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 10:05 (thirteen years ago) link
lol at this
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 11:31 (thirteen years ago) link
omg he's typing while doing it
― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 11:37 (thirteen years ago) link
I won't be typing during sex til at least Friday evening.
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 11:44 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dX3-954wV8w&feature=related
― "SEX" drought, 2 wisks (zorn_bond.mp3), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 16:41 (thirteen years ago) link
Having one of those delightful weeks where I literally cannot think about anything else.
― a black white asian pine ghost who is fake (Telephone thing), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 18:27 (thirteen years ago) link
:-)
When I was a teenager, I had one or two days a month of obsessive horniness, every month from the time I was 14-15 to a year or so after high school. I never kept track of the days that it happened (just the months), but I do suspect that it was hormonal in origin. It's come back on occasion for 2-3 month stretches.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 18:44 (thirteen years ago) link
For me it's less a seasonal thing (though there is that, sometimes) than sheer blind panic at this huge important part of basic human existence being totally absent from my life. I can't sleep, I don't give a shit at work, I'm constantly on edge and at the point of snapping at people or breaking down in tears and it's making basic social interaction even harder, which is not conducive to solving the problem. It's making me wish prozac was as effective at killing my sex drive as almost every other antidepressant/anti-anxiety med has been- wouldn't get me any closer to getting out of this but at least I wouldn't have the urgent miserable need to get off two or three times a day. Yes, okay, TMI, but that's the name of the board.
― a black white asian pine ghost who is fake (Telephone thing), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:08 (thirteen years ago) link
Are you feeling horny, or are you feeling an urge to masturbate? There's a difference.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:15 (thirteen years ago) link
xp - aw man, that sucks - it's this vicious cycle, it seems like -
― sarahel, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:18 (thirteen years ago) link
It's weird how much immensely more satisfying a good fuck is to a good wank.
― Un peu d'Eire, ça fait toujours Dublin (Michael White), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:22 (thirteen years ago) link
^^^
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:22 (thirteen years ago) link
practice wanking imo
― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:23 (thirteen years ago) link
for my part, i'll practice fucking
― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:24 (thirteen years ago) link
ha
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:25 (thirteen years ago) link
I was really experimental about this as a teenager--different techniques, places, etc. (Try doing it while naked or near naked in the warm sunlight. It's a trip!)
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:29 (thirteen years ago) link
pfft amateur stuff
― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:35 (thirteen years ago) link
Telephone Thing: Go ahead and bump the depression thread if you want to. Sex isn't your biggest problem right now.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:37 (thirteen years ago) link
Try doing mostly clothed in the cold Irish air!
― Un peu d'Eire, ça fait toujours Dublin (Michael White), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:37 (thirteen years ago) link
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― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), 22 September 2010 19:35 (2 minutes ago)
btw i had to delete both 'child's play' and 'baby stuff' before finding a suitable dismissive response.
― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:39 (thirteen years ago) link
new thread for wanking exploits i think?
― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:40 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't love everything, i love wanking
― "SEX" drought, 2 wisks (zorn_bond.mp3), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:41 (thirteen years ago) link
Well, I did do it a few times in front of a baby...dog.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:43 (thirteen years ago) link
^ cosign
it's there already
― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:44 (thirteen years ago) link
You say that to all the girls, eh?
― Un peu d'Eire, ça fait toujours Dublin (Michael White), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:45 (thirteen years ago) link
haHAAA
― "SEX" drought, 2 wisks (zorn_bond.mp3), Wednesday, 22 September 2010 19:46 (thirteen years ago) link