Songs that make you cry

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"Like a Motorway" - Saint Etienne
"Being Boring" - Pet Shop Boys

daavid (daavid), Tuesday, 1 February 2005 20:26 (nineteen years ago) link

Oh yeah. Being Boring seconded. Not cry inducing, but definitely maudlinizing.

gspm (gspm), Tuesday, 1 February 2005 20:51 (nineteen years ago) link

Most recently, YLT "Tears Are In Your Eyes" (live at the GAMH, SF, 2000). Before that, FZ "Watermelon in Easter Hay."

Curious George Rides a Republican (Rock Hardy), Tuesday, 1 February 2005 20:54 (nineteen years ago) link

Neil Young - Long May You Run...

Bryan Moore (Bryan Moore), Tuesday, 1 February 2005 22:17 (nineteen years ago) link

"perfect day", lou reed. it never did until an hour ago, when someone on the radio played it in honor of our mutual friend, who passed away this weekend.

maria tessa sciarrino (theoreticalgirl), Tuesday, 1 February 2005 22:18 (nineteen years ago) link

I don't think any piece of music other than "Pachelbel's Canon" has made me cry simply because of the way the music sounds.

But there are lots of songs that will make me tear up if they're passionate and vibrant, and the artist is dead now. Listening to the song makes me grasp the fact that the artist was actually full of life once. Practically every song by Laura Nyro will do this to me.

Mila, Tuesday, 1 February 2005 22:29 (nineteen years ago) link

"Homesick" - Kings Of Convenience
"Angry Anymore" - Ani Difranco
"This Must Be The Place (Naive Melody)" - Talking Heads
"Turn, Turn, Turn" - The Byrds

Tantrum The Cat (Tantrum The Cat), Tuesday, 1 February 2005 22:33 (nineteen years ago) link

The Magnetic Fields – ‘Asleep and Dreaming’

Orange (Orange), Tuesday, 1 February 2005 23:05 (nineteen years ago) link

Ani DiFranco, "School Night"

sibsi (sibsi), Tuesday, 1 February 2005 23:23 (nineteen years ago) link


Otis Redding, "I've Been Loving You Too Long".

PeopleFunnyBoy (PeopleFunnyBoy), Tuesday, 1 February 2005 23:37 (nineteen years ago) link

although i love music (ilm!), always have, play it, make it, intend to quit my regular well paid kinda job for it, i must say that no song by itself has ever made me cry. i've always been pretty curious about that. always thought it was a kind of a "figure de style litteraire" to have someone crying just by listenning to a song. so that does happen, after all... hum... ? everytime you play these songs, bam, you cry ?

AleXTC (AleXTC), Tuesday, 1 February 2005 23:44 (nineteen years ago) link

I've cried to these at various points in my life:

"Unravel" by Bjork (while seeing her live in Boston in 99)
"Cocoon" by Bjork (first time i heard the record, in the midst of intense unrequited love)
"Switched on Bach" by Wendy Carlos (during a psychological beakdown)
"Caroline Says Pt II" by Lou Reed (while driving home after a breakup)
"Always on My Mind" by Pet Shop Boys (last night was the first time i ever heard this. it didnt make me cry but it did make me sad and feel bittersweet)

Adam Bruneau (oliver8bit), Wednesday, 2 February 2005 00:11 (nineteen years ago) link

The Magnetic Fields – ‘Asleep and Dreaming’

-- Orange (monkeynibje...), February 1st, 2005.

Every one of there songs would probably be on my list, but when i think back on it, they mostly just made me momentarily depressed and nostalgic.

Adam Bruneau (oliver8bit), Wednesday, 2 February 2005 00:12 (nineteen years ago) link

depressed, nostalig, sad, melancolic etc. i've experienced. it's just the "play that song and i cry" that makes me wonder...

AleXTC (AleXTC), Wednesday, 2 February 2005 00:16 (nineteen years ago) link

I'll third Kate Bush's This Woman's Work and add Kate Rusby's My Young Man (from her Little Lights album).

paul c (paul c), Wednesday, 2 February 2005 00:21 (nineteen years ago) link

Belle & Sebastian, "Get Me Away From Here I'm Dying"
Big Star, "Holocaust"

poortheatre (poortheatre), Wednesday, 2 February 2005 00:26 (nineteen years ago) link

Yeah, nothing has made me cry in a while.

~3 years ago, Boards of Canada - "Dawn Chorus" (after a long drunken night, it was actually dawn by this point).
~4-5 years ago... a few DMB songs got me on various occasions when I was entirely sober.

sleep (sleep), Wednesday, 2 February 2005 01:36 (nineteen years ago) link

the weirdest one is probably Ghostface w Mary J. Blige "All That I've Got Is You" (I'm totally serious)

Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Wednesday, 2 February 2005 01:55 (nineteen years ago) link

Neil Young - Long May You Run...

Yeah, that one.

Also:

Somewhere Over The Rainbow - from The Wizard of Oz
Climb Every Mountain - from The Sound Of Music

jim wentworth (wench), Wednesday, 2 February 2005 03:54 (nineteen years ago) link

Jimmy Cliff - "Many Rivers To Cross"

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Wednesday, 2 February 2005 11:15 (nineteen years ago) link

two weeks pass...
recently, "together in electric dreams" by giorgio moroder/phil oakey (there was an AIDS quilt hanging up in our school's student center and one of the patches had "RIP (person's name), we'll always be together in electric dreams" written on the lower right-hand corner of it and now just thinking about this song provokes tears)

joseph (joseph), Friday, 18 February 2005 18:22 (nineteen years ago) link

Townes Van Zandt ohhnz me here. "Tecumseh Valley" "Rex's Blues" "Song for You" "Waiting Around to Die" "You are not Needed Now" "To Live is to Fly" even "Sanitarium Blues" and "Pancho and Lefty" + lots more

Aaron A., Saturday, 19 February 2005 02:45 (nineteen years ago) link

I'll second "Somewhere Over The Rainbow".

"Innocent When You Dream"-Tom Waits (first time seeing him play live, 5 years ago)
"Footsteps" - PJ (the first time they ever toured Australia, 1995. I just couldn't believe I was finally seeing them play.)
"Nothing Compares 2 U" - Sinead O Connor (hubby snuck this in on a compilation cd he made for me when we got engaged. him not being the soppy type usually, I burst into tears)
"True Colours"- Cyndi Lauper (Last year, live. My sister -still in Australia- loved this song when we were kids, and I started crying because she wasn't with me to see her sing it.)

Oh. And "If You Leave" by OMD makes me cry every time without fail. No real reason though, I just think it's a sad song.

VegemiteGrrl (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 19 February 2005 03:30 (nineteen years ago) link

You saw Tom Waits live! Australian's aren't usually allowed that privilege. So lucky! Of which, "Who Are You" usually gets me all bleary.

-the-night-watch- (-the-night-watch-), Saturday, 19 February 2005 03:35 (nineteen years ago) link

No such luck, if the truth be told. Saw him when I was visiting the States in 1999, at the Bridge School Benefit. He toured once that I can remember in Australia, but I missed out on tix.

VegemiteGrrl (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 19 February 2005 03:54 (nineteen years ago) link

Yeah i don't think he's been here since 1984 or something.

-the-night-watch- (-the-night-watch-), Saturday, 19 February 2005 03:59 (nineteen years ago) link

"Whispering Pines"- The Band

Ken L (Ken L), Saturday, 19 February 2005 04:04 (nineteen years ago) link

reading thru this thread, it seems to be ownes by Tom Waits.

The live "Train Song" from Big Time kills me.

The first song I remember making me cry was Let it Be when I was in 8th grade. I was such a wuss.

shookout (shookout), Saturday, 19 February 2005 04:18 (nineteen years ago) link

songs i would cry to:

"You've Changed" -- Billie Holiday
Untitled 2 (from ()) - Sigur Ros
"I Believe in You" - Talk Talk

Pat, Saturday, 19 February 2005 04:30 (nineteen years ago) link

When this thread originally appeared, I honestly couln't think of anything, which seemed strange -- I connect deeply, emotionally with music I love, but nothing sprang to mind that moved me to tears. Not every time, anyway.

But now I thought of one: "Set Me Free" by Esther Phillips. Something about the break in her voice as she wails into the chorus, especially the last time through, gets me all choked up. Plus, there's something about the construction of the song, a narrated tale of love gone wrong, but told from the third person. Then, before the last chorus, it turns inward: "I just don't know what I'd do if my lover said to me, 'Set me freeee-eee-eeee, let me fly...'" Silly to try to analyze emotional impact, I guess, but man does it tear me up.

briania (briania), Saturday, 19 February 2005 05:01 (nineteen years ago) link

we sleep in the morning
we dream of the ship that sails away

Aaron A., Saturday, 19 February 2005 05:03 (nineteen years ago) link

every air supply ballad
angry anderson sudenly (kylie and jason get married)
michael jackson "one day in your life"
bros "sister"

La Camilla Henemark, Saturday, 19 February 2005 05:59 (nineteen years ago) link

drew, i don't see what's at all weird about choking up to "all that i've got it you". i mean, every single thing that happens in that song engenders that response.

jermaine, Saturday, 19 February 2005 11:30 (nineteen years ago) link

Cornelius - 'Rock/96'.
Although I fully intend to ask my new Japanese friend to translate the lyrics, I'm sure it's not meant to sound so sad (lyric-wise). I've always read it as a meta-song about the rise of Beatle-isms in 1995-6 indie pop and rock - it's inspired by 'I Am The Walrus' after all - and it opens with a few dozen orgasms. On the other hand, the strings are pure mourning, the tone is downbeat and after 7 minutes of it, you'd probably shed a tear too. Especially when the final lyrics talk about Keigo realising his life is a meaningless dream but chooses to go back sleep. His last words are "Goodnight, goodnight, goodnight."

Deerninja B4rim4, Plus-Tech Whizz Kid (Barima), Saturday, 19 February 2005 14:57 (nineteen years ago) link

Yeah, ‘Rock/96’ is wonderful.

Orange, Saturday, 19 February 2005 16:36 (nineteen years ago) link

"Sleepwalk" by Santo and Johnny. Perhaps because of the way it was used in the movie La Bamba, but it always makes me sad. I still love it, though.

"He Stopped Loving Her Today" by George Jones is the saddest song ever, but that just makes me want to drink.

joygoat (joygoat), Saturday, 19 February 2005 16:54 (nineteen years ago) link

"Hecho en Buenos Aires," Bersuit Vergarabat
"If Something Is Wrong With My Baby," Sam and Dave
"Ruby Jewel Was Here," Allison Moorer
"She Tried," Bubba Sparxxx
"You Crazy Heart," Hank Williams

The Obligatory Sourpuss (Begs2Differ), Saturday, 19 February 2005 17:00 (nineteen years ago) link

Remember that half-song that Bjork sings at the end of Dancer in the Dark? That's about as close as I've gotten. Also, "Imagine" because it makes me think of Lennon getting killed and his message being squelched, etc..

Richard K (Richard K), Sunday, 20 February 2005 23:44 (nineteen years ago) link

"I'll Be Seeing You" - Jimmy Durante is another one that gets me teary.

VegemiteGrrl (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 20 February 2005 23:47 (nineteen years ago) link

I forgot about the big tear jerker for me:

New Order, "Age of Consent"

poortheatre (poortheatre), Monday, 21 February 2005 00:36 (nineteen years ago) link

Lotsa stuff upthread I totally agree with.

Like "$1000 Wedding."

Freedy Johnston's "Responsible," as I mention in thread about FJ.

"Waters of March" by Regina and Jobim--such a perfect, almost-blithe song about things that are actually pretty melancholy. Plus it's so beautiful.

Ray Charles, "Don't Let the Sun Catch You Cryin'."

Nick Drake, "Chime of a City Clock." Boy, that one gets me.

Prince, "How Come U Don't Call Me Any More." This is my favorite Prince track ever.

Aretha's "Oh No Not My Baby."

I find Big Star's "Third" somehow not conducive to crying, exactly--it dares you to feel, I guess--but I find the way old Alex sings "She's not afraid to take a chance" incredibly moving, in "O Dana."

Sure, a lot of "Pet Sounds" fits. Actually, I find the title track itself unspeakably evocative, so goofy and so determined to proceed along its way, until that last little guitar lick brings it home.

Oh, and Mekons, "Learning to Live on Your Own," my favorite song of theirs. In fact, I need to hear this now.

edd s hurt (ddduncan), Monday, 21 February 2005 00:51 (nineteen years ago) link

"Days" The Kinks
"Can't We Be Friends" Frank Sinatra
"Know" Nick Drake (while alone in a foreign country around the holidays)

TayBridgeCatastrophe (TayBridge), Monday, 21 February 2005 05:52 (nineteen years ago) link

I love this thread:

Ambushed by unexpected emotion

As I mentioned on that thread, I lost it in August 1998 while merely *thinking* about Lou Reed's "The Kids" (I had heard it either earlier that day or the day before.

That was it for crying until August 2001, when I completely and unexpectedly fell apart listening to Travis' "Driftwood".

Then in April 2003, I blubbed to Drugstore's "I Don't Wanna Be Here Without You", although in truth I think I would have cried anyway, but I wanted to do it to that song (and it was certainly the catalyst).

And that's about it.

MindInRewind (Barry Bruner), Monday, 21 February 2005 06:09 (nineteen years ago) link

new order "elega"
prince "beautiful ones"
erasure "so the story goes"
crowded house "fall at your feet"
latoya jackson " i don't want you to go "

La Camilla Henemark, Monday, 21 February 2005 07:18 (nineteen years ago) link

this weekend just past, for private reasons:

coldcut "doctorin' the house" (esp. the big ben chimes near the end)
oddfellows casino "oddfellows shanty"
ultrasound "best wishes"
ooberman "shorley wall"
eric matthews "faith to clay"

Marcello Carlin, Monday, 21 February 2005 10:27 (nineteen years ago) link

"Chiquitita"

David Merryweather (DavidM), Monday, 21 February 2005 10:44 (nineteen years ago) link

this morning: "Mexican Boyfriend," by Shivaree; esp. after seeing them in concert last night and hearing that it's based on a true story

The Obligatory Sourpuss (Begs2Differ), Monday, 21 February 2005 14:16 (nineteen years ago) link

Kirsty MacColl, Soho Square

davidsim (davidsim), Monday, 21 February 2005 17:56 (nineteen years ago) link

eight months pass...
rainbow connection fools

smirky, Monday, 14 November 2005 07:40 (eighteen years ago) link

I can't say I know much about this band, and perhaps the rest of their catalog is complete drivel (perhaps not), but I have a mix with a song by the band Devotchka called "Dearly Departed," and I'll be damned if that ballad doesn't (sob) get me right "there" every time (no really, you should check it out).

Steve Gertz (sgertz), Monday, 14 November 2005 07:49 (eighteen years ago) link

"Vieilles courroies" by Harmonium.

Halfway there but for you, Friday, 19 April 2024 02:31 (one week ago) link

Time to pretend by MGMT got me real emotional driving to a med school test the other day. Hit me straight in the stomach. Hopeful I'm not pretending

H.P, Friday, 19 April 2024 02:48 (one week ago) link

nizlopi jcb song

massaman gai (front tea for two), Friday, 19 April 2024 03:52 (one week ago) link

Unexpectedly, "Grounded" by Pavement got to me a couple weeks ago. I guess age & nostalgia put it over the top because I've always loved the pathos of it, it's been one of my favorite songs for decades now, but it never made me cry before. Suddenly, it was like I was seeing it from the old doctor's perspective and all the boys he'd seen dying on these streets throughout his career & malkmus just driving the chorus right into my chest.

BrianB, Friday, 19 April 2024 12:46 (one week ago) link

I guess I'm not the only person this happens to. I guess maybe I'm getting more emotional as I get older. Its weird because sometimes I get a little teary-eyed about a song that is not even such a sad song. Other songs that are much sadder have no effect. It seems kind of random, but particular singers seem to have the effect more than others.

o. nate, Friday, 19 April 2024 16:08 (one week ago) link

billie eilish’s ‘what was i made for?’ does this on the reg for me recently

memphis milano: the new trend of the 80s (bizarro gazzara), Friday, 19 April 2024 16:32 (one week ago) link

This is kind of embarrassing but sometimes it feels more like tears of gratitude than tears of grief. Like I'm crying that such a beautiful song exists or something. I don't know. Guess I should see a therapist.

o. nate, Friday, 19 April 2024 18:34 (one week ago) link

suede - “sleeping pills”

give me the time they kill

brimstead, Tuesday, 23 April 2024 21:43 (four days ago) link

i've had the stones exile on main street on repeat in my car cd player for literally months and almost every time i get to 'shine a light' i cry. 'make every song you sing your favorite tune'

crying because a song is beautiful is one of life's greatest pleasures. i think most people could probably do with some therapy, but not for that reason.

he/him hoo-hah (map), Tuesday, 23 April 2024 23:50 (four days ago) link

Aside from the songs of my youth and a brief dalliance with poptimism in the 00s, I'm not really into pop. We play some around the house for our kids but shake it off was literally the only taylor swift song I knew. So I put on 1989 in the house a couple of times and got into it a little bit, then yesterday decided to put it on when I went for a run. When the chorus of out of the woods came on I started welling up, wtf! I think it was 10% crying @ beauty, 10% feeling simpatico with the lyrics, and 80% welling up at completely random things now I'm a dad.

ledge, Wednesday, 24 April 2024 08:38 (three days ago) link

I pity people who don't tear up from the beauty of music

H.P, Wednesday, 24 April 2024 09:25 (three days ago) link

Sorry, I'm a crying elitist

H.P, Wednesday, 24 April 2024 09:25 (three days ago) link

The bit in What a Wonderful World when he says 'they'll learn much more than I'll ever know' always tips me over the edge.

giraffe, Wednesday, 24 April 2024 09:59 (three days ago) link

Bonnie Raitt “Nick Of Time”

Drowning in TG, he sent me Discipline (flamboyant goon tie included), Wednesday, 24 April 2024 10:09 (three days ago) link

The 6ths - Just Like a Movie Star

cajunsunday, Wednesday, 24 April 2024 10:29 (three days ago) link

Pet Shop Boys, Being Boring

By the time we get to the third verse, I’m a weeping mess (I never dreamt that I would get to be the creature that I always meant to be, but I thought, in spite of dreams, you'd be sitting somewhere here with me)

Xgau Murder Spa (nikola), Wednesday, 24 April 2024 11:59 (three days ago) link

A couple Bruce Hornsby songs of late but Song C got me real good

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NTiMCE8Z32A

I Chet the Holmgren (Spottie), Thursday, 25 April 2024 06:16 (two days ago) link

Anchorage by Michelle Shocked

m0stly clean (Slowsquatch), Thursday, 25 April 2024 07:17 (two days ago) link

map, “shine a light” doesn’t make me cry but it does make my heart feel bigger. same with “let it loose”

the defenestration of prog (voodoo chili), Thursday, 25 April 2024 13:23 (two days ago) link

last song to make me well up was probably “this is the sea” by the waterboys. zevon’s “desperados under the eaves” got to me a few days ago too

the defenestration of prog (voodoo chili), Thursday, 25 April 2024 13:31 (two days ago) link

The 6ths - Just Like a Movie Star

As You Turn To Go will do it for me

Colonel Poo, Thursday, 25 April 2024 13:58 (two days ago) link

sometimes it feels more like tears of gratitude than tears of grief. Like I'm crying that such a beautiful song exists or something.

YES, I dig it.

This sort of thing happens to me so often since I last had neurosurgery that I could probably almost eschew music that doesn't elicit such observable physiological responses lol. Endless songs, many already mentioned, but it's the ability of wordless music to do it that endlessly amazes me.

eg.
Messiaen - 5th movement of Quator pour la fin du Temps
Love Unlimited Orchestra - Love's Theme
Janko Nilovic - Pop Avenue (HEAPS of corny/manipulative library music c.1972 really - those cats knew what they were doing)
Andrew Wasylyk - Last Sunbeams of Childhood
Ravel - 2nd movement of Piano Concerto in G
Piero Umiliani - almost the entire soundtrack of La ragazza fuoristrada fercrissakes
Aphex Twin - Mookid/Alberto Balsalm sequence
Donald Byrd - Lansana's Priestess

Nag! Nag! Nag!, Friday, 26 April 2024 00:55 (yesterday) link

There's several that make me tear up, the one that gets me going more than any other is Wyatt's Sea Song

you can see me from westbury white horse, Friday, 26 April 2024 01:11 (yesterday) link

there are a few songs that make me cry in grief and pain on sade's soldier of love, like absolutely bawling. for such a smooth and immaculate recording artist, that is a seriously harrowing album.

he/him hoo-hah (map), Friday, 26 April 2024 01:25 (yesterday) link

Messiaen - 5th movement of Quator pour la fin du Temps

is this the cello one?

the defenestration of prog (voodoo chili), Friday, 26 April 2024 01:55 (yesterday) link

Cello and piano, yep!
Also apologies to the French for mangling spelling.

Nag! Nag! Nag!, Friday, 26 April 2024 02:42 (yesterday) link

I was just on a car drive with an early 00s Low soundtrack going and pretty much every Mimi lead had me misty-eyed.

Western® with Bacon Flavor, Friday, 26 April 2024 06:28 (yesterday) link


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