Sex Droughts

pfft amateur stuff

Telephone Thing: Go ahead and bump the depression thread if you want to. Sex isn't your biggest problem right now.

Try doing mostly clothed in the cold Irish air!

I was really experimental about this as a teenager--different techniques, places, etc. (Try doing it while naked or near naked in the warm sunlight. It's a trip!)

― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, 22 September 2010 19:29 (9 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

pfft amateur stuff

― i dont love everything, i love football (darraghmac), 22 September 2010 19:35 (2 minutes ago)

btw i had to delete both 'child's play' and 'baby stuff' before finding a suitable dismissive response.

new thread for wanking exploits i think?

i don't love everything, i love wanking

btw i had to delete both 'child's play' and 'baby stuff' before finding a suitable dismissive response.

Well, I did do it a few times in front of a baby...dog.

new thread for wanking exploits i think?

^ cosign

it's there already

You say that to all the girls, eh?

haHAAA

within range, within reason

2 wisks

that's just fuckin kinky man

got your Egg Beater right here

woooow

now my tum-tum hurts

when did you stop beating your eggs?

LOL

Hey, where did all of the other girls go?

Let's get back to the subject of the thread. TT needs our help.

What I was trying to get at with my last question was, "Are you masturbating because you feel hot and bothered, or are you masturbating to relieve your anxiety?" (It could be both, of course.) You are going through a serious crisis in which sex is only a tiny part. We've talked about your problems before, have you been working on those?

Hey, where did all of the other girls go?

Whoops, didn't see Sarahel a post or two up there. Sorry.

10 months, and my body hates me for it. but pretty close to ending it.

Yeah, I've been working on things...meds, new therapist, etc, but I'm still miserably lonely, socially isolated and, yes, horny. It's kind of the inevitable end result of being starved for meaningful human interaction my entire life; it's just that now I can't distract myself with music and movies and shit anymore.

I think the horniness may be your body telling you that you need physical contact with humans. Physical contact of any kind, not just sexual. That's my wild guess. Have you told your therapist about this?

Working up the nerve to...for whatever reason it's easier to tell a huge group of complete strangers on the internet than someone I'm supposed to be able to trust in face-to-face conversation.

I'm sorry, I shouldn't be hijacking this thread for my support-group bullshit...you're right, though, I do need to bring it up with a professional. Not sure what they'll be able to do, but I doubt it could get worse

We're not as threatening to you as someone sitting face to face with you would be. (I'm the same way.) But, telling him or her is urgent and key. S/he can help you more than we can.

How about bumping the depression thread? We can talk about things there.

dr. indigo sex therapist thread

"My receptionist will give you a receipt for the bill."

Misread that as: We're not as threatening to you as someone sitting on your face would be.

board descrip

yes, now and forever.

Sex drought, isn't it nowt, luring disco dollies to a life of gout...

Marc Almond's voice has been singing this in my head ever since it was posted.

i really like the idea of the collective anonymity of the internet helping people solve their problems

i've admitted stuff on iltmi that nobody irl knows! it's cool like that!

also i dunno if u like dancing but sometimes that fulfills the physical human connection need for me in the absence of sex. it can be relatively anonymous but it can also exacerbate frustration of course

v true, i always enjoy dancin it out

hm that probably came out wrong

that too

i really like the idea of the collective anonymity of the internet helping people solve their problems

^ cosign

also i dunno if u like dancing but sometimes that fulfills the physical human connection need for me in the absence of sex. it can be relatively anonymous but it can also exacerbate frustration of course

Some of the people on this thread are having problems getting women to talk to them, let alone dance with them.

i've admitted stuff on iltmi that nobody irl knows! it's cool like that!

I've admitted stuff on ILTMI that nobody in their right minds would let anyone in RL know about! It's cool like that!

I often find it easier to dance with (unknown) women than talk to them, but that probably makes me an exception.

I am very much a dancing dude.

No, that's pretty much true for me, and I'm only kind of a dancing dude.

xp - women appreciate a dancing dude

I realize this. If I go to the club, I will often have women all over me until I open my mouth.

and then they all fall into it?