should ilxors be tempbanned for taking their beefs to other social media? (twitter/fbook/myspace/etc)?

I want to wash my eyeballs with acid.

Mordy, ENBB and American female posters more broadly, DJP, contenderizer, who else has this almost never happened to?

thank you for explaining to us men how to not offend a particular lady?

that is the most mansplaining thing yet, but yet it's very true, in its way

So many passive-agressive motherfuckers on this thread.

honestly if i was a woman my guts would be twisted with rage every time wcc pulls her shit but since i'm not a woman i just get to be an irritated misogynist

i know what my policy would be and you're all sorry i was deposed admit it

Missing you, ilx's Judge Dredd.

bank

NUKE ILX NOW

thx

i know what my policy would be and you're all sorry i was deposed admit it

Missing you, ilx's Judge Dredd.

― controversial cabaret roommate (Nicole), Thursday, October 18, 2012 12:46 PM (42 seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Jessica Dredd

http://paperathensupm59.files.wordpress.com/2010/11/clockwork-orange.jpg

i will be straight up here and say that i went through this exact process at the time:

1. that is a shitty thing that WCC just did
2. not sure it is really actionable in any way
3. if mordy contacts me via email or by way of MRF or IMP, i will look at it again
4. ok maybe this is going to blow over without mod action, its been a few days and he is not asking for a temp-ban

now if i missed somewhere in that 10 billion post thread where you did ask for one, well shit man i have other things to do with my life, there are channels you can use for this

xposts

you're all being gross

jjj kinda otm, i mean we can't really expect mods to follow all beefs.

lol where tf did coprophagia corner come from

let's just talk about the musicians we like to ogle (males only you sick fucks)

― frogbs, Thursday, October 18, 2012 7:40 PM (7 minutes ago) Bookmark

WCC is pretty up front about her Thom ogling and has ime been pretty cool with men ogling women singers in the same fashion so please don't add to this ridiculousness with stuff like this.

you're all being gross

― real men have been preparing manly dishes for centuries (elmo argonaut), Thursday, October 18, 2012 3:48 PM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Still hearing this in tickle-me-elmo's voice. you're a better poster in long form and pictures of ties. : )

As far as I know, between these meta threads, the button thread, the gender fucked thread, or any other thread on ILX, I have never called WCC a rude name. I have disagreed with her on occasion, sometimes maybe in tones that were more aggressive or provocative than were called for, but I don't believe I have ever said anything offensive about WCC personally. I apologize if I'm wrong and I did somewhere. I don't think I have though.

Now, I'm happy to bury the hatchet now, but no more false equivalencies. WCC, I will continue to treat you politely and not say offensive things about you. I will even restrain myself on future threads that you're participating on to either not address you directly or to only do so after reviewing my post and checking to make sure it isn't cruel. All I ask of you is to not call me derogatory names anymore. You don't even have to apologize to do it in the past, or delete your tweets about it. Just don't do it anymore. If you can agree to that I think we can hug it out and be done w/ all the drama.

And stop saying we hate each other. I don't know what you feel about me, but I don't have that feeling about you.

mordy it's okay she's been pulling this shit for years even before the invention of microblogging

#it'schinatown

gukbe don't forget everyone has their own "ime"

And if WCC can't find her way to stop calling me a mansplaining misogynist bully stalker, then I'd request mods give her a temporary ban until she can get to that point.

Mordy just shut up about it dude.

yeah Gukbe that is not exactly accurate ime here is a sandbox thread, I don't think it will be so hard to figure out who is who based on posting style: http://sandbox.ilxor.com/sandbox/ThreadSelectedControllerServlet?action=showall&boardid=141&threadid=1804

Yes, this is UTTER board lawyering, just to prove that I did not name Mordy. I named "mansplainer" because that was what he was doing - telling me how he understood the meaning of a question far, far better than me, the person who actually asked it.

Here it is:

http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8186/8100739198_c762044484_o.jpg

Was that a nice thing to say? No. I was pissed off and frustrated and having a rant about something that seemed unfair to me (I could no longer participate in the thread I had started because someone was turning it into a clusterfuck.) Out of context do I sound like a lunatic? Probably, yes. Could you infer who I was talking about if you were a long-term reader of ILX? Possibly, if you were reading the exact thread, or were familiar with what ILX0rs had had beef with me for calling them a mansplainer before. (He did the same thing back then, he rampaged across several threads, arguing with Laurel and I, getting more and more indignant until the women gave up and left the conversation, while all the while trying to hold some kind of moral high ground.)

But did I call someone out by name? No, I did not.

Is that what the thread is even about? Probably not. The thread is about how someone's spat with me has infected dozens of threads for about a week now. You can't blame me for that. I deliberately stayed away from those threads. But when ILX wants a public execution, it will get its public execution one way or another, right? Especially if it's a ~crazy lady~ who inspires strong reactions in people.

I'm not going to even get into this "OMG, you play the victim" thing. I don't recognise the cartoon depiction people hold, as being anything like me, or the me that people who have gone down the pub with me recognise. But when you are at the bottom of a massive pile-on, as happens every time someone gets the hump with me on ILX, it's really hard not to *feel* victimised. Even paranoiacs have enemies.

There are going to be a million x-posts, I'm not going to read them.

go for a walk

That sceengrab is exactly as I recall it happening.

"do I sound like a lunatic"

Yup.

She deleted the offending tweet, but that's fine. I'm officially requesting a temp ban for WCC. This is too much.

reading "do i sound like a lunatic" to the tune of "do they owe us a living"

http://www.getyourfilmfix.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/billy_batts11.jpg

Get the fuck over yourself, Mordy.

(FWIW I can think of at least three occasions when WCC was tempbanned, although admittedly it was withdrawn on one of those occasions, the other two were for long occasions. That's more than most other posters. I don't think she's particularly coddled by mods and I personally have called her out on her shit on several occasions.)

arguing with someone on a lot of threads makes you a misogynist?

at this point what is your reason for asking for the temp ban? srs question. because the twitter thing has gotten basically indecipherable and who knows who posted when and what got deleted and w/e.

Telling someone you "don't hate them" while continuing to perpetuate 3 or 4 clusterfucks about them and digging through their twitter for "proof" to sustain your beef with them is... I do not judge people by their words, I judge them by their actions.

Mordy is just plain lying at this point, and I'm sick of it.

everything makes you a misogynist to wcc if you look at her cockeyed

For this: http://i50.tinypic.com/9ql6c5.png

sorry everyone didn't mean to use the word cockeyed in this charged environment

man up mordy <- to the tune of "cheer up charlie"

why exactly is this bugging you so much that you need someone to be temp-banned? there are a lot of people who don't identify you as a "mansplainer" (whatever that is) so why not just move on?

i don't think it'll move on w/out that. it has persisted w/out my participation so now i'm trying to end it w/ my participation

i love all these people telling Mordy what to think

Ah, it is not beholden on WCC to be equally okay with "pictures of women" threads and "pictures of men" threads, or with instances of those pictures on the same thread - that's a false equivalence.

Andrew, you're a troll and if you're really friends with WCC you're not doing her any favors.

scik & farrell really need to chill the fuck out too

I don't recognise the cartoon depiction people hold, as being anything like me, or the me that people who have gone down the pub with me recognise.

well the you that posts around here seems to be constantly crying misogynist and mansplainer at the slighest hint of a disagreement so maybe you can see why this is so

ok that seems out of line, but i also want to give wcc a chance to respond specifically to that image. also i need to go round table with the mods and see if we have a shared position on this.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__jFgOqdirRY/TNghtU7GQKI/AAAAAAAADYU/d4YQ9jwM3mg/s1600/escher_m.jpg

xp what exactly has persisted, mordy? i don't get it. you seem like a pretty okay guy and as far as i can tell people on ilx aren't talking shit about you?

the twitter thing?