Sex Droughts

fun fact: ants and mice can hide beneath art supplies just as easily as newspapers and food waste. they show up more slowly, but they show up anyway.

they like food better

i don't have ocd and imagine vermin hiding behind every other dust bunny. why have furniture at all? there could be critters hiding underneath that stuff.

ok, I was mostly making excuses

but tbh I am a guy who has had magazines/books/comics/music/electronics strewn everywhere and yeah, you end up with dust on everything and I have ruined things by stepping on, tripping on, or accidentally spilling drinks on more things than I can count

also there is a 0% chance you can ever have any sort of non-caged pet with that setup

having things is the problem.. still working on solution not involving arson :-/

yeh i apologize if sounded flippant

feeling smug b/c my place is tidier than it's been in two years

but historically, consistently have been on the slob side

yeh, get rid of everything. that's what i've been doing. hold on to a couple of weeks worth of clothes for the seasons, essential books music and maybe some keepsakes. and cooking utensils if necessary.

bookshelves everywhere imo

then if you move in with someone, especially a lady, you can carefully hide them in storage or get rid of them and have a haunted look in your eye that is only soothed by...

wait this is about sex droughts, you'd be getting laid by that point

> first time i went to an ex-gf's place she made me hold off for like six hours while she cleaned her place top to bottom. so confounding. tbh prob would have found her natural slovenly environment more charming than her overcooked neurotic efforts at tidying up.

Sad thing is, her place before the tidying-up effort probably still looked better than my place after an emergency tidying-up effort....

I'm quite good about keeping the bathroom clean and not leaving food out - I do have guests over alot, not to mention two flatmates. But my own bedroom goes to hell whenever I'm not in some semblance of a relationship.

lol at both those posts

My house is actually really clean, it's my car that looks like shit

always kind of a ~shock to step into someone's car that is a non-rental and devoid of random junk

Sad thing is, her place before the tidying-up effort probably still looked better than my place after an emergency tidying-up effort....

ha ha i have occasionally used "i'd say sorry for not tidying, but i have in fact tidied"

still would prefer if this was in the dirtbag style thread rather than the sex thread

likewise i guess fucking in cars has or should have a diff. thread devoted to it. the fucking in cars. i mean. tht subject.

the fucking in cars. i mean. tht subject.

get high, go for a drive, fuck in the car

it's more difficult than it sounds

drought of sex in cars to be sure

sexcars why are they so bad and hated?

my van is neat and tidy and it's like girls still don't want to have sex in it! wtf?!

dude you have to hide the cigar box

I have a hilarious story 'bout gettin' busy in a car - or more accurately an unsuccessful attempt at same - from my college years. Funnier for other people than it was for me actually. Will recount if anyone's interested.

i for one love ribald stories

a friend of mine almost died doing that. cautionary tale/cautionary tail.

Tuomas the Train Engine or something

It's been proven by purely anecdotal evidence from my own experience that Thomas the tank engine causes autism. My four year old runs to me in a panic shouting 'Thomas is on and Henry is in the living room!!!!Quick!!!!' then we both run in and I change the channel while she lures her 1 year old brother's attention away from the TV.
In any case living with so much stuff everywhere can definitely cause some kinds of disorder. Mental I mean. I'm sure of it but I was raised to believe a house in order = a mind in order. That goes for handbags too, ladies.

I have a hilarious story 'bout gettin' busy in a car - or more accurately an unsuccessful attempt at same - from my college years. Funnier for other people than it was for me actually. Will recount if anyone's interested.

This story doesn't end with you unknowing returning to a party with blood all over your face does it?

y'know that Thomas the Tank Engine is v. popular with kids with Autism, right?

More proof

Anymore evidence I might as well write a book and hit the morning show circuit

i've heard it theorized that the faces are easy for kids with Autism Spectrum conditions to read - they do look like some of the communication toys used in teaching

plus, well, they're trains

Really? My best friends kid (an avid fan of ttte btw) has no ability to comprehend anger and has never been angry nor reacted to someone else's anger. Those trains seem to be pissed off A LOT.

now that im separated lets see how long it lasts.

Kind of bummed about this topic, suddenly, momentarily. I don't want to have the sex w anyone, though, I just want to be around someone that I can look at often who will look back at me.

Well put.

So I'm hanging out with a real live woman tonight besides my soon to be ex wife, first time in 15 long yrs.

no pressure

I'm anxious as all hell. Already spilled an Italian sub all over myself

kinda like losing your virginity, it's something you just gotta do, and it will probably be a bit weird and awkward, but after it's over you should feel better.

oil and vinegar on the ol' brazole

Hanging out with women is just like chatting to them at the bar unless the groping starts.

unless until

i'll probably get a boner. i haven't had to use my moves in 15 years...i dont think i have any anymore...im wearing ben sherman and levis...i feel confident. Im also scared if things go good and she wants to bang...THEN WHAT. All i can imagine is me throwing out my back...mother of christ.

well, if you are tumescent and she wants to bang, then i imagine it would be relatively simple?

haha! i have to buy condoms, i haven't bought condoms in 15 years either. do i buy lube...haha. oh man, im like a 14 year old.

lube is a little presumptuous maybe?

xp - i think they are pretty much the same as they were 15 years ago.

omg the lube thing is making me remember that scene in Superbad

yeah you definitely are gonna wanna bring lube and a buncha other "adult goods" otherwise it will just be ... AWKWARD

thats why i said it. haha. besides who needs lube when you got spit.