Sex Droughts

18 months now, I think. My roommate thinks I must be chomping at the bit, but I don't really miss sex in and of itself. I've passed on casual opportunities, I don't see the drought breaking unless I meet anyone I feel like dating.

Three day weekend visit has turned into six days.
I'm over my head, sure feels nice.

sexytimez 2012! w00t

re:my advice to 'hit that', you're welcome

Much appreesh

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Involuntary_celibacy

feeling this.

or not, as the case may be.

La la la la okay men's forearms are starting to look attractive again. I should be right as rain by May.

hooray!

laurel hie thee to a climbing gym

the one in mpls is a frikkin meat market

That sounds much too immediate and active. I think I'll just passively admire strangers for at least another month and a half.

No see that's precisely why you go to the climbing gym. Lean men with well developed forearms, bein butch.

My wandering eye is not that purposeful right now. But you make a v good case for about a month down the road.

ditto on the climbing gym views. i mean like daaamn. my gym is also v friendly and casual and cool but yknow everyone is at least on one level checking everyone else out, and mostly in this admiring, adorable way.

no sex drought in my world, just saying hi from the rainforest... not braggin just sayin! i can go for months without caring all that much but when it starts to rain i look back and wonder what the eff i was thinking not even attempting to date anyone or even freakin flirt a little. silliness! and i srsly do think that climbing helped me feel hot again. lol tmi, yeah...

I think that everyone has helped me understand why there is a sudden proliferation of climbing gyms. brb, going to see if they have a "how do I use a climbing gym" intro class or something

do it!!

I've climbed exactly once and it was difficult and really amazing. Made the mistake of starting lessons in November at an outdoor wall, so I really lost all motivation. But it was exciting and I am going to give it another shot.

OK, determined a couple local places. Going to cease my self-imposed semi-exile from facebook to ask if any local friends go to these places.

rrrobyn otm re ppl scoping at the gym

I have def thought that it is prob the best shot I have at meeting a lady, given my limited ability to get out and ~mingle~

related question, bit OT though; is the gym a good place to go for a first date?

no!!

I have def thought that it is prob the best shot I have at meeting a lady, given my limited ability to get out and ~mingle~

You did see it when City Pages called VE the best place for straight women to pick up men, right?

It made me a little depressed, but then also I didn't care because I mostly just like to look.

holy shit do not go to the climbing gym on a first date! that sounds like an episode of some reality show wherein unfunny hijinks ensue.

(for the record, i met the guy i'm seeing on okcupid, but the gym has been a source of mild flirtation, at least when i'm not entirely wrapped up in overhang challenge, against which even cute guys cannot distract)

You did see it when City Pages called VE the best place for straight women to pick up men, right?

!!!

fwiw eric i think at least one dude i ran into at the gym was trying to flirt with me?

holy shit do not go to the climbing gym on a first date! that sounds like an episode of some reality show wherein unfunny hijinks ensue.

I saw an episode of Blind Date where the couple went to a climbing lesson. The instructor brazenly hit on the woman while the guy was trying to climb and actually left him dangling while he finished talking to her. The guy on the date found the instructor's harness-accentuated bulge threatening.

i miss that show so fucking much.

haha I think I was without really knowing it referring to that ep of Blind Date! Loved that show. What reality tv should've emulated 4ever.

fwiw eric i think at least one dude i ran into at the gym was trying to flirt with me?

I was not.

hoping mine is coming to a close. have met someone I am interested in who seems to be returning said vibes. (ok, actually this is someone I've known for over a year, but have only noticed in 'that way' recently). really though idc so much about the sex part as much as having someone I care about in my life.

approaching slowly for now. I think there's mutual attraction, but my brain is still kind of scrambled atm and I hear it's been a while since her last relationship, so maybe just ease into it for both of us.

ease into the pussy amirite

:/

Whoaaaaaaaaaaaaa

I m with her right now. Going fairly well but had to drink to get my senses right

best of luck bro

but if you're soliciting advice (and if you're not feel free todisgregard this) may i suggest not posting to the ilx sex droughts thread while on a date, sober or otherwise?

discretionary gr8080 is otm

otherwise we someday risk the LJ ilxing-while thing where all our psyches do not need to know that

wasn't really a date, if anything i only chose this thread cuz this acct doesn't have 77 access and not looking to re-add it.

i think that was directed at neanderthal

haha

lol

Rev - they're the same person.

oh!

Was so tempted to put the moves on my friend's gf last night. We were high and she is so beautiful and weed makes me really horny. I'm not really 100% sure if it was my respect for my friend that was stopping me or just simply the presence of their housemate, but I could barely contain myself. (Friend was upstairs, fast asleep.) We just kind of stood there sometimes talking and sometimes just exchanging long glances. I need a better outlet.

Kind of regretting turning down the opportunity last weekend to be rebound sex for a beautiful girl. It would have been a bad idea, but damn.

Rev, it sounds like you dodged a bullet, though gods know I understand where you're at. Milo, you should have hit that.

Gukbe OTM

Ugh, restored from the wrong iphone backup, last texts were graphic sexts from an ex. I should have had bad idea sex.

graphic as in words or as in graphical displays