lol. well anyway, after a few days of self-deprecating, I decided to just speak up...ask this person to define what's what, and if anything is ever possible, whether the flirting was making her uncomfortable (as it seemed it was), and she did acknowledge the latter. so I agreed to pull back, and we're just gonna be friends...I'll look elsewhere.
I'm ok with it, but I think lack of clear communication had us both on different pages. feeling better now.
― she rub A LINK in your poke (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 24 May 2011 19:19 (twelve years ago) link
well that was shortlived. so during our talk she cheered me up about things and we agreed to be friends, and she asked me to sit with her for one of the shows we and a group of friends went to tonight at the play festival. they were all going to a show after that but I told them I couldn't because I had work...so after the show ended I went to give her a hug and thank her for everything, except...her and another friend of mine tore off after the show, completely blew me off and left me behind, rushing to the next show which they had THIRTY MINUTES to catch and it only involved them walking across the grass to get to. I was stuck behind slow moving people so because of that I got ditched.
another person I can cross out of my life.
― she rub A LINK in your poke (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 25 May 2011 03:56 (twelve years ago) link
Ugh. Closing in a year again. Feeling very unsatisfied. I wish I could learn to be more proactive about pursuing a love/sex life.
― bed bath and beyoncé (The Reverend), Wednesday, 20 July 2011 00:51 (twelve years ago) link
recently ended a sex drought w/ bad sex :/
― sade lo (flopson), Wednesday, 20 July 2011 16:37 (twelve years ago) link
drought continuation preferable
― who shivs a git (darraghmac), Wednesday, 20 July 2011 16:57 (twelve years ago) link
totally
― sade lo (flopson), Wednesday, 20 July 2011 17:01 (twelve years ago) link
Yeah, I did that once. It sucked. In fact it was so bad it put me off the whole idea for a quite a while.
― bed bath and beyoncé (The Reverend), Wednesday, 20 July 2011 18:30 (twelve years ago) link
i've not had sex for a while, but not long enough to call it a drought by my standards. been a long time since i had really good sex though. also been really humid and i've been drinking a lot lately, these conditions put me at fuckwant 9 on the jagger-poppage scale.
― you've got male (jim in glasgow), Wednesday, 20 July 2011 18:34 (twelve years ago) link
xmas opportunity fell through, not been anywhere close to a chance since then, so my streak from Feb 2010 continues.
― Johnny Fever, Wednesday, 20 July 2011 18:46 (twelve years ago) link
flopsac
― velko, Wednesday, 20 July 2011 18:50 (twelve years ago) link
two wisks
― ladies love draculas like children love stray dogs (ENBB), Wednesday, 20 July 2011 19:05 (twelve years ago) link
*comforts everyone*
It's been several weeks here, too.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Wednesday, 20 July 2011 19:20 (twelve years ago) link
"weeks"
*snort*
― bed bath and beyoncé (The Reverend), Wednesday, 20 July 2011 20:33 (twelve years ago) link
yeah, you've just ran out of gatorade and the gas station is still in sight. some of us have been digging under a shrub in the Sahara for a long time.
― Gukbe, Wednesday, 20 July 2011 20:46 (twelve years ago) link
Weeks shmeeks. Glad you got some Christine, but lol. I'm counting in years over here.
― Confused Turtle (Zora), Wednesday, 20 July 2011 21:06 (twelve years ago) link
Getting to that point where every woman I see looks very good.
― Trip Maker, Thursday, 21 July 2011 21:24 (twelve years ago) link
been there for years. doesn't really help tho.
― Gukbe, Thursday, 21 July 2011 22:09 (twelve years ago) link
I'm a creepy creeper lately when it comes to viewing men as sex objects. Anyway, I am insanely excited because I will in all most likelihood have sex tomorrow and it couldn't come soon enough.
― homosexual II, Thursday, 21 July 2011 22:44 (twelve years ago) link
*cheers*
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Thursday, 21 July 2011 22:53 (twelve years ago) link
Really good sex with an ex last Sunday night from which I was as detached as Annie Hall. It's over.
― The Edge of Gloryhole (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 22 July 2011 02:22 (twelve years ago) link
Annie Hall's not that detached--she just needs a little weed to get her in the mood.
― Virginia Plain, Friday, 22 July 2011 03:49 (twelve years ago) link
don't know how a double whammy of sex + life epiphany qualifies you for this thread tbh
― Gukbe, Friday, 22 July 2011 03:52 (twelve years ago) link
j/k obv
Been since January prob but it doesn't feel like a drought because my last rel'shp put me right off the thought. I like the flirting and the making out, but the anxiety I now associate with the real thing is making me never want to take my clothes off again. I mean I'm sure I'll get over it...right?
― it's not that print journalists don't have a sense of humour, it's just (Laurel), Friday, 22 July 2011 17:47 (twelve years ago) link
and it couldn't come soon enough
*snicker*
― publier les (suggest) bans de (Michael White), Friday, 22 July 2011 17:50 (twelve years ago) link
I mean I'm sure I'll get over it...right?
With the right person, of course you will
Thank you, that was the correct answer.
― it's not that print journalists don't have a sense of humour, it's just (Laurel), Friday, 22 July 2011 18:28 (twelve years ago) link
It's true, too, ime
― publier les (suggest) bans de (Michael White), Friday, 22 July 2011 18:32 (twelve years ago) link
yeh it's been a few months but it was not the best experience the last time
hot friendly women interested in casual hookups are around the corner as soon as I get rid of this obnoxious sinus cold, I know it
in the meantime, I'm so damn tired and coughing all the time
― mh, Friday, 22 July 2011 18:40 (twelve years ago) link
what l. said. flirting, making out is great, easy. but...i've always had trouble sleeping w/people that i haven't known for very long...even if i'm drunk or whatever it's still sort of scary for me. which i guess is why i end up doing things like sleeping with ex-'s.
― dell (del), Saturday, 23 July 2011 17:03 (twelve years ago) link
Oh god, flirting doesn't even come easy to me. :(
― bed bath and beyoncé (The Reverend), Saturday, 23 July 2011 21:46 (twelve years ago) link
Flirting always caused bad things to happen to me, so I guess I was doing it wrong. I don't do it anymore anyways.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 24 July 2011 17:47 (twelve years ago) link
I must officially be old now, because I experienced everything but the actual act on Friday night even though I could've. All the foreplay made me too tired.
― Johnny Fever, Sunday, 24 July 2011 18:08 (twelve years ago) link
My husband can't deal with extended foreplay--he can't get it up after too much stimulation. We deal with this by getting him off quickly and then going on with the other stuff. (He's OK with extended foreplay after the first orgasm.)
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Monday, 25 July 2011 20:36 (twelve years ago) link
Well, to clarify the circumstances, this was about 4am and I was sleepy anyway.
Note to self: start the sexytimes before midnight.
― Johnny Fever, Monday, 25 July 2011 22:09 (twelve years ago) link
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 26 July 2011 05:03 (twelve years ago) link
one of these days i'm *actually* going to visit dc
and then i'm gonna punch u
― mookieproof, Tuesday, 26 July 2011 05:04 (twelve years ago) link
lol
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 26 July 2011 05:05 (twelve years ago) link
irl less than 2 wisks i just like saying 2 wisks
will probably be considerably more than 2 wisks before next drought-stoppage tho
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 26 July 2011 05:06 (twelve years ago) link
okay manje
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 26 July 2011 05:09 (twelve years ago) link
http://i54.tinypic.com/2gwhv2u.jpg
still brings me joy
I'm working overtime and trying to figure out if I can write one last (2 page, double spaced lol) paper for my class and get my oil changed and hit the road for Memphis tomorrow night because my penpal will be there until Saturday afternoon. I think It's going to work out!
― Trip Maker, Wednesday, 27 July 2011 21:04 (twelve years ago) link
Urgh, temptation. Really attractive girl in my cast, moving to NYC so at most would just be a 'fling'.
My will is being tested because she wears the shortest shorts imaginable for a costume and has managed to bend over in front of me like ten times tonight.
All my lines seem to go out the window cuz my body's screaming at me like it's a member of the sex-starved production crew in the opening of Cecil B. Demented.
I may just forget all my lines tonight!
― Neanderthal, Thursday, 28 July 2011 00:05 (twelve years ago) link
dont forget yr rohypnol stick
― ( •ิ.•ั) (gr8080), Thursday, 28 July 2011 00:23 (twelve years ago) link
some neanderthals prefer a knotty cudgel?
― remy bean, Thursday, 28 July 2011 00:27 (twelve years ago) link
Knew who the poster was as soon as I saw the date rape joke...
― Neanderthal, Thursday, 28 July 2011 01:13 (twelve years ago) link
any ILXor could have posted that really
― I'm goin' hongrø-øøøøøøøøøøø (crüt), Thursday, 28 July 2011 01:20 (twelve years ago) link
True, has kind of been a 'staple' for ILX lately...
― Neanderthal, Thursday, 28 July 2011 01:23 (twelve years ago) link
yr post was indeed rapey but that was a nakhchivan joke, not a date rape joke
― ( •ิ.•ั) (gr8080), Thursday, 28 July 2011 01:24 (twelve years ago) link
i enjoyed reading:
as sung in a musical number tho ^__^
― ( •ิ.•ั) (gr8080), Thursday, 28 July 2011 01:27 (twelve years ago) link