I really, really dislike Ultragrrl [edited title - mod]

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well i think there's something to be said for the notion that it must really be psychologically--i don't want to say "painful" because who knows--altering to be such an "it" person for a brief period of time and coasting on something that really isn't going to last, and then going back down to earth. i'm sure it's weird to know that your apex of fame has come and gone (though i guess it's only harmful if you care too much about that fact!)

omar little, Saturday, 28 January 2012 18:46 (twelve years ago) link

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this is funny u bitter dork (forksclovetofu), Saturday, 28 January 2012 22:14 (twelve years ago) link

me irl

markers, Saturday, 28 January 2012 22:19 (twelve years ago) link

like being a successful athlete or - hey - a rock star, figuring out what to do w/the rest of yr life is a bitch

demolition with discretion (m coleman), Saturday, 28 January 2012 22:28 (twelve years ago) link

Wow. I really disliked her writing back then. Now though, I can't help liking her.

Nathalie (stevienixed), Monday, 30 January 2012 00:05 (twelve years ago) link

I would like to read more interviews with hip people five years after anyone who once had, stopped giving a shit about them.

誤訳侮辱, Monday, 30 January 2012 02:59 (twelve years ago) link

is it too soon for hipster grifter?

Wie wol ich bin der vogel has noch den erfret mich das (forksclovetofu), Monday, 30 January 2012 03:48 (twelve years ago) link

lol

J0rdan S., Monday, 30 January 2012 03:48 (twelve years ago) link

I was going to wait at least one more year before busting out my korean abgom-jabbar dn

puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Monday, 30 January 2012 04:00 (twelve years ago) link

two years pass...

motorjew??

j., Wednesday, 4 June 2014 18:09 (nine years ago) link

five years pass...

I was recently called out on Twitter about this thread. Suffice to say, back in the late 90's through early 2000's, I expressed a profoundly ill-advised selection of roundly ill-advised, insensitive and objectionable comments here, usually couched within the frequently missed understanding that I should not be taken so deathly seriously.

Some people may have gleaned as much, but others did not. It is certainly not a a testament to my abilities to convey my genuine points that my venom and bluster was so routinely taken at face value. Moreover, I was probably frequently inconsiderate, unthinking and impulsive about the things I contributed here.

In short, I was a callously unthinking dick quite a lot of the time. Having big opinions about things shouldn't give one license to behave like I did, and I was out of line on more than a few occasions, this thread being just one of them.

In any case, I believe I penned a mea culpa on my blog some years ago to the same effect but it bears repeating. I am sorry. I did not mean any harm. I was foolish and stupid. I sincerely apologize to Ultrragrrl, Scout Niblett and any number of other targets i singled out for spleen-venting.

I regret it all.

Alex in NYC, Monday, 20 April 2020 17:25 (four years ago) link

"I expressed a profoundly ill-advised selection of roundly ill-advised.."

Awful.

One more thing on this: i used to blithely suggest that no one's day should be ruined by something they read on a public forum about music, as if that was some shiny badge that enabled me to be callous, boorish, pig-headed and insulting. Well, that's a pile of crap, and I again apologize. Regardless of the subject matter of a discussion, there's never an excuse for being a belittling jerk. I was and am that jerk, and I apologize again.

Alex in NYC, Monday, 20 April 2020 17:36 (four years ago) link


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