Why do white people criticize one another for being white?

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no viet cong ever called me white boy

Fritz Wollner (Fritz), Friday, 28 March 2003 19:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

Penis envy?

maria b (maria b), Friday, 28 March 2003 19:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

I think I'm guilty of classism when it comes to descriptors...I think I might have said "that's such a white upper middle class liberal intellectual thing to do/say" just yesterday evening. I was feeling very white working class and student loan owing at the time.

Granted, it seems that in Jamaica that I get guff for being "so white" all the time. E.g. this Rasta dude who's known as Manifest told me "It looks like you'd rather call me by my Christian name--so feel free to call me Christopher." He also laughs and has commented about my at my oh-so white was of waving goodbye as opposed to punching fists. When you're summoned by "hey white girl" or "hey whitey" at least once a day or so, you sorta start to get used to the fact that everything you do will be catagorized as "white."

cybele (cybele), Friday, 28 March 2003 19:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

How come it's okay to say 'hey whitey' but if you said 'hey blackey' you'd get attacked from both sides?

oops (Oops), Friday, 28 March 2003 19:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

because 'blackey' is something you'd call a horse

Spencer Chow (spencermfi), Friday, 28 March 2003 19:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

haha, Rastas are the least PC people ever

stevem (blueski), Friday, 28 March 2003 19:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

you're probaly right, they prefer Macs in 3rd World countries

oops (Oops), Friday, 28 March 2003 19:58 (twenty-one years ago) link

I have heard black Jamaicans refer to the appearance of other black Jamaicans by using colour-reference i.e. "him a blackie," "her a browning." And all Asians are referred to as "Chinees," sometimes, though not always south Asians referred to as "Coolies." This extends to physical size too--if you're fat, your referred to as "the fat one." Skinny? "the thin one."

Class, however, is THE issue here.

cybele (cybele), Friday, 28 March 2003 19:59 (twenty-one years ago) link

White people just need to dap instead of high-five or shake hands and everything would be all good.

nickalicious (nickalicious), Friday, 28 March 2003 20:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

While I've never used whiteness to describe music (but if I were to, the whitest band ever would have to be Bare Naked Ladies, or Hootie and the Blowfish), when I use it to describe people, I usually mean, "You're acting like a stereotypical white person."

David Allen, Friday, 28 March 2003 20:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

Hah! The most stereotypical 'white' band has a black frontman

oops (Oops), Friday, 28 March 2003 20:18 (twenty-one years ago) link

I was going to say something about that, but couldn't without evoking _Uncle Tom's Cabin_.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 28 March 2003 20:20 (twenty-one years ago) link

Is that the upcoming Hootie album? Their recording studio?

oops (Oops), Friday, 28 March 2003 20:21 (twenty-one years ago) link

I always loved the fact that in Sly & the Family Stone, a white guy was the drummer.

Mr. Diamond (diamond), Friday, 28 March 2003 20:24 (twenty-one years ago) link

Why do white people criticize one another for being white?

I think the question is racist. Not in a nasty way, but because it unfairly groups together a whole load of dissimilar people based on the colour of their skin.

I think the 'white people' you're talking about are really only a certain age range of white male Americans.

I suppose technically I'm white, but really Nabisco I think you have more in common with the 'white people' you're talking about than I do.

mei (mei), Friday, 28 March 2003 22:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

I think so too, that's why I'm asking the question.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 28 March 2003 22:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

(NB the question is phrased as is because tying aesthetic / cultural groupings to skin color is precisely the topic.)

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 28 March 2003 22:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

(It was also meant as a reference to the old "Why does black people never want to rock" thread.)

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 28 March 2003 22:24 (twenty-one years ago) link

nabisco, no amount of hedging will save you from the fact that your inexcusable failure to write "SOME white people" in the thread title makes it "racist."

Sam Jeffries (samjeff), Friday, 28 March 2003 22:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

(or, even better, "a certain age range of white male Americans")

Sam Jeffries (samjeff), Friday, 28 March 2003 22:30 (twenty-one years ago) link

yeah, take that whitey

jess (dubplatestyle), Friday, 28 March 2003 22:30 (twenty-one years ago) link

Actually, I should probably just explain why I started this thread. It was partly because of Anthony's use of "white" as a semi-pejorative on the Le Tigre / tATu thread, but the objective was basically something like this: we have plenty of generalist discussions of "black" as a cultural segment, usually via hip-hop, and I was curious to see how people would react to a generalist discussion of "white" as a cultural segment. (Obviously there's an element of trolling in phrasing the question the way I did.) Also I dislike unnecessary creations of race as cultural segments, which is the other part of my interest in this. As has been pointed out, I have plenty in common with the things "white" gets used to point to, and I've always been fascinated by the way some white people want to disown these things based on this perceived proximity to themselves. I find it extremely odd to find myself thinking "Dude, you're white, it's okay, get over it," and I often wonder if this privileging of non-whiteness in certain cultural senses allows some people to pretend that non-white people are privileged overall -- in other words, to mask and ignore actual meaningful white privilege outside of certain minor elements of youth culture.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 28 March 2003 22:43 (twenty-one years ago) link

maybe people should claim that their target lacks SOUL instead. Especially if they say it like Jon Spencer would. It gets the point across without directly referencing race.

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Friday, 28 March 2003 22:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

yes and race relations have never been hindered by not directly referencing them!

jess (dubplatestyle), Friday, 28 March 2003 22:59 (twenty-one years ago) link

I think the 'white people' you're talking about are really only a certain age range of white male Americans.

I can think, off the top of my head, of two recent posts by white, female IL* members that contradict this statement.

A real answer to N.'s topic question would require an essay, if not a book, but here are my thoughts on one facet of the topic -- and let me emphasize the "one facet" in that, as I think there's a whole lot to this issue:

We live in a culture in which, over the last 100-150 years, there has been -- at least in mainstream media discourse -- a significant shift away from what might be called "community-oriented" values. Like most things in history, it could be argued that this shift both represents a reaction against a genuinely problematic status quo, and constitutes an overreaction to it (who was it that said, quite astutely, that every new development in philosophy tends to be an overcompensation for the previous one?). The fallout from this is extensive and far beyond my scope or ability to describe, but some aspects are obvious (greater respect for personal liberties, for instance, or a tendency towards the atomization of human relationships), some less so (anti-intellectualism, materialism, the alienation of most Westerners from their cultural history in the belief that it "all leads to Auschwitz").

In any event, such an environment tends to afford maximal prestige to those who take on -- or, and this is key, are perceived as taking on -- the role of the "badass". I don't really have time to go into the details of this figure, but here's an effective synopsis: "The badass is someone who cultivates an image of being supremely wicked, mean and violent [and] seeks to use violence (and related patterns) in a quintessentially irrational fashion...Yet the badass does have a deeper purpose: He gains considerable power over other people by getting them to perceive him as irrationally violent. A badass is recognized as capable of turning wildly, senselessly violent for no apparent or predictable reason, and so everyone else has to be extra careful around him." (That's from a book by Roy Baumeister.)

I trust I don't need to laboriously lay out the argument I'm making here: that mainstream media culture consistently chooses to propagate images of the badass, that it strongly implies that such men (and they are just about always portrayed as male) are to be feared and respected (i.e. are powerful), and that it strongly suggests that most badasses come from economic or racial crucibles that form them into hardened, dangerous men. This lens, as it were, has been one through which men of many ethnicities and cultures have been depicted -- the Irish and the Italians come to mind -- and it is, obviously, a lens frequently chosen, by a wide range of sources (anyone from hiphop MCs to the nightly news), through which to depict the lives of young, black men. (I assume I don't need to talk about how toxic and damaging this is.)

To most people, the badass is both deeply frightening and oddly fascinating, and when you combine that with the prejudice already felt by many about Africans and African-Americans, you get an image that to many people is quite potent, for it simultaneously represents the feared Evil Other and a vicarious outlet for the destructive impulses of one's "negative self". When people are confronted with someone (or images of many, archetypal someones) that powerful and pervasive, there are a few typical reactions: hatred, chronic anxiety (or, more optimistically, the insight that the image is a fabricated archetype, which empowers one to begin to cast it aside). But there's always going to be a significant portion of those people who choose to identify with the aggressor, in part because that eases their anxiety and permits them the belief that they will be somehow spared. (The corollary to this is, naturally, to devalue the victims of the aggressor; by rationalizing their fate, and ascribing it to some flaw or failure on their parts, a person convinces himself or herself that he/she is "not like them", and is, in fact, superior.)

This behavior manifests itself with far greater specificity when you're dealing with the dynamic between individuals (and if you doubt that, or any of this, try working in an office with a powerful, dysfunctional boss, someone who punishes indiscriminately and irrationally, and you'll see these behaviors in action). But when you're dealing with individuals for whom the anxiety-provoking figure is a nonspecific archetype, then -- since it's obviously impossible to specifically negotiate with someone who isn't present -- the negotiation happens in generalities: people from outside the milieu of the figure begin to identify with it, and despite the fact that they come from a totally different culture (or race, or socioeconomic background), begin to adopt the mannerisms and behavior of the archetype, or at least their own mythologized version of it. And naturally, they're inclined to devalue their own antecedents, in part as a way of hiding them, in part because they've adopted a value-system of power and aggression in which those, often community- and childhood-oriented, antecedents are considered valueless or worse.

The figure of the badass has piggybacked onto Italian culture with some success, and a bit with the Irish though not nearly as successfully (in the States at least). But the nearly unprecedented, worldwide, multi-wave explosion of African-American culture (especially music) has, I think, been a major force behind the massive propagation of this stereotyping of young black men. Certainly, it's been something that many black artists have been more than willing to exploit -- it's all over early blues -- and, in turn, artists from other cultures have been more than willing to co-opt it for themselves. But in any event, the dominance of black musical culture in the latter part of the 20th Century, and in the 21st so far, has meant (obviously in conjunction with racism and race relations, media sensationalism) that the dominant image of the badass has been African-American, and that the badass (whether African-American or not) has been celebrated (while at the same time feared) to an extent seldom, if ever, seen in any culture before.

And rather than drag this argument to the conclusion that I assume should be obvious by now -- or take the time to stitch in any of the other threads that need to be in here, like the fetishization of the Other and so forth -- I'll instead recount a conversation between three jazz students that a friend of mine overheard a couple years ago -- or what I can reconstruct of it (thirdhand!), anyway:

1) White male: ...and yeah, but I was like, that shit was so white, you know?
2) White male #2: Yeah, yeah, I know what you mean --
3) Black male (slightly older): No, no, don't say that, don't say that.
1) and 2) What?
3) Man, I wish you hadn't said that.
1) What?
3) About being "white". When you say that, it makes me think, you know...well, to be honest, it makes me think that, when you look at me, you see a "black man", rather than me, as a person. I mean, I know what you meant, I'm not angry or anything...
1) or 2) Oh, listen, I'm sorry --
3) No, no, just, you know, have some respect. Not just for me, but for yourselves. I mean, you're white, and I'm black, and we're going to stay that way, right? But so what? I'm not embarrassed by my color, so why should you be, or talk about it like it's something bad? What matters is what you have to say, as a musician and as a person.

Phil (phil), Friday, 28 March 2003 23:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

Sterling:

Nabisco I therefore conclude that you've successfully manufactured a very stupid strawman.

You will have a hard time convincing me that there's not at least a strong undercurrent of white vs. black in a statement like this, referring to "pasty losers" vs. "survivors" (as though there aren't SHITLOADS of black foax who, like, live in their parents' basement until they're 29, making bad beats!).

To me Indie vs Hip Hop is pasty losers who spend too much time on line vs survivors who know what the real world is. Guess who I'll take.

-- That Girl (d**********@yahoo.com), March 27th, 2003 1:43 AM. (thatgirl)

Phil (phil), Friday, 28 March 2003 23:56 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Why do white people criticize one another for being white?"

How often does this happen outside of music? I think the generally accepted idea that black music is more innovative and exciting then white music has a something to do with it.

bnw (bnw), Saturday, 29 March 2003 00:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

I sort of agree with what bnw just said. When I think of calling a band or song "white" I think it does have to do with a lack of excitement and innovation. White music or more specifically indie music, which is what I really relate to as "white music," seems somewhat marginalized in its content right now. I think there is something to the fact that millions of white people find 50 cent interesting while only a few hundred black people or so find Stephen Malkmus interesting (at least this is my guess). There is just something that seems more universal in hip-hop than indie. I much prefer indie (at least that's what my listening habits prove) but I don't see any present indie act being able to attract any sort of universal popular interest. The Strokes are a far more white phenomena in terms of fan base than Jay Z is a black phenomena.
Obviously there are many white musicians who do stir up this sort of more universal interest, but there are none whom I would perjoratively label "white" like I might the Strokes or Stephen Malkmus. I think it has something to with the fact that what is considered ground breaking in white music of the past decade or so has taken a decidely underground and independent direction. White artists tend to become less interesting as soon as they sell a million records, where as many hip hop artists (for example 50 cent recently) only become more interesting when they break into the mainstream.
Another thing that i think causes people to label something "white" in a negative sense is lyrics and lifestyle. Singing self-reflexive songs about indie-rock is alot less universal than singing songs about gangsters and this sort of mythic street life.
Anyway, it's a very difficult topic to reply to and it's hard to anything more than ramble about because it encompasses quite alot.


sammy, Saturday, 29 March 2003 01:44 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Why do white people criticize one another for being white?"

Who cares? Why do black people talk back to the screen at movies?

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Saturday, 29 March 2003 01:57 (twenty-one years ago) link

Women be shopping!

James Blount (James Blount), Saturday, 29 March 2003 02:03 (twenty-one years ago) link

Okay lets try this -- does anyone have a problem with class as a signifier? Then take the next step and notice that class and race are not the same but deeply tied in the u.s.

In other words "white" is a fine term becuz it means something real and pretending it doesn't is like pretending that "black" means nothing and racism vanished with the civil rights movement.

It's not being white so much as *acting* in a "white" way which of course is something determined by context etc. Blackpeopleloveus.com to thread.

Also That Girl's comment makes plenty of sense when you consider that hip-hop songs are *about* surving and indie songs are *about* being losers v. often -- so which do you want to identify more with? On the other hand compare/contrast another typically "black" genre like classic jazz and fewer people will say its about "surviving" and then you can be like jazz v. buttrock fite and get an answer like "one is cerebral wanking and the other is about having a good time -- hmm which do i pick?"

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Saturday, 29 March 2003 02:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

I wanna see what happens to this dynamic when you add the word "trash" after "white".

Nate Patrin (Nate Patrin), Saturday, 29 March 2003 02:24 (twenty-one years ago) link

Idealistic, starry-eyed Neudonym asks: Doesn't the whole dynamic on ILM also have to do with the fact that 'mainstream' critics are usually Euro-American and the music that gets reviewed is usually made by Euro-Americans and that sucks because it means that the hegemony is being reinforced? And that we here in our enclave are trying to NOT get sucked in by that, so we have to be super-careful about that?

How many media references to 50 Cent are about his record as opposed to his life and history and sales and pronouncements? The ratio is poor, which really means that everyone is reviewing, basically, his "blackness." Which is exactly what he's trading in...as is Eminem, really, too--8 Mile is an entire treatise on Rabbit's/Eminem's black-credentials, and the reason he's the coolest guy in America has at least something to do with the fact that he is a successful Euro-American in a field that is dominated by African-Americans (cue Presley, G.Michael's solo career, the Dallas Mavericks)--and what we are buying, too.

But we want to be 'better' than that, less sucked-in, more objective, harder-edged than the other suckers out there--so we want to question the critical status quo that will intensely question/analyze/mention most of the tracks on the Malkmus record, but basically ignore Killer Mike's and Lil Kim's and Bryan McKnight's music in favor of recounting their history or their famous friends or their fashion sense. So we throw around terms like 'white' with impunity because it's "not supposed to be done". Isn't that something like that?

Cynical, clear-eyed Neudonym asks: Don't we do it because we kind of like to be assholes?

Neudonym, Saturday, 29 March 2003 12:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

To put aside the larger cultural question for a minute, what if we look at the question strictly in musical terms? I think the first incidences of using white as a pejorative come from classic jazz vs. big band swing. Even though there were racially mixed bands from the beginning, a lot of the most commercially successful pre-bop swing musicians were white, and a lot of their music does not seem to reflect the idiom that we hear as 'jazz'. White guys coming into jazz from conservatory backgrounds would have had a harder time incorporating the hallmarks of the idiom into their playing, so they sound 'white'. Then you get Pat Boone doing the same thing to R&B that the big bands did to other, more idiomatically consistent jazz, and it continues on through rock etc etc. Jazz educators still say 'X sounds too white' all the time as short-hand for 'X is not swinging / not articulating properly / not syncopating his rhythms enough', all of which are considered core elements of jazz.

And I'm sure somebody's going to say 'yeah well not all big bands were black, look at Ellington he was successful yada yada' but I think it's pretty much undeniable that a lot of black music in the 20th century was introduced to a wider audience in a form that was often quite distanced from the idiom it was supposed to represent.

As for why we still do it, I'm going to go with force of habit.

Dave M. (rotten03), Saturday, 29 March 2003 13:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Technically I'm White"? WTF, Mei? Break beneath the "technicalities" and you'll find an inner black core? It's all good as long as one's striving not to be a manipulated tool.

matt riedl (veal), Saturday, 29 March 2003 14:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Technically I'm White"? WTF, Mei? Break beneath the "technicalities" and you'll find an inner black core? It's all good as long as one's striving not to be a manipulated tool.
-- matt riedl (braillepart...), March 29th, 2003.

I am white, but not the 'white' of the thread title.

I never think of myself as white though, or black, or any other colour.

I don't think I'm particularly similar to all the other people who have approximately the same skin colour as me.

I'd prefer to align myself with, say, all the other music lovers, or all those people who prefer cats to dogs. At least those groupings would tell you something about the way I think/feel/behave/value.

mei (mei), Saturday, 29 March 2003 15:06 (twenty-one years ago) link


Isn't it just a matter of: white guy says "This hip hop track is so white" = "This song is so unsurprising musically that I could have done it." You obviously wouldn't say that about a black artist whose song you thought sucked because it wouldn't make any sense. And generally no one says it about Eminem because even people who don't like his music give him credit for some skill.

nickn (nickn), Sunday, 30 March 2003 04:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

three months pass...
man, what a thread...

Kingfish (Kingfish), Thursday, 3 July 2003 17:13 (twenty years ago) link

some of my best friends are white!

gygax! (gygax!), Thursday, 3 July 2003 18:16 (twenty years ago) link

one month passes...
cuz white people r stupid

cheese, Monday, 1 September 2003 10:12 (twenty years ago) link

that was constructive

Dave Stelfox (Dave Stelfox), Monday, 1 September 2003 10:55 (twenty years ago) link

Courtney Love wanted to take Chris Rock to see the whitest band ever, so she took him to see The Magnetic Fields. True Story.

Shmuel Marmorstein (shmuel), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 00:13 (twenty years ago) link

Hang on Dave, I'm white and stupid. I demand recognition.

colin s barrow (colin s barrow), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 01:35 (twenty years ago) link

Is it possible to be "white" without actually BEING "white"?

Some may look at me and think, "Ok, she's obviously got some street cred to her. She could blend in with a hip-hop and R&B loving crowd and wouldn't look totally out of place at a rap show." But you know what? I would feel utterly and completely lost in those sorts of places. I have no inner street cred to speak of. The homeys in the ghetto wouldn't exactly be down with me listening to Scritti Politti. I'm so out of this particular circle that I don't even know if that last sentence makes me sound like an even "whiter" person. I am essentially the Steve Martin character in the movie Bringing Down the House.

Point being, it could very well be possible to consider oneself unhip and totally not down with "it" (whatever "it" is) no matter what one's outward appearances may be. So if you have porcelain white skin and fine facial features, don't think that automatically makes you unhip or not "clued in" to the ways of the street, because I know for damn sure my OWN olive skin and big lips and Roman nose could not even BEGIN to give me an instant ticket to the World of the Ethnic Cool.

Just Deanna (Dee the Lurker), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 02:27 (twenty years ago) link

Don´t call me white!!!!...

I get told I´m a fake Puertorican all the time, just ´cuz I´m white.

Francis Watlington (Francis Watlington), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 02:38 (twenty years ago) link

dee is grandpa simpson

gabbo giftington (dubplatestyle), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 03:17 (twenty years ago) link

Courtney Love is an idiot

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 03:19 (twenty years ago) link

i set the toaster to three, medium brown

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 03:25 (twenty years ago) link

'Roman nose' - heh, I love how the Irish always go on about how FONKAY they are, when everyone knows us wops are really the 'Godfathers' of soul

dave q, Tuesday, 2 September 2003 06:41 (twenty years ago) link

The Middle Classes - don't you fuckin' just hate 'em?

Dadaismus (Dada), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 14:32 (twenty years ago) link

I used to be really self-hating white about jazz actually. I think it was probably because the arts high school I went to was like 90% black. So I was really self-conscious about "not playing white" until one day I came up with a theory (that I still think might be true) that a lot of white jazz players who suck actually suck precisely because they try to play "black," i.e. a really reductionist and pretty racist idea of what jazz is, instead of doing what the best black AND white jazz musicians do, which is just hone the shit out of your musicianship, focus really hard on your accents and the nuances of your phrasing, etc.

eggleston or instagram? (Hurting 2), Friday, 15 June 2012 02:24 (eleven years ago) link

yeah, work your ass off. that's the best way to go about anything. keep your head down and do your thing.

scott seward, Friday, 15 June 2012 02:25 (eleven years ago) link

anyway, Jim Hall:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0mGuRM8tBw&feature=related

eggleston or instagram? (Hurting 2), Friday, 15 June 2012 02:26 (eleven years ago) link

i really like jim hall. but sometimes all you really need is:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOm17yw__6U

scott seward, Friday, 15 June 2012 02:29 (eleven years ago) link

i like what tal and barney did in the 50's. with groups. i don't listen to solo jazz guitar much at all. if i listen to a guitar album it would be wes or kenny burrell or some funky 70's shit.

scott seward, Friday, 15 June 2012 02:37 (eleven years ago) link

I'm trying to find you a clip of this Kenny Burrell tune called Three Thousand Miles Back Home -- sample bait from the 70s that was also a random thing I had early on. Record is called Stormy Monday Blues iirc.

Meanwhile, I don't like solo jazz guitar either, but
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHE6FSeWuLQ

eggleston or instagram? (Hurting 2), Friday, 15 June 2012 02:39 (eleven years ago) link

Which led me to this, wow
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZDSLQsOmNY&feature=related

eggleston or instagram? (Hurting 2), Friday, 15 June 2012 02:42 (eleven years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yt61GcUl3J0

onlydarkness.com, Friday, 15 June 2012 03:09 (eleven years ago) link

nice recovery

contenderizer, Friday, 15 June 2012 05:43 (eleven years ago) link

one year passes...

and my pal elliot levin.

There was a time when I used to see him playing at practically every gig I went to.

_Rudipherous_, Friday, 6 December 2013 01:52 (ten years ago) link


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