Sex Droughts

i really like the idea of the collective anonymity of the internet helping people solve their problems

i've admitted stuff on iltmi that nobody irl knows! it's cool like that!

also i dunno if u like dancing but sometimes that fulfills the physical human connection need for me in the absence of sex. it can be relatively anonymous but it can also exacerbate frustration of course

v true, i always enjoy dancin it out

hm that probably came out wrong

that too

i really like the idea of the collective anonymity of the internet helping people solve their problems

^ cosign

also i dunno if u like dancing but sometimes that fulfills the physical human connection need for me in the absence of sex. it can be relatively anonymous but it can also exacerbate frustration of course

Some of the people on this thread are having problems getting women to talk to them, let alone dance with them.

i've admitted stuff on iltmi that nobody irl knows! it's cool like that!

I've admitted stuff on ILTMI that nobody in their right minds would let anyone in RL know about! It's cool like that!

I often find it easier to dance with (unknown) women than talk to them, but that probably makes me an exception.

I am very much a dancing dude.

No, that's pretty much true for me, and I'm only kind of a dancing dude.

xp - women appreciate a dancing dude

I realize this. If I go to the club, I will often have women all over me until I open my mouth.

and then they all fall into it?

^^^ i don't know what this actually means

my advice: grab a mint

I realize this. If I go to the club, I will often have women all over me until I open my mouth.

Hmmm...How do you approach them? What do you say?

Sup girl

About 6 weeks since I last did it, but about 20 years since I last enjoyed it....

Wow, that's kind of grim.

married, lee?

yeah that doesn't sound good at all

I've never enjoyed it.

I didn't mean for that to sound as if I lack sympathy, but why bother if you don't enjoy it?

sex is power

Lee, Eric, what is it about sex (or sex lately) that turns you off?

(Still offline--will respond in a day or so)

Don't like feeling judged/evaluated/obliged.

SI that why you won't give more details on ILX, or why you don't enjoy sex, though?

The latter. If I cared about being judged at ILX, I'd have self-banned myself years ago.

Pretty much resigned to permanent involuntary celibacy at this point.

That's just it, I'm switching to voluntary celibacy. It somehow seems more noble and transcendent.

i like this idea of judging sex. the next time i do it i'm bringing a bunch of score cards so i can hold up "9.2" or whatnot at the appropriate times

"I'm not fucking you for the noblest of reasons, not because I don't really fancy you."

Bang your gavel...

whenever I see this title I sing it to the tune of night moves I don't know why

Don't like feeling judged/evaluated/obliged.

The right woman wouldn't judge you or evaluate you harshly. The 'obliged' part worries me, though. What do you mean by this?

If all goes according, drought should end tomorrow.

christine first things first he is gay

xp get some rev

christine first things first he is gay

Oops. Sorry. *puts paper bag over face*

If all goes according, drought should end tomorrow.

:-)

I have a new lady now. I'm still not 100% over my last one, but probably at the 85% mark so this should go ok.

guessing my drought will end soon, though I don't really want to 'seal the deal' this early.

this shit has gotta ~end~

on new year's eve I will service all ilxors who've gone all of 2010 without

this is a v. controversial program in my householdbut I gotta do what I can for the good of the board

we all say we want the next sitewide mod spot, but only ^ this ^ guy really means it imo

*looks through book called Lying For Fun and Profit*

Oh, and congratulations, San Te.

on new year's eve I will service all ilxors who've gone all of 2010 without

I was planning on changing my personality from 'meek wallflower' to 'playa', but with this offer on the table I can hold out for a few months.

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