What Mordy was doing AT THAT POINT IN TIME (coming after me on twitter after I had refused to engage with him on ILX) was behaviour that was a lot like that which my actual turn-up-at-my-house stalker had done to me.
Saying "X was behaving in a way that was scarily similar to the ways that a former stalker behaved to me" is not the same as saying "X is a stalker"
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 18 October 2012 21:53 (eleven years ago) link
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― formerly r. bean (soda), Thursday, 18 October 2012 21:54 (eleven years ago) link
so he's not a stalker, but he is "creepy", "a bully", "a stranger who was acting in some very frightening ways".
― down w/ obana...he is the reson were in dept (Z S), Thursday, 18 October 2012 21:56 (eleven years ago) link
stet that is a cop out. It's not ok to take ilx stuff to twitter to abuse posters.
― Algerian Goalkeeper, Thursday, 18 October 2012 21:57 (eleven years ago) link
x-posts etc
An ILX Poster is hassling me off-board! Do something about it!"No." is the short but unfortunate answer here. The moderators totally disapprove of people being assholes off-board but our jurisdiction is the board: there really isn't anything we can do about it.
I have found this a really unfair rule in the past, when I was being the focus of shitty stuff, but right now I'm prepared to abide by this.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 18 October 2012 21:57 (eleven years ago) link
Karen D Tregaskin
― (╯︵╰,) RIP (am0n), Thursday, 18 October 2012 21:57 (eleven years ago) link
yow, i missed the twitter user callout. that is uncool.
― let's have sex and then throw pottery (forksclovetofu), Thursday, October 18, 2012 2:52 PM (5 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
lol this is like the premise of the whole thread u fool
― puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Thursday, 18 October 2012 21:59 (eleven years ago) link
this whole fucking idiotic thread
― puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:00 (eleven years ago) link
i feel okay for not having read it
― let's have sex and then throw pottery (forksclovetofu), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:00 (eleven years ago) link
If there is somebody you hate on ILX then we suggest for the sake of ILX as a whole and its overall tone that you do your best to ignore them.
Ppl are going to talk this shit out, lock each thread there'll be another one right behind it.
― boxall, Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:04 (eleven years ago) link
hmm
― down w/ obana...he is the reson were in dept (Z S), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:04 (eleven years ago) link
My understanding was that 'moderation' is what happens when that well-intentioned advice from the FAQ is repeatedly ignored by a specific user or users.
― boxall, Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:06 (eleven years ago) link
LITERALLY BAGS OF SCUM
― puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:06 (eleven years ago) link
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, October 18, 2012 5:57 PM (9 minutes ago)
hahaha wait
― k3vin k., Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:08 (eleven years ago) link
http://rlv.zcache.co.uk/crazy_face_sticker-p217959696642404973envb3_400.jpg
― Burgled Hams (Old Lunch), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:10 (eleven years ago) link
I think it's a little unreasonable to ask someone who has been - and continues to be - described as a stalking, creepy, misogynistic bully to just drop it and learn to coexist. But what am I if not unreasonable?
For whatever reason, it is 6:14 PM here and I willing to forget that this ever happened. I don't know if my esteemed college feels the same but I will not post publicly on ILX regarding this issue ever again.
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-i7swBLl_Sco/TtUm4zV9O9I/AAAAAAAAAsU/woOek3EmFPw/s1600/incense_wcm001.jpg
― Mordy, Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:14 (eleven years ago) link
i showed up at jjjusten's work once and held him hostage until he reconed my peavey bass cab
― i dox in yellow gox dox socks (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:15 (eleven years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ty3JLTyFMT8
― k3vin k., Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:15 (eleven years ago) link
First Trains Group is the real bully here
― kinder, Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:16 (eleven years ago) link
I have now glanced at Mordy's posts on the original thread and unsurprisingly he did very little, if not nothing, wrong (at least up until the point where he was wished out of existence.) WCC you are a terribly annoying poster.
― Fig On A Plate Cart (Alex in SF), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:28 (eleven years ago) link
By WCC logic I'm gonna go ahead and call WCC an anti-Semite.
― quincie, Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:29 (eleven years ago) link
That would be the constructive thing to do, yes
― kinder, Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:30 (eleven years ago) link
great job everybody
― real men have been preparing manly dishes for centuries (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:30 (eleven years ago) link
haha quincie otm
― mookieproof, Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:30 (eleven years ago) link
http://i.imgur.com/C7M13.jpg
― 乒乓, Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:31 (eleven years ago) link
long live beef
― --bob marley (lag∞n), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:35 (eleven years ago) link
can we call beef something else
― puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:36 (eleven years ago) link
Stop threatening the jews, dude they have a history of fucked up shit happening to them
― quincie, Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:37 (eleven years ago) link
jewsplaining
― puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:37 (eleven years ago) link
http://henriksenlearning.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/excitement.gif
― Burgled Hams (Old Lunch), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:39 (eleven years ago) link
Also trying to figure out how to overtalk on ilx like technically speaking 'cause I always get these "to slow" messages when I try to do that
― quincie, Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:42 (eleven years ago) link
At this point I'm kind of staggered this thread's been left unlocked let alone not been half-nuked.
― Una Stubbs' Tears (Trayce), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:52 (eleven years ago) link
you can lock this thread; the beef will live on in ten thousand others plus a few Twitter accounts.
― *triumphant sauce horns* (crüt), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:53 (eleven years ago) link
quincie for mod.
― sorcery is in the gutter (how's life), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:54 (eleven years ago) link
you can't stop the beef. you can only hope to contain it.
― Legendary General Cypher Raige (Gukbe), Thursday, 18 October 2012 22:56 (eleven years ago) link
the beef goes ondrums keep pounding rhythm to the braiiiinladadadi diiiiladadadi daaaa
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:02 (eleven years ago) link
http://www.jimbooosbeef.com/images/jim_bucket.gif
― Burgled Hams (Old Lunch), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:05 (eleven years ago) link
Why couldn't we just keep the beef frozen? ;_;
― fish frosch (seandalai), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:07 (eleven years ago) link
Crossthread beef be like crosstown trafficPosters be on some real shitEveryman get scared and prepare for confrontation
― ざっぴ (zappi), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:07 (eleven years ago) link
ive been run ragged by customers for the last few hours, so this is coming a bit late but I wanted to get some points of clarification out there wrt my thoughts on how this ought to be handled in the future
I agree with stet wrt the official stance of ilx, but I think we should have a system where people that have this happen have a recourse to request a temp-ban. These cases will be tested obviously beyond an auto-ban, if someone tweets "@nudespock u crazy man owl city is the best" thats not going to do it, but a tweet like the one mordy posted certainly would. In this case, this policy was not stated clearly, so nobody is going to get banned, but if this continues off-board after this point, either of you (or anyone else) is welcome to bring it to the attention of the mods. and to be clear, "bring it to the attention of the mods" is a specific statement, basically MRF or IMP or a direct email to us, not complaining in a clusterfuck or waiting for action to be taken on your behalf.
this is a policy that is somewhat in flux basically because it is a very rare occurrence, and because there are lots of variables wrt this that cant be tidily ruled on, but the bar for banability needs to be set fairly high. if it isnt obvious (this being the other problem with mopping this up many days later when no one seems to be able to get the timeline/deleted tweets/etc straight anymore), it can't be acted on, which means that twitter in particular is going to be hard/impossible to police.
― I'M THE ONLY ON (jjjusten), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:08 (eleven years ago) link
"a tweet like the one mordy posted" meaning kates tweet with his twitter handle in it, to make that clear
― I'M THE ONLY ON (jjjusten), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:09 (eleven years ago) link
ah, was gonna say
― down w/ obana...he is the reson were in dept (Z S), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:12 (eleven years ago) link
ive been run ragged by customers for the last few hours
― I'M THE ONLY ON (jjjusten), Thursday, October 18, 2012 7:08 PM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
ha for a sec i thought u meant ilxors who needed moddin
― --bob marley (lag∞n), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:13 (eleven years ago) link
hahaha
― I'M THE ONLY ON (jjjusten), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:13 (eleven years ago) link
brb gonna hardmod this kid that keeps playing the intro to back in black wrong over and over again
― I'M THE ONLY ON (jjjusten), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:14 (eleven years ago) link
*taps shoulder* sry bro... ur banned
― --bob marley (lag∞n), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:15 (eleven years ago) link
If you think that tweet, in response to what he was doing is the absolute worst thing you've seen, on ILX or elsewhere, I mean... all I can say is, my god you have lived a sheltered fucking life.
― White Chocolate Cheesecake, Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:18 (eleven years ago) link
tempoban
Thks jjj
― the oft-posited third fisherman (darraghmac), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:18 (eleven years ago) link
who the hell said that xpost
― I'M THE ONLY ON (jjjusten), Thursday, 18 October 2012 23:18 (eleven years ago) link